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espionagesavvy:
Dear Cynthia
I caught my husband of five years sniffing the panties of my 15 years niece. I don't know if I should confront him or let the issue lie.
I also think he bought my niece a new blackberry phone because the day I insisted on making my niece tell me where she got the phone, he became too overprotective of her and we almost fought over the issue.

My niece recently lost her father, making my sister a widow who let go of her children to stay with her relatives, that is how my niece came to stay with me,
On the 26th of November 2015, I saw him at the backyard next to the heap of clothes my niece brought out to wash, he picked up a pant, my niece's pant and sniffed it, I almost screamed where I was.
Also I keep noticing the look they exchange, very flirtatious.

Lastly my niece is acting like she is his wife, she dishes his food even before the children's food, doesn't knock before opening the door of our bedroom, and the most disturbing is, she asks my husband where he is going when he wants to go out as if she is his wife, my husband is 37 and this girl is 15, I suggested to my husband that we send her off to a boarding school, he rejected the idea and even got angry with me saying it will affect the girl psychologically, as if I want to dump her in a boarding house and run away. I want to confront my husband but I have no evidence, and for my niece I respect my eldest sister so much that I don't know what to do, I feel like an outsider in my own home.

P.S. My husband is a banker and also a pastor at our church.

I sincerely need your advice.
Thank you.

Sad depressed housewife in Ikeja

Pastor at the church? I'm not surprised. . Pastors and politicians are the worst in this country

Anas09:
I thought this thread was about the Rosary? Pls @ Vooks, ignore this people. They don't believe in God, yet they are scared of hell. Don't allow them get under your skin.

Scared of what we know doesn't exist Are you kidding me?

toyinakomolafe:
Imesi Ile is actually the cradle, that is why it is called imesi ile(origin).there is also another imesi in gbonyin LGA of ekiti state. Imesi ile is in osun state while oke imesi and imesi are in ekiti. As for Efon, it was a distinct group but among the ekiti confederacy. Akure left the confederacy because of efon due to seniority clash.
What is the cultural differences between Ekiti and Ijesa?
Imesi are one people, imesi ile was founded by Oke imesi

But the Oloja Owa Oke- Imesi is a first class king in Yorubaland, I don't even know what they call the Oba at imesi-ile.
Sometimes "ile" doesn't represent origin. In Ekiti there's Ido, there's Ido-ile/idole . Idole was founded by folks from Ido.
"Ile" home meaning home for all imesi

Efon was a kingdom that had many genuine Ekiti towns under it. .
But does joining the confederacy make efon more Ekiti than Ijesa now?

kulikuli26:
This is really getting interesting. I don't believe Yahaya bello should benefit from the spoils considering his failure to support Audu effectively. Any permutation that has Audu's camp well carried along is welcomed by me. Faleke/Mohammed ticket is the best for APC to retain their support base. Igalas will be favoured and Audu's camp will have a sense of victory.

Best comment ever

mrvitalis:
As far as am concerned ur party PDP had long divided this country along ethnic line
.. .

really? So no ethnic division during the military regimes?

Trust igbo people in Nollywood to embarrass the country like this

vooks:
It means atheism has zero basis for morality and also atheists are hypocrites for subscribing to morality which is not offers by their belief system

Ok, so an atheist respects his elders - which is the moral thing to do, means he is an hypocrite cus Atheism doesn't subscribe to morality?
I guess in ur messed up mind, a physicist is an hypocrite cus physics doesn't subscribe to morality?

What about other things that an atheist is? An atheist belongs to a group of people with a culture with its own view of morality. .he has a job with a view of morality or maybe attends a school with a code of conduct, and many other groups an atheist might be a member of which does subscribe to morality.

bytemeister:
bro why won't he opt for the Arab's religion when there is promise of after life and 72 virgins abi na 7? (i wonder how spirits wil consumate) and d last I checked Yoruba traditional practices made no promise of such


bro why won't he opt for the Arab's religion when there is promise of after life and 72 virgins abi na 7? (i wonder how spirits wil consumate) and d last I checked Yoruba traditional practices made no promise of such

I can see that. Muslims and their love for virgin sex

Ajibolatao:
And verily, We have sent among every Ummah
(community, nation) a Messenger (proclaiming):
"Worship Allah (Alone), and avoid (or keep away
from) Taghut (all false deities, etc. i.e., do not
worship Taghut besides Allah)." Then of them
were some whom Allah guided and of them were
some upon whom the straying was justified. So
travel through the land and see what was the end
of those who denied (the truth). (Qur'ân 16:36)

Some of these Messengers are mentioned in the Qur'ân
by Allah and some of them are not as the Qur'ân says:
And, indeed We have sent Messengers before
you (O Muh ammad (P) ); of some of them We
have related to you their story and of some We
have not related to you their story, and it was
not given to any Messenger that he should bring
a sign except by the Leave of Allah. So, when
comes the Commandment of Allah, the matter
will be decided with truth, and the followers of
falsehood will then be lost. (Qur'ân 40:78)

Therefore the Oguns, Oyas Obatalas might indeed be God sent to preach monotheism (I believe they do preach that). Further more, none of them requested their followers to Idolize them or even claim to have brought a religion. The problem is after the left the surface of the earth, people started worshiping them in which they Oguns and Oyas have no knowledge of. Why should I worship Ogun and Obatala when they don't ask ask me to worship them?

is this ur answer to my question?

