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Politics / Re: The First Project By Julius Berger In Nigeria 1965 Was In Lagos (Throwback Pic) by middlebelter(m): 10:02am On May 09, 2020
mrvitalis:

Lagos was built by Nigeria ...all major project was carried out by the federal government 3rd mainland bridge to the airport to the seaport

Yoruba claiming Lagos is like north claiming Abuja

If yorubas was hospitable as they want us to believe ...none yorubas would full ibadan ,abiokuta and other yoruba cities but that's not the case


Lagos is Nigerian project and that's a fact


What an argument. In elementary geography there is what is called the pull and push factor for population? The pull factors such as economic attractiveness, peace, infrastructure are not as much in the other Yoruba lands as Lagos, nevertheless you go to nearby Ogun state which is not Federal project as alleged by you and tell me if there are no considerable Igbo population as you claim.
Now, imagine if they stop selling land to your people because of such comment as yours, you will be the first to run outside shout marginalisation. Let us put behind us all these unprofitable sentiments and move forward.

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Politics / Re: Nigeria Problem Started With Awolowo’s Introduction Of Politics Of Tribalism I by middlebelter(m): 3:57pm On May 06, 2020
maestroferddi:
You are trying to deflect from the matter under consideration.

Is it not embarrassing for you to state that NCNC was a Yoruba party?

Herbert Macaulay (part Nigerian, part Sierra Leonean) was older than Zik by almostn 40 years yet at the inception of NCNC both he and Zik were pioneer Chairman and Secretary respectively.

Macaulay died an old man. He had ll the time in the world to anoint a Yoruba successor if that was the ideology on which the national liberation party called NCNC was underpinned.

But he did not because he and the rest of Nigeria nay Africa saw in Zik a more than qualified successor.

Zik earned his reckoning having at the fore front of the African liberation struggle...

It was Nigeria's finest hour because if Awolowo had reined in his primordial predilections, the synergy between the East and West would have launched Nigeria to true greatness.

Awolowo bungled what would have been epochal for the black race...

When Macau lay died at the age of 81, nobody had any complaints of bei g dominated. It was objective leadership based on vision, but after his death, the same could not be said of Zik's leadership and that was the genesis of tribalism. Do you understand?

It was his failure to address this conflict of interest that metamorphosis into the Western Nigeria election. Zik iwas a great man by all standards I wish to reiterate, but he certainly had his failure as a man just like also had hsi Awolowo. We must however put issues straight and lay blame where it should be. His leadership of NCNC was never contested but his style was.

If we fail to learn from this issue, I repeat, the Fulanis will continue to dominate all of us until God puts an end to it. The Fulanis understands this history and conflicts more than any tribes in Nigeria and has been using it to their own advantage. The new style now is Yoruba and Igbo struggling to be leading partner of Fulanis.

If as the successor of Macaulay, he had listened to the wishes of some of his members for fear representation, his leadership of Nigeria would have been established till date.

I didn't say NCNC is a Yoruba party, don't twist my words to satisfy your bad intentions. Check the history of Herbert Macaulay very well, he was born to Nigerian parents in Sierra Leone and purely a Yorubaman. Now those are not the issue, wrong allegation is injurious.

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Politics / Re: Nigeria Problem Started With Awolowo’s Introduction Of Politics Of Tribalism I by middlebelter(m): 2:22pm On May 06, 2020
maestroferddi:
Go an re-read the rubbish you wrote up there...

Zik was Macaulay deputy in NCNC and when Macaulay died the Yorubas asked Zik to head to Eastern Region to make way for a son of the soil to lead the Western Region....

The salient question would be whether this piece of crappy logic you are adducing had any precedence in part of the world that a deputy cannot succeed the substantive leader if the latter dies...

Let us move on... Awolowo is the author of tribalism in Nigerian politics. Pure and simple.


