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OZAOEKPE:
International war analyst way never smell embassy before, we don hear you

OZAOEKPE:
International war analyst way never smell embassy before, we don hear you

SweetJoystick:
Person wey 1 aggrieved soldier suppose release1 bullet for him head for using the war against boko as business.

SoNature:
These are some of the worrisome incidents Nigeria's north will have to live with forever

Yes, the fight against insurgency has no end in sight. Sure, it has become the biggest business in that region with many people cashing in on it big time.

If anyone expects this government to wipe out Boko Haram terrorists, they are just waiting for a flight at Tin Can Island

LivingSage:
Coming from someone whose tribe's tradition is to wake their parent with heavy blow. Idiat
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Shellsploit:
Some people won't be happy with this development. At least the donations were not for igbo hospital alone.

Jibsy203:
Animals are better than afonja youths

sofiscatedmoron:
When all these Afonja "owo da "youth dont see any yellow bus to extort money from in the streets of lagos, they will engage in robbery na, this lockdown bad oo

Babatunde40:
It is impossible for innoson to share expired rice. The east has rice mills in every state. They have fresh rice. And innoson has a good patriotic health. Someone who is ready to use his factory to produce ventilators. He can't share fake rice. He is more than that.

I know you will be wondering why a Yoruba is defending igbos. It is because there are good and bad people everywhere. If i see good, I will say it. If I see bad, someone like you, I will say it

Babatunde40:
The solution to boko haram in Nigeria is Very Very simple.

Put a law: Death by hanging for any boko haram sympathizer. You will see how boko haram will end

If you pity boko haram, you die by hanging

If you celebrate their actions because of your religion, you die by hanging

If you leak information to them, you die by hanging

If you fund boko haram, you die by hanging

If you supply food or items or fuel to boko haram, you die by hanging

Every form of boko haram sympathizers die by hanging

You will see how boko haram will end

Dpharisee:
I see many people especially Afonjarudeens posting account numbers here about hunger for just one week lockdown, meanwhile some of them on other posts will condemn Igbos and get angry when someone writes 'Igbo Amaka'.
Why don't they send their account numbers to NSIP sharing money since they voted Buhari twice?

Also, Why shouldn't Igbo Amaka when their parents and relations endured 3 years of starvation due to blockade by Nigeria supported by Awolowo, survived it and came out to produce people doing well in various fields across the world who deserves to be celebrated.
Chestbeating is never a crime and Igbos will continue to chestbeat and shout IGBO AMAKAAAAAAA

Rgade:

Ewedu geng
They have resorted to robbery to keep body and soul together.
Ogun with all her haigeharu(igr)

Oluneutral:
20 states already!


This thing sha want to spread to every state of the country, na wa o, I'm just beginning to be afraid, especially now that the core Northern states are involved. My fear is how will those almajiris observe social distancing, how can they be washing hands regularly and do they even know what's called sanitizer? Who will help tell them, who will they obey? This is seriously serious!

Lord, have mercy

happy200:
Na normal abroad lies cause am. "I'm working with oil company in Dubai" but no food on the wife's table

StarUp:
Just know that any man with his wife's nude on his phone has always been a nairaland Vaseline crew member long before he got married.

If the wife has her husband's nude, she had also long been a nairaland cucumber crew member long before she got married.

By their fruits you shall know them.

Mozegee:
The most useless fool in this forum is the guy called Sarkki .You cannot even make a constructive analysis.what is fake about what you are seeing here. because he is not your Muslim brother,he is an Igbo man who is defending the right of people under his care .it is now a fake. You are complete fool.people like you are not suppose to be here. Every damn thing you allign it with tribalism.

NORSYK:
Very good, Christians always at the forefront to save this nation.
If other religion in Nigeria will emulate their Christian counterpart there will be peace in Nigeria and progress

Aldebaran:

Uganda President 75 year old
Cameroon President Paul Biya 87 years
Nigeria President Muhammadu Buhari 77 years
Zimbabwe Emmerson Mnangagwa 77 years
Hmmmmm Africa...

sagtav:
Please go see a doctor. I also found this....


The following health issues can also cause shaky hands:

psychiatric conditions, such as depression or post-traumatic stress disorder

inherited degenerative disorders, such as hereditary ataxia or fragile X syndrome

alcohol abuse or withdrawal

mercury poisoning

hyperthyroidism, or an overactive thyroid

liver or kidney failure

anxiety or panic

Certain drugs can also cause hand tremors, such as:

some asthma medicines

amphetamines

caffeine

corticosteroids

medicines used to treat certain psychiatric and neurological disorders

whizqueen:
My friend sent me this thread last night but I had too much to say so here we go.

I (A Nigerian girl living in Canada) will be responding to the OP's points and some other comments I found on the thread.


