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Was back den wen I was still in school , I guess 100 level ,I used to talk 2 one girl and then we had a really hot argument and all ,then one day like two of her friends just popped outta nowhere and they seriously wanted to fight me ,yelling and calling me names , I was like haa.
They were lucky I don’t fight girls , Dey for don collect cus I knew black bra members on campus wey I fit call for them , but I just let it slide there’s no sense in violence.

Colorado is the best tho , smoking na grade by grade sha ,I started out with Mali kush then AZ then loud now i’m cruising on colo.
But know ur limit tho , before u f up your life. Live smart ,stay safe

Damn niggaa. Mans steady high on loud and vodka these days , knacking some people’s serious girlfriends. All thanks to the cool weather.

Lol females would hate you for doing these things mentioned here , confused gender wey Dey always prefer guys wey Dey beat dem over gentle nice men .

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luminouz:
Bro, please what about my case?

I'm 53, just managing and without two masters degrees, just an OND. I haven't eaten well for two good days. I have two torn shirts and two faded trousers! Sometimes, I feel like just killing myself!! Is it still possible to get these high class girls you talk of?

Is there still hope for me?

Well sir to be very honest age really as nothing to do with success , only you can motivate yourself sir ,change is hard but all you have to do is picture yourself, it’s more like fantasies but this time very realistic , it ain’t too late sir to become what you truly desire .

At your age the kind of women you need are the likes of Alakija ,Alison Madueke etc
Just work hard and motivate yourself.

Attracting these high league babes isn’t really that stressful as some of you portray here ,all you’ve gat to do is be highly educated ,get a degree ,at least two masters degree as well, get fit ,b confident , socialize very well , become attractive ,prob work in diaspora ,make a lot of money and you start attracting them outta the blues.

Truth is these high league babes would only come for guys above their leagues tbh , so work on yourself , imagine driving a RR wraith at age 29 and owning a mad crib at Banana island even President daughter go Dey disturb you .

never go back to ur ex no matter how special she was , I used to think my ex was really special until we broke up and I started seeing other girls that were more special than her by far ,and I didn’t even force it tho , they just came naturally .

Better just move on. Explore other multiple options. And don’t b desperate cause only den u won’t find wat ur looking for , just let love come to you ,don’t force it.

Man has probably invested a lot in that girls life , prob giving her his time and affection even his money as well . D issue with women is that they know they can’t date you but would lead you on ,I’ve had girls call me the sweetest names and even done the sweetest things for me but no they can’t date me ,it’s really frustrating at times , so I understand very well wat the guy Is feeling .


Baba should just let it go , better ones would find him eventually. Him no need all these ones wey him Dey do , Make him just go smoke loud or AZ ,him go laugh about the matter wen the market don enta him system wella.

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If you go back to school it just mostly 4 or 5 years ,well whether you choose to go or not the 4or 5 years would still pass ,so it’s your decision Bro ,choose wisely.

A faceless forum right ? which means there’s a great percentage of people here lying to be who they are not or potray the characters they wish to ascertain in real life . The lifestyle some people potray here is totally the direct opposite of what they truly are , behind some redpill gangs I see real simps that don’t practice what they preach , behind some of them feminists that complain about men and shout men are scum all the time I see their crave for a man ,to start a family ,to have kids and companionship .

They are few OGs here who I respect for keeping it real and not faking or sugar coating anything ,they plain real . But what makes nairaland intersting is the lies and deceit cause it a faceless forum , so it practically the best place to live the life you’ve always wished to have.

No lies when I started nairaland I started fake ,told lies just to boost my lil self esteem and it did work yeah it worked ,but how ?

I hyped myself here , and every time I came across some of my post ,I realized it did challenge me to live the lies I was telling , yeah , I went hard for everything I lied about Here and now Somehow I’ve boosted my confidence ,killed the low self esteem I had those years and I’ve achieved the lies I did tell here .

So my advice to everyone telling lies here is to not only tell lies ,but work hard to achieve these lies they tell here , it’s a funny kinda form of motivation ,it’s like putting something out there in the universe and believing you would achieve it . You lied bout having a car but you don’t own a car in real life , you’ve told the lie already so why don’t you just work towards having it so it becomes the truth .

Don’t just tell lies and live a fake lifestyle here ,work towards that lie and lifestyle and make sure you live it , if it a thing about fear then face ur fears , if you put your minds to it then it yours already. The forum should be a place for you to put out goals and achieve them because you have to prove to yourself that those lies you told about how almost perfect you are or the materialistic things you lied you have must become the truth someday.

I have a Bentley (this is a lie) but watch me buy one someday ,challenge on already .some day i would look back at this post in my Bentley and smile .