Again, you can respond to issues with displaying immaturity. I will appreciate superior arguments than insult.
For the record, Zik was never stopped from succeeding Macaulay as NCNC. As you are aware many Yoruba remain with Zik till death and do you know why? Difference in opinion.
The fact that Zik will be Premier in the East does not take away from him the leadership of NCNC.They are two different offices.
Good luck and this will be my last response on this matter.

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Politics / Re: Nigeria Problem Started With Awolowo’s Introduction Of Politics Of Tribalism I by middlebelter(m): 2:15pm On May 06, 2020
[quote author=maestroferddi post=89244783]Stop talking like a stark illiterate.

On what capacity would ZIk have appointed an Igboman to be the premier of Eastern Region? Was he the Governor-General?

Does it occur to you that this event took place more than 8 years before the attainment of Nigerian independence?

Do a little study on Prof Eyo Ita and free yourself from asinine ignorance....


Stop spreading deliberate falsehood...[/quote

I expect you to be wise enough to choose your words carefully.when responding to issues, it is this type of immaturity that bring hostile response, I chose to disregard that aspect of your indiscretion.

Now to the issue, I don't the level of your education and if you were ever thought Constitutional Development of Nigeria starting from 19914-1960.

A strong platform that influenced political decisions and appointment in those days are the Nationalist Movement and the traditional council. Within the movements especially NCNC, there was politics.

Now each writer has his political bias and can choose to favour an actor to the detriment of others. Lagos is Yoruba land and NCNC started there. Now if it was started by a Yorubaman, have you wondered while Igbo man will suddenly become Nos 2 & 3 in the ranking.

https://www.google.com/url?sa=t&source=web&rct=j&url=https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/National_Council_of_Nigeria_and_the_Cameroons&ved=2ahUKEwiOnryqq5_pAhWmzIUKHWYMB1gQFjAAegQIBxAB&usg=AOvVaw08lyeWt4ZPzBrVnb9Ndbid&cshid=1588771614355

This issue will remain with us and continue to affect our polity.
Politics / Re: Nigeria Problem Started With Awolowo’s Introduction Of Politics Of Tribalism I by middlebelter(m): 2:03pm On May 06, 2020
shekauvsbuhari:
From ur write-up, you just proved Unongo right. Awolowo drew other Yorubas to play the tribal card. Before then, it was nigeria but Awolowo instigated yorubas to start playing by tribe. You just proved Unongo right.

When flies bites a dog nobody sees it but when the dog decides to bite flies it becomes the talk of the people.

You are free to continue to deceive yourself but people who knows will not allow you to deceive them. If you do not agree with the fact that within NCNC there was a need to address discrimination, at least you know that we still have discrimination with us today. If you like blame Awolowo for it, it won't change the reality.

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Politics / Re: Nigeria Problem Started With Awolowo’s Introduction Of Politics Of Tribalism I by middlebelter(m): 9:37am On May 06, 2020
dignity33:
You aren't smart that you claimed first you said harbart was the leader and after his death Zik was the next and every one supported him by that time No Nigeria know what is tribal politics all what they see is merit that is why they supported Zik to rule them in western region . Now the question is who ask them to see Zik as igbo not Nigeria? that is where the tribal politics emanated and I'm sure you know the answer. Awolowo. That is why Awolowo was accused of bringing tribal politics in Nigeria which is obvious because if you travel to many countries that have different tribes they don't play politics of tribe like Nigeria do, once you are a citizen of that country you are allowed to contest election in any state or provinces. e.g is South Africa, Switzerland etc

I can't heal you from your self inflicted ignorance. It is not in my power, you can choose to believe whatever you want.

The answer to your question is simple, who told you not to see GMB as national leader instead of a Fulani man you regard him. Let me tell you one fact, it better to be guided by truth and objectivity.

If Zik by his leadership posture in NCNC decided to be a true Nigerian, there would have been no need for political crisis. If you don't understand, take a look at the way politics is being played in Nigeria today. If Okpara was not chosen by Zik, what you mean to say is that Zik will be Premier in the West and Okpara in the East because they are most senior in NCNC? What a wisdom? The people in the west are expected to be watching Igbos taking over all key appointments and be relegated? You see, when we learn to be sensitive to the feelings of others, our political crisis will be minimal. Do you realise why the PH people decided not to support Biafra because of similar insensitivity to their existence? No doubt the Yoruba has their own imperfections but as an person, I think they are more tolerant that Fulani or Igbos.

