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Contact the school you want to transfer to first of all , let them know you intentions and get enquiries from them ,but I'm thinking it after 100level cause your cgpa would be parts of requirements for a transfer .good luck.

It's really simple ,you just move on and forget it never happened. I've had girls tell me they can't date me cause other girls would disturb me ,and they don't want competitions. It pains them tho ,but they feel thier hearts would get broken ,so they say no still.

So low-key , girls that do reject handsome guys are probably filled with jealousy and insecurity which most of them wouldn't tell you ,instead they just say no.

The fine boy priveledge is a real thing ,trust me ,pretty girls get to smile at you and do favours for you and almost everyone is willing to work or help you just cause they trust you instantly and that's only bcus your good looking (scientist has discovered that people generally tend to trust good looking people ,whether they know them or not ,its a phsycological thing) so guys invest in yourselves and start experiencing all kinds of attraction from the female folks and even contracts as well .

Facebook account of 6 years 4 sale for 5k ,price slightly negotiable.

Oga leave d country, barbers earn more abroad ,you could apply for working visa probably 2years den you extend it with time.

Working and studying abroad is the best option ,sending dollars to ur parents and siblings has more value than giving dem naira. Try Canada or north Cyprus or even Ukraine one of my guy dey there dey study accounting while e be working at d embassy dude earns a whole lot in a month, like 420k converted to naira, he has full access to medical health care check ups , house rent is really cheap ,food as well tho tax be collecting half of his salaries it's still far better than this shithole naija ,so dude is really balling , u could do better than him tho . Good luck my gee.

Conwarden:
Discover something you are passionate about. Turn it to a source of income. Work hard at it. Perseverance is key. You will make it with time.

Incase you are tempted to delve into fraud for fast cash:





Life sentence for all scammers . . . including paternity fraudsters!

Ogaa aspire to Maguire, no be today boys dey follow all this kind talk ,hard work na scam.

Imagine someone spending somebody's annual salary in one day omo .

The country system dey f up seriously, all d hard work and you can't even buy a Corolla 07 .
That's why boys dey bomb ,even d bombing ma self no easy but wetin man go do ?

Oga all this crap just to straff babe. Nawa o

Listen fellas all you need is a clean apartment with perfect serenity, TV or laptop to see movies or som
Red wine ,every girl loves red wine, eat with her ,talk with her ,from d talking just keep quiet all of a sudden and give her dat serious look den make your move lobatan. :

Apply for schools that admission cut off mark starts from 150 ,Don't waste ur time since your score is 179 and d school cut is 180 they won't pick you.

Ogaa lash am jare ,nothing dey but make sure say u use better CD and Don't forget to keep am on d low.

TMTR:
I wish I can like your comment more than once , you understand perfectly what I am trying to say. I used to be very religious till I discovered how the religion that I was practicing was brought to Africa and how those who brought it committed all manner of atrocities against Africans contrary to what was thought in the bible , that was how I started losing interest till I finally lost interest in anything concerning religion...

Like you I also think that there is a higher being behind this world and all living things cause if you study this world and it's components, you will know it's too complicated to have come by chance, there is someone behind it all but I doubt that higher force is how it was described by religion. I mean look at the white today after using it to conquer Africa, steal her resources to develop their societies, they don't give a shit about religion anymore which points to the fact that religion is just a tool or let me say one of the tools used by them to conquer Africa and ditched it after achieving their aim but it's sad and pathetic that it's the same Africans that practice this religion with everything they have got and you wonder why Africa is still under developed and a shithole

Yeah bro your a very good critical thinker, keep up the good work.

During the era of slavery it was really unfortunate what was being done to our fore father's, the torture, the deep rooted racism, the unnecessary hate ,the abuse of our women and children and worst were men ,they saw men as competitions so they chained them.


To say these people brought about Christianity, to me personally sounds like an antic they used to deceive and fool us ,u see Africans are really strong people physically ,they knew this ,they studied us and played a fast one on our intelligence ,they were superior . They had the higher IQ we Africans were marveled at their ways hence the trick they played on us. My point here is, If Christianity is truly a religion of peace why did the whites steal out deities and traditions and blackmailed us ,thought theft is against the bible lol ,it a whole lot of confusion ,every thing they preached against in d bible they did it to us Africans , the concept about the bible is funny fr. Truth be told these white people had intellectuals who explored various nations, just so they could have better a developed country Nd yeah they achieved their goal, how many of them u know be carrying religions on their head till this day ,so they sold us lies and it crazy we Africans are still in it today .


