₦airaland Forum

SLAP44:
The roads that are bad in Abia are federal express roads abandoned by the FG. Go check.

Stop lying.

Chino4NAUTH:
I have been hearing about women who married their husbands and the man happens to be staying in overseas or moves to overseas thereafter for economic reasons to Carter for the welfare of his family.. Why it is good and fine economically it has left a deficient emotional vacuum for the wife and children esp if it's a young family.

I have a woman in our building whose husband stays abroad but she's always looking forward to talking with me and even trying to make me her confidant but I know the risk associated and had to find my away not to get more closer to her.she has only 2 kids fresh and cute.. Mind you she's still very much pretty and young.. I never knew she was married till I saw her fine kids

Share your experience with us

If the man is legal abroad, then he has a woman or another family there.
It’s that simple.

BigSarah:
How much does trading between Nigeria and Niger republic add to the country?... This one is a useless project considering the country finance

Niger Republic has Fulanis.

It is not a useless project

Vyzz:
I thought Gaboon vipers hardly bite and isn't deadly?

Top 5 deadliest snake in the world.

gaius01:
Arrrrrrrh


IPOB should please stop all this rubbish. My mom is an Igbo and my dad is not.

Modify
I love Nigeria as one!!!

One Nigeria !!!

You are not Igbo.

Be proud of your Northern Nigeria roots my friend.

Yebosola:
But u can make it with pure hatred with yorubas'hatred ba? Your own is even worse, u eat, drink, enjoy in SW land, don't u know is a course to wish them bad on their land? Except to ba fe fi nylon bag keru pada sile, ase WA.

Oga, I dont live in the SW.

ThatFairGuy1:
South South is completely PDP and GEJ has represented them in presidency.

South East follows with 3 Governors. They've been a committed PDP voters since advent of this fourth Republic.

Without prejudice, SE owns the PDP presidential ticket upon all the sacrifice but alas, THEY WILL NEVER GET IT.

They're the real SLAVES they call Yorubas. They'll rather die over VP slot. Lots of COWARDS

You sleep, walk, dream, gargle on the South East.
Calm down.
You cant make it in life with this sort of hate.

seunmsg:
Yesterday, it was crooked Atiku that was bursted. Today, it’s Jonathan and his corruit friends. Still, some people want us to return these PDP rogues to power.

Shell and Eni are currently undergoing trial in Italy for their roles in the Malabu scam. Sadly, Jonathan and other Nigerian rogues involved in the scam are roaming the streets freely. If Buhari go after them, they will call it persecution.

You are right.

hammer3:
LMAO!

FRANCE IS CREATING A WEST AFRICA CURRENCY FOR FRENCH SPEAKING STATES IN ECOWAS TO CONTINUE THEIR MONETARY CONTROL OF THEIR COLONY.


PLEASE, GO AHEAD WITH FRANCE AND LEAVE NIGERIA OUT OF COLONIALISM.


NIGERIA IS TOO BIG FOR DAT, WE WILL DO VERY WELL ON OUR OWN.

OK.

hammer3:
WE ARE DEALING WITH THE MOST BACKWARD BLACK PEOPLE ON THE PLANET.


PEOPLE THAT LIKE TO CUT THEIR CAKE AND HAVE IT.


I DONT KNOW WAT MONEYIS IN GHANA, BUT I AM SURE WEN NIGERIA CUT GHANA OFF PARTICULARLY, WATEVA ECONOMY THEY HAVE WILL SHRINK.

Nigeria has overplayed its hand here by closing off its borders for over a year or two now.
Economies dependent on Nigeria's open borders suffered for a while, but have adjusted.
Francophone West Africa got some support from their colonial masters, France.
The Eco has been touted as a WA currency, without Nigeria part of it.

Frankly, Nigeria has no leverage to use now.

aminulive:
POLITICSNIGERIA.COM



https://politicsnigeria.com/breaking-your-position-in-apc-is-not-constitutional-obaseki-attacks-tinubu/

Hon Obaseki, off your mic... Issokay.
Pride goes before a fall, sir. Off your mic..

fuckingAyaya:
Yorubas won't support Ambode because they ain't ready to Emacipate from Mental slavery

Main reason here.

And he was very scared. Should have moved to PDP and PDP would have deployed all their tools to capture Lagos.

ikorodureporta:
no license, no black box, no fuel.. this na suicide mission.