If we want Nigeria to work for all of us, then we must be ready to make it work. We must be insensitive to any tribe including the Igbos that suffered during the civil war.

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Politics / Re: Nigeria Problem Started With Awolowo’s Introduction Of Politics Of Tribalism I by middlebelter(m): 3:30am On May 05, 2020
leokid866:

They have been twisting history for a long time it's not today....

That is the reason we must continue to tell them the truth each time anyone come up with this type of lie. You said Yoruba are betrayal and I asked who betrayed first if there was any betrayal at all by Yoruba?

Zik succeeded Herbert Maculay suddenly think he must emerge the Premier of Western Region and appoint another Igbo man as Premier of Eastern Region. Will Igbos accept such treatment? To have Herbert Maculay as Premier of Eastern Region and then appoint Awolowo as Premier of Western Region? Will Igbos that will not even agree to sell lands to Yoruba in the 21st century ever accept such political denigration?

Much as I love my Igbo friends we must not shy from telling them the truth and let them know all these Internet war have to stop before it snowball into another unfortunate incident.
Zik should know that the Yorubas are larger in landmass and population yet the allowed you to lead them as a Nationalist under a movement started by their late son, now you using the same platform against them to subjugate them politically.
What you won't accept don't offer it to people.

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Politics / Re: Nigeria Problem Started With Awolowo’s Introduction Of Politics Of Tribalism I by middlebelter(m): 12:41am On May 05, 2020
This man even though is from middle belt has never hidden his hatred for Yorubas, whatever his reasons are he should please allow Nigerians to live in peace with his half baked history.

NCNC was the Nationalist Movement under Herbert Maculay a Yoruba man and Zik was his deputy. Suddenly. Maculay died and Zik emerged as the leader of NCNC the main anti colonialism movement. The Yorubas of course gave Zike 100% support as they still remain the most accommodating tribes in Nigeria to Igbos and other Nigerian till date. History is there for you to verify. Now before the elections there were political manoeuvring and some Yorubas feel that they should be compensated for the death of their son in the leadership ranking that, Zik as national leader should be Premier of Eastern region and appoint a Yoruba man to lead Western Region. This won't take away from him his national leadership of NCNC. Unfortunately, he didn't listen and that gave rise to suspicion of been dominated.
Remember, Zik wanted to be Premier in West and appoint another Igbo man as Premier in the East and before this election, there has been signals of domineering tendencies in various institutions including University of Ibadan and some Yorubas concluded that if they did not correct this error early their children will not forgive them and that is what lead them to realign after massively voting for NCNC a Nationalist Movement that was evolving to a political party then.

To call Yorubas tribalists is the height of mischief. If you have a leader that is insensitive to the various components of his constituency can you call that a leader, if you protect the interest of your own tribe at the expense of other tribes that are larger than your tribe in population and landmass can you be regarded as a leader. Indeed, it was Zik that started tribalism and when he pushed it to a point that it backed fire, he started calling Yorubas name.
Why did Paul Unogo and his other Middle Belt leaders not choose to remain under the Fulanis without a voice in political leadership, why are my Middle Belt people still trying to maintain a distinct Geo-political Identity? That is what Awolowo and Co saw and choose to take up their own destiny. Did it favour the SW? The answer is obvious. Yes, there were reactionary groups in Yorubaland that choose to die with Zik, the likes of Adeniran Ogunsanya, etc Unogo Paul won't see such people but choose to dance in the market at Old age because of hatred. Check out his consistent opposition to Yoruba leaders and you will know, the type of elder he is.

