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A very UNINTELLIGENT defender this Omeruo guy is. 23? Lord Have Mercy!

Akinwerndey:
If we want to qualify, Omerou and Elderson should be on the bench o.... Onazi should be dropped completely and John Ogu should pair mikel in the midfield.

Onazi shld b dropped completely? Did we watch d same match? I watched d second half of dat match n Onazi made at least 4 interceptions and won d ball another three times at least! I totally agree wit u on d useless omeruo n whoever dat right back is. Echiejile has always been crap. Beats me hw he still starts for Nigeria.

pocohantas:
Think well, you don't know any of your uncle's wife that doesn't know how to cook?
This issue is way past being modern or not knowing how to cook.

I said THINK IT IS ACCEPTABLE, didnt say there aren't women dat dont knw hw to cook in previous generations. D problem is those ones these days dat say it like it shouldn't mean much.

Wit d quality of DIL's these days contaminated by a warped sense of gender equality, why won't MIL's b in constant battle wit them? E.g MOST 9ja babes these days think it is 'modern' or 'acceptable' not to know how to cook. Or to rule out d possibility of preparing a particular dish even if its ur husband's favourite and expect it to be ok by everyone.

Many Nigerians still dont know how special and reliable hyundai cars are. Absolutely amazing brand.

Wada owed several months of salary and the igalas never for once blocked his convoy for obvious reasons. Bello (though a total disaster going by present evidence) is being harrassed at every corner for d same offence. We can see a precedence being layed here. Igalas simply don't wanna live with d fact dat an Ebira man is now in govt house in Kogi. D Ebira man is giving everyone all d reasons for him to be hanged. Crazily pathetic state of mediocres.

FinestPINACLE:
please who is that your fiance I think I know him.

Haba? Serious matter here o!

Caprigal:
Thanks everyone for your advice, I appreciate your help.


I have considered breaking up but the man has other attributes that I think I want in my future husband like he is very forgiving and easygoing and he is God fearing. But the spit thing irritates me so much. I have told him before that I don't like it so why is he still bringing it up?

I have a feeling he will want to force me to accept it after marriage because I noticed that even after I complained that I don't like spitting he was cunningly still trying to put spit in my mouth when we were kissing.

The whole thing is disgusting. I avoid french kissing him these days because when that strange desire overcomes him he will start trying to sneak some spit into my mouth because he is hoping to gradually make me like it.

from d way u are narrating this issue, it seems it's probably his biggest flaw as a man and to be honest with u, sexual flaws shouldn't be taken lightly because it can easily metamophorse and destroy a relationship. On the other hand, though sounds really disgusting (I actually cringed when I started reading ur post at first), you need to lovingly start avoiding the whole act of french kissing him. Truth is it's obviously something he seriously fantasizes about and enjoys during intimacy so if he stops it because u have complained, it means he absolutely cherishes u HENCE u will need to discover his other sexual fantacies (that u r comfortable with) and EXPLORE that one to make him totally forget this one. Truth is, if u r a one dimensional and predictably rigid person, it's only a matter of time b4 his sexual attraction towards u begins to rapidly diminish and ultimately, ur relationship. In simple terms, this situation is ABSOLUTELY WORKABLE.

I can relate perfectly to what you are experiencing op. To be frank, adolescents of this generation are absolutely mannerless and senseless. I live in a compound wit a neighbour n share kitchen with him and we seamlesly relate in terms of taking care of food and dishes. He met a jambite lady last yr n dis girl has a younger brother that has become an attachment to this my neighbour, enters d kitchen at will, eats my food sometimes with my plates, cooks with my pots sometimes on my gas and still leaves ALL utensils 4 me to wash. Imagine d younger bro of a jambite (I was a jambite way back 2005) displaying such quantum irresponsibility? Well I recently expressly warned him (since I am totally convinced I can coerce him with beating) NEVER to step into dat kitchen again and d matter is settled (though he doesnt greet again which I really prefer). My dear op, if u were born in d 80's I want u to understand dat d quality (mental responsibility) of children (mostly d late 90's stalk) is very low and most times if u don't show them total rejection and even threat of coercion, they won't budge. I am a MAN and all d pple shouting here don't understand how annoying (especially in an average African setting) it is to feed and do d dishes of an able bodied much younger sibling/person living with u. Bounce d d**khead out of your house and damn d hypocrites that won't take half of what he is dishing out to u.