Ajibolatao:
I will surely answer you if you answer me. I'm the first to ask you question. Lets dialogue intelligently so that we can arrive at a valuable conclusion. The question again: if you believe in the gods that you mentioned, then y don't you believe in God? Mind u, they ask you to do so

No no, I asked you first. .don't lie pls

vooks:
Statistics
Because a very small fraction are atheistic. And of hose few who are, they are hypocrites in that they subscribe to a moral code yet their atheistic philosophy has no room for morality

so morality can only exist in christianity? Is that what you're saying?

coolhamid:
A man would just sit down in his house in bourdillon, ikoyi and start imposing candidates on other states. Let the Kogi people decides, Faleke can't be representing people of lagos and later come to Kogi to rule the people of Kogi state, When we have competent people that are born and brought in the state that can govern.

Is it possible for a Kogi lawmaker to come down to lagos and rule?

Faleke is from kogi state. . He can rule the state where the land of his fathers is located

Ajibolatao:
Using such word with someone you are dialoguing with shows how well you are being brought up. Why leave the the discussion? If you truly believe in the Ogun and so, then y don't you believe in God? Mind you, they ask you to do so

I said don't take offense. . But the truth hurts
I'm an honest person, I don't lie to make people happy.
You didn't answer my question. . Pls I need an answer.
if you really believe yoruba traditional practices are monotheistic, why opt for islam if it's monotheism you are after? Why slave urself to non - Yoruba ideas of the creator? Is Mohammed better than Orunmila?

Dekatron:
Lol



The M'fucker should admit hell is loading for him. . . . If I like, I wll say FOOL to anybody without thinking of one BORED OLD MAN that will put me in hell, knowing I was destined to go to hell, though he created me, knowing that he is omnipotent & couldn't change me from going to hell & had to kill his son, sorry, Himself . . . Did you understand all those B.S?? Isn't it crazy & meaningless??

I wan laugh die o. We "hell bound" folks are free to call them fools but any attempt at reciprocating is met with automatic membership in our camp

Ajibolatao:
Thanks for the observation. Even Ogun, Sango, Obatala, Yemeja all claimed that there is one God. The Yorubas regarded them as a medium between God and themselves. Thats the basis of the argument

If you really believe yoruba traditional practices are monotheistic (I believe you are of yoruba ancestry) why slave to arab "modified" practices aka islam if it is monotheism you are after and not an inherent urge to be a slave to others?
Why worship that God in the Arab way and not Yoruba way? If you are not just a common bastard slave. .

Sorry if you feel any offense but these are honest points cus an Arab would not leave islam for yoruba traditions

kimond101:
Listen and understand. The religion with God is one and that is to submit to the will of God. We both share similar belive because God sent the truth to we humans via His messengers to make us acknowledge the truth and make it easy for us to earn his mercy through obedience to his commandments.
Judaism, Christianity and Islam are 3 major religions that share similar believe but only some slight difference in terms of the personalities mentioned in their holy books.
Mohammed is a man that didnt know how to read nor write. God made him that way for people who are going to bring up unnecessary dispute and question him. He didn't plagiarize. Don't criticise other people's believe cause you are not God.

Oh pls stop ur delusions.
What has Kabbah got to do with Judaism or christianity? Why don't islam have things in common with Hinduism or shinto? Since it's about "one universal God"
infact outside being monotheistic, islam's worship of it's God is totally different from that of Adonai/El shaddai of the Jews.
Historicity of both deities are completely different.

Don't give me that crap about Mohammed being illiterate, being illiterate doesn't mean stupid and ignorant of the religion of others
Mohammed was exposed, influential..he met christians, met jews and copied from them mixing wit his native quraysh worship of allah.. answer me this why are bits of christianity in islam. .but nothing of shinto or zoroastrianism in hadith and Quran. Mohammed never met a Japanese or Persian to copy their religion

That is why in islam, all great men of the Jewish traditions are mentioned as prophets. .even those that were not prophets. .Mohammed mistook them for prophets as a copy cat cannot copy perfectly the work of the early piece

Dekatron:
#HellLoadingForVooksandKingEbukasblog.



