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Lovely advice for the women folk. I hope you are willing to stick to your own advice whenever the time comes?

Like you rightly pointed out, it is easy to get married but difficult to stay married.

You may have seen that Twitter post trending recently where a man tweeted that the marriage institution is beautiful but the problem is with the couples who are in the marriage.

Marriage can only work if both partners are truly committed to make it work. Both hands must be on deck to keep the marriage wheel rolling.

Emeka walked up to me at a patent medicine shop. I had gone out with my cousin Milado to get some drugs.

He said he had been watching me for quite a longtime and he liked everything about me. He went ahead to ask that we become friends. I accepted wholeheartedly with my church mind and then exchanged mobile contacts with him.

Long story short...
Emeka later started making sexual advances to me. At first, I didn't understand what was going on because I had never had such experience. He persisted and tried to force me to engage in gay sex with him.

When the whole thing became clear to me, I cut him off and stopped talking to him. Emeka later poisoned me because he used to serve in one of my favourite restaurants back then. I nearly died but for the Mercy of God.

This was in the year 2006. The story is very long...

Confide in your father immediately. Or better still, any of your family members that you are closest to.

The only thing that will clear your doubts is DNA tests on you, your wife and your first child.

Medically, AA + AS can never produce an SS. It's medically impossible.

Is it possible that your child was swapped at birth with someone's child? Only DNA will tell.

Speak up now and get help.

There must be something unique about your daughter that earned her the promotion.

Allow her to continue. She will cope.

Your fiancée is definitely cheating on you. Although, they may not have been involved physically, but emotionally, she is cheating. This is the worst from of cheating and she throwing it to your face recklessly.

Your fiancée is very immature to understand the heavy responsibilities that come with marriage. I believe she must be under 23 and is still at a 'hoeing' stage like many describe them.
The fact that she struggled with you over her phone is an indication that she was hiding something. She is very good at covering her tracks.

Her involvement with another guy even after engagement is a huge red flag and a sign of what is to come later in marriage. The moment you a misunderstanding, she falls back to another man for support and she will do it audaciously.

Would you want to marry a woman that will continually give you heart ache? Would you want to marry a woman who lacks respect for you? It is better to have a relationship called off than to have a broken marriage.

Make up your mind.

He doesn't love you.
He doesn't want you.
He is in another serious relationship.

Cut every ties with him and move on.
Just give yourself time, you will heal and get over him.
A guy who adores you will come along. It's not difficult to know if a guy loves a woman and vice versa.

You can start online business.
Think of Affiliate marketing...

Someone who does not get so close to a river will never get drowned.

If you don't come out in the rain, you won't get drenched.

Animals that flock together, eat together.

Until you stop living your life to please people, you may never have an independent mind.

Avoid hanging out with them at bars, drinking joints or any place that may likely influence you guys to drink.

Synord:


Traffic is the major drive force of digital marketing as you know . Native Ad campaigns are very good too. This article on it I read few months ago helped me a lot .

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Facebook ad campaign is the the Bruce almighty when it comes to marketing in Nigeria but with native ads , WhatsApp ads even telegram , one can still achieve a lot .

Thank you very much. Let me check it out.

Synord:


Not yet . I work actively with WhatsApp Ads Campaign and I will start Facebook ads campaign actively this year . Yes I have a landing page set up.

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I am really impressed with what you are doing.
No doubt, you are getting significant traffic from your organic method so far.

I tried it but it's not working out. So, I am gearing towards Facebook ad campaign or native ad campaign. Native ad campaign is cool in the sense that you don't have to worry about getting rejected or banned. But then, it's ROI is not encouraging compared to Facebook or Google ads.

My major challenge is just traffic.

Water is more hygienic anytime, any day.
It leaves you feeling completely clean and fresh down there.

Hello @Synord, you have done a great job to write glowingly about Affiliate marketing. Truly, Affiliate marketing can be very rewarding if you only you can solve the problem of traffic.

I understand what you are doing with Nairaland currently. But then, I would like to know if you have tried Facebook ad campaign? Have you got your landing page set up already?

Thanks

She is only interested in getting her pound of flesh.
Your eyes will clear by the time she is done wrecking your marriage.

