Mindlog's Posts

Nairaland Forum › Mindlog's Profile › Mindlog's Posts

1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 ... 213 214 215 216 217 218 219 220 221 (of 492 pages)

Family › Re: How Do I Handle My Hyper-active Daughter, She's Barely 3years by Mindlog: 3:08pm On Jul 02, 2023

Lovelyn451:
don't even know what to do, I put her chair BTW my legs until she's done eating, hold her head down so she can finish writing her homework, she sits with me in the kitchen while cooking, I just keep sending her to bring one thing or the other,yesterday I kept yelling dont do this, dont go there until i got so exhausted and slept off, babe turned the house to swimming pool....

Is she also hyperactive in school?

Has her teacher complained of disruptive behaviour in class?

Have you ever brought that up with the doctor you take her to whenever she is sick?

Of these three, which does she exhibit more: hyperactiviness, inattentiveness (struggles with concentration) and impulsiveness?

1 Like

Travel › Re: Nigerian Man Battles Australian Immigration Over Seized Foods & Custard (video) by Mindlog: 2:34pm On Jul 02, 2023

ghettochild:
I think he asked them a question if it was because he was black and Nigerian.. she answered in the affirmative..
So what do u make of that

Re-watch it, she didn't affirm.

A longer video, showed the guy got so agitated, the federal police got involved and cautioned him, also had to be frisked. The supervisor and more staff got involved and all his ground egusi, ogbono, custard etc tested in their machine and they were cleared of any narcotics, it was given back to him and he quietly packed them back and trolleyed away.

Being calm while going through such process does not cost anything, instead of insinuating racism, discrimination etc....abi no only Nigerians customs, biosecurity officers they search their luggage.

Even some who courier drugs behave agitated, claiming victimization until the narcotics are exposed.

Family › Re: How Do I Handle My Hyper-active Daughter, She's Barely 3years by Mindlog: 1:56pm On Jul 02, 2023*

Lovelyn451:
Same as my daughter o, and the environment isn't safe too, she's in school,even her teachers dey hear am, she's intelligent, understanding is 💯% but focusing is the problem

What have you done to help her focus better?

Family › Re: How Do I Handle My Hyper-active Daughter, She's Barely 3years by Mindlog: 1:55pm On Jul 02, 2023

Gajagojo:
Take a look at this

https://psychology-tools.com/test/vadrs-vanderbilt-adhd-diagnostic-rating-scale

Nice but you know it can not be used for a diagnosis by him.

Politics › Re: The North Should Support Goodluck Jonathan In The 2027 Elections by Mindlog: 1:46pm On Jul 02, 2023

Laughing..... cheesy

Travel › Re: Nigerian Man Battles Australian Immigration Over Seized Foods & Custard (video) by Mindlog: 1:18pm On Jul 02, 2023

ghettochild:
What's is wrong in carrying a Carton or a 1 tin of beverages?
And then to avoid the cumbersomeness in carrying..u transfer the item into a plastic bag??

I had flown with a carton of Dudu Osun of about 8kg in my luggage and I had no issues at the arriving airport. Travelers must read and know what airports they intend using accepts and does not accept.. Is like flying with the African butter pear (the igbos call ube) well wrapped into Australia and it get seized and thrashed, the Nigeria is screaming racism and discrimination despite the fact the Australian Border Force had already stated what can and cannot be brought in, for those that can be brought in, how it should be brought.

One can easily sort the Nigerian airport officials when departing, know the rules of where you are arriving.

Travel › Re: Nigerian Man Battles Australian Immigration Over Seized Foods & Custard (video) by Mindlog: 1:03pm On Jul 02, 2023

Originalsly:
Really? Why would you support the Customs to overstep their duty and treat a fellow Nigerian differently? It is because of people like you that they treat us differently.... people who don't stand up for their rights.
Is someone not allowed to pass with something sold in Australian stores? Must a product be in the original container showing content for Customs to know what it is? She has absolutely no right to confiscate his stuff.... on what grounds? Is it prohibited? If she believes it was not oatmeal ... then she should have it tested but she did not The man did the correct thing ... demand to speak to a supervisor... one has to make himself available.... and I'm sure he will be apologizing for fear of a law suit. Most likely that Customs officer will be removed.

Who really is the trouble maker?

That is not the custom but the biosecurity officer.

The product is custard and when did custard become an indigenous Nigerian food, that he was talking about Nigerian food not being allowed in?

