Long distance relationship is very tough. If you cannot endure, stay off.

I speak from experience.

If you spend time regularly with the opposite sex, it's just natural for feelings to develop.

Just give it time and both will copulate. It's no mistake. It's human nature playing out.

She belongs to the street and she has gone back to where she belongs.

No amount of domestication can ever tame a wild dog. A wild dog will forever remain a wild dog.

Put her in the past and move on like she never existed.

My wise friend usually says, "whatever items you bought for a girl during relationship usually goes with the relationship".
The relationship is gone and so also the things that came with it.

You are involved in friends with benefits relationship (FWB).

FWB is not for children because someone must certainly catch feelings. If you did not define it properly, this is always the end result.

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Fedric:


I feel so bad that my thought right now is to pretend, use her, dump her and make her feel regretful of making me go through emotional pain.

You can not use and dump someone who has stylishly dumped you already.

Kindly move on and forget everything about her.
Her recent attitude towards you is an indication that she is no longer interested in you and probably, she has replaced you with another guy. That's why she does not answer your calls.

There is a saying in my place that says, "a monkey that observes every thing, risks been hit by the bullet the most".

Go through your partner's phone at your own peril.

A finger that sticks into the anus will not fail to come out with either fart or faeces.

GatewayP:
This is the girl I want to marry, I love her so much and I'm sure she loves me too and she always tells me how much she loves me when I call her.

Oga OP, mark my words. This girl will never ever marry you. Lie lie! If she does, I will quit NairaLand.

Here is what will happen to you. She will dump you after milking you dry. By the time you have borrowed so much money and you can not borrow anymore, she will throw you away.

Forget the fake love she professes to you. It's just a mere lip service to get you to dispense cash on a regular basis because to her, you are just one of her numerous mumu ATM machines.

Whenever she dumps you, come back to NairaLand, create a thread and tag me that what I told you has happened.
Goodluck with your wishful thinking.

Just like the people before me have pointed out, the story is most likely to be a fictional story.

320 million Naira is just too excessive in this context especially for someone that you lost contact with for almost 6 years plus.

Your mother gave Stanley your contact details and address without letting you know in the first place. Your mother knows about your wedding plans with Chidi, yet she wants to cause confusion by allowing Stanley to come and meet you.

Finally, the girl is the only person who can decide who marries her. Men who jostle for a girl's hand in marriage fail to realize that unless the girl has agreed to settle down with you, you might just be waisting your time wooing her to be your wife.

Probably, it was constructed for private business.

That is what the owner can afford.

She is not a girlfriend.
She is just a parasite that is pretending to be a girlfriend.

You may buy the chicken now and celebrate her exit.

Don't worry, keep being mumuish.
By the time your debt would have accumulated to half a million Naira, na then you go get sense.

You know what to do but you are just doing strong head.

My mind is telling me that this is a made up story. The accuracy of narration and the flawless expression is just too good.

Meanwhile, at about the time BBNaija lockdown happened, the case of Sunday Igbogho had not happened.
OP, you couldn't have been having sex with Abigail during BBNaija lockdown that happened last year and be thing about Sunday Igbogho that happened this year.

Fictional story, but you are a good story teller.

Ordinarily, if you offer someone a gift, it is not your duty to dictate to the person how it should be used.

Agreed! You bought the helicopters to crime in Rivers State and they have diverted and deployed to somewhere else. The owners found need for their use in the Northeast.

You can set up your own security outfit, train and equip them as you desire. This way, they will remain loyal to only Rivers State.

It is normal for a girl of her age to behave this way. At 22, she is still at the explorative stage of her life. I can tell you that she does not understand what commitment means in a serious relationship.

Do not call it off yet. Invite her and warn her sternly to behave herself. If she wants to be in a relationship with you and yet still wants to explore the waters, you will kick her out.

This is not enough to break a beautiful relationship you have built. This is just the first time. But, if you breakup with her, then, you have a tolerance issue.

Watch your tolerance threshold because she will do so many other unreasonable things in the future. Will you be threatening to breakup on each of the occasions?

If you kill him, you could go to jail if the deed is traced to you.

Your best bet is to seek redress from the court. Strip him of every single thing he acquired through you and jail him for deception. Get a very good lawyer to argue your case.

You have a valid case here and since your family has the resources, you can pursue the case to a conclusive end. Get your parents involved...

Confusion and Love, a NollyWood blockbuster directed by Ramsey Noah.

Can you think of a better title?

Did the interviewer specifically tell you that you were disqualified because you answered that particular question in the affirmative?

It sounds ridiculous though, but I can tell you that you lost the job for some other reason other than your righteousness.

That job is not suitable for you. God is bringing something more suitable for you and it won't delay.

When it happens, come back here and post that joy is trying to explode your head just like you posted that you are down now.
Shake it off and put it behind you. Something better is on the way...

No amount of money can buy peace of mind. If you desire peace, sometimes you forego certain things.

Some persons will leave the money for the landlord provided he finds succour somewhere else.

The last thing you want is headache in your home. The landlord will not change anytime soon.

I advice that you leave that compound and rent a new apartment.

Chelsea FC - Didier Drogba, back in the days...

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Hello @agabal23
I appreciate...

I appreciate. One love.

You were smart enough to have beat her to her game before she dumped you.

Anytime your partner starts singing this melody-"you are perfect, you are kind, you are the best, blah! blah!! blah!!!", BUT... Forget it, they are subtly telling you that they are already on the move to jump ship.

If you are a very smart person, catch it early and severe ties. This way, the pain and hurt will be on the person and not you.

An average young man is meant to have at least minimum of two heart breaks before he finally settles down.

A wise man once told me, whenever a girl you cherish and hold dearly to your heart decides to dump you, let her go. Don't ever struggle to hold her back.
If she truly belongs to you, she will someday come back to you. But, if she belongs to someone else, she will never come your way again.

One thing you must know is that if you ever beg a girl to marry you, you will forever beg to keep her in the marriage.

Perhaps, your girl does not see any future with you. What plans have you been making for marriage?
Three years is more than enough for you to start making plans for marriage. Pull yourself together and move on.

Try as much as possible to forget everything about her. You will see that in a few months time, you will come to the realization that the world does not revolve around your ex girlfriend.

These guys stylishly passed a message to some persons in Nigeria.

Cattle business is serious business and should be done in a modern way.