I wonder why he didn't look for a good place to land instead of that compound's fence

If you believe this, then you dont know about Aircrash investigations.

Most air crash investigations end up with the conclusion that it is "pilots error".
Which is not always the case.
However, it is the (dead) pilot vs big corporates, big companies, the media, government agencies, etc.
You think if he had no valid license he would be flying a helicopter that transported foriegners? Taking pictures and posting them on social media? Etc?
This is a big lie. My PhD was focused on aircraft data-driven maintenance. I know an easy lie when I see one.
NCAA are idiots. And they think every Nigerian is foolish to fall for their tricks.
"Pilot error" blame basically forcloses the thought of paying compensation which NCAA, the helicopter company and their insurance companies want to run away from.

He had a valid license. But there has to be a fall guy. It damn well isnt going to be the big corps.

dre11:
Perhaps Mr Tinubu will take a cue from the shellacking the APC got in the Edo election to tread softly in Ondo.




PREMIUM TIMES

Edo no be Lagos.

NwekeUG:
https://igberetvnews.com/1365349/uzodimma-rejects-edo-governorship-election-results-heads-tribunal/

Supreme Court Governor.

Edo no be Imo.

Meanwhile, I hope this is a joke.

ThatFairGuy1:
People that call Ambode coward today were the same people that supported and hailed El Rufai when he said he knows how to remove godfather in Lagos. But when Rufai recently opened his cancerous mouth to say 2023 will go to SW these people blasted him and called him all names.
Their true enemy is Tinubu. Any that refuses to oppose Tinubu is in their black book. Anyone that blasts Tinubu is in their good book.
I look all around Nigeria, my people are in every state. Igbo has been in Northern Nigeria much much earlier before we knew Western Nigeria. Yet there has not been any single record of an Igbo man being elected into political office or even nominated into a cabinet in North. In Lagos on the other hand we have continued to enjoy the benefits of democracy under same Tinubu, and our losses in some areas is result of our own irresponsibility and not because the system or Lagos godfather hates us.
If godfatherism in Lagos has benefited us in the most wealthy and most economically advanced state in West Africa, doesnt it make sense to support what advances our entrepreneurship and political ascent? I was born in Lagos and in the Igbo circle in Lagos, there are people who are fed up and disgusted with our style of political culture. I support them and im in that mold myself.
There is no president of Nigeria who has been as democratic and favorable to Igbo as Obasanjo did. Obasanjo is a godfather. Obasanjo made people like NOI, Soludo, Ihejirika, Ekwezisili and many more. Yet we are the loudest anti-godfatherism.
Even in North, where we have never gained any political benefit but have suffered the greatest social and cultural calamity, nobody even becomes a commissioner without godfatherism. My people love Kwankwaso but forget the man is a godfather. We love Atiku but forget Atiku is a godfather.
So my brother, those hating on Ambode are venting that he failed to fight against Tinubu when he had the chance. Obasanjo fought Tinubu, yet we still hate Obasanjo. The same Obaseki we are hailing, he went to Lagos to seek godfather support. He didnt get it. Akeredolu in Ondo, our inlaw, he fought Tinubu to become governor but has returned to Tinubu and godfather to seek reelection.
No Igboman living can swear on his chi and claim godfatherism in Yoruba people, particularly Obasanjo and Tinubu has not earned us advancement in Yprubaland and in Nigeria generally.
I want my people to know that the example of our progress and inclusion in Lagos and Yorubaland is a model that the Hausa/Fulani has copied and used to integrate our brothers in North. When was last time we hear of riot against Igbo in North? They have seen how our inclusion in Yorubaland pays off economically and they are modelling that to improve their local economy as well.
Godfatherism helps Igbo business and politics. My people should open their eyes and learn. Let Edo carry their load and fight Tinubu themselves. Edo no be Lagos no concern us. Lagos na our bread and butter, we must not ruin it. End to godfatherism will destroy business for us, let us condemn those that oppose godfatherism in Lagos.
Our leaders in Lagos have seen the light and theyve been drumming the beat, if you cant beat Tinubu in Lagos, join Tinubu to bring dividends of godfatherism to Igbo commerce and politics.
Share this.

LOL. What concerns Igbo man in an Edo election? Or in a what is a Lagos State Tinubu? On a thread focused on Edo State politics?
No respect for the Edo man. Must you take the shine off the Edo man? They've proven they are not slaves to anyone- why not respect that?

