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Pets / Re: Living With Neighbors That Hate Dog. by NiCurious: 5:57pm On Feb 26, 2020
Makavelli25:
Yea thats it. I rear local dogs and I have a lot of them. I had a dog that gave birth to 5 pups and after 2 weeks they all died. I suspected poisoning but as a young wise man I moved on.

Not long after the mother dog died too. I was mad like wtf they killed it too. But no lele na local dog cheap. I got another one and like a miracle it gave me 7 pups. These new pups are dying again, left with 4 and they are not old yet I would have sold them.

My neighbors are killing my dogs and I don't know what to do. They even Sympathised with me sef (oju aye) but I know baba GOD DEY WATCH

I don't know if your neighbours are killing your dogs or not...I am not there to see...but do please try to find out if there are any health issues with the dogs that have nothing to do with the neighbours. Is there a disease that might be in play, are they getting enough nutrition, is there something poisonous like engine coolant stored carelessly, that they are getting into...etc.

I am sorry for your loss, however it occurred. cry

If it is the neighbours...I would suggest either relocating to a dog-friendly area, if you want to breed dogs, or stop breeding dogs for now, to prevent more losses of innocent dogs. Your post suggests that it is not possible to keep your neighbours away from your dogs, the way things are set up right now.
Family / Re: My Wife Is Circumcised And It's Affecting Our Sex Life by NiCurious: 9:36pm On Feb 24, 2020
Toks2008:


It reduces promiscusity to a great extent.

Most circumcised ladies are sexually decent as they can stay for years without sex unlike the uncircumcised ones who get wet easily ad even when they sit their vagina brushes easily with their undies which makes them crave for sex often

Sexual activity ("promiscuity"wink is a personal choice. Having someone else make that choice for you is just...words fail me.
I wonder how many men would be in favour of a circumcision that removed the glans, to reduce promiscuity among men? This is the equivalent of what is being done to women.
Family / Re: My Wife Is Circumcised And It's Affecting Our Sex Life by NiCurious: 9:29pm On Feb 24, 2020
Toks2008:


A good MouthAction will do especially mouth action on her as well as good gspot stimulation.

Advantages like what, sir?
Health / Re: Stop Using Saliva As Sex Lubricant - Medical Expert Warns by NiCurious: 12:05am On Feb 23, 2020
Mishael42019:
Rubbish .


My ministry stands on no sex before marriage

Since this generation have refused to abstain from immortality many will end in hell

Repent because there’s no repentance in grave

Accept Jesus Christ now as your lord and personal Saviour no other religion can lead you to heaven but to hell Jesus is the only way

How is "no sex before marriage" at all relevant to the topic of vaginal lubrication? Husband with a cold sore uses his infected saliva for lubrication...infects wife.

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Health / Re: Who Knows A Dr. Wale Or Any Confirmed Herbs That Cures Staphylococcus Aureus? by NiCurious: 1:34am On Feb 19, 2020
I don't know of any herbal cures, but antibiotics work. Choose the appropriate strain. Cephalosporins are used for staph.

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Health / Re: 20 Million Nigerians Have Kidney Diseases - Nephrologists by NiCurious: 7:40pm On Feb 18, 2020
sassysure:
Not surprised. Thanks to the increase in the consumption of MSG.
Go to the food section, half of the food posted is noodles.
Since the introduction of the Nigerian brands of noodles like indomie, kidney problems have increased.

SON collect bribe and look the other way while millions of Nigerians eat to their death everyday.
Or is it our bullion cubes and meat tenderizer?
It's always good to make research.
Internet is not only for useless topics and posing


LOUD IT.

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Romance / Re: My Pregnant, Stubborn Girlfriend Slapped Me, Insults My Parents by NiCurious: 9:35pm On Feb 17, 2020
Diligentnigga:


I saw it ooo.
But people are always like she will change infact her mum likes me alot and she has even been d driving factor to me believing she will change

Her mum is trying to find someone who will believe that, so she can get her daughter married off and not have her living at home, with all her anger issues clouding the parents' house. Don't be that mumu.

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Romance / Re: My Pregnant, Stubborn Girlfriend Slapped Me, Insults My Parents by NiCurious: 9:23pm On Feb 17, 2020
Diligentnigga:
Good morning Nairalanders, I will make this as short as possible and please don't mind my punctuation as I am typing this in a rush

I am a graduate, though unemployed but doing one or two menial jobs to keep mind and soul together

I have this girlfriend I have been dating for almost two years now. We both love each other but the issue at hand is she's a stubborn, anger driven person that insults my parents. In fact hit me sometimes and says all manner of words at me.

