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mailemy:
Both will be regretting their actions now.
Don't rush to the internet, first report to family members and sort it out. Peace and love to them and every home passing through turbulence.

Gbest90:
See, as a proud black man, I totally stand against racism.

But to be honest,most blacks are beginning to take it WAY TOO FAR.

Racism is when a person is abused, maltreated or insulted, due to the colour of their skin. Like the monkey chants, a banana being thrown at Alves, kneeling on the neck of Floyd by a white police e.t.c These are examples of Racism.

But the fourth official did none of those. And the players had to walk off, cos someone was called a black guy? SMH.

Isn't it normal for a black guy to refer to a group of white friends as 'my White folks'?So what's wrong in calling a black guy, a black guy.

We should be proud of our skin colour.

We should proud to be called blacks.

But we stand against any form of maltreatment, abuse or injustice against us because we are black.

#NOT ASHAMED TO BE A BLACK

Ikennamurphy:
Lol. Any woman you marry no matter her age is automatically your age mate. For the records any woman can be disrespectful and do whatever she likes Irrespective of her age, that should sink into your empty skull

stepo707:
My Sister has advised 5k is now too little especially with the current situation, i was wondering, do i do 10k for 5people or just stick with 5k for 10people?

Mokason288:
FTC OVER AND OVER AGAIN...Show me some real love...
Just take a close look at the picture of Moreblesing Maridza , JAMES CHIVANDIRE and the other man you will appreciate being a Nigerian



Meanwhile I fear who no fear woman.


I HOPE I MADE SENSE

MeeztaFabulouz:
It is really terrible to feel suicidal all because of marriage. I use use to see different news of how people commit suicide because of relationships and I always felt it was so stupid to think of suicide just because of a fail relationship.

Now I have seen it all clear that depression is really very bad especially when you feel so depressed in a marriage you work so hard and do everything to protect and make your family happy. Its very painful when you know honestly inside your heart that you don't cheat on your wife, provide everything she wants for herself and the kids even when business is quite rough.

She has no conscience and no regard for our union and our home. I am a guy that don't think about looking at wife's phone or suspecting her for anything but then after our first child she changed completely and as of today I don't know were I stand anymore because of my kids. I opened a business for her just so that she won't be like a house wife but she has completely taken the business more important than the family and wake up 4am to start cooking and close 8pm at night. Stressing herself so much but always complaining business is not moving and she is not making any money.

I sponsor everything in the home though am not complaining because that's what a man should do, but she does not have regard for anything or appreciate anything I do. Can you imagine I give her money for feeding weekly even though she is running a food business, she buys few food stuffs in the house which can stay almost two weeks without us eating them because we basically feed from food she cooks in her restaurant. I decided not to bother myself and just give her money to always ensure her business is moving and at least food will not be a problem for us.

One faithful day, I decided to check her phone because I observed a certain strange behavior about her and how she likes to off her phone at night or sometimes when I am around. I saw different chats with some two guys she claimed one was her ex boyfriend that just likes to check on her once in a while, and the other guy was someone I remember like coming to eat in her restaurant but she said they went to school together and he is working with a construction company doing a building project close to her restaurant. She also claimed that when they were in school he was asking her out even till they fished school but she preferred her ex boyfriend to him and when she had issues with her ex that was when I came into her life.

If the story she told me is true or not, I wasn't really bothered anymore because I know its normal for a woman you met at 26 years to have met other guys before you and obviously still has guys that don't respect people's marriage and still do anything to sleep with a married woman. But my paid now is because I feel so respected by many of the things she does and when I think of divorce, I only feel for my kids who will now have to grow up with another man or having to visit their mum and see her with another man.

Recently I have become so depressed that I have been thinking of suicide so that my kids will know their dad is no more rather than knowing that their dad is still alive but can only be with either daddy or mummy and not as a complete family. My depression is getting worse especially when I think about all I have done for her and the kids just to always make them happy but in return, she doest appreciate or even have any regard anymore for what is called "FAMILY"

Over 7 years now and at this point I really feel suicidal. Please I really need help because I make this big mistake.