AlphaPegasi:
truth of the matter is that it is not wrong of her to desire what she does not have. in fact it is the sane thing to do. now whether she gets it is another story. seriously speaking i dont see the hassles in women desiring rich guys. its a natural tendency of all humans. men desire riches too which is why when you put them in politics they steal all the countries money. this is why people move drugs to indonesia. this is why niggaz are all over the western world scamming oyinbos. WE ARE ALL HUSTLERS and we all desire to be comfortable. her own way of hustling is looking for rich guys. me personally i aint mad at a woman who hustling for rich men. question is whether she will get it or not lol cuz not all hustlers succeed. thats just the story of life. everybody is hustling. like that nigga rick ross said EVERYDAY AM HUSTLING. dont knock a womans hustle lolzz

My brother I am not really saying they shouldn't desire rich dudes. My annoyance is there is a serious possibility that most girls that shout 'broke guys' are as mentally broke as they come. I have seen ALL colours of women in my lifetime and I know their desires are quite similar. My problem is that everyday, Nigerian women seem stranger to me. I actually love being single now because I got no time to waste! Like I said and I know: when u meet a worthwhile woman, ur intuition will do d rest.

Serious poverty (of both mind and body) is d biggest problem of most Nigerian ladies. U go outside d country and see really sophisticated independent women not caring how much u earn and just flow with you in a rship based on ur basic qualities (humour, simple care, ambition and adventure). U come back here and meet a girl who lives in a face me I face u flat, cooks with firewood and has never in her twenty something years on earth seen her father buy a car want all those things from u. Truth is as a guy, d day u meet a WORTHWHILE woman, u won't needa soothsayer to tell u!

Is there really anything like "superior race?". As in a situation where every human being from a particular nation/ethnicity is NATURALLY BETTER at everything to every other person around them? If you are an enlightened social scientist with a miniature grasp of the concept of 'nature' and 'nurture' in psychology, u will know that it just doesn't make sense to grandstand just for d mere fact u r from a particular ethnic stock/nationality. All I c in many cases is a people practically forcing EVERYBODY around them (with action and words) to accept their superiority (whatever that means) over you. Fine the igbo's have rpoduced some of the best minds to ever come out of Nigeria and indeed Africa but so have other very minority unsung tribes in Nigeria and other parts of Africa. Our biggest problem as blacks has always been our natural propensity to trumpet ourselves beyond necessary. I for one would never accept that anybody is NATURALLY better than me in EVERYTHING. Anyone climbing that high horse over others is simply unenlightened.

kenonze:



This is exactly what you get when pilgrim slots are given to friends and relatives.
It should be given to those who are Spiritually upright.

The government waste tax prayers money and scarce Forex only to get humiliated at the end.
I wish the crime was commited at Indonesia

Anty Saudi Arabia has d death penalty 4 drug trafficking too. Infact beheading to be precise!

I always like to read how other denominations love to jump on anything catholic and brand it 'demonic', 'antichrist' and all what not. The truth of the matter is that inspite of all the assaults over the years plus blackmails and thrash talks, the catholic church is still d oldest and largest denomination in christiandom. And the Bible tells us about Jesus Christ describing Peter as being the 'rock' on which He shall build His church and "THE FORCES OF HELL SHALL NOT PREVAIL OVER IT". The Catholic church doesn't stalk members, everyone that comes does so strictly on personal conviction without any pressure or attempt to brainwash and when u leave the church doesn't even notice. Furthermore, tales like this are often rigorously investigated and verified for several years in ALL cases by d church authorities b4 any endorsement is made or credence given.
To those screaming 'idolatory', I often wonder how it is convenient to have pictures of overseers of churches on banners, posters and revival grounds while having d crucifix of Jesus Christ is Idolatory. Or how gr8 it is to have miracle handkerchiefs, pens and other items while holding or having a Cross is 'satanic'. The truth of the matter is that in d end, the church you attend doesn't guarantee salvation BUT can shape your path to salvation if its precepts are actually in semblance with the UNADULTRATED teachings of Jesus Christ.
Glory be to the Father and to the Son and to the Holy Spirit..........

sCun:
The dullard is not fixing the road and hasn't fixed any road whatsoever in this country yet.

Read the article again with your zombie glasses off.

Actually d Mokwa/Jebba/Ilorin road is almost complete. Pls get your facts right before making general statements like "hasn't fixed any road whatsoever".

stonemasonn:
The Tiv people of Benue and The Birom people of Plateau were also brave people but have been subdued with time by the Fulani military might. There seems to be a strategy to subdue all the minorities in the north central to get easy access to the very fertile land.