Of recent, I found out she's pregnant this February. Now the issue is she's a finalist in the University as she will be serving this year October, but we had plans of not doing abortion but she's so ashamed of everything and just irrational and saying all manners like what people will say this and that, and I have told her I will stay by her through everything. I informed my mum and my immediate siblings about the pregnancy, they were angry but they were like it's fine sha since she's loved in the family

Now the issue is that you have been dating someone you find difficult, and have failed to use birth control to prevent escalating the situation to what you find yourself in today.
1 She's very stubborn You didn't know this already since the past two years?
2 she insults my parents at every small argument yet still you date her
3 she's anger driven, yes am anger driven to an extent also but I have never used my anger to do stupid things like hitting her before compare to many times she has Slapped, locked my shirt and punched me. yet still you date her
4 we had an issue last night and it was in public and she was just shouting at me, passers by and onlookers were just amused that why would a lady be like this that she now had to take a big stone and throw at me, though I dodged the stone all because i was gearing her to let's leave the public scene and go home this is not looking good for the peace of your relationship, even if you control your own anger for the rest of your life
5 A baby is on the line cos she's pregnant and even if you will advise me to leave the relationship as it's toxic, what about the unborn child. You were not thinking about the unborn child when you were having sex without protection in this toxic relationship. Now you are...
6 I am currently unemployed and in fact am still at home not yet balanced up well enough, but she has used nags to kill me, saying all manners at me You were unemployed and at home before you had unprotected sex. You had unprotected sex. Now your girlfriend is pregnant. You are still unemployed and at home. What were your original plans for supporting the baby, when you decided to have unprotected sex?


If I have to spell it out for you, you are not responsible to live your own life with sense, let alone support an (abusive) girlfriend, let alone cater for a child. The direction you are heading is into a total trainwreck for all involved. Stop the train before it gets that far. I am not a big fan of abortion, but I would suggest finding the money to pay for one, part ways with your abusive girlfriend, and keep out of relationships until you really understand what you've been doing in this one for the last two years, why you've been doing it, and learning not to do it again.

All insults are welcomed. Please I am in die need of advise thank you.

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Family / Re: Things I Saw In A Coded Bar/motel, Bothering Me About Marriage! by NiCurious: 1:42am On Feb 17, 2020
OP feels compassion for the poor kids, and carries the little one so she can sleep more comfortably. Let's take that into consideration before completely trashing his opinion and himself as a person.

Both parents are responsible for bringing up their kids, OP. The father should not be exempted. Best not to bring them into the world, if there is no plan B for them under various unforeseen circumstances, separation.

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Family / Re: Things I Saw In A Coded Bar/motel, Bothering Me About Marriage! by NiCurious: 1:33am On Feb 17, 2020
Kaycee54321:
Second scenario is the reason why I will never marry if I don't have a certain level of cash flow and why I CAN NEVER marry a female who has nothing going on for herself... That crap about men taking care of a woman doesn't work on me

I earn, you earn, we care for each other, we raise a family together like a damn team...if e no work, na to kuku dey single... No be by force to born. Can't imagine bringing innocent babies to suffer.

sense talking

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Science/Technology / Re: 'Ghost' Human Ancestor Discovered In West Africa. Linked To Yoruba, Esan People by NiCurious: 8:22pm On Feb 16, 2020
Ameboperoo:

Thanks. It's been long. shocked
But I hope you get my point?

I get the point you're trying to make, but I reiterate that genetic contributions can stay in a family line for many generations, hundreds of years, even longer, so it is not a given that the Yoruba women's genetic contribution would be lost over time.

I had my DNA analyzed, and was amazed at how accurately known ancestors were traced in time and origin.
Science/Technology / Re: 'Ghost' Human Ancestor Discovered In West Africa. Linked To Yoruba, Esan People by NiCurious: 7:54pm On Feb 16, 2020
Ameboperoo:



You don't get it. If you take for example 50 red beads and mix it with 50 blue in a bag. Then select 50 randomly from it and add another50 blue, select 50 from it again and add 50 blue, after many times, you will discover that only blue will be left.
Now to our discussion, a gene can be inherited from the father or mother with a 50/50 probability. The same way a red or blue bead could be picked.
But an x chromosome can only be from the father, who in turn got it from his father and so on. But a y chromosome can be from either of the parents.