For the youths that may not know much of our history, recent developments in our history will show you that the Yorubas will never ask too much but will always insist on what is due to them. When through political manipulation, Abiola died as president elect, some tribes expected them to declare war, but Yorubas simply negotiated to have their son replaced with another Yoruba as president. They never wanted Obasanjo but when the other tribes insisted through the military, the Yorubas for the sake of peace allowed it. Now if Zik had listened to his political constituency then, what Paul Unogo is talking about would not have happened. There are many other political manipulations by Zik that proved he wasn't an infallible leader, we remember what happened during the coup and how he escaped being killed through informants of Igbo origin in the military while the other political leaders in SW and North were killed in a coup lead by Igbos. Did he know about the coup?
Finally, the Yorubas choice of Awolowo as the Premier of Western Region was it beneficial to the Yoruba race or not? I will leave reader to answer this question as take away and ignore this man.

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Politics / Re: COVID-19: Kano In Trouble - Governor Ganduje Says by middlebelter(m): 9:04am On May 04, 2020
Ganduje your lockdown was not effective and you know it. You took the alarm for granted unlike El-Rufai who was proactive.

You know there is high level of indiscipline in Kano and you did not seek for help to enforce strict lockdown instead you wanted it relaxed for whatever religious reasons or political correctness. I think you should face the consequences of you inactions and stop making noise.

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Nairaland / General / Re: Drama As Abuja Senior Pastor, Deacons ‘scale Fence’, Escape From Task Force by middlebelter(m): 8:21am On May 04, 2020
This type of pastor scaling fence is dangerous to Christianity. How can someone that is supposed to be a child of God be jumping fence like criminals? At least the church members now know the type of person their pastor is and that he's not only capable of jumping fence but will readily abandon and deny them in times of need.
Politics / Re: COVID-19 Test: Ali Modu Sheriff Tricks Health Officials, Flees To Abuja - SR by middlebelter(m): 8:09am On May 04, 2020
The Amodu Sheriff has always been on the wrong side of good things at least in the news.

It is either he is associated with the formation of the deadly Boko Haram, destruction of PDP as strong party and now spread of dangerous Covid-19? If the FGN does not find something to do about his matter, the next problem he will create maybe too difficult for them to manage. Sheriff the distributor of death.
Politics / Re: Zamfara To Osun: Planned Deportation Of Northern Youths Unlawful by middlebelter(m): 5:10pm On Apr 30, 2020
This Zamfara Gov, must be in the same category with Kogi Gov. What a problem child kind of Government? You careless allowed your citizens to flout the restrictions of movement law of another state and shamelessly attack the state for threatening to repatriate them? Has Kano not repatriated Almajeris to Kaduna, Katsina and Jigawa and vi's visa?

The arrogance of your state Government in Zamfara is stinking. A combination of ignorance, pride and stupidity. You want to continue to cause problems for other states?
Politics / Re: MURIC Says Kano Deaths Suggest Plot To Depopulate Muslims by middlebelter(m): 10:15pm On Apr 28, 2020
That Muric guy can't be a true Yoruba man. Check it out an average Yoruba Muslim is not as critical as this guy. It time the Ife people investigate his lineage.

How on earth will he bring religious bigotry to such a sensitive matter of this nature? Is he trying to allege that the dead are victims of religious attack. Why is he always looking for a way to score cheap religious point without thinking? Is he really capable of critical thinking that should be a quality of a Prof.

I am seriously doubting his Yoruba ancestry, perhaps it is time for Ife people to investigate his lineage, an average Yoruba Muslims does not subscribe to line line of reasoning. He is either not a thorough breed Yoruba or he is on the payroll of the Fulanis to distabilize the SW using religion a traitor like one other man that relocated to Ilorin many years ago.
Family / Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by middlebelter(m): 12:58am On Apr 28, 2020
Julietsim:
My husband and I have been married for almost 2 years now. He is a very good man . He is not a cheating type. The only thing is he likes sex so much that he always wants to have it everyday. I am tired. This lockdown has even increase the issue.

Please how can one cope? Is there any married lady that has experienced this. How did you handle it?