100 level was staying with 9 guys in a 2bedroom flat ,was all fun cause we bin just enta school den ,everybody Dey form baller ,until sapa use our eyes see shege , well sha we all had money but everybody Dey disguise normal ,funny how everyone started displaying their true colors after one month then fight began ,everyday drama ,i was lucky enough to have diff girls bring food for me sha na part of d things wey bin giv man joy ,after dat one year everybody japa ,landlord sef use our eyes see ,Baba Dey give us quit notice everyday say we don turn Him house to strip club lol ,but one thing wey bin give us joy na weed and women ,we Dey bombo inside house Dey straff babes ,d 9 of us were chronic womanizers we all brought at least not less than 100 girls in dat house dat year ,almost everyday different chicks Dey show, we’ve all calm down now
Sha

school life was fun and filled with dramas.

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If she smiles at you
If she’s obviously nervous around you
If you catch her looking at you and she removes her gaze fast
If she walks around you
If she keeps looking at you for no reason with a kind like serious facial expression
When she’s her friends and all start looking at you except her
If she asks you to hang out
If she doesn’t bill you too much �

Be fun and focused
Try balancing your academics and social life
You can start skipping lectures when ur course load reduces but never skip lectures as a fresher
100 lvl is where your cgpa foundation begins
Try to make a first class for the first two semesters cus other level gon become tougher
So even if ur cgpa drops u won’t feel it dat much and u can get back on track better
Don’t stress yourself about women too much .theres plenty of time and plenty of them too ,just be valuable ,they would rush you when it’s time
Respect all ur lecturers and be punctual
Dress well ,smell good ,be neat and organized ,mind ur business it saves a lot.
Be closer to God
Don’t join bad gang ,be ur own bad gang
There’s much but these ones would do
Good luck

Integrity1992:
Can I know more about it, I am interested.

Yeah drop your number
Pls note depending on preferred location houses in Abuja are quite expensive

BoredBerry:
Thank you... Ofcourse... Depends on the location... I'm in abuja... I need somewhere close to gwagalada...

Oops sorry I don’t live close to gwags

BoredBerry:
I would love to leave... I'm 19... Anyone who would like to share an apartment? Abuja...

I stay in abj, I can accommodate you but you gotta pay tho

Op you should probably visit a Pastor or som ,traumatic events like this can only be forgotten through God's intervention.

Time heals ,move to a new place to avoid bad memories.

Dude giving them the underwear is going to damage your reputation there's no explanation you can give them , they would drag you like mad ni [quote][/quote][color=#000099][/color],just dump it far away from your house and forget about the case.

Ten things that makes women attracted to you
1. Confidence :high level of confidence in any man can get him his mother's age mate to bed, I.e if wants tho, confidence is really sexy and daring and no woman can resist it. No woman I repeat.

2.Money :now don't get me wrong. I'm not one of the ppl that would say you can only use money to attract women ,having money has a man is sexy as hell, living comfortable, driving a car ,having a high paying job and all ,don't use money to attract women tho, but make sure you have it. Having money so you can basically take very good care of yourself. Money also exposes you to some really influential pple if u know ur way tho.

3. Having a career: when a woman knows you have a career it speaks volumes, they love it so much ,when a man is working and busy with his career , he is extremely sexy in the eyes of women.

4: Having sense of humour : Having the ability to make women laugh can actually get them on your bed as a man asap, I can't stress this enough ,just make women laugh very hard and they would lose their panties and their senses.

5. Handsomeness: to be very honest no woman alive doesn't fancy an handsome man ,when a man is handsome different women would paint pictures of she and the handsome dude in her head, wishing they can have him, the fine boy priveledge also helps alot ,pple tend to trust you even without fully knowing you, girls would stare at you like say tommorow no dey, some would even shoot thier shot lol , but being handsome also comes with some disadvantages as well ,but not when it comes to women.

6. Being sophisticated : truth is women love stylish men, men that stands out when it comes to dressing.
As a man make sure you have some very nice shoes , a nice wrist watch collection ,nice suits and jackets ,clean boxers and all. Also having nice taste in things like auto mobiles ,gadgets, colognes etc.

7. General hygiene and proper groming: every woman loves men that takes good care of themselves, when you take good care of yourself ,women believe you can take care of them as well. So it a big win.

8.Education :you don't have to have a phd no, being educated ain't only about books ,it also about how you behave to people ,your character, your beliefs ,how to engage in arguements without appearing rude ,etiquettes ,understanding that women are crazy sometimes but only patience and wisdom can help you cope with them etc

9.Good communication skills: women love men they can easily open up to ,most times women tend to get too emotional ,having a man that his ready to listen is something every woman loves in a man.

10.: being protective : women love men that can protect them ,that's more of the reasons they go for bad boys ,women on most occasions can't defend themselves, a good example is Jada pinkett , she couldn't even confront Chris rock her self but when Will Smith gave Chris a slap ,she felt like a Queen at that moment. This isn't a simp behaviour there s nothing wrong in defending your woman in public when somebody crosses the line. It a gentlemans trait.

There s also nothing wrong in opening a door for a woman ,or pulling a chair for her to sit. These things don't make you a simp, being overly clingy and acting like you can't breath without a woman is what makes you a simp. Also spending money like a fool to impress a woman is a simp behaviour .

Give your mother money more often than your woman. A mother's prayer and sacrifice cannot be bought but do well in making sure your mom barely lacks anything ,if your woman isn't cool with this dump her ass.