Sorry, you've got the X and Y inheritance reversed. Among mammals, father gives either X or Y chromosome, mother gives X only. Y makes boy babies. Boys' chromosomes combined from both parents are XY. Girls' combined chromosomes from both parents are XX. (Among birds, it's the mother whose genes determine sex of offspring.)

Please look up genetic inheritance to refresh yourself.

One site with lots of interesting, easily accessible information is 23andMe. There are many online resources if your textbooks are no longer at hand.

Peace. smiley

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Travel / Re: Dangote Truck Crushes Bus Along Abeokuta Expressway, Tollgate Bus Stop by NiCurious: 9:45pm On Feb 15, 2020
lefulefu:
those are in saner climes.we are talking about nigeria cheesy.

Yeah. But, everyone in the country still has only one life to live, including the driver. There may be 186 million lives in the country, give or take, but it's still one life per person.
Science/Technology / Re: 'Ghost' Human Ancestor Discovered In West Africa. Linked To Yoruba, Esan People by NiCurious: 7:39pm On Feb 15, 2020
Ameboperoo:

Even if they married Yoruba women, the Yoruba DNA would have phased out. Only male carried the x chromosome from the father and pass it to the son but a female can either pass her father's or mother.

Nono, the father gives either an X or a Y chromosome: X to his daughters, Y to his sons. Not all genes are sex-linked, so the Yoruba women's genetic input would not necessarily fade out. Genes can stick around in a family line for a long, long time.

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Travel / Re: Dangote Truck Crushes Bus Along Abeokuta Expressway, Tollgate Bus Stop by NiCurious: 5:03pm On Feb 15, 2020
In front of the Road Safety office.
angry
How difficult is it for the driver to take five minutes, and do at least a brake inspection, before starting his trip?

In some countries, fully inspecting the truck you're driving, before it leaves its parking spot, is a legal requirement.

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Romance / Re: Dumped By Girlfriend On Valentine's Day by NiCurious: 1:44am On Feb 15, 2020
Calm down, breathe.

Malaria is not an STD...maybe that's all you have.

As for the girl...make sure it's not a matter of her phone missing, battery flat, no data or whatever, before concluding you've been dumped.

Get your facts first.

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Romance / Re: My Husband Cheating On Me With A Married Woman What Do I Do Please by NiCurious: 1:34am On Feb 15, 2020
MarianaTrench:
What were you looking for in his phone? angry

Read carefully. Her own phone, that her husband didn't log out of.

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Religion / Re: Share Your Experience With Fetish Friends, Neighbor, Landlord, Co-worker Etc by NiCurious: 6:53pm On Feb 14, 2020
justdream:


Wow already in love with that Dog. What breed is it? Is it still alive?

wrong mention?
Religion / Re: Share Your Experience With Fetish Friends, Neighbor, Landlord, Co-worker Etc by NiCurious: 1:45am On Feb 14, 2020
Asquare84:
My people I wish I can relate my story here may be someone can offer a constructive advice and solution, when I was in SS2 in secondary school I had a dream in the dream there was an owl bird in the sky so people were trying to kill the bird with stone, so I joined in stoning the bird too in the dream the bird only circle my stone and the stone started following the bird, I only woke up to discard the dream as a mere dream since I have never been involve in fetish things before, since that dream my life become a vegetable as I am not living my life to full potential as something keep holding me back in life. Secondly I do dream of being surrounded by barking dogs each time I try to break free from the dogs it always been difficult till I wake up from my sleep. Any idea on how I can get my life is welcome

Without knowing anything about you, I'd say it's your own fears holding you back. Throwing stones at the owl just because everyone else is doing it, because they are afraid of the owl...is not original nor creative thinking. Nor is it making use of an opportunity, a resource. In the dream, the owl is leading your stone. Where is the owl leading to?
And the dogs, they are barking at you. Barking is not biting. Are people telling you that you can't do something, and you believe them? Maybe you taking the path you want to take, is an inconvenience to them, so they are protesting but not actually preventing you? It's hard to get free of the barking dogs (people) because you give them too much importance.
Both dreams, your actions are being led by the majority acting on its own fears and insecurities. You don't need to make them your own as well. I would advise looking at things you feel threatened by as opportunities to grow past your fear. By following the crowd, you will never lead or excel.
My kobo.
Science/Technology / Re: Canadian Farmer Discovers New Tyrannosaur Species, One Of The Oldest Kind Ever by NiCurious: 7:55pm On Feb 11, 2020
Adflex1:
Why haven’t they found one in Nigeria or Africa or our continent never existed 2.5 Million years ago lipsrsealed
Goodness sake, just do a little research and learn about African fossil discoveries! Google for dinosaurs in Africa, fossil discoveries in Africa. Some very amazing discoveries have been made in Africa. Seek to inform yourself!
Family / Re: Go And Do A Paternity Test On You Children, Especially Your First Child by NiCurious: 1:37am On Feb 08, 2020
RisenPhoenix:


Once you find out, you wouldn't think of the child as yours over time. It is impossible. You would probably reason out that it wasn't his fault and still be there for him, but your emotional investment in his progress would crash from former levels.

