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So because of 100 tip you want the man to sell his birthright, some people Sha.
God please bless all hustling men out there so that no woman would be able to look down on them or mock them just because of money.

valicious1:
What’s up, are you done with fedponek?

Yep.

ksstroud:
Quite an age...
How is everything?

Very fine and how's your end?
Been a long while though.

Mad people everywhere

The kind of marital stories I read these days scares the shit out of me.. Will I be able to look past all these scary stories and have my own?

They are officially married na. Church wedding is simply a borrowed culture besides the Bible didn't say Jesus attended a white wedding.

We overdo things here in Nigeria.

What's with the fitness experts now? First is wizkid babymama and now toke.. Shey na the new money bag be that now?

I wish them happiness though.

Can we just end all these and just be happy
There's really no need for this counter thread, you could have allowed her to catch her cruise in peace.

Leshurr:
Who do you think you are exactly? Lol! I will quote you as much as I like.

Please do not derail Op's thread over trivial issue.
Learn the habit of ignoring and moving on, it does good to one's soul!

Let go dear!!

Ma'am just focus on yourself and baby for now and I'm glad you've acknowledged your flaws, kindly reduce your nagging it gives a man mental breakdown. Develop that will to always walk away when the urge to start nagging comes in.

Here's what I do to stay sane and give my partner peace:

Either he listen while I roll out my grievances or I listen to him (you both can't talk at same time, you would only end up achieving nothing)

I don't know how to nag but anything that made me talk to you anyhow, then you actually called for it because I'm not one to loose my cool on trivial matters (it simply means you should talk when it's at the breaking point and not every time so that he would know the gravity of what he did wrong, a sensible man should know when he has erred big time)

Stop reporting him to a third party even if it happens to be his parents ( is that how he reports your matter to yours?) it's your home so chin up and man it properly.

In all of your complains, I didn't see where you praised him or tell his good side at all, it's all about his wrong doings. A good wife and mother starts with telling us how good the man is and then digress a little bit into his shortcomings while seeking help (you've washed, spread and iron out your husband's linen to the public which doesn't tell good) trust me, he wouldn't do that to you.

A happy man would gladly try for baby 2 in fact he would even be eager to do it but since he's not psychologically and mentally ready he wouldn't think of that (give him a break in that department) try and rekindle that love in his heart for you and pray instead of complaining.

Care, love and pamper him and most importantly talk less!

Waiting for action patiently.

Originalsly:
Bro.... listen to yourself.... after 11 years of marriage only a few months ago you noticed your wife has aged.... and is not fashion conscious as before marriage. Is it you?......or she that just returned from the Moon?
Women go through changes after childbirth.... are stressed .... and even more stressed if the husband is not spending a whole lot more time helping out in the home. Were you? With family come responsibilities and maturity. Her priority is family.... youbshouod thank goodness she is grounded and not twittering around as a fashionova while neglecting your kids. As the trendy husband... why not clothes shop for her? ... and take her out to flex? Doing this often can lesson her stress.... and slow down her aging process.
But how about you?..... you believe you are still youthful and up to date in fashion? Stop putting down your wife and pulling down your marriage.

God bless you!!

PAWG:
...and I thought I had problems


I have been single and celibate for almost a year and I like it laidat. I can’t allow any babe to come and mess with my mind like this brother is suffering. Damn

Best decision!

This one is bigger than me, you already know what to do but you're still here seeking for validation..

Read the handwriting on the wall and move on, but if after all these mountain of advise given to you by well meaning nlanders you still decide to wife her then that's your problem.

Let me go back to bed!

Lol.. This people will soon get tired of extending it and lock up as usual.

Damn! She used herself as an example..

Congratulations to her..

Who has such energy? If bros wants to go home with my phone for a whole year he's damn free to do that.. If kids and neighbors can play games and watch movies on my phone, what's the difficulty in my partner's going through my phone?

Let's stop making issues where there's none edakun.

Well if your woman or should I say your friend's woman is real and like some private women out there, you've got nothing to worry about. She might not be a social media freak but it doesn't mean she loves him any less alright.

As for me, I can't remember the last time I visited my Facebook, Twitter is non existent because I don't have any, Instagram dey swallow person data so that one na no go area and I believe a man should know the kinda person he's going into a relationship with, that's goes to say no one should make a big deal out of a non existent issue just because she didn't show him to the world (besides why should she showcase him when he's actually her world?) so Op relax yourself and enjoy the peace of mind that comes with dating a private person.

Your friend loves showing her off while she enjoys keeping him all to herself, everyone has a way of showing their affection to their loved ones so fret not.

Should I call this one love in the air?

I've not asked anyone out before, perhaps when I do I'll get back to you

Which kain mumu boy be this na?

For your own hard earned money you dey beg person too? Nsogbu di na Alaba

Biko shift go one side, you no get problem jare.

What do I know.. Let's wait for them!

This is new to me Op, How can you be so sure that curved dick isn't right?

Men rock whatever size and shapes God blessed you with, no be you create yourself

Op respect yourself this year oh

Chai.. Never saw this coming! NNE ndo

See as person just dey use im hand Wan buy trouble back into his life...

No amount of good advise been given to you here by nlanders would change your mind, kindly do your wish but I so pray that you make the right decision.

Once a cheat... Always a cheat!!
The above alone should reset your thinking faculty.

She go do am again. Just let go if you can!!

Online relationship +distance do work if you both truly set your heart up for it, there's no excuse whatsoever to justify cheating.
Don't say you weren't warned!

2 dozen no go bad to start with

Nigeria my country.. This country have tired me

Samakus:
Bia, o do ka iñuru ogwu iba . Whose balls are sagged? I withdraw my love now and loneliness will deal with you

Hahaha haha. E pain am oh, chei. You better don't wonjure yasef oh, come let mama takia of you enyia. No let konji use you do ihe iberibe