You are bringing in food product that had commercial packaging, with the label of the country of origin, date of production and expiration and most importantly the ingredients, look at the size of the product in question, how bulky was the package that it has to be removed to enter his luggage or reduce its weight, if he must have to travel all the way from Nigeria to Australia with custard?

I fly through some European airports regularly and I have not been disrespected after following their dos and don'ts, so there have not been any need to create a scene to show that I am standing up for my rights.

The biosecurity supervisor making himself/herself available to the Nigerian, is a no big deal because that is part of his/her job description.

They can only fear law suit when they know they deviated from their operational stipulated procedures.

I also do work with disruptive adolescents here in England, they regularly raise their voices and threatening to get me sued for following operational procedures that don't suit them and I DON'T GET BOTHERED A BIT because when the department and external regulatory agency do their reviews, I am not found wanting.

Travel › Re: Nigerian Man Battles Australian Immigration Over Seized Foods & Custard (video) by Mindlog: 11:30am On Jul 02, 2023

ghettochild:
Now read ur write up. I was actually expecting ur response mentioning nahco.
So for 1 Carton or 1 tin of Custard..
One has to cargo it..
Mumu..
So when u visit home n on ur return u will cargo just 1 Carton or noodles
Ode oshi. Ori e ti daru

Mention of NAHCO, shows Nigeria shops in SA do sell Nigeria made noodles.

Why should I cargo Nigeria made noodles or custard when they are sold in many Nigeria/African shops all over the UK?

As for the bolded, I also do work in psychiatry and I get paid to hear such in different languages.....so I will pass you as one though without being paid. cheesy

1 Like

Family › Re: What Personal Reasons Do You Have Against Polygamy? by Mindlog: 11:21am On Jul 02, 2023*

Houseontherock1:
49.47% of the population of Nigeria is female, leaving 50.53% male population. Why then do we need polygamy when we have more men, or let's just say enough men to go round? No woman like sharing their man. Even the Muslim women who are well aware of what their holy book says about Polygamy still kill their co-wives, some even kill their husbands to prevent Polygamy. Those who accepted it in the past did it out of necessity... mostly for more farmhands. Men should stop imposing polygamy on women; it's a bad idea

When the next census gets conducted and the figures gets published....many would ask where the "seven women to one man" belief is coming from. Nigerian men are not yet at the realm where Caucasian men are when it comes to perception of marriage, the core issue in Nigeria is majority being in the low income bracket as the number of men who meets the "societal cut off mark" to be regarded worthy to shoulder a family of his own is sharply decreasing as many are struggling to fend for themselves, many are still living with their parents in their 30s.....the pool of men who are financially balanced and single is fast shrinking and far more numbers of single females are fishing from the same shrinking pond.........Women who are okay with trenches love can easily get husbands, cheesy

3 Likes

Christianity Etc › Re: Is It Wrong For A Christian To Obtain A Chieftaincy Title? by Mindlog: 10:30am On Jul 02, 2023

No. Even Catholic Priests gets Chieftaincy titles in Igbo land.

5 Likes

Travel › Re: Japa For Me, But Not For Thee. by Mindlog: 10:28am On Jul 02, 2023

The man lives in the US and went to the UK way back in 1989 for his Doctorate, now moaning about brain drain! cheesy

1 Like

Family › Re: What Personal Reasons Do You Have Against Polygamy? by Mindlog: 9:49am On Jul 02, 2023

talented321:
I would have take it further if you were a man. 'no offenccce'

You want to apply gender segregation as your defense mechanism as you can't intellectually push forward your stand with evidence based data, not alternative facts?

You will make an interesting case study in psychology as I get intrigued by folks like you with their personal facts but get cowered by data! ! cheesy

4 Likes

Family › Re: What Personal Reasons Do You Have Against Polygamy? by Mindlog: 9:19am On Jul 02, 2023

talented321:
Women don't like polygamy since from day one, but they don't have choice. And it doesn't matter.
The reason why the divorce rate is high is because of one man one woman. If your husband has two or three wives you know your divorce will not mean anything to him that is why our fathers live with their wives and u hardly hear divorce cases unlike today.
The idea of he cheat i will cheat is because of monogamy, denying ur husband sex all because he has only u.
The idea to overtake the man as head of the house and vice versa.

Do we not regularly read Northern state governors sponsoring mass weddings of divorced Muslim women?

Read the attached excerpt, reflect and share your thoughts because the north has a high rate of divorce because it is way faster to be granted one. I used it as a resource while working on a postgraduate assessment with focus on "The mental wellbeing of children from polygamous homes".