Did you not sign the contract to give him sex, why are you women like this? Once a day is too much just within two years of marriage? Don't you know that the law of marginal utility will set in with time and demand will reduce. Now sometime, I don't ask for sex from my wife in two weeks, but at the beginning of our marriage it was war. Do you know that despite not asking her every week, whenever I want sex it is still story and I keep wondering what exactly you people want?
Now you are complaining and some girls out there are wishing they have what you have. If you are careless and the guy go to taste food outside, you have yourself to blame.
Listen at age below 40men'sexual appetite are high that time women sexual drive is low. However, after age 40 when men sexual drive is diminishing, that is when women sexual drive start to increase, that explains why you see some women in their forties pursuing boys of twenties. Be guided, hold your home.

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Politics / Re: DSS Storms Residence Of Taiwo Akerele, Former Obaseki’s Chief Of Staff by middlebelter(m): 10:02am On Apr 27, 2020
Lexusgs430:
Osho strikes back..........


Is this the appropriate period, for such political grandstanding?

Our politicians braincells are filled up with expired/rotten cooked beans......

You mean to say Oshiolmole is the person that directed Obaseki's Chief of Staff to resign? What a conclusion?

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Foreign Affairs / Re: China Plans To Put 300 Million Chinese People In Africa by middlebelter(m): 11:21pm On Apr 25, 2020
WORDWORLD:


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=j84kxk8sZVs


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=x5VaBZDDSr8


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OU-4kw4V65M

Can we get like minds on this matter mobilised on this platform to contact AU to express our fear and demand a unified approach to repelling the China 's invasion. Ours may the the second generation of Nationalist Movement in Africa. I say this because we have our leaders and the Chinese Government to fight simultaneously. We can approach that man in the video to help us mobilise the likes of Aliko Dangote, Strive Masiyiwa etc to champion the cause.
Foreign Affairs / Re: China Plans To Put 300 Million Chinese People In Africa by middlebelter(m): 10:51am On Apr 25, 2020
I am very worried about this development and more worried in particular about lack of unified policy through Africa Union (AU) on Chinese migration to Africa. I considered it a great threat not only to Nigeria but to the most vulnerable countries in Africa that have fallen victim of China's Greek loan.

We are approaching another horrendous Colonialism in Africa and our leaders are blinded by greed and absolute lack of foresight to see the danger inherent in China 's policy on investment.

My take, if China must invest in Africa, migration of Chinese to Africa must be strictly restricted to expatriate with limited years of stay. If they are not comfortable with such policy from Africa, let them take their investment somewhere else. I there say, China has no alternative if we stand united as a continent on this matter. Our land and mineral resources are their targets, if we make the second mistake, it will be more costly than the first, then we will realise that Western Colonialism is a joke when compared with the brutal Chinese type.
Africa Union, ECOEAS, SABC etc over to you. Assembly best of brains in Africa and developed a format on best of ways to respond to Chinese threats.

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Career / Re: Kafayat Sanni: Nigeria's First Female Fighter Pilot (Pictures) by middlebelter(m): 9:59am On Apr 23, 2020
NigerianSage:




The other wonderful young lady is Combat helicopter pilot, Flying Officer Tolulope Arotile.

Let me look for her pics details..

That is my sister from Iffe Ijumu. Okun Yoruba somewhere in Kogi state. If you like you can be jealous.
Politics / Re: Governor Umahi Bans The Sun, Vanguard Reporters From Ebonyi Govt House For Life by middlebelter(m): 3:51am On Apr 23, 2020
densiks:

This outburst and threat of violence or life ban is a very unnecessary one from the governor.

We are in a democracy and there are legitimate means of bringing errant journalists to book if proven that they reported falsehood.