The beroms haven't been subdued. The Tiv's I must confess are alarmingly docile to me. The Gbagyi's on d other hand wont wait to be killed. The moment it starts getting hotter, they will take the fight to every fulani man they can track around Minna. I'm only scared of d collateral damage.

malton:
Damn. Sorry about your dad.

This just brought back some unpleasant memories.

That cutlass thing is so rampant up north, no doubt. I recall back then in Samaru, Zaria, they tried to sever some guy's head in this same manner, luckily, he took the hit to the arm like your dad did and ran for his life afterwards.

A friend of mine was walking down an alley, a very long one at that one night when he got caught midway. They asked him to bring out his phones and all he had in his pocket. After he did, they asked him to kneel down. Soon as he did, they raised a cutlass, but before they could strike, he quickly rose and ran back. They threw the cutlass at him but as God would have it, he had his laptop bag on. The laptop got damaged, but at least, it saved him.

I lived in a serene neighborhood at the time, but usually pass that road every damn night. Sometimes even as late as 3 am. I knew God had me when I didn't encounter them even once till I left. But mehn, with guys this mean, we lived day by day. Lots of innocent people got clipped.

They are that cruel.

Rest in peace to the man.

I graduated from ABU Zaria in 2008 (kongo campus) and trust me man I hav vivid pictures of what u r trying to say in my head too. U can imagine the kinda elements that sorround that Kongo campus (tudun wada and Gyallesu) plus the horrible looking El Zakzaky Army reigning supreme along side them. The truth is that on a very good day if u are able bodied and agile like me, dispossessing four of these lightweights is a cake walk. But as u said, their extremely sharp daggers n machettes is always a great risk to defend against.

Ontarget:
Abokii no dey fear na. And you know they love to kill too.

Not everybody in d north is abokii as many of u like to portray. Beji people are Gbagyi. The same people that are the indigienes of d FCT. Believe me too, they are VERY brave and STRONG and wonderful yam farmers. I have lived 4 27yrs in Bosso Local Govt and I know d fulani's will never have d kinda free ride they get with Benue people with these ones.

This man thought me during my PG last year and I must confess he is brilliant. The only thing is that he comes across as a hypocrite too or better still quite an extremist. I sincerely donot know how introducing CBT in Unilorin has helped the students other than increasing their parochiality. If he is a disciplinarian, I like him for that. An average Nigerian is a bundle of indiscipline!

bonechamberlain:
Nepotism the worst form of corruption, once you are a northerner you can occupy any position in this country whether qualified or not, look at the MD of NPA for example, she has no business there, in the next few years Nigeria might be taken back by 20 years because buhari has chosen to appoint mostly people who succeed through quota system and who can't compete with intelligent humans in any civilized setting. the extremist ruler would destroy this country.

Hadiza BALA USMAN is NOT qualified to head NPA? Can u pls give me just TWO good reasons why u assert so?

Marry? Now that's a very serious issue!

SexyRat:
So you think a Church can afford this state of the art facilities for just teachers (I said Teachers, cos they have other quarters for hundreds of staff) with just tithes of and offerings.

When God is your afairs, he will supernaturally sponsor you. Get that

I am a very serious Christian with full background and still practicing but you haven't answered d guy's question one bit. Just say the tithes and offerings are being judiciously used for d common good and His ministry, God is blessing and multiplying d endevour immensely. If I were an unbeliever that was almost getting converted but got that response from u, it'd take me two steps back!

Dbrainiac1:
Why you talking about alumni wen he said abusite? You my friend are straying off, an abusite ain't ahead of nobody.
Talking about my school UNIMAID, I'm not here for comparison nor competition. And despite being established in 1975, we to have notable alumni... let me help you* Tukur Yusuf Buratai COAS, Kashim Shettima governor of Borno state, Bala Mohammed one time senator and FCT minister, Orji Uzor Kalu- chairman of SLOK Holding and the Daily Sun and New Telegraph newspaper, governor of Abia from 1999-2007, Abubakar Malami- Minister for Justice and Attorney-General since November 15, 2015. Michael Aondoakaa - one time minister for justice. Abubakar Sani Bello - governor of Niger state. Abubakar Sadiq A. Mohammed - former minister of Tourism, Culture and National Orientation. Is a school all about producing politicians before it can be ahead? Talk about all the professors we've produced, most of em are vice-chancellors now, all the graduates, seasoned medical and dental practioners. As my anatomy lecturer will say... "What are you talking about?!"
ABU is just dwelling on past glories, quote me anywhere.
I leave you with this... IF YOU WANT TO BE MADE, COME TO UNIMAID

Seriously bro I like your post despite being a rival. But do you seriously think Unimaid is a better university than ABU past glory or no past glory. I really can't list prominent Alumni from ABU but I leave u with this summary: d vice president and 26 govs in Nigeria under OBJ were ABU grads. Add Namadi Sambo under GEJ and Yar'adua b4 Gej and d picture will be clear. I have friends that graduated from Maid n 2 b honest they are impressive people.