I thought the bible said you wll be accountable for EVERY WORD that you speak. . . . Better beg for forgiveness

At least we non Christians are free to say "fool" all we want, as we don't subscribe to biblical decrees

Watch how the fools vooks and KingEbukasBlog will run around Mathew 5:22 which says Christians shall go to hell for the simple act of calling a man a fool. This is part of the selective obedience Teempakguy was talking about

kimond101:
Why the insult?!
You don't know who I am yet you feel because you are a Christian I have to believe what you say.
If you need detailed information about Islam you need to search for it from authentic source(Quran and authentic hadith ). I am not you encyclopedia.
I stand firm in my faith and believe and if you don't believe in my faith, to you is your religion and to me is mine.
Thank you

Mr man stop giving me feels here and face fact. I'm not talking about belief in terms of im Christian, you're muslim. . I speak facts and truth
What ideas was original to Mohammed? Read ur quran and hadith. .bloody hell of plagiarism

I think I have to commend the way some folks are calling for biafra and not giving a dime about this so called "igbo presidency" which is just a scam

StunningCEO:
Empty noise makers......clamp down on the biafraudians.....locked them up and find Kanu guilty of terrorism.....execute him immediately.

so much hate here

thorpido:
If you say so according to your understanding.

Wat are you saying? Aren't you the teacher. . Telling us what is religion and what is not

Radoillo:
Interesting pictures and comparison. Egyptologists do believe that some of the wrestlers depicted in Egyptian art came from farther south - from Nubia. It is in fact known that Egyptians did hold wrestling contests with Nubians. Today, the people whose wrestling practices most resemble that of the ancient Egyptians are the Nuba people of Sudan. The Nuba speak a Nilo-Saharan language. So it is quite possible that in these wrestling practices, we are looking at an ancient institution shared by ancient Nilo-Saharans, which probably included the ancestors of the Hausa.

Please, can you share the link where you got the Egyptian drawing from? There is something about it that puzzles me. It doesn't quite look to me like the style is Ancient Egyptian. Something about it reminds me of Greek mural and ceramic painting.

all I see there is greek

MorrowCaligari:
Yeah, I mentioned religion, the local wrestling and even the modern day pyramids in Niger.

Oh, did you just add that?

Anyway, a sun God cult and local wrestling mean little.
What about hieroglyphics? Way of dressing? Hair style? Egyptian style art?

I'm sure ogidan is oriki of lion not leopard

But wat is the meaning of "ogidan"?

kimond101:
Educate your ignorance about Islam.
Thank you.

Sharap. Did Mohammed not copy from Christians? Did he have any idea of his own?
Plagiarized Arab paganism, christianity and Judaism. . Deny it

Honestly, This makes sense. Linguistically I can believe that hausa are linked to ancient Egypt but culture nko? What cultural similarities exist?

I stil believe if any group in nigeria are linked to egypt it is Kanem-Borno or Hausa.
Not Yoruba as many delude themselves on

Look how catholics, Anglican , pentecostal etc will claim they are all right, others are wrong cus they get their dogmas from the holy spirit. This holy spirit must be a confusionist, deceiving people since 33AD

Ubenedictus:
they claim the pope cannot declear that a dead xtian is in heaven, but pastor adeboye can. They will come here and attempt to defend him.


I once had a friend he was a member of oyedepo's 'church', we happened to discuss many issues regarding doctrines, he would demonise catholics for calling their priest 'rev fr' but he didnt see d hypocrisy of calling oyedepo 'papa'. The issue that interested me d most was dat this guy didnt blieve in d trinity(he picked his opinion from a tele evangelist), we spent close to a year discussing trinity, i wasted my time taking him through passage by passage and showing how in d fullness of time God revealed himself as a mutual indwelling of 3 persons, he told me that my explanation were fine but that an unbeliever wit a bible won't be able to read trinity there so he concluded it was a theory of man, d issue bcame too hot, i had to let it be. 6months later dis guy claim he now believed in d trinity, how come? And influential pastor/writter taught it in his book so he accepted it as true.

After several such case, i came to d conclusion that most protestants don't care what d truth is, if their pastor or writter is against d catholic d average protestant will do d same and he will maintain d catholic practice is wrong not minding d fact his church has a similar one. It is hypocrisy but d protestant doesnt care, ro far he has sumtin to protest about.

And what about you? All that you believe is it because u are after truth or because some gay priest told you so?
You are a hypocrite yourself

@op, so some arabs knew a little science. . So what? How does it prove allah is the only creator and others are fake
Yorubas say Ogun laid the foundation of earth. .. in the earth's crust is Iron. . Yoruba say Ogun formed bones, bones are made of Calcium a metalic element. A pregnant Yemoja was running and her stomach burst on earth to release water, and most scientists agree that water is from frozen hydrogen from space...and many more scientific stuff ancient yoruba folks knew
So now does that make you want to become a traditionalist?

kimond101:
I am a muslim and I believe Jesus is coming back.

Because muhammad copied from the Christians of his time who believed jesus was coming soon

thorpido:
Christianity is never a religion in the first place.
Op,Christianity has been in existence before you and will outlast you.

So nothing is religion then

ShaheedBinAliyu:
atheists are disgrace to human race.... Christians and other religions are dwelling in stupidity.... .. Only Islam is welcomed by our Creator

Pls explain further