Me I don't do religion I just beliv there s an higher force that's higher and supernatural supreme to humans .i don't even be doing all this gospel songs, I just say a little prayer and smoke some Az.

Sometimes women think They re doing men a favour by just talking to them ,some are so full of themselves they b acting like d only woman in the world .

My advice is dump her and move on ,don't be under pressure to settle down and even if people are putting u under pressure understand that's when d marriage starts having faults these people won't b there so be wise in your dealings, don't let anybody rush you.

And one thing I know very well about love is that you can't find it ,it finds you ,so Don't chase women for marriages just go with the flow and trust me you would know d one for you when she comes .for now continue to build your business and also work on ur growth as an individual .GL

You would never know till you try tho ,so whether she says yes or no life goes on.

And if you gonna ask her to be ur girl pls and pls don't text her or call , she wouldn't take u serious, just take her out ,make her comfortable ,give her d sense of protection, make her enjoy, make her laugh and then pop d question.

Ogbeni OP, as a retired Yoruba demon I would advice , breaking a good girls heart ain't that hard, first off shower her with love and affection make her fall in love the deepest way ,make her obsess about you ,give her all the attention buy her gifts and show her off, after she don fall very well ,start your madness
Stop picking her calls
Ignore her messages and reply only once in a while
Get anoda girl ,show d girl off
Say something mean to her and cut her off
Lets her cry ties of blood .
Stay wicked my gee these bitches deserve it.

Lilsameey:
,..So he is not the best, Aye e ti ta pao, bi popcorn

Boss just ignore those ones jare.

Victerica:
Mhen, I think, I'm scared of women especially the Nigerian versions.

I'm even scared of been friends with them.

I don't understand them.

God, please help me to understand them.

Bro it's somewhat kinda depressing, cus u would think u have met d gal of your dreams then boom, she would start her madness .

HRHQueenPhil:
Nigerian women are the best to date and marry...the issue is u pick the wrong woman...they are like watermelon, if u no sabi pick..u will choose the unripe and be pissed off
The secret to choosing a good woman is not to waste her time fvcking ...if u don't have money to marry her, Remain only friends ..if she agrees, u can do friends with benefits therefore she is not tied down and u are not

Nah bro you are missing the whole point here, ok let's assume u think you've married the right woman and all of a sudden she starts sleeping outside ,starts nagging , start calling u names and starts all sorts of things that gives u headache ,how would u feel ? Stressed right dats what I'm trynna preach here .

BENRAZY:
Wahala for who no d single, brother man op watin fit vagina people na to f***ck them and move to the next one, no strings attached

Na wetin I go dey now be dat ,cuz d stress done dey too much

Beebah2000:
this op thread, e get as e be ooo

Mr MikeofKd please leave Nigerian girls alone.
After Una don flex finish, Una wan end up with good girls. E no go work
Please leave Nigerian girls alone, go and date white girls.

Flex wetin ? Bia tell your fellow creatures to stop stressing men ,Biko.

chatinent:
Leave her old man outta this. That slang is very offensive even if brainless comedians use it.

If you mean in a roof, it's very wrong.


Baba, whether they will be interested if they graduate or not, I cannot sponsor a girl in a University...unless a wife, sister, or charity.

What works:
In my religion, we place huge emphasis on dating when one is ready for marriage. We also shun premarital sex!

So what I'll do is this. If I am ready to marry in... let's say some months, a year, or couples of years, I will begin to date now.

The girl in question knows I am not interested in sex or all whatnot.

You know why I place must value on morals? Because the world has lost it.

If you aren't principled, an honest five-minute fun can ruin your life forever.


Yes, the “edition” of girlfriends nowadays are nothing to write home about. Meanwhile, I put it to you; there are still nice ladies out there.

We could stop looking for outer appearance while choosing a mate. It is not the primary thing to look for. You may like a very beautiful shoe in a shoe shop and it wouldn't still fit you. Would you buy it just because you love it? Sth that is practically useless?

How about buying a car?
The physical appearance doesn't always say the car is good! 504 that is working is still better than a died Benz.

What is killing us is our hunger for what pleases the eyes more: fine face, big this, elaborated that...that we often forget compatibility! What's the miscibility between you both? Have you checked if she is spiritually, financially, and medically compatible?

Some think it is not important because they are only there for the fun...to be with that person for the trophies, gossips amongst friends, or count scores.


Dating should be a stepping stone to marriage!