Emilokoiyawon:
You read my mind to the t - we must be kindred spirits. I have been saying this for years. If we don't evolve we WILL become extinct. The highlighted broke my heart - so we are now producing educated first-class idiots. So so sad.

so because som1 says "yeee see this gadget o" it means he is an idiot? Or it means his first class grade is questionable? Do u know d difference between WESTERNIZATION and EDUCATION? Is speaking "good english" really a prerequisite for determining A NIGERIAN'S quotent level? Have u travelled and interacted with intellectuals from other places like China, India and other parts of Europe and Arabia. Nigerians and always MISCONSTRUING the real essence of education. What a pity

traware:
There is only one catholic church close to "suleiman hall".The glorified secondary school is living on its past,lost glory

What of Chapel of Resurrection just beside our lady Queen of Peace? Are u sure u are an Abusite?

Dbrainiac1:
What an irony!

Emm Irony? Check how many governors, vice presidents and president plus ministers have been ABU alumni since 1999, mention your school and come back to me with ANY university in Nigeria with a bigger head count!

aresa:
What's the difference between what we are spending and what other countries are spending on 1000MW. For 1125 MW, we are actually getting a good deal for our money.

The going rate for 1000MW is $1 billion.

Even the so called 22.500MW $22 billion largest damn you quoted = $1 billion per 1000 MW.

Do a little elementary arithmetic before spewing rubbish and even a little research before spewing ignorance on the internet. Hate and bitterness can not stop us.

if this was chess, this wld be checkmate

Friedweed:
Name Checkers Association Timbuktu branch reporting....

Name check........... SODEKE
Shape of head........CONE/OBLONG SHAPED
Facial features........SCRATCHED/CLAWED FACE
Cultural Identity.....SUFFISTICATED and BROWN ROOFED
Region......SOUTH W.ASTE

Tribe.......By their deeds we know them

I nromally hate d name checking and stereotyping stuff but honestly I laughed hard at d way u structured ur presentation. Chai!

Idydarling:
This is a clear case of the social gap between the Burgeosis and the Proleterats. When an individual comes to the self realization of who he is and how he is being exploited by these social institutions, then the individual should break free from mental slavery and should emancipate himself...



Karl Marx.

From the Marxian classification, a person that is incapable of buying common maggi CANNOT be grouped in d proletariat (middle class). Will most likely be PEASANT instead.

Do I really feel sorry for these kinda people? I dont. We live in a society where people behave like goats and live ONLY for the present with d assumption of being "sharp" without any recourse to future implications of actions and inactions. If you have duly paid 4 ur land and obtained all necessary cover documents, there is no govt on earth that will be able to demolish ur property without compensation. Where I live permanently in Minna gave me an insight into how unruly Nigerians can be without close monitoring and policing. People removed their beacons and started their parameter fence OUTSIDE d demarkation of their approved land thereby squeezing d space meant 4 roads n drainages to access d area when devt started speeding up. In Ilorin (where I presently live) ALL d settlement I have seen (apart from probably GRA) are totally messed up because of people's stupidity in d name of being sharp. 10 yrs frm now with d way things are, all d tanke and Gaa akanbi axis will be inaccessible by car and Im sure this is how we behave all over d country. Lemme not even start mentioning all d hazardous liquid wastes we dispose throught holes in our fences unto these eroded roads to add to calamity. That is why when sane governments come to power, people that have never done the right thing in their lives begin to suffer!

I don't know why this is even an issue to be contemplated by this OP. U sound very young (since u r still an undergraduate) hence d dilema. When u have experienced life in full throttle, u will understand that it is NEVER worth it hiding d escapades of a hoe girlfriend from a CHILDHOOD(way back) bro. I will spill it to him immediately and damn d consequences (which I can assure u will be the best fit provided your friend has ANY brain in his head).

jidxin:
pls wats all dz shiit abt southwate east or north all about or checking names . it shows we aint matured enough .alota kids turning nairaland into an Avenue for promotion of ethnic discrimination. nawa ooo kids everywhere

Its not really about being kids my brother. Its d seemingly natural tendency of Africans to labour and hold themselves down with thrivialities and now having any iota of sense of coordination and strategy in pushing themselves foward. Can't u c how far we have 'progressed' in all these years?