You non-Igbos should resist the urge to show your cowardness everytime. Face your APC and Buhari and Tinubu and leave Igbos alone.

sharpden:
Jubilation In Edo Over Obaseki’s Re-Election (Video)


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IBfqvP1EjFM

Worst thing you can tell an Edo man (actually their women) is what to do. Like the Igbo man, they can be very stubborn and are known to go against monarchy, godfathers, etc.
Tinubu didnt seem to realise this.
Tinubu's video telling them who to vote for was the nail that sealed the coffin of Ize & Oshiomole's career.
Hopefully, this has confined Tinubu to Lagos State.

Meanwhile, thank you US State Department for that Ban.

Sleevia:
From all indications, Obaseki has won this election but two things stood out unexpectedly

1. It was generally peaceful

2. There was zero federal might influence.

What do you think is the reason behind this?

I would hazard a guess and I am open to correction.

A: The U.S visa ban restricted federal influence, which Oshiomole, Ganduje and Tinubu were banking on. I was on twitter when I read that order has been given that there should be no interference in the election. This was why, after votes at the PU were done, all security agents, from Army to Police and others LEFT.

B. The Oba of Benin meeting. Before the election, Oba invited both contestants for a meeting where he specifically warned against violence in whatever form. I often read from outsiders that Oba of Benin is just like any oba out there but what majority do not know is the weight the Oba of Benin carries among his people and this election further proved that.

Since the APC took power, this is the most peaceful election we have had...

The question is WHY?

Please join the discussion and I would like to learn from other persons and correct me where you feel I am wrong.

The US ban and the warning for more bans.
Politicians are aware that it is not just the United States only; other nations will diplomatic presence with the US will also uphold the US bans.
And it came at a strategic time, just before the elections.
Politicians need medical access, hence the "peaceful" elections.

That said, expect the Social Media to be restricted in Nigeria. That is how a regime responds to bans and sanctions that are a result of information from citizens leaking out.

Ababbio:
https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.vanguardngr.com/2020/09/edodecides-pdp-supporters-jubilate-after-announcing-results-at-egor-oba-market-oredo-video/amp/

Elections in Nigeria are won at "night".

Obaseki dont jubilate yet.

NORSIYK:
https://www.premiumtimesng.com/entertainment/kannywood/415200-kannywood-i-am-ready-to-pay-for-damages-to-get-my-scenes-removed-yakubu-mohammed-to-film-producer.html

I am actually very disappointed that Pete Edochie allowed himself to be in such a movie.

It is clearly a propaganda attempt by the Nigerian Army who are trying to cover up the Shiite Genocide.

CocaineLord:
ATM or Toy ?

Where is your own?

ijustdey:
https://www.thisdaylive.com/index.php/2020/09/16/uk-threatens-sanctions-against-violence-sponsors-in-edo-ondo-polls/

The UK will do nothing.

Kennedyiheme02:
masturbation spiritual problem?... why do we always blame the demons its a proven fact we as humans can get addicted to things, people get addicted to gambling, video games, movies... would you say they have spiritual problem?

OK.

Blackurglyboi:
Please don't laugh at my English and I'm not a good writer.

Now I have come to realization that truely masturbation is the greatest addiction ever. I wouldn't like to disclose my name cause of some reasons, I would like to keep my identity safe.

It all started far back In 2011 when I was in my jss3, I have been a pretty good boy who loves making friends, I was jovial. I interact with everyone around me and everybody loves my company.

I have lot of girls as my friends ..
One faithful Saturday morning I was having a stroll and I came across a pornography film pack and it has nudes content. It was lying by the road side, I'd picked it up and had a lot at it ..

My fellow nairalanders, that was how my journey started.

I started having the urge for sex. I felt so good giving myself self pleasure, I started masturbating once or twice a week, soon I started getting addicted, anytime I feel alone, the urge comes up and I must attend to it no matter where I am.

I started downloading phonography pictures on my phone. Fast forward to the time I finished my secondary school. It come to my observation I started pulling away from my female friends and I started keeping all to myself. I got some worst to the extent I can't talk to a woman. I started losing my friends. I only had mouth on social media .

Fast forward till today, masturbation have ruined my life totally now I have been so addicted that I get it done twice a day, sometimes I feel hurt and guilty, sometimes I asked myself i I would ever get married or if I can ever love a woman. I feel so embarrassed and ashamed of myself. I do promise my self that I'm gonna leave it but the highest I could go was a week. I don't even have that urge of hitting a woman, in my area as low as 500 you can have sex with a LovePeddler, but even though it is cheap to that extent i Would rather satisfy my self.