Mr.Governor, the best you can do is to ban them during your tenure, after our tenure your successor may choose to make them SSA Media or Commissioner of Information. Do you have control over what happen after our tenure. Please control your anger no matter the level of provocation.
Politics / Re: Femi Fani-Kayode: Abubakar Shekau Should Be Killed, Not Imprisoned by middlebelter(m): 4:45pm On Apr 22, 2020
I think that before the Nigerian Army kill this man, they should give Nigerians the privilege of see the fa e of the monster that has been terrorising them for a decade. They should make him tell us who are his sponsors and secret supporters in Government, the whereabout of the remaining Chibuk and Dapchi girls.
Finally make him disclose all his sources of fund so that we can have a sound learning points against future occurrence.
Politics / Re: Femi Fani-Kayode: Abubakar Shekau Should Be Killed, Not Imprisoned by middlebelter(m): 4:39pm On Apr 22, 2020
1willywilly:
Yorubas through FFK are calling for the death of Shekau.
BOKO Harem are not occupying any Yoruba Land, Why do Yorubas want them dead.
If Field Marshal Abubakar Shekau decide to strick Yoruba Land now, people please don't complain.
Bono Harams are Islamic Freedom Fighters who want to live their life and rule themselves in Islamic way.
Why are Yorubas in Nigeria Army love killing Bono Harem members that did them nothing.
To Field Marshal Abubakar Shekau , Yorubas want you dead by any means.

Rubbish! We are discussing national issues you reduce it to sectional matter. How is FFK representing Yoruba or SW? I may not agree with what he's prospposing but I tell you, this is a national matter.
Health / Re: 117 New Coronavirus Cases Reported. Total 782. 197 Discharged. 25 Deaths by middlebelter(m): 11:21am On Apr 22, 2020
ImmaculateJOE:
Damn, the shit is skyrocketing..

Breakdown according to region..

SW..........493
NC+FCT..........130
NW..........101
SS..........31
NE..........22
SE..........5

Total.........782

Congratulations to SE, please stay safe. I am worried for Kano. Lagos has a plan but hey, that Oyingbo market and entire Lagos Mainland LG should be lockdown and put under military surveillance if Lagos have to survive.

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Health / Re: Face Masks Production At Gatimo Apparel Factory In Ikeja, Lagos (video) by middlebelter(m): 3:26pm On Apr 21, 2020
SLAP44:
This is very good.

But the Aba method of mass production is a more grassroot oriented system where they are neither looking for publicity or government patronage. Those boys down there are producing on their own power, braving every challenge and getting better at everything they set their minds to.

We don't care about any government handouts. Give us a port in Ibaka, let us import raw materials and export finished goods and in 10 years, Dubai will be buying from us.

Why we commend the efforts of the Aba boys in production of face Mask, it does not in anyway belittle what this Company is doing in Ikeja. It is going to be great ting for Dubai to buy from Aba and Lagosians and perhaps other Nigerians buy from the Ikeja factory at the end of the day it is a win-win for Nigeria. Proud of both of you, we encourage healthy competition.

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Romance / Re: Her Mother Said She Can't Marry An Ebonyi Man by middlebelter(m): 1:11am On Apr 21, 2020
Young man, I call you that because I have over 10 years experience in marriage I think I am not a novice. Listen and understand the following :

You are the architect of your own fortune or misfortune, sound decision is what you need to succeed and good relationships with God.

Now as a medical student please face your study and excel, it may be difficult but you have to forget about the lady completely (at least for now). Don't allow her to play on your emotions because that can affect your performance and God forbids if you fail, she will mock you. I doubt if she deserves your love.
Ask yourself, and be very objective, what is/ are attracting me to this girl? Is it her beauty, you can get a more beautiful girl, it is her brain, you can get a more brilliant girl and perhaps is it her love for you?

When you finish your MBBS successfully, you can take your time to look for the sound attributes you desire and go for it
But to get stocked with a woman that does not love you is attempting to shake water out of a mighty Iroko tree. Don't try it you will only hurt yourself.
Marry the one who love you more than you love her and your love for that person will grow as you see her exhibits love for you.

Finally, I doubt if this girl is telling you the truth about her mother. It maybe she's targeting another man and probably has even used your money to travel to the other man's place. You can test this by asking her to allow you greet her mother.

