₦airaland Forum

solmusdesigns:
Am glad the ghanian lecturer is in the process of sueing BBC and the blackmailing lady reporter... lets hope the case in Ghana would set a precidence on this kind of issues

PS am not a christian and i dont know what faith has got to do with a criminal allegation of sexual abuse

solmusdesigns:
yeah right typical of a woman being overly emotional and sentimental...lets be objective for once he is human, the rule book of the Prestigeous University only prohibits him from Admitted students not his church members... a man is always a man, he has feelings and shortcomings, he never claimed to be perfect like jesus christ so spare him the castigation... let he without a sin cast the first stone

Please dont pity the women in my life as the are well educated , with a retired law enforcer(state cid human traficing and women afiars department),a british trained and practicing lawyer .. and a beautiful loving post graduate sweetheart ...

as for your hope of not encountering you outside the forum... Its ok, its your choice and you perfectly have right to it,,... however there are over 7 billion people on earth so you arejust you and i am me

Fisher007:
You see that is the problem here. You think I am defending your so called Nigerian lecturers.

I am not defending them. I am just trying to say read meaning to things from both angles. Don't blame one party by outrightly shutting out the other.

But it seems , you are getting the wrong messages. I rest my case.

Shekinah.

solmusdesigns:
you clearly dont know how the mind of a man works, a good number of men would get wrong signal (green light) when a lady aproaches them directly like the reporter(a stranger who isnt his student) did... she came the first time in is church, he was a gentle man and invited her for a chit chat at his office, he made some cheesy remarks (you are beautiful) and pick up line and the lady never protested but smiled and lead him on(never walked out or telling she doesnt like what the man was talking about), he arranged more meetings and the lady came smiling and having non academic discussions with him, up to the moment he bolted his office door, offered her win and began making advances she still never said stop or anything..


if this scenerio plays out 100 time with 100 diferent men, 98 would see it as green light or oppurtunity to get the lady

Fisher007:
True I agree that the relationship is not the same but still shares similarities. It is still a choice based on your self discipline and will.

dairykidd:
What he meant is a woman who will be loyal, understanding and submissive. Not the one who will be challenging everything a man does or says like most of u are.. Imagine a girl fvcking a guy just to get at me because she believed i fvcked someone els too. How u want me to survive with that

Paulo3ree:
All levels inclusive
I will sure make a little study on it
Alright then

solmusdesigns:
thank you my brother oo, the lecturer in question was on his own when the reporter came to meet him in his church that she needed admission, is the man jamb registrar? she even came to his office 3 different times

notoriousbabe:
E no good o, make una leave lecturers alone o, where person dey work na there person dey chop o


To carry seunmomoh go cold room just dey hungry me

Shibaraba:
I also want to note one thing. They didn't pick the girls out. The girls made themselves available for their picking. If they didn't lure these lecturers they won't even look at them. Despite the fact that most lecturers are pure bred goats. They still lured them.

Fisher007:
I totally agree with your second paragraph. That self control and self discipline is key. That is why I stated in my comment that no one can force you to do what you don't want to especially if you have strong will ( Now this goes for both lecturers and students).

But your first paragraph on power dynamic not been equal is wrong. So you feel the power students have is lesser than that of the lecturers. That is where you are getting it wrong.


Infact students have more power than the lecturers. I have seen students who are strong will and who know their right that don't participate in such acts. They record, (audio and at times videos) and report such incident to their parents and authority. Why because they are the one who decide what happens?

For example, it might sound funny to use this example in this case, a woman decide who she wants to have intercourse with in the dating world. Not the man. If you think as a male because you are woeing her and giving her lavish gift made her accept you, then you are in la la la land fantasy world. She still need to accept you even if she changes her mind. The power is in her hands. She can take all your gifts and praises and still end up with someone who gave her nothing. It is the pure truth. That is why most men are always complaining that after all they gave or did for her she didn't even look at them.

I believe this same point is valued for both students and lecturers. Even if you sweet talk the students, threatening the students, or the students approach the lecturers. It is still the students that will determine what happens. It is the lecturers that have a lot too loose in terms of employment, reputation, social status, marital status, and religious status. The students have more power to destroy the lecturers especially when they are discipline, determined and know their rights.

Simple.

Ahdunns:
Yes I'm Tiv
Wow so interesting that you like it.

U ever came in contact with any yet?

Chrysz:
lol.
Shameless man I wonder how he will look his children in the eyes.

Ahdunns:
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Corrrrecttt..
Now we are vibing together


Do you by chance happen to be TIV?

salbis:
Investigative journalism that our Nigerian journalists lack.

shogsman:
Why are they making it look like it's an alien thing.

Ahdunns:
Yeah what you said is very true....

The place called church is for God's children,both the poor or the rich. But given a case scenario where someone decides to put on those tight red shorts(like ronaldo's fiance) to church be it sunday service or wedding program is somewhat un called for. We don't go to church dressed as if we're going for a music video shot naw.... Abeg try understand.

kunlegboye:
Very disgraceful!...we can't solve our problems until outsider will do it for us, ...is it that the govt and our journalist are not aware of this?

djoe21:
And you will not regret it.

wellmax:
5 minutes of pleasure, destroying people's destinies, careers, family and all they ever cherish.

heendrix:
so because she refused to go for one surgery and all what that fried thing in ur head u call brain could tell you is to break up? like seriously how old are you even? I gotta ask coz I doubt it's a mature guy speaking. you never thought about talking sense to her head but breaking up is all ur ever thinking

I think I've had enuf, you never loved this girl simple, now get lost with ur lies

Jman06:
11years old is a minor and I don't support marrying a minor.

But the message said "marry your age mate" and that is not realistically correct.

djoe21:
About being irked, not at all. Why should I be angry with someone I am trying to convince to love club football on behalf of her boyfriend?

Ahdunns:
See your mouth...
E actually make sense to dress on casuals to church?

djoe21:
I am done going through the thread, I am only replying your mentions.

About those that say such about 30+ ladies, I hardly take them serious.

Good that you agreed to implying things.