That you see me online does not mean that I may be disposed to chat or reply your message immediately.

If I am a little busy, I can only respond right away if the chat is from my family member, girlfriend or a very dear friend.

Also, if I look at the pop up messages, I quickly read up what is coming in and decide if I should open or ignore.
So, your level of intimacy with the people you are trying to chat up may be a contributing factor.

That you see me online does not mean that I may be disposed to chat or reply your message immediately.

If I am a little busy, I can only respond right away if the chat is from my family member, girlfriend or a very dear friend.

Also, if I look at the pop messages, I quickly read up what is coming in and decide if I should open or ignore.
So, your level of intimacy with the people you are trying to chat up may be a contributing factor.

The two of them should swear. It should not be one sided.
The man may be more guilty than the accused woman sef!

Flip this coin and reason this matter for some moment.
Your wife tells you she will travel to another state just to see her ex. If you will approve of it, then, you can go ahead and see this your ex.

Reason this one too. Your wife tells you that she will travel to another state to see her ex and she may likely spend the night. Bros, if you no get heart attack, then, call me a liar.

An ex is an ex and belongs to the past. No matter how nice of a person she might be, keep her at an arms lenght.
Stop taking her calls. Cut every form of contact.

You won't be happy if it was your wife that is having this communication with her former boyfriend.
Anything that will affect the peace of your lovely marriage, avoid it like a plague. If not for anything, for the respect you have for your wife.

The truth is that if the man were to be in Nigeria, she would have been cheating on you with him.
If by any means the man arrives Nigeria, be sure that your girl will be camped somewhere with him for the during he will stay in Nigeria.
Men hardly shower goodies on ladies for nothing.

If you are not ready to marry her yet, then, you may simply take a walk and avoid all these dramas.
Even if the girl is poor, she can decide to be contented with whatever you give her rather than receiving gifts every now and then.

Most gifts men give to ladies are like loans which will be repayed sometime later. Of course, you know how they usually pay back, don't you?

The sex denial is a sign of what is to come in marriage. If she doesn't give it to you now, just know that she won't give it to you in marriage.

The choice is yours to make.
Be grateful that the red flag became obvious quite early before marriage.

Payment processors like Payoneer and co will now require you to link a domiciliary account instead of Naira account.

This policy rigmarole will only affect common Nigerians.
For you to access the money, you must approach your bank and withdraw the dollar,
then, take it to a BDC and change into Naira. Nawao, these guys are really messing with Nigerians.

Bros, number recycling is a widely accepted International practice for Telecom operators.
Each company has a maximum period within which they can block a number if it becomes inactive.

Before the completion of that inactive period, they usually send reminders to the subscriber. If the subscriber does not take action within
the grace period, the number gets blocked.
Asking them to wait for 5 years before reassigning such numbers to another subscriber is unrealistic and bad for their business.

As for the NIN being linked to numbers presently, the Telecom companies will definitely disconnect the details of the previous user from the number before reissuing it to a new subscriber whenever such situaton arises.
The new subscriber will only have challenges with banks and some other agencies that may have the data of the previous owner.

But then, there ought to be a way out of this. All the agencies who may still have the data of the previous user can detach all the data after conducting satisfactory verification that the number now has been assigned to a new customer.
This process should not be a difficult one only if things work properly in Nigeria.

It is not possible that a Telecom Company will delete the data of the previous user from their database.
They can detach a number from the details of its previous user in order to reassign that number to a new subscriber.
This way, the new subscriber's details will be linked to the number but the old records will still be in their database.

So, if there happens to be a case that demands some investigation, the law enforcement agents can approach the Telecom Company for
proper investigation if they truly want to do a thorough job.

Son, you should have requested for encyclopedia of life as your birthday gift. Anyway, Happy Birthday and many more prosperous and fruitful years ahead.

At 16, you still have a very promising future ahead of you. What you become in the next 10 - 15 years will largely depend on the choices you make today. I have so much to tell you, but I am constrained by space. Nevertheless, I will still pour out my heart to you.

