Circumcision of the female external genitali@ does a somewhat irreparable damage to women's sexual health.

Some circumcised women shy away from sex because of the pain they feel during penetrative sex. Circumcision leaves a permanent scar on the v@gina of some women due to a lot of reasons - improper healing after mutilation, infection etc.

In some cases, the clitoris is cut from its hood. In some other cases, the clitoris is completely removed alongside the labias (majora & minora). Then, the v@gina in some instances repel any thing that attempts to gain entrance into it due to shock of the scar done to it.

Lastly, even if some mutilated women can endure penetrative sex, it is usually near impossible to drive such women to orgasm.

Female Genital Mutilation (FGM) is barbaric and a crime against the girl child.

#stopfgm

Your student number format is wrong. You did not include your department.
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Crosscheck your registration number once again.

Love is a beautiful thing no doubt. But I must say that you are too young to put love ahead of your dreams. Go for your dreams, love can follow later. You still have ample years ahead of you.

Meanwhile, you have to be very careful about going to meet a stranger. A lot of girls have fallen victims to ritualists. Do not think that you know him enough yet.

What would it profit you to kill an innocent baby that God has given you?

Ignore her completely.
Try and get closer to other girls. She will start dying of jealousy and fury.

She simply friendzoned you.
Don't waste your time waiting.

Long distant relationship can really drain one emotionally. It's not for kids.

Do you intend to marry her?
Can she withstand the pressure from other guys the moment you are out of sight?
Can you cope for a very longtime without cheating on her?

It's a journey you never know what you are getting into until you are already in the middle of it.

Give it a thorough consideration before you take your final decision.

Don't be surprised that this girl spends money on another boyfriend. You are her ATM and she withdraws from you to take care of the other guy.

Offpoint1:

AI was suppose to mean "Artificial intelligence" Not Artificial idiot... Even an AI on oshogbo weed wouldn't had detected a female gown as health products.

I appealed 3 times and no replies from them. The moment I got pissed and slammed them they banned me permanently, I just switched to Google ads and it's far better than FB ad.

Their AI algorithm is not 100% efficient in handling things like humans. There was an Ad I published and my account was immediately restricted. Surprisingly, the Ad was approved but my account was already restricted.

That was when I wrote them again and reprimanded to restrict their algorithm from recklessly suspending my account.

I later switched to Google ads. It's better and comes with less headache.

Offpoint1:
I abandoned Facebook since the year I placed an ad for female dresses and Facebook banned my ad account claiming I was selling health products. When did women gown becomes healthy product?

You could have appealed the illegal ban. The Facebook/Instagram ban happens automatically in most cases once their AI algorithm detects a perceived threat to their ToS. If you appeal, they will restore it. Facebook have banned me severally and each time I appeal and warn them to restrict their AI from playing with my account.

Marriage is a very serious venture which can only be contracted with the consent of every party involved - the couple and their parents alike.

Marriage comes with huge responsibilities of which you will never have full grasp of what is involved until you jump in.

If you have prepared yourself mentally, emotionally and otherwise to get married, approach your grandparents, uncles/aunts or church elders to convince your family to allow you to get married to the man who proposed to you.

Prepare your points and present them convincingly. Maybe they will be able to get your father to allow you get married to your boyfriend.

Forget the relationship.
You will still meet better girls who will love you very much.

1. Fighting hard to make a girl stay with you is not worth it.
2. She never stopped loving her former boyfriend.
3. All the odds are against you.

Pullout immediately without hesitance. Take a walk and never look back. There are thousands if not millions of girls out there who are as good as she is or even better.

You are not ready to marry her now. But even if you are ready today today, her heart is still with her former boyfriend.

If you want, you can still be her friend but detach yourself emotionally from her. If you cannot do this, then cut her off.

I wonder how Nigerians were fooled to believe that the man in the picture is Buhari. That guy na MC Tagwire, the comedian who always mimic Buhari.

She just realized that you are far smarter than she envisaged.
She wanted to pin the pregnancy on you.

You already know who she is and you are still seeking answers.

What caused the previous relationship to crash? It may not be far from the pretentious life she lives.

Congratulations on getting your side girlfriend pregnant.

If you harm that baby, you will never know peace in your life until you leave this earth.

This announcement is so unnecessary.
As much as I know, the IMEI details of any mobile phone can be retrieved remotely without the knowledge of the phone's user.

The IMEI details of every mobile device that has ever hit or connected to a cell tower of a Nigerian mobile service provider is in their database.

What I expect the government to do is to ask the service providers to transmit such details to their own database and nobody will hear about it.