There more but mhen hand dey pain me.

Shalommy:
They should learn handwork. Who school help for naija?. Bubu didn't go to school and yet he's a president. Chaii.. Naija na my country!

Some of you amaze me with your dumbness at times ,who told you Buhari didn't go to school ode, someone that finished from NDA Nigerian defence academy ,and was one time head of state. U just open ur mouth whoa Mumu.

If u don't go to school and map out ur future ,learn hand work, learn hand work , when the Nigerian economy finally cripples and your hand work can't even meet up with the bills that when you would realise education is important for better planning of the future.

I understand how u feel op ,most times beards all bout genetics ,but say no more cause all you have to do is

Buy minoxidii( for beard growth )from jumia and apply it on the surface you want your beards to grow ,do this morning and night for like 4 month str8 and you would begin to see positive changes.

Also you could use natural aloe Vera, use it mostly at night for like 6month ,I promise you more than a goatee.

Mhen this man u coach is a pussy ass nigga , why u starting H.maguire , and Bailey dey for bench, instead make he use Mata for wing Commot Rashford ,cavani no even dey for bench Mhen wtf really.

MannieA:
I guess he couldn't see that I'm one in a million but it's okay.. hmmm
The relationship made me believe that some guys don't like good women..but that won't stop me from being who I am. I wouldn't change to a bad person because of anyone.

Sorry ,is your is name Elizabeth?

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Bro my advise is clear and simple ,just move on forget it ever happened and cut ties with her. These things happen it's not new ,I don't know ur aspirations or goals but just focus on them now and invest in yourself ,the right woman would pop up when u least expect it.

And have emotional intelligence please if the said lady comes back ,don't let her in your life anymore.

Congrats man , las las na who plan well go enjoy pass
,so make sure your plans are correct ones, no self limitation. Bigger heights man.

Don't mind them guys trolling you, it's a normal ting here on NL. Just enjoy ya self.

Guy it's really simple gets rid of porn and anytin that turns u on basically, track your progress as well , count the weeks you stay celibate, like week one , week two etc continue the progress .

And whenever you wanna relapse ,Remember that the benefits of celibacy is one in a lifetime energy. Your skin glows differently ,you start attracting girls ,your confidence and self awareness increases and plenty more , think of all these benefits. Plus u don't feel the guilt of masturbation at all.

An 8 years old child ain't even a kid no more and that how long you've been doing it ,time to stop and reflect.
Think about your life very well . Stay out your comfort zone. It's really you against you.
It's nobodies business whether you continue or not ,but your gonna keep hating yourself more and more.

Turn to Christ, ask for help, only Jesus can help a man truly. Pray with all your heart. Good luck bro.

It's mostly grace bro ,I know people who their body count is higher than Lionel messi goals and they are doing very well in all spheres of life.

While it's the opposite for some. Different strokes for different folks. Everyone's Destiny is different I guess.
More reason you shouldn't copy everything or everyone you see. Some ppl can sleep with 100 girls and thier Destiny would still be very intact ,while some might sleep with just one and it's all over for that person ,except God intervenes.

Plus the girls are soaked in insecurities whenever they see you with anoda chick.

On campus I've got to hide sometimes and move low-key, it's crazy af , if you walk with a random girl everyone starts saying u guys are dating Omo.

Not to brag I've had so many girls throw themselves at me and when I don't reciprocate they get really mad and angry. Some go as far as calling my mum to tell her she's the latest mother in law in town, they can't wait to see her bla bla bla , sometimes I feel it a curse and sometimes a blessing as well.
If you don't talk ,they label you proud ,
If you dress well , they would stare at you like say na u kill Jesus.
Man it really tiring tbh.

Man just want to live life without so much attention ,everyday strangers , men , women ,girls even children stare at you like damn ,Mhen I don tire.

But you've gat to be careful when your attractive cause these girls can do insane things to have your attention.
I know some that have tried with all sorts of voodoo spells ,good thing I have a spiritual father that tells me most of these things ,and the way he describes them I just know them instantly and stay far away from them . Y'all gatto stay careful when it comes to women.
Peace out.

Smoke more aza
Read more books on wisdom
Get brain from pretty girls dat are academic scholars
Hustle smart
No too much talking
If no b money you call me for ,I go block ur papa
Zero chills
Live fast
Bleep more foreign girls, dem plenty for Benin Republic and Ghana girls as well.
Make more millions
Dey on soft
Buy one small benz, c300 preferably.
Mind my business
Start a business
Expand my business
If millions enter my account, I no go let anybody know
Surprise mama with a land and a corrolla insha Allah
Move my popsi to a nice apartment, where e go dey knack fresh toto dey cancel bottles errday cus him just retire ,he deserves it ,My popsi na my OG .
Never fall in love with Nigerian girls ,stay wicked.
Date only pretty foreign girls
Round up school, snub NYSC
Fly outta this shithole country.
Run a masters degree abroad .
Marry a white girl and settle down ,mans gatto secure dat green card .

No small dreams .
Respectfully.