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Neutral.. We're cowives.. Always arguing like no man's business

When I'm faraway, he solicits the help of my uncles and aunties to beg me to come back that he misses me, immediately I touch down home omo na quarrel we go start till the day I leave home. Granny says that's how he shows me how much he loves me.. What a weird kinda love!

All the same, I love the old man!
He's been on my neck to come back for almost 5years now I ain't taking that risk yet because I've got no strength to argue with my co-wive yet.

Op, why don't you marry her? Na your wedding rice I wan come chop biko.

Ndo my brother.. Trouble no dey finish for our kontri. Just bear with the babe until she feels okay because I can tell you she's not okay now. E get as her body dey do her, by the time 2 or more guys don succeed in visiting Jerusalem, e go clear for her eyes and you can have your woman back by then. I pray heaven grants you strength to wait it out.

investorMK:
if u like abstain from dating for a long time, when u com back they'll still break ur heart!

Enemy of progress.. My God pass you

Hmmm.. Here to read comment.

This is sad..

Let me sit and learn.. I'm tired of relationship brouhaha, I'm taking a break myself and I suggest you do too. Love yourself and take some time off, if after all the self evaluation you still want him despite what he has done then it's your choice. No one here knows him better than you do, know your worth and stick to it.

MansoryMX:
You really want to know how? You really really want to know how?

Yeah.. Please do enlighten me

How do people who vows to take the forever steps together suddenly turns against each other overnight? Just how?

If the university of that aunty is unattainable.. Try other girls university.. Don't lose yourself while chasing a woman, if it's meant to be there won't be too much stress and mental breakdown attached to it. Give it a rest bro.

toprealman:
Set her up? Is that supposed to be his responsibility?

The friend left his wife in his care, I suppose he didn't leave them with nothing. So he can be generous enough to either set up something for her to keep her mind and body occupied or make her learn a skill. Any one is okay as long as he takes care of her as a brother to a sister and nothing more. I don't want to read otherwise few years from now.

Quality time.

joelala:
what if she doesn't want him to stay far from her? remember she was put in his care and he is liable to care and guide her.....Dude has option out there if he's Hot, the newly married wife doesn't! so when she's hot and Hot, I'm pretty sure you know she only has 2 option, either go out there or get close to her guardian.

This 2 options is a big No.. She can FaceTime with her husband, or preferably get a vibrator if the raging hormones wouldn't calm down.

swedbase:
Thanks for your understanding. Many people do not know that one needs a residence permit to be able to integrate, work, do business and move freely. You become an illegal immigrant once your visa expires and belief me its not funny to be illegal anywhere in Europe right now.

I'll keep this in mind.. Thanks for being a lenient coach.

swedbase:
Well you have a point to an extent. I think they would have relocated together if it was possible for them. but to be honest, It is not advisable to come as couple unless they are coming with residence permits.

Noted sir..

swedbase:
The bolded is a prove that you have never been to abroad and also have no idea how things works in this part of the world. It will take that guy noting less than 5 years to get a residence permit if he didn't come with one before thinking of going home to bring someone.

Bros I'm not arguing with you over that, I'm just saying he should hustle hard and pave way for her to join him soon.. It wouldn't also be wrong if they choose to migrate as a family too, at least both of them can hustle together as one too.

Get her busy and stay far away from her.. We don't want stories of DNA test to arise mbok.
If she learnt a skill, set her up and your friend should be thinking of taking her along asap.

Do whatever that rocks your boat sis, at the end of the day it's your decision and you should be able to bear the brunt if it goes south.

There's no need seeking public validation over something you've already made up your mind to do, the choice and consequences is solely yours to bear.

As for your question: nope, I can't even be a side chick not to talk of a third wife. When it comes to my man I'm a selfish bitch and I'm unapologetic about it. Being an only child makes it easier for me to own toys for a long time and never give nor share them with anyone, so I can't possibly nurture the thoughts of sharing my man.
He's mine and mine alone, the thought of sharing him with the kids sef is unnerving not to talk of a strange woman. Mba, not gonna happen.

Relationship itself is hard work, I doubt if I want to give it a try again. Getting used to my company every passing day.

But truth be told, it's a beautiful thing when you have someone to share your dreams and ideas with and both of you willing to work towards achieving them together.

These days urgent 2k and guys wanting sex in exchange for the monetary help has turned everything upside down.
No one is willing to help each other without ulterior motives.

Some guys and ladies are in the so called relationships just for the benefits or what they might likely gain from each other and once that's achieved, every other thing will crumble.

In summary, the guys goes into one for free and unlimited browsing of her website while the lady does the same for financial purpose(at least she's sure of her rents been paid, gifts been given and lots more)all she needs do is submit toto for browsing at any given time.

Why can't people comment without fighting dirty all the time? Wish the abroad lady well and move on.. What's so hard in doing that edakun?

If you want to help her please do and stop seeking for validation from people who doesn't know of your existence. Stop using her to shine, no one is forcing you to help her and it's solely up to you to take her to the nearest NGO for better medication.
Besides someone who truly needs help won't be hoarding her pictures or videos just like you've been doing, truth is I don't believe you.

One thing must kill a man but in this case it's a woman.. If only she knew she would die in war front(sexual romps) she wouldn't have bothered.

May her soul rest in peace, she died in active service!!

As for the men, may pvssies never put you in trouble.

Mr sapiosexual we sight you.. Carry on

Cadamlk:
Funny you . There is no big deal about the subject oo.Just understand the basics ,the rest is history. But the bolded Sha

Both basics and non basics.. Me no understand. Maths is never my Forte biko I readily agree say I no sabi book when it comes to mathematics.

The mere sight of mathematics gives me an instant headache, how I got B in waec still surprises me.
Meet me for another other subject that does not have to do with calculations and we're good to go.
As for maths, nwokem meet your father. I can't minus and add in the bedroom and still come out to show workings in your notebook, I be person pikin too.

Relationship and their wahala.. Let me sit this one out!

buygala:
Confirm she is pregnant first before giving her abortion money..

Invite her over...go to any chemist and buy a pregnancy test strip (100 naira) and let her test her urine right in front of you...if it shows two red lines, then she is truly pregnant...if not, kindly tell her to fvck off...

If she is truly pregnant, whether the baby is yours or not is immaterial at this point...You sha poured inside her recently..so it's likely the baby is yours...Get her to a safe facility and take care of it...discharging a pregnancy below a month is real safe and low risk as long as stipulated procedure is followed...

If you actually know what you 're doing, it's something you can do to her by yourself...two tablet inserted in her vagina within a few hours of each other will take care of it..


Cheers if you decide to keep the baby though...Children are a blessing from God

I fear who no fear you

Keep the baby.. A baby is always a blessing despite however way they are formed, besides what's the child's crime? He or she didn't ask you both to make love without condom so man up and take up your responsibility without complain.

Next time remember to wear a condom to avoid extra blessing such as this one.

Congrats in advance though!

Penny wise... Pound foolish!!
Just send her packing and lease out the house, it will yield profit in return for you. That would have been the best pay back!

You did the right thing bro.. Anyone expecting a plate of rice on my wedding day will wait till eternity because I ain't doing that shit.

If you want to celebrate with me, wait until after I've fought and conquered the stress, phases and struggles of my marriage with my husband by my side, then I will throw a big party for y'all( just come, eat and celebrate with us) I don't need anything from you

Celebrate your post marriage and not your pre-wedding!!

If he ends up using his life savings to please the wife and her family, what will he use to feed her after the wedding? No be only talk of the town, na talk of the nation e go be

Some people with unrealistic expectations sef yet they won't add a dime to make that dream a reality.. Mtcheew!