5 Likes

Travel › Re: Nigerian Man Battles Australian Immigration Over Seized Foods & Custard (video) by Mindlog: 1:33am On Jul 02, 2023

ghettochild:
U really don't understand bro..
I bought a pack of noodles when I was moving to South Africa...for ease of transporting...had to remove em all from the Carton... so as it won't be classified as extra baggage..
Even at the airport they advise u remove em from the box.....
Now concerning if there's custard in abroad..
Yes there is.. but taste differs
I buy milo here in SA every week...and it taste different from the one manufactured in Nigeria...
So if u don't know anything..just shut up
Yes it would have easier to identify if he had the container but travelers know how cumbersome thing things before when in ur luggage...
Am sure the container wouldn't fit in his luggage hence he decided to transfer em into plastic bags...
Can a Carton of noodles enter my Ecolac traveling bag??
No... I had to remove all 40 packs n put em in the bag

You can help yourself by first shutting up!

Why didn't you go further, removing the noodles in the 40 packs and tie it up in one "nylon bag"? The same noodles thousands of cartons are being shipped weekly to South Africa from the NAHCO shed in Lagos? huh

My tastes are not tied to noodles, milo, bournvita, custard etc manufactured in Nigeria but when I do crave for them, there are Nigerian shops here in Cambridge, I can easily go get them there. I guess there are no African/Nigerian shops in Australia that stock that "special custard" his children love. He should have tried that at the Jomo Kenyatta International Airport, Nairobi, Kenya.......it is better not imagined!

Family › Re: Young Nigerian Man Proudly Shows Off His 3 Wives (Pics/Video) by Mindlog: 12:32am On Jul 02, 2023

Edoziesmart:
So our forefathers that married more than 3 women died young?

Hausa/Fulani tribe that use to marry 3 wives they have died prematurely?

Stop living in delusion bro.

The funniest thing is, you are very unlikely to marry 3 wives...abi I lie? cheesy

Family › Re: They All Mocked Her, Until FG Removed Fuel Subsidy. by Mindlog: 12:26am On Jul 02, 2023

Dimaya:
So it's poverty that's causing Nigerians to think N4k per day on meals is a huge deal?

With the present prices of foodstuffs in the market?.....Yes, low income,

Let me cite an example. Even with the rising cost of living here in the UK, a person who is earning minimum wage of £10.42 per hour will not struggle to feed himself if he is not wasteful. If he works 10hrs daily and his net earning is about £75 for the day, on his way home he can afford to buy 200g of ground egusi for £2, half litre of palm oil for £2.50, ground crayfish for £2, a pack of maggi seasoning (25 cubes) for £1, a pack of dried ugu leaves £2, 1 kilo of hard chicken £3.50, pepper and other condiments £2, then 1.5kg of garri for £3........so what he earned under 2 and half hours can get him a nice pot of egusi soup, he can get 4 meals out of.

10 Likes 1 Share

Family › Re: They All Mocked Her, Until FG Removed Fuel Subsidy. by Mindlog: 11:00pm On Jul 01, 2023

izonborn098:
This fish brain gender never disappoint. The worst part is the only thing see will bring to the table is her over used worn out useless expired kpekus.

Don't forget your mother is female.....it is not an insult.

14 Likes 5 Shares

Family › Re: They All Mocked Her, Until FG Removed Fuel Subsidy. by Mindlog: 10:58pm On Jul 01, 2023

Dismal low income has really messed up a lot of people's psyche......people should focus more on soaking up knowledge online to earn more, so that spending N4,000 daily on feeding as a single in Lagos, would nor sound like a lie.....not even up to 6USDT! angry

14 Likes 3 Shares

Food › Re: Consumers, Traders Lament As Tomato, Pepper Scarcity Hits Markets by Mindlog: 6:14pm On Jul 01, 2023

Sad.

Politics › Re: Lagos State Indigenes In Diaspora Ask Sanwo-olu To Adopt England’s Property Law by Mindlog: 5:25pm On Jul 01, 2023

FreeStuffsNG:
All constructive and brilliant ideas to stop this current cheating is welcome. Our resources are finite too. You can not keep your own 100% and be dragging our own with us. Let us collaborate by reciprocity. If you don't give us from your own, you will no longer have from ours. The current system is not sustainable and it's a recipe for serious problems today and in the future.

In the area of real estate, others are not dragging with the owners.....the owners are willingly selling in order to live softer lives. 😆😆😆😆

In the civil service, let LASG start with the disengaging of healthcare professionals who are not indigenes of Lagos state, make dem see road japa.