Till this day I have been masturbating for 9 years and it's really tearing my life apart.
Now I keep all to myself .. The only two things you could find on my phone browser is narialand and different ponographic sites ...

It hurts me so much, sometimes my friends ask when would I have a girlfriend but I would reply (oboy leave that thing make we make money first woman go come ) but deep down I feel sorry for myself ...

For those who say masturbation isn't a sin, dear friends masturbation I'd a deep sin and when you're addicted to it is very difficult to overcome it .

Please I need your advice, a problem shared is a problem solved.

There is a spirit behind masturbation. Dont listen to what anyone urging you on here tells you.
It is a spiritual problem.

I would suggest you (1) Give your life to Christ and become truly born again (2) Plead to God for mercy and (3) With a more spiritual Christian, pray and break its hold on your life.
Then pay attention to what you see, what you watch, what you read, the company you keep, etc.
It will go and never come back again.

JAMO84:
As if Nigeria was ever the rich capital. Nonsense!!!

Thank you for this. Nigeria became the Poverty Capital of the World due to Buhari's incompetence.

SmartProf:
You do the right things and you are made a scapegoat, while those who hail all looters & call them 'your excellency', and asslick morally bankrupt individuals are given awards. To succeed as a journalist in Nigeria, you must be a hype man like Alexreports.

PremiumTimes has been finally compromised.
Well-done Samuel Ogundipe. I hope your new outfit blossoms and grows.

olumide4christ:
Have you asked yourself what these banned people will lose if they can't travel to the US? El-Rufai has been banned for a long time, Tinubu has not gone there for ages...yet they are amassing wealth here in Nigeria.
I don't support Nigerian politicians of any party but sorry to burst the bubble, this visa ban does not harm these politicians. The only people visa ban will harm are struggling Nigerians who erroneously see USA as their heaven on earth and the only place that they can make it in life. For people who are already wealthy, USA is just one of those countries that they can travel to for holidays, to unwind and see family and friends.. absolutely nothing more!

If it does not “harm” them, then their minions and apologists wouldn’t have been set loose on Nairaland, Facebook and Twitter since last night

loopman:
Some Nigerians are so stupid! You are gloating over what a white supremacy country is doing to your country ?

Nigerians are excited that people who caused them to become the World Capital of Poverty have been banned from travelling to the US.

It is a small price to pay, dont you think? You really hate Nigerians.

powerfulguy:
http://saharareporters.com/2020/09/15/bandits-kill-dss-officer-after-receiving-n5m-ransom-katsina

Anyone that knows how theives operate, let alone, Fulani Bandits, should know that they were never going to release him alive.
They'll check his phone and his ID card. Once they see he is a Security Agent, he is as good as dead. At least that is what the survivors have said.

Anyway, this is a family issue. DSS and Fulani Terrorists should sort themselves out.
May God continually protect those who did not vote for Buhari in 2015. In Jesus Name. Amen.

twosquare:

na so

Trumptweet:
This got me thinking. Thank you.

You are welcome.

I have been in the same situation before. Unfortunately for them, if I do not pray about a thing, I will rationalise my decision-making using logic. Never emotions.
Much later, the person that they were trying to sell to me got married and got divorced within a year or so.
As usual, it was down to bad character.
Use your head and think. Not your emotions.

Trumptweet:
Please help me. I am in medical school. My cousin and his wife (both living in USA) introduced a girl to me. They want me to come over.

From my understanding the two families are friends.

According to my cousin, "she is a good girl from a good family "

I have already started chatting with her, she seems cool, apparently.

But I need unbiased views from those with experience please.

Put yourself in my position and advise me.


she's 27. She is doing her masters .im 29, finishing next yr.


Thank you.

Never you marry her without knowing her character. Without a dating/ relationship period.
If she is too good to be true, then she is actually too good to be true.
There are many Uncles, Aunties, Pastors, Relatives, who have some daughter somewhere that they will prefer to get married to a Nigerian-trained man. Which is fine.
The problem is that these girls, liberal and Westernised, operate from a mindset that you will struggle to understand unless you’ve lived in the same environment like her. Sadly her cheerleaders will hide these things from you; when you marry the lady, you will be told to, “manage, this is what marriage is.”