Action Plan:
• Date next time when you are ready for marriage. Then, you will be very ready to tell if sb will make a wife from the very moment of your date.
• Steer clear of premarital sex.
• Look beyond physical features. Beauty fades. Hips depreciate. Boobs go still look toe one day...but a good character appreciates.
• Do a compatibility test.
• Don't plunge into dating or marriage because everyone is doing it.
• Take your time and choose wisely.
• Being single is also normal. Don't see it as a sickness.
• Avoid what friends say. Build on yourself first on how to become a good husband and father.
• You should treat your girlfriend the way you treat your siblings. If it is not working that way, there is a problem.
• Pray. Why? Yes, pray.


You are welcome.

Thanks man very insightful. Big ups to you

Good day Nlanders ,Mhen I just broke up of recent ,me and my ex had a good thing going but all of a sudden she started changing from bad to worse ,a heated arguement lead to our breakup and its crazy cause i had a lil business to do with one lady like dat ,dis lady was much more older than me and man dis was strictly business no strings attached but my ex got mad saying ive been cheating on her all these while bla bla bla , well to be very honest I no too send her papa like dat rn, but yeah I realised I'm not alone in all these ,few days ago a friend of mine hit me up complainng heavily bout his babe well they just broke up too after 2 years of dating and staying together ,my friend did everything for her but she too changed all of a sudden and I've been seeing peoples post on Nairaland as well , were guys complain heavily about thier girlfriends mischievous attitudes ,from promiscuous behaviour to awkward attributes and all crazy things they be doing .

So I'm asking why are Nigerian girls really stressful to date ? It's like they are so confused they see white and know its white but they would rather die than say it's white and then call it yellow ,like wdf do these Nigerian girls wants ? what can really keep them ? cause money is not enough reasons for them to stay and if they do when the money finishes they are gone like the wind , loving and caring isn't enough, nothing is actually enough for Nigerian girls to want to stay with you through trying times , I've had a few decent girls in the past but these days with what am seeing, decent girls has finished totally it's now useless girls with fish brains up and down everywhere now . Local man cannot can .
Tbvh it's really stressful dating Nigerian girls sigh .


And guys please I'm pleading with y'all do away with drama queens ,they bring quarrels outta nothing ,like I remember one time I had a female friend we use to vibe very well and all but then I realised she started getting jealous and angry when she sees me around other girls ,ok so I asked her out so she could at least stop getting angry at me but she said she cant date me so then I asked why she was always getting angry at me at for chilling with other girls and she started yelling at me calling me all sorts of names and all ,well that was the last I spoke with her ,she came begging but nah I wasnt having any of it ,idk Why Nigerian girls are hell bent on giving a nigga sleepless nights with lots and lots of emotional trauma ,Mhen it ain't really easy ,with the the rate of which girls are going wayward now ,mans so stressed out cause you can't even find a decent girl to marry or date now ,it's crazy Mhen. What you wanna talk about ? Is it their unfaithfulness ,sending men to their early graves cause of paternity fraud or a man sending them to uni only for dem to graduate and say they are no longer interested ,seriously man it's crazy.

May God help every nigga out there get a decent wife cause one good girl is worth a thousand bitches they say , but you hardly find a good girl these days ,make God help us all Amen.

Sipping booze rn cause man I don tire ,I can't take it anymore .

Hahaha to all the guys here always shouting ,just make money and girls would flock around you hope y'all learn from this ,once ur money finishes you are finished d babes go japa. Lol I can't stop laughing : [center][/center]

Only mentally deranged people feel like If they don't make a 2.1 or first class they can't make it life, wole soyinka graduated with a 2.2 or less sef , look at the man today , it's not by grades ,u could build yourself in a good way that would make employers rush you ,it all about what up stairs not what on paper ,so embrace your 2.2 op and continue moving forward in life.


Learn a lucrative skill , hustle up to have multiple sources of income ,save and save again , invest , re invest , take calculated risks , read Forbes magazines, think of business ideas , think of ways to solve people's problem and get heavily paid in return, grab chances ,scout for opportunities, embrace gratitude ,let go of pride ,think outside the box and most of all be close to God ,that the only way you could achieve ur dreams faster .

ACM means air craft man , he isn't in the army, he is an air force personnel ,well may his gentle soul rest in peace .

These Mumu people shouting money money up and down ,is Bill Gates poor ? or Jeff Bezos ? what happened to their wives ? Dangote has been divorced up to 4 times now , you think money would keep a woman ? i pity y'all with the mentality that it only money women want.