Thank you for your considered answer. I've had cause to think on these questions, recently. But without either of us being in that actual position, it's all conjecture and hypotheticals.
Romance / Re: Why Is It That Some Ladies Become Sex Addict After Sleeping With Different Men. by NiCurious: 11:26pm On Feb 04, 2020
dzionist:
I have observed that some ladies becoming sex addict due multiple sexual partners and early exposure to sex
Try turning that observation around. Ladies with a strong sex drive are likely to start having sex earlier, and have multiple sex partners. Same with male sex addicts, right?
Romance / Re: Just Having A Second Thought That I Took A Big Risk Today by NiCurious: 2:01am On Feb 04, 2020
Take 50k collateral until she repays.

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Romance / Re: Social Crisis With Females by NiCurious: 1:59am On Feb 04, 2020
"To have a friend, be a friend."
Romance / Re: What Can I Give My Girl For Valentine? by NiCurious: 1:52am On Feb 04, 2020
Give her a high quality human hair wig. PM me for details.
Romance / Re: Pls Taking Sperm From D Mouth Or Pussy Which 1 Nourishes a lady's Body better by NiCurious: 8:33pm On Feb 03, 2020
AnalQueenluci:
Opinions of proteinologist needed aptly
Because we(mature foresight ladies) all know how young ladies who practice sex at a very young age grows what dosent seem to grow allover their body because of high proteinous nature of cums ,
Me for an example I felt depressed( I see myself as an old woman)growing large breast when at age 13-14 or so because I started so early in sxx life ,

So taking it from oral or puxxy which one nourishes a lady"s body the more?


Funmisticqueen lefulefu Amaratasha wat says u doctors abi para-doctors n nurse

Sperm doesn't nourish a woman's body. Aside from a single sperm cell that might fertilize an egg to make a baby, the rest is excreted from the body.

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Romance / Re: . by NiCurious: 10:40pm On Jan 30, 2020
PrincessJoyy:
Good day Nairalanders, pls I need your urgent advice on my present predicament. It is going to be a long read so pls be patient with me.
Been married for 11 years now and it was love at the beginning. My husband has been loving and caring but after some years the romance began to dwindle and the love I had for my husband began to drop. I complained to him but he came up with the excuses that he had so much in mind especially catering for the family. It continued that way till my love tank for him became empty so to speak. December last year something happened, my husband came to me in the night asking for my forgiveness for not showing me the much desired attention and care that I deserved that we should let the past slide to begin afresh, then we started dating again, taking me out and the joy and happiness that once eluded me was restored. He however, kept tabs on my conversation and chats with a childhood male friend without my knowledge and what he deduced is we still have feelings for each other and our chats was full of regrets for not marrying each other and we called each other first love. He confronted me with his findings which I initially denied till he brought facts. I never had intimacy with this said guy which my husband knows being that my husband is the one that deflowered me. We ironed it out and settled the issue. My husband expected me to end whatever it was with the guy though he didn't say so directly. My chats and calls with this guy continued without my husbands knowledge, until last night when my husband asked me what I have with this guy, I told him nothing. He said I should choose between him and the guy. I should severe/cut all ties with this guy if I choose to be with him, so I asked why, he said no arguments that I should do what he asked me to do. After much talk, I discovered he saw my chats with the guy (the one I forgot to delete). I got angry at him for monitoring me and told him in annoyance to take his phone (he bought it for me) and give me the sim, which he quietly did but refused to give me the sims. I dragged with him but he overpowered me, I also tried to seize his phone but failed he even threatened to vacate the house for me at that ungodly hour if I continue with my madness. After a while, I apologized to him, he accepted the apology but refused to give me the phone. I am using my laptop to send this. How do I handle the situation for peace to reign. I don't know what he feels about me now. Sorry for the long write up. NB I told him in annoyance that he is monitoring my chats because he bought the phone for me that I'll buy mine and he said not in his house that I shouldn't dare

