You don't lead someone on just for fun. It's either you get serious or you break it off very early by letting the person know that you are not emotionally available.
Now, you have made him develop feelings for you and you are seeking advice to justify your indifference towards him.
Just cut it off now. It will surely hurt but that's the only way. End it now.
One of you may need to resign and go to another company.
Good luck.

You mentioned somewhere that your parents will not accept his background.
So, you knew all along that he will not be accepted by your parents and yet you stuck around him?
Common! What do women really want? Eh! Haba!

Have you considered the fact that in years to come, you will still see your seed in another man's house?
Whatever decision you have arrived at with the woman and her husband is not privy to it, run. Run away and never go back.

Sincere wishes. Happy Birthday.

Keep your mind busy.
Learn some skills.
What are the things you are passionate about? Get involved in them more.
Think of how you can make money - write books, graphics design, web development, forex etc.

Become successful and you will never lack companions. Both males and females will flock around you.

All these small small girls of 22 down to 18 never break your heart before. Matured girls are still the best. They know what relationship and marriage entails...

Awesome!

I must say that she is a rare breed.
I understand that you want to show her how much you love her for the great impact she has had on your life.

Always listen to her advice in terms of money management.
#500,000 is more than enough to organize a low key wedding. Cut down on a lot of things. Plan for your marriage rather than the wedding day.

What is her dream car? Get it for her unannounced. Always surprise her and see how her head will be spinning. Honey, SweetHeart and Darling will never finish on her mouth.

Are you open to tourism? You can plan a vacation for two and get everything set and just show her the papers a day or two before you set out.
Good luck and best wishes for your marriage.

You can forgive but you may not forget.
You can even marry her but you will treat her like a common thing.

Let her go now. You have already gotten your pound of flesh by sleeping with the girl that disparaged you among her folks.
Double dating is a recipe for confusion and unfaithfulness.
You don't love this girl. Kindly let her go now!

She is a hero!
If you really want to understand what these civilians pass through in the hands of Talibans, go and read "I am Malala, the girl who stood for education against the Taliban."

You do not need to waste your time to unravel anything.
This is a clear case of intimidation and extortion.

Get across to@segalinks as suggested and follow up with your lawyer.
Nigerian police and their low level of professionalism is one big headache nowadays.

If you can bear the pain of being told lies for the rest of your life, then the choice is yours.
One thing I know is that pathological liars never change. Your babe may not be entire healthy upstairs...

Tell both parents and start marriage preparation...

If she meant it, then she never truly loved the man she was about getting married to.
The man just dodged a deadly bullet...

Some jokes are very costly.
This is just a painful way to learn the hard way...

Table your discovery to your wife let her deny professionally if she is good at lies.
If she could hide a sickness for 8 years, my brother, she is the best secret agent...

Your girlfriend's heart is already with some other guy.
If I were you, I will move on. You can stay as friends but no longer as boyfriend/girlfriend.
At 22, she rarely knows what it means to be in a committed relationship. She is still open to explore. Allow her...

Your girlfriend said nothing out of the ordinary. You should embrace her even the more for her concerns towards your mother.
I can tell you that she meant well for your mother. It's about her well being and welfare.

Hold your girlfriend in high esteem and stop assuming things. Better still confront her with your assumptions but be careful about how you present it to her.

At first I told some councellors (with proof) and they advice me to leave her that she won't stop cheating.

A certified cheat will only retire when she chooses to.
Of course, it is clear to you that she sleeps around not for money but for fun.
What makes you think that will stop it even in marriage? It is not ordinary.
Marry her of you can deal with the heart ache she will give you for the rest of your life.

If you slapped her once, you will surely slap her again and again.
Marriage is not about who is right or wrong. It's about letting go, tolerance, sacrifice and the ability to accommodate.

Your fiancée lacks understanding of what relationship/marriage should be. The trust is zero %. This is an eye opener. It is called red flag.
If you can put up with a woman who has trust issues for the rest of your life, then fire on. If this is not the case, advice yourself...

You are most bro. Best wishes...

It is possible that your girlfriend is still a very young girl of between 18 an 22.
If this is the case, my brother, just tell her to make her choice or you move on.

Relationship is a serious business for matured minds not for kids.
We all do catch feelings for other people aside our partners but maturity demands that you guard your emotions and stay committed to your partner no matter the level of feelings you develop for some other person.

Give her time and she will start cheating on you...

It's not difficult to know when someone loves you.
The best thing you can do is to give the person space. Love will find you someday, somewhere...

Your boyfriend ought to be your best friend.
From the look of things, your relationship with him is simply very faulty. There is no love, maturity or even understanding.
If you end up marrying this your boyfriend, you may be in for a lifetime of pain and anguish in your marriage. You have seen the red flags early enough. So, decide if you can tolerate his wack attitude for life.
Two persons who truly love each other can hardly spend a day without talking to each other. If your man stays for months before reaching out to you, then, something is definitely wrong.
In the final analysis, you just need to choose who to stick with henceforth; your boyfriend or your best friend.
From the way you are going with your best friend, it's just a matter of time before you both get down on each other. Just time, it won't take long...

We are saying the same thing but the correct word should be used to describe it "squirt".
Squirt happens or is induced during sex activity unlike normal passage of urine which happens outside sex.
Also understand that squirting is involuntary while urinating is voluntary. Girls don't have control over squirting...

Some people said your thread is a fake story.
Anyway, if it is true, you have just 2 options:
1. Separate
2. Impregnate her
Choose the one you think might give you less headache.

There is no difference between squirt and urine as such.
If I am not mistaken, squirt is colourless while urine has colour.
Both are of same content and are produced from the same place. She squirted and not urinated.
It's practically impossible for a girl to urinate during sex.

Very true. Python is quite versatile.

Full stack developer does both front end and back end.
Front end - HTML, CSS, JAVASCRIPT and other scripting languages.
Back end - Database systems: Mongo DB, Oracle DB, MySQL etc
Local hosting software like XAMP and the likes

I will advice that you focus on one for now and become very proficient in it.

Awesome idea. Kindly add me to the WhatsApp group. I am willing to learn it and start doing the business too.

Is it possible for someone in Nigeria do Drop Shipping business on Amazon, Ebay and the likes?
@dplores
@walkwithgod

It can be a handful of work.