Money is an important factor yes ,but u can't use it to get just any woman to like you and even if they do, it only fake and as soon as d money finishes they are gone like the wind . Argue with ur keypads I'm talking facts here . Low esteemed insecurity pple only thinks it money women want. Y'all chasing hungry girls then come here to spew trash. Ogbeni chase women wey get money and class already, if she Bill u make I know wetin cus am.

I've dated girls when I was dead broke cus I was attractive enough for girls to want to be around me, I didn't need to spend money on people's daughter and they appreciated my time and effort I put into d relationship that's all they even spent and bought gifts for me without asking . Change ur mentality abeg it really annoying ,if you're ugly stop using money to console ur ugly ass ,girl wey go love u go still love u ,money or no money.

Oga first of all whenever u indulge in d act ,stop feeling guilt ,d more guilt u feel, d more u would indulge in it.
If you truly want to stop it ,acknowledge the fact that uve been doin dis act and u truly wish to stop it . don't mind pple bashing u ,No body holy for this life.

Take your time, all the time you need
Start trying to see a bigger picture something above masturbation
Start chasing a goal or a dream , picture yourself in a benz with the finest chick on campus and picture urself with a hand on your dick strokin it to a beautify girls pics , now compare both, which one do u truly desire .
Make money moves and have real sex there s no amount of soapy that is as cool as smashing a pretty babe think about it .
Work on yourself , like I said earlier see d bigger picture.

Lastly don't pressurize urself, take all the time u need to stop the act ,trust me if u follow this steps , u gonna be a big boy and when you re a big boy , u would feel too big to indulge in the act
Good luck my nigga.

And don't forget to talk to God tell him about all ur worries ,he cares trust me.

JBoss25:
We know your body count is 0 stop all these lies jor

Lol I've lost count

People just bring problems to themselves , u no say u no sabi drive ,u go dey drive person motor ,if u ain't gat it , u ain't gat it ,hope d babe or people he wan impress sha no see am crash d benz, cus dem go laugh am die ,Mumu guy.

Having plenty money
Smoking AZ ,loud and crack
Swimming in my girls tight pussy
Poping molly ,Codeine and sprite or fanta
Listening to loud songs with badass speakers like jbl in my room with only blue bulbs on and sipping henny
Solving maths problems
Reading good novels
Watching football ,wrestling ,movies etc
Giving my niggas update
Gisting my niggas bout how I smashed dat new pretty babe on campus
Eating good foods
Vibing alone with my babe
Chilling with my niggas
Making money moves
Being quiet and spending time alone
Meditating .
Praying to God for protection ,cause many men trying to send a nigga to d Lord
Eating pizza and drinking bullet with coke.
Going shoe shopping, I've gat a thing for shoes and wristwatches and cologne as well.

U and your girlfriend don't have sense.

Ogaa , first of all that bitch ain't ya girlfriend ,she's playing ya ass and youre obviously too dumb to realise . She blocked your ass and you are in your feelings lol ,block her too ass too jare no time . See OP focus on your life goals ,women are not running ,stop trying 2 impress women and live ur life ,those creatures are confused especially dis generation women ,zero endurance, zero intelligence, zero dignity, zero virtue, abeg na Mumu dey worry about woman for this generation

There say it is lonely at the top ,when money is overly excessive (too too much) it plays down on a person's mental health cause at this point you've done so much with money you don't know what else to do with it anymore ,she had a nice plan going on already but her mental health was Def imbalanced.

I've made the kinda money dat made me so so quiet and introverted, I felt different from everyone d money was so much I felt like a god ,but I'm just human ,thank God for his mercies and intervention ,money would give u some kinda moral you won't want to associate with some certain sets of people anymore, friends family inclusive ,money is good no doubt but it really isn't everything . Just pray for d kinda money dat would make U and ur family extremely comfortable ,eating wat u want ,traveling any where u want ,doing things u want ,but when it overly excessive, you probably wouldn't be able to sleep nor even go out or something , a certain type of fear grips u and makes u very uncomfortable cus u be thinking everybody probably wants to rob you or something .


That why d bible says a poor man is better off than a rich man ,cause most people Do not care about a poor man and he has complete peace of mind ,but a rich man , everyone gat their eyes on him one small f up and probably might lose his life . And trust me most rich men don't have peace of mind ,most of them wish they could buy it . They fear being robbed (might lose their lives at this point) ,they fear being kidnapped (might also take thier lives) they fear going bankrupt (nobody wants to fall from grace to grass it kinda suicidal) they fear that their lives are always on the line cus of these factors hence no peace of mind .

Use him for ritual sharp sharp thank me later.