I'm sorry, OP, but taking everything at face value, it seems you are acting rather spoiled, confusing ongoing romance, with love. Your husband did well by making an effort to rekindle the romance. But to keep chatting with your childhood friend to the point of regretting that you didn't marry one another--when your husband is trying his best to make your marriage fun for you again in spite of having much on his mind to cater for the family--is just taking your mind from appreciating what the man you married is going out of his way to do, and making you like a lead weight hampering his efforts, when he is doing this for the good of you both. He is doing what you wished for, yet it is still not good enough for you? And instead of facing your husband and making a reciprocal effort to bring back the love, you must distract yourself with "the one who got away"? You lie to your husband, and continue to work against him when he asks you to stop? You are acting like a spoiled teenager.

What to do to restore peace? Do as your husband asked in the first place, to give him his peace of mind, and stop the hurtful foolery of emotional cheating with your old "friend". Face your marriage, speak the truth, don't sneak around either online or in person, and let the past be the past. He is not being at all unreasonable. Get something constructive to do with your time, as your husband does. There are thousands of women who would wish for a husband like yours who works hard, romances you, and just wants your loyalty and love in return. Why you have to test what should have been a good marriage, to the point of failure, is beyond me.

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Romance / Re: Sex With A Smaller Virgin Girl And Now This Is Happening (Picture) by NiCurious: 9:54pm On Jan 30, 2020
Silly people. A person is only a virgin until they have sex for the first time. Then they are not virgins any more.

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Politics / Re: Alhassan Ado Doguwa: I Have 4 Wives, 27 Children & Still Counting by NiCurious: 6:53pm On Jan 30, 2020
He didn't even recognize his own children playing in front of his house?

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Properties / Re: Marlians Not Allowed In My House, Landlord Issues Warning To Tenants - More by NiCurious: 6:26pm On Jan 30, 2020
Lol, that line about Marlians was copied and pasted. The only instance where he spelled tenant correctly. cheesy
Family / Re: Go And Do A Paternity Test On You Children, Especially Your First Child by NiCurious: 11:32pm On Jan 19, 2020
Bbbwings:

I helped you delete the rubbish you included at the end.

Yeah, I thought you might not care for that. But, what to do with a situation where after several years, a guy finds that "his" kid, who looks up to him and calls him Daddy, is not biologically his? How to handle that, after both financial and emotional investment in the kid, who did nothing wrong but get born? If I were such a father, I believe I would continue to think of the child as mine...as for all intents, it is. I have no idea how I would handle things with the wife...deception is a killer...would depend a lot on circumstances, and who knew what, when...but I could see turning a bad situation to good as far as the child went...just to spite the script-writers who say I must fill myself with hate and vengeance, and derail my destiny and that of the child, by disowning it.

What would you do in the situation, as a "father"?
How would you react, as the child?
How would you react if you discovered that a dear relative was not actually your biological relation?
I ask you these things in all seriousness.
Family / Re: Go And Do A Paternity Test On You Children, Especially Your First Child by NiCurious: 2:10am On Jan 19, 2020
Gwilym:


The average Nigerian boy gfrows up idolising men who sleep around and have kids all over the place, and women all over the place. After all, they are 'Men indeed'.

The average Nigerian boy is also unfaithful to his girlfriend...after all, men are 'supposed to be polygamous at heart' you know.

The average Nigerian boy scoffs at religious leaders who warn him or her against pre-marital sex, because 'they are all hypocrites'

The average Nigerian boy puts pressure on the average Nigerian girl, forces her to sleep with him 'because he has needs' then dumps her and moves on to the next girl 'because that babe was a slut'

OP...I am not insulting you. But your comment about Nigerian women , while partially true, is not complete without the contribution of the Nigerian male to the disaster.

Many of you men, sorry many of us men because I am a man myself, tempt young women into sex. When we get into a position of authority and money, we think it is high time we accquired a harem of young nubile girls. We help women in return for cash. And when we are young we force women to get it on with us, even when the woman is saying 'no sex till marriage'

And nationally, you people vote in corrupt leaders, who mess up the economy, and make it difficult for poor young women to provide for themselves and their familes....so we make them our prey.

Many of those women who sleep around, while some of them are obviously in it for the evil , do it because of pressure from the men in their lives. And after when they get pregnant or abort...we refer to them as sluts...and then we do it again with them.

You want women in Nigerian to change...without having the men and by extension the society to change. What you are experiencing is the result of that.

Thank you, sir. You are one of the few people willing to examine the larger picture, and find the reciprocal role of men, in the situation.

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