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Politics / Re: Boko Haram Factional Leader, Abubakar Shekau, Mulls Ceasefire by middlebelter(m): 8:04pm On Apr 17, 2020
Yenefer:
Fake news shekau that I know will rader die than to consider ceasefire

Aha, so you know him!?

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Politics / Re: What Does The S/west Produce That Compares With The North? by middlebelter(m): 7:50pm On Apr 17, 2020
Nowenuse:


80% of any middlebelter you see in Yorubaland are Ebiras & Nupes. These ones are your immediate neighbors and your brothers and sisters in Islam.
Most of them don't like the idea of the Middlebelt cos it has been hijacked by the Christian tribes and we don't even want them normally cos they are just like typical Yorubas.

The remaining 15% Igalas & Idomas are connected to us, but distantly wink

How many Plateau, Nasarawa, Southern Kaduna & Taraba people live in Yorubaland?

Point of correction. Nothing concerns a typical middlebelter with Yorubas except for your Nupe, Ebira & Bariba neighbors.
Yorubas are the ones who get in my way.

Yorubas are the ones who have been crying and attacking seccesionist efforts by the Igbos. So, by the time my people fully join Igbos for seccesionist agitations, Yorubas will still be the ones crying over us.

Always looking for a way to fight the Yorubas, the tribe that has been most hospitable to your people in this country. When you repay love with hate, check it out from history it has consequences.

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Family / Re: My Wife Wants Me To Beg For Intercourse by middlebelter(m): 2:55am On Apr 17, 2020
I have been married for about 12years and I will responding from the point of my experience.

Three months after child birth through Cs is too early for you to allow a misunderstanding because of sex. Apart from the biological adjustments her body will be going through because of her condition, remember it also has some emotional impacts on her. This is a woman you love and you love her not only because of sex? So, if she's not submitting to your sexual request for now, allow her to be, breastfeeding and the healing process of the CS may be taking its toll on her.

Even after several years of marriage my wife will just simply tell me she's not in the mood and sometime when the process is on she will just decide she not doing again. On the average any man will be upset with such treatment but that is where maturity come to play and that is why people regards married men as responsible men. It takes a real man to manage a woman and not misbehaving.

I will therefore implore you to give her a break for sometime, then call her express your pain and ask her to tell you what exactly was happening then. Tell her you know that on a good day she won't behave that way but you need to understand her better so that you will know how best to relate with her. Remember you people are still in the learning stage even after 10 years, you are still learning to understand each other.

Love her, she is taking care of your baby.

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Family / Re: My Husband Threatened To Divorce Me Because Of His Friend. by middlebelter(m): 11:50pm On Apr 13, 2020
In my own opinion and based on the story you gave, that your husband's friend has no right to visit your house when his friend is nit around, why did he not call his friend before coming and what right has he to send you in errand? I am a man with well over 10years in marriage, if it were a professional body you will give me the rank of a fellow after 10 years isn't it? Listen it is either the man have no self respect, or he has no respect for your husband. I won't take it kindly with a friend that come visiting when an not around only to insist my wife go buy him recharge card. By getting angry, it shows he has a sinister motive. What if you accept to go and he latter plants strange objects in your house while you are away with the immature manner he has displayed, he is capable of wrecking havoc.

On the part on your husband, I think there are other details you choose nit to disclose. If he has self respect, he should have given you the benefits of fear hearing and doubt.

So, for the sake of peace, apologise but be very watchful and avoid the man as much as possible. If possible insist your husband should provide surveillance cameras in your house and watch his every steps whenever he comes visiting.
Politics / Re: Kwara CAN Accuses Governor AbdulRazaq Of Marginalising Christians by middlebelter(m): 9:32pm On Apr 13, 2020
Empiree:
novice. If you want to know CAN, go an read their manifesto. That's true color of CAN of worms. To hell with them and their supporters. CAN is a terrorist in disguise. Tell your security agency to go after them, ode cheesy No respect for them anymore. I have heard enough of their booshit

What is your problem, can't you make a comment without insulting people? That's is a symptom of crude background you know that?
I really wish you can come up with constructive superior arguments not use of vulgar words. Some of us feel sorry to share the same geo-political space with people like you in the 21st century.