Yenefer:
Blame game.
Well that's how enemies works.
Stupid cultist

Thebest12:
Hello nairalanders
I will make this short as possible. I am in love with a girl . She is almost months pregnant . but no guy in her life . The mo.ron that scored the goal has repeatedly denied responsibility. She is now living with her mum. But i love this girl. Sometimes i use to help her out financially.
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Pls guys i need your advice. Insult is allowed . Go ahead. Genuine advice pls

MSGAMBLE9:
what do you mean deadly finishing?
If you dont create chances what are you going to finish

So much more for "we dont need Ozil gang'

Fibonacci88:
91% possession no goal. Arsenal and Arteta is officially useless.

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peacekante:
I completely agree with this even though I am more of a Messi fan. I know Diego and Pele are the two greatest footballers of all time. But the op is not wrong here. Maradona has this passion that has never been seen in the game since he retired. His determination to win at all cost is second to none. This is what Messi lacks and what Ronaldo has. Ronaldo is very determined to win at all cost. Though his passion is lesser than Diego.
For me in this GOAT debate,
1, pele
2, Maradona
3,Zidane
4, Ronaldo Delinma
5, Christiano Ronaldo
6, Messi.

Both Messi and Christiano Ronaldo has that rating because of their inability to win the big one ( THE WORLD CUP) And Ronaldo is above Messi for me because he won with his country and Messi didn't. But I love Messi more than him because he is more exciting to watch.

spoked:
It is truly not easy to be faithful in this era. We truly cannot fake it, but it is fact. Even some who are faithful are enduring or struggling to be faithful. Deep down, some will go astray or wish to go astray if there will be no repercussion or consequences. We live in a generation loaded with lust. Men walking in the streets and thinking nonsense about women, Women walking as though nothing is happening, but sexually ransacking men in their hearts. We also have men and women cheating on their partners-I mean having live sex with people other than their marriage partners. We have ladies who could be on the phone with their partner, yet naked having sex with another while on phone..... We have fiance or fiancees sleeping with others few days to their wedding.

Now, before you judge anyone, judge yourself first. It doesnt make sense to condemn a gender, person or whoever, when you are also committing same thing. There are reasons why the prevalence of cheating has heightened.

(1) Pornography: This is one of the enhancers of infidelity. You cannot be a porn watcher and not battle with faithfulness. With all those scenarios of sex you watch, you will find it hard not to try more of perversion even with others. So if you have a lovely wife, and you go out, and see a lady that looks like one of the porn stars youve watched, you could become pressured to have her. Porn watchers battle with the mind, and this can lead to unfaithfulness.

(2) Pre-marital Sex: Pre-marital sex is a door to unfaithfulness in marriage. You cannot sleep with 20 persons using various sexual techniques and think you could stay with a marriage partner forever without cheating. That over-testing will make you love varieties. You will find it hard to get satisfied with just one person. Even if your marriage partner is good in bed, there may be the tendency to want to taste newer faces or ex.

(3) Social Media Addiction: You want to be faithful, yet you spend huge hours on badoo, facebook, whatsapp etc chatting people without purpose. It is said "an idle mind is the devil's workshop". So if you keep exploring the internet, you may want to try new things or experience new persons, and from there you could engage in unhealthy relationships.

(4) Unnecessary Closeness to the Opposite Sex: "I know myself", "we are just friends", "aah! dont you trust me", "aaah! we are close but i have limits"..Before you know it, you may be fully naked on bed with a person that is not your spouse. It is wrong to be unnecessarily close to the opposite sex when married; whether man or woman. True life story: A married Christian lady fell into adultery because she was close to a single guy. She later confessed to her husband two weeks after sleeping with the guy. She even got pregnant, and because of the Christian fate, the baby was kept. You still can commit murder.

If you want to be faithful, look for things that wont heighten your sexual drive unnecessarily...

chiefolododo:
This can't be true

vincentjk:
Ask and it shall be given unto you

That's how that actress publicly shot her shot on Don j baba and they later went on a date

That's how rapper skales seeked for funds to shoot shake body video from olamide and it was granted

That's how AC Milan players jokingly asked ibrahimovic to get the all new ps5 so they could play and he actually bought the console for each and everyone one of the teammate


Moral: ask and it shall be given unto you, don't die in silence when what you're dying to have could be granted unto you only if you SPEAK.