How do you think that Police detectives track criminals? They reach out to service providers, get the IMEI details of the phone and they start tracking the location based on which masts it connected to.

This government and their advisers eeh, una case don tire Nigerians.

If he never appreciated or complimented you before marriage, he will never do it in marriage.

There are men like him.
Try and learn how to live with him without expecting compliments.

Hushbingo:
I make money from Binary Ogar... It's not a scam, you can research and stop this your fear fear mindset towards what you don't know....

I don't tell people to invest under me, not at all. I tutor them... It's not a by force something.

I lost money in my business, not in my trade.... I av a business that based on contracts from contacts that's where i bleeped up.

I can show you a video of my trade from the beginning to the end and my profit plus withdrawal too. Don't condemn what you don't know

Hello bro, how can I get started with this trade?

Grow some balls and learn how to say no.
She will not beat you now, haba!

Politely turn her down. She will catch the message.

musicproducer:
do it right n it won't b a problem

As far as FWB is concerned, it is very difficult to do it right.
It usually leaves one person seriously hurt.

I have been able to figure out why most people in FWB relationships get hurt.
I captured the experiences of some persons who had been in it and what it felt
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I have few questions for you OP.
Did you discuss marriage with this girl? Did she agree to be your wife? How exactly did you arrive at the point that you are referring to her as your fiancée?

It's obvious that she has unfinished business with her ex. The ex is now getting more attention than you. She deletes some of her chats with him.

The worst thing that can happen to you is for your partner to be emotionally cheating on you. It's very very painful and this is exactly where you are right now.

You don't want to marry someone who is immature in thoughts and attitude. She is insensitive to your feelings and lacks respect for your person. Send her away and have peace of mind. Let her go back to her ex.

I have never heard that a Lion and a Goat were kept together in an enclosure and the Lion spared the Goat. Never!
OP, I can assure you of a few things.
*The Lion will certainly eat this Goat in a few days or weeks to come.
*I am very certain of what is to come but I am not sure when it will happen.
*Your marriage will be put in shambles when this happens.

The only way to spare the Goat is to seperate it from the Lion.

OP, you must send her away, if not, you will surely fall into her trap.
Just make sure you come back here to tell us how Delilah eventually conquered Samson.

The only way to avoid sin is to stay away from ocassions of sin.
Send her away or avoid anything that will always bring the two of you close at home.

IceDune:



OH, you thought I'm the one that created the thread.

You responded as though you were the OP.
I did not even check the moniker. How come you answered me as if you were the OP?

Do you know him?

Lastlook:


Thanks bro, i was wondering, why she was like that.... Already with someone, she saw the lady pictures on my phone... Enough pictures of my lady to scared her away but still... She still keep coming....

Funny enough... She didnt ask me, who is this lady... I am sure, she will have asked of my name from people around... She never asked my name, she just talk... I don't know her name too. I dont call her by name nor anything... I just talk, what ever i intend to.....

One may not conclude on what her target is until you find out. I can deduce that she is interested in you and she is just positioning herself to allow you make the move.

Some desperate girls care less about your relationship status. All they want is to get you for themselves.

If you want, you can sit her down and talk some sense into her. Her response will give her intentions out. She may not admit it, but if you can read women, their emotions and body language, you will decode what she is up to.

I figure out that you are not the type of guy that jump on anything that wear skirt.
Perhaps, you are one of the honourable men left in Nigeria.
Kudos!

IceDune:


I've all that covered already

Quite commendable.
What about your writing career, how well have you developed it?
Do you intend to tow the path of Chinua, Kongi, Ngugi, Ngozi, Clark and the rest?

How old are you?
I guess you are not up to 20 years.

Why the curiosity?

IceDune:


So are you saying that I should still be expecting another heartbreak

You said it yourself.

I would rather advice that you focus on developing yourself academically, economically, morally, spiritually and emotionally.

Her plan is to warm herself into your heart. She is gradually seeking for a way to get in but, her success will depend on you. If you let her in, she will come and take over.

But, if you keep resisting her, a time will come when she will hate you.

What exactly do you want from her? If you need a girlfriend, then it's up to you. But, she might be a distraction to your job. You must be careful whatever you do with her.

So sorry about your loss son. That's life, some things inevitably happen and you don't have control over them.

You should know that as a young man, you will have at least 2 heartbreaks before you get that lady that you may finally settle down with. I am not exaggerating.

Interestingly, the future is yours to conquer because age is still on your side. You can achieve so much only if you work hard and remain focused.

To have a girlfriend is a good thing. The feelings are awesome, but I will advice that you don't make them your priority now. E get why...

I have so much to tell you. Shoot me an email or connect me via WhatsApp.
I am a writer too.