Tell me how this present Governor is better than Bukola Saraki's candidates with people like you around him? If I should come down to your level of absurd words, It will hurt my dignity. At this point, I won't reply you anymore. I pray and hope you will learn your good lessons before it is too late.
Politics / Re: Kwara CAN Accuses Governor AbdulRazaq Of Marginalising Christians by middlebelter(m): 3:44pm On Apr 13, 2020
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Oro e lesi. Oloribu ni eyin kiriyo. You are trying to turn table, abi. You think you are talking to a fool?. Let me highlight and underlined key points from your post.

If you don't have grudges towards muslims, what made you assume everything about muslims is violence?. Ani oloribu ni kiriyo. You got the nerve to say the document was probably cooked by muslims. Is that your way of saying i should post the document or you just wanna to goon?

I will NEVER reverse my statement bcus you people are freaking trick and violence. I know you better. Oloribu lopoju ninu yin. Kwara must do everything it can to keep CAN out of Kwara or silent it. I keep saying this before things get out of hand. In Lagos and Ogun, you are so powerful that a muslim waned to pay his bill on January 2, 2020, upon getting there they locked the building on business day and perform their christian prayer outside. I know you didnt know about this but I am just giving you what i know that you dont know. This is govt building but they locked it down to pray silly prayer. This muslim man and other customers stood outside for an hr while prayer was on. He asked them what they are doing they said it is "New Year's prayer". Abeg, the one they performed in church on January 1st not enough?.. So this man wait again for another hr while they prayed. At some point he was upset and called headquarter in Marina. Guess what?. He was told at the headquarter office that all govt offices are performing New Year's prayer and therefore he must wait.


So this is democracy, abi?. This are govt offices. Why in the world they allowed kiriyo to perform prayers during business hrs while they deployed customers?. Anyways, this muslim customer said he waited for another hr and tried to use force to enter the building. It was only then they attended to him only. After that he was told that if he had not use force they would not finish until evening (about closing hrs). I can understand why nigferia is a fvked up cpuntry. Religion should be excused at workplace., especially govt buildings.

As for your last statement if my post is dangerous to democracy?. What democracy do you have in nigeria?. With everything i said, does that look democracy to you?. Instead of you to do some research about you crazy pastors what they have done in the dark back in the day but you didnt. I want you guys to request for the document and i will get it here. What you said is what a christian guy also said. He didnt believe until i posted it and then he ran away form the thread.

If you want it i will post it.


There is no room for CAN in nigeria. We must do everything to obliterate the terrorist organization called Christian Association Of Nigeria in the country. CAN was headed by RCCG at the time the manifesto was published. Adeboye knows about it very well. That old cargo. You all have lost my respect. There is no respect for any christian that disrespects islam and its prophet. Thats exactly what your pastors did in the 90s. Yet they are crying "islamisation". Listen bro, we will eventually sue CAN for that document when tension is up.

I wish I have time enough time to reply you.

You keep insulting people when you are confronted with superior arguments. No doubt, you have traits of a terrorist and I hope the appropriate security agencies will be on your case before we wrongly produce another Abubakar Shekau in Kwara state. Intolerance of your types usually graduate to terrorism.
Indeed, I have reasons to think I am making a mistake replying you but for the sake of our audience, I will state a few things here under:
The politics in Kwara has been dominated by Muslims and what CANis asking for is give us our fear share. Is it too much and you calling them names. Imagine if the table is turned around, will you be happy if Christian dominates without giving Muslims there fear share?

The Lagos and Ogun States you are referring to are still being dominated by Muslims. Bola Tinubu is a Muslim Muslim and has been deciding the Governors of Lagos, after two Muslims, because he's a democrat, he gave Christian chance. I doubt if you are really a Yorubaman, indeed I have every reason to suspect that you just happen to speak/write the language. Your disposition is more like a chronic Fulanis Muslim that want to dominate everything. An average Yoruba man does not share your sentiments.

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