1. Minimize the length of time you spend on Social Media and the Internet generally. If you must spend time on the Internet, convert it to some useful time - either you are adding value to yourself or you are giving to some other persons. Do not waste your time on the internet like most young people do.

2. I do not know what course you applied to study in the university. But if you can, acquire some programming skills. Learn how to code. You can start with Web Design, Mobile application designs/Software development, Data Science (Machine learning, Deep learning and Artificial Intelligence), Blockchain technology, Internet of Things(IoT), Graphics design etc. These skills can make you rich before you clock 20 if you start now to acquire them.

3. Develop the mindset to be financially independent. Strive now to get into businesses. Look around your environment and see what business you can do. You can equally go to the Internet and seek for business opportunities.

4. Avoid bad friends and do not join gangs. They will only lead you into troubles.
Rather, mingle with friends who will challenge you intellectually, education, morality, business, skills or excellence.

5. If you do not have a girlfriend yet, do not lose sleep about it. Focus on developing and adding value to yourself first. Once you become successful and established, girls will flock around you like hen chasing after someone with maize.
If you already have a girlfriend, don't make her your priority. If she is a good girl, keep her. If she is a drama queen, distance yourself.

6. From now till when you will clock 30, just bear in mind that you may experience heartbreak from ladies at least 2 times. Don't worry, it's a normal life experience. Every normal guy usually experience heartbreak at least once before marriage. If you eventually come to that point, shake it off and move on.

7. Be careful so that you do not form the habit of habitual drinking of alcohol or smoking of cigarette. They can ruin you if you indulge in them excessively. If you can avoid them completely, all the better.

8. Avoid sex until you get married. Apart from the spiritual implications of sex, you might expose yourself to STIs or unwanted pregnancy. There is so much joy in staying celibate. The kind of spiritual power and gifts you receive are innumerable.

9. Respect your father, mother and your elders. Strive to live in peace with everyone. Let your life be a reason for people to be happy and joyous. Always give, if you have. You will never lack if you form the habit of giving.

10. Always pray like tomorrow is the end of the world. Draw close to Jesus Christ and hold unto Him tightly. He never fails. He is ever faithful and reliant. He is an ever dependable God and the greatest Friend of all ages. Learn how to befriend your Angels, they will help you greatly through your journey in this life.

I wish you good luck in your life endeavors.

Meet her parents based on what grounds? To introduce yourself as her boyfriend or her potential husband?

Clarify!

Leave her in peace.
A girl who respects you and really want you will shun every other man, no matter what they had together in the past.

Number recycling will not stop.

Rather, once a mobile number is determined to have become dormant and out of use for the prescribed period, the personal details of the former owner can be erased at the time of reissue to a new subscriber.

If you have that kind of money, I suggest that you invest it in the bike and Keke business. Enjoy the proceeds thereof.

Meanwhile, you can discuss your concern with your girlfriend and spell things out clearly to avoid had I known.
If you expect her to contribute towards running the family, tell her now. Do not pretend about it ooo!

You can support her tailoring business from the proceeds of your bike business. Invest smartly.

Your son is a young mind seeking to explore. But then, he is exploring the wrong things.

When I was his age, my mother bought me my first phone. Sometimes, she would stylishly ask me to let her go through my phone. I had some unwholesome contents in the phone, but she will never see them because I usually hid them from prying eyes.

Sit your son down and educate him on the dangers of what he is doing. He won't stop immediately, but encourage him as much as you can.

A phone is not the ideal thing to stimulate his interest in computer programming. Getting him a Smartphone is ok, but, he needs a computer.

I suggest you rather buy him a laptop and register him on Coursera, Udemi or similar platforms.
Lookout for boot camps that you can send him to train him and sharpen his programming skills. This would be a better approach in stimulating his interest in computer programming.
Catch him young now and you will forever be grateful what you did for him.

Take heart and stay strong.
Your marriage was contracted on falsehood. In other words, you can apply for dissolution of your marriage to her at the church or marriage registry.

She knew too well her sexual orientation but she did not disclose it to you. Now, she will not perform her sexual marital obligations of giving you free access to her body because she is a lesbian.

Dissolve the marriage and move on.

Let him be.
If he actually cares about you, he will call you someday.
For now, face your work and be happy.