Beckysexy:
Happy married life. This shows you can still find love regardless of the age or background.
But how come her mum is 56 while she's 43 ?

faithugo64:
Try to have a heart to heart talk with her. Let her understand that the family can not shoulder the financial responsibility of another baby. Be polite and gentle with her. Let her feel that your decision is in the best interest of the family.

If after explaining to her and she is still being stubborn, you might want to involve someone that she listens to (can be her mum or a mentor).
May peace reign in your home.

ifeegee:
I am not a birthday person, therefore, i usually will not understand the fuss .

this is one birthday i ain't keeping quiet.
Corona hit me this year and almost denied me of the opportunity to see this day, but, mercy said no.

my head is correct and my mind sound.
my faith is strengthened and my trust is grounded.

I am one of the lepers who has returne.

mod, I know I'm not one of the popular , I feel like being celebrated . I won't mind if you will indulge me by pushing to the front page. thank you

please can someone help me with how to upload the pictures . I've selected but can't find the upload icon thank you.

BadRadio:
For Classic Nairalanders: Can You Still Remember Movies U've Watch With This?

I only remember 74...

¹Drunken master (Jackie chan), ²toofan, ³Mad, ⁴Arma, arkbar anthony, ⁵No retreat No surrender, ⁶witch doctor, ⁷Delta force (chuck Norris) ⁸Drive (mark Dacascos) Rattle snake (Fransis Duru)


....and more

Brownpeanut:
Just be nice and caring and also have small cash. That's all.

ehinmowo:
Naturally,a woman will not marry or date someone below her. But as reality dawn on her, at a point she will make comprise. Hence the face of the do called humility.

Though this is not universal. As there are people that have been like that from their youth. However, if she settled for the lesser man and she later get what she wants like having kids etc, she wouldn't have any problem in leaving the lesser man if she has a better option.

True humility is found in a truly humbled young lady.

visijo:
If relationships aren't working for you, try other ships like entrepreneurship, partnership, internship.

If they fail, please worship

longetivity:
human being and wickedness

hinere:
Concerning this issue, I think charity begins at home. Everything boils down to SELF ESTEEM.
Most girls that bleach their skin have low self esteem due to their black skin. They feel ugly and I think the media is contributing greatly to it.

You see a advert for a Soap and Cream and the models they use are all fair.
Infact when I was small, I saw an advert for Delta soap where they used a black girl. Then an angel appeared to her and gave her Delta soap to use. After using it to bath, the girl turn fair right there in the bathroom.
The fair girl was the popular actress "Lillian Back". The advert ended by her getting the man of her dreams.

After watching that advert, I was shocked that an ordinary soap could change your skin but it was all a Marketing Strategy

Charity begins at home. Even from MBGN, most of the winners of that contest are fair. So we need to start changing things from our end inorder for the younger generation boys and girls to pick something tangible from.
When we start portraying the Black Skin in a Positive light, people will feel confident in themselves.

As for the surgery aspect. It's still LOW SELF ESTEEM.

Even some Men have Low Self Esteem that's why you go to the Gym and see so many guys there pumping hard iron just to have Six packs, Big Chest, Big Biceps and all because the media has portrayed that guys with such body physic is the Ideal Male Look and its only guys with such Physic that can get anything they want.

CHARITY BEGINS AT HOME.....
CHANGE STARTS WITH US.

Be Confident in yourself.
Be Confident in what you have.
I'm not against doing what makes you happy.
If Bleaching, Surgery and whatever will make you happy and boost your Self Esteem, go for it and be happy because life is too short to keep being INSECURE AND having Low Self Esteem for Vanity.

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pocohantas:
She @Wathoni, actually has an attractive facial structure, way better than Nengi’s.

But fair girls are naturally more catchy, them dey enter the eye fast and every colour contrasts perfectly with their skin, thus giving them more allure.

Zzor:
wathony is finer than nengi but men and their obsession with light skin ,they will come and claim otherwise online. I'm light skin but I stand for the truth