Travel › Re: UK Skilled Worker Visa / Health And Care Worker Visa / Qualified Teacher Route by Mindlog: 5:12pm On Jul 01, 2023

MichAm:
Hello.
If you don't mind, I will like to find out a few things from you, please. I sent you a message via email.

Responded.

Celebrities › Re: "Davido Keeps Getting Chioma’s US Visa Denied On Purpose" - Anita Brown by Mindlog: 5:03pm On Jul 01, 2023

Kobojunkie:
1. Ah,I see! I confess I don't know much about him at all. I thought maybe grief had something to do with this.

It is just like a known alcoholic who continues with his drinking after being bereaved.

Politics › Re: No Country Retires Over 100 Major Generals Without Crumbling – Sadeeq Shehu by Mindlog: 3:31pm On Jul 01, 2023

Despite their bloated numbers, insecurity everywhere.

28 Likes 2 Shares

Travel › Re: Nigerian Man Battles Australian Immigration Over Seized Foods & Custard (video) by Mindlog: 3:15pm On Jul 01, 2023

I fully support the Australian immigration official, I hope she had it thrashed!

When did custard powder become an indigenous product from Nigeria? Are custard in different forms not sold in Australian stores?

The guy is a troublemaker, hope he was dealt with......flying with custard without its original container, all the way from Nigeria, e neva talk true.

1 Like

Travel › Re: UK Skilled Worker Visa / Health And Care Worker Visa / Qualified Teacher Route by Mindlog: 2:51pm On Jul 01, 2023

viperVIP:
While in the UK, the person can apply as a care worker, but from outside UK, I do not think it's possible, I was in same shoe, my wife couldn't be the MA because she has just NCE, so I had to shoulder it, knowing fully well that within 1 year I can write some exams to get my license as a certified solar energy expert, then switch to my main profession by securing a new COS, not minding the 12m already paid now. It's the cost of greatness afterall

Under which occupation code is solar energy expertise fall in the UK's skilled worker visa shortage occupations?

Travel › Re: UK Skilled Worker Visa / Health And Care Worker Visa / Qualified Teacher Route by Mindlog: 2:50pm On Jul 01, 2023

viperVIP:
While in the UK, the person can apply as a care worker, but from outside UK, I do not think it's possible, I was in same shoe, my wife couldn't be the MA because she has just NCE, so I had to shoulder it, knowing fully well that within 1 year I can write some exams to get my license as a certified solar energy expert, then switch to my main profession by securing a new COS, not minding the 12m already paid now. It's the cost of greatness afterall

Under which occupation code is solar energy expertise fall in the UK's skilled worker visa shortage occupations?

Politics › Re: Lagos State Indigenes In Diaspora Ask Sanwo-olu To Adopt England’s Property Law by Mindlog: 2:43pm On Jul 01, 2023*

Ola9ja23:
We will do everything possible to protect our land from flatinooooooos

While offering the same land for sale, itching for some bulk money to flex.😆😆😆😆

If I apply to work in the psychiatric unit of any of the Lagos state managed general hospitals, no body go remember say I be omo ibo.😆😆😆

2 Likes

Jobs/Vacancies › Re: How Long Is Long Enough To Remain With An Organisation? � by Mindlog: 2:33pm On Jul 01, 2023

When it stops offering me growth.

1 Like

Family › Re: What Is The Ideal Number Of Children To Have In A Modern Family Of Today. by Mindlog: 1:16pm On Jul 01, 2023

Women should consider the number of children they can comfortably take care of on their own should they get widowed or their husbands become permanently incapacitated by poor health, worst still should their husbands decide to go "missing".

Health › Re: I'm 34 Years Old And I Bedwet. I Need Help Please by Mindlog: 11:13am On Jul 01, 2023

You are struggling with nocturnal enuresis.

Personally go to a general/teaching hospital to book to see an Urologist but if the waiting time is long, opt for those in private practice.

22 Likes 2 Shares

Celebrities › Re: "Davido Keeps Getting Chioma’s US Visa Denied On Purpose" - Anita Brown by Mindlog: 11:06am On Jul 01, 2023

Kobojunkie:
Is he the man who supposedly lost a child not too long ago in a pool accident? Did these behaviors of his begin before or after the incident? If majorly after, could it be he is attempting by these unhealthy habits to deal with his grief?

His unhealthy pattern of sexual behaviours have always been part of his lifestyle, his son's death in no way did curb it but continued....he can't seem to stop.

He needs professional help as there are mental health professionals who operate rehabs and are specialized in helping those struggling with sex addiction.

1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 ... 213 214 215 216 217 218 219 220 221 (of 492 pages)