Are Nigerian Ladies in Canada lonely? Ofcourse we are! Are Nigerian girls in NIGERIA lonely? Hell yeah!!! Are Nigerian girls in other countries lonely? Absolutely!!!!! Being lonely is not a factor of location or person. It's about not finding the right friends/partner you vibe with.


Why did we immigrate? Bros are you kidding me? Canadian govt is paying me $2000 monthly and other benefits for losing income due to covid-19 Is that happening in Naija right now? All the money donated by philanthropist in Nigeria would soon disappear into the thin air without our govt giving explanation of any sort. Ofcourse, it's not bed of roses abroad neither were we expecting a man wrapped in a gift bag but please don't let your sentiments cloud your reasoning as to why people make immigration decisions abeg.


I personally feel attacked I recently posted a video on my YouTube Channel about finding love & online dating in Canada. It's asif this hope saw my video and wanted to attack me


What makes you think we would be interested in you to begin with? Don't pride yourself too much plis dear


If you like let the OP influence your decision and stop you from chasing your immigration dreams, last last it's up to you to decide what you want for your future.


Whilst I would agree with growing together with your partner and building with them. I think it's just shallow minded of anyone in this age and time to ask for women to chase marriage first before career. Marriage is not the ultimate not everyone sees marriage as an achievement. These days, if you crave for sex so much, you can pay someone to do it or get yourself a Love Machine, if you want a child, you can literally just buy a sperm and save yourself lots of stress. Most of us are yet to keep an open mind to these things, however if you want something badly there;s always a way to get it.


Most Nigerian men hate to see it happen, there are laws that protect women here and they would prefer dying single than to see women as their equals. A good number of them are control freaks and would rather their woman be at their beck and call for everything as opposed to having their marriage work as a partnership. Nigerian married man knowing the laws of the land will still go ahead and cheat on his wife with a girl living in the same condo with his wife. Una no even dey fear or respect una madam. If atall you really want to cheat, you cannot travel to Nigeria and secretly mess with girls that fancy IJGB crew or allen avenue. As expected, some women do exploit the situation but if you find yourself a god-fearing person and you do the right thing, no divorce laws or child custody issue would stop y'all from flourishing.


White men dont find us attractive? Laughs is Swahili
On the contrary most men of other races have FETISH for Nigerian girls and Black girls in general. Maybe not long term in all cases tho but they reaaaaaaally fancy us and admire our enthusiasm towards life. Whilst most Nigerian girls would likely not wanna go for the likes of 'Ryan', 'Billy' and co it's not cos we don't find them attractive. Firstly, Naija guys are smart, intelligent and goal oriented. You see the average ones already have plans for their future and working towards it unlike the counterparts who are comfortable with just a high school degree. If a Naija guy is even into technical jobs he would try to be the best at it and work towards starting his own company in the near future. Secondly, coping with someone with a different culture, lifestyle, food, etc is honestly stressful. I was talking with one Persian guy and he said before we can kiss or hold hands, we have to be temporarily married. The other chinese guy is only about 5ft tall, I'm just wondering what he would look like in that department

In Nigeria, when you visit a guy at home, some would expect you to know that's express ticket to get laid with them. But here if you visit a guy at home, you can be almost certain that if you guys have sex it's cos you wanted it, no guy will try to lure or manipulate you to straff them or tell you when you came to my house what were you thinking. They know it's important to ask for your opinion or even avoid the whole situation altogether.

Something the OP failed to address is that the Loneliness spans across both men and women living in Diaspora. Even the white people find it hard getting a partner for themselves much less an immigrant that would probably take some time to fully settle in. The system is built to have everyone mind their business, that togetherness or family-spirit is missing.

All the naija guys and ladies in Toronto have finish dating themselves. It's such a small city, everyone knows eachother thru another person only a matter of time before you find out that; the guy toasting you is ex with your colleagues' friend. Or the guy you matched with on the dating app went on a date with your housemate the day before. Some would be married and they would be on the dating apps lying to other women.

Some of us don't even mind going back home to bring men here, but 'em guys just they find paper. Only few genuinely love and care for you. I kuku know people here already do that as business tho, some ladies/guys now charge up to $30,000 to marry people from home to help them get residency here.

There are tons of Nigerians in Canada groups on WhatsApp and Telegram some are just for singles and you find people of age 35, 40, etc filled with both women and MEN. Some guys eventually resort to going back home to marry the less exposed girls, but guess what happens once they reach YYZ airport? Oh well your guess is as good as mine. Their eyes go open finish.

A good number of Naija guys are single and desperately finding love as well as ladies. Truth is, we all crave for love. And that's not a bad thing to want. Finding a good match or significant other is a honestly a game of chance. Home and Abroad, White or Black race finding a partner is truly difficult and if you got lucky finding that one special person, you better love and cherish them truly.

I rest my case; I am in the comment section waiting for someone to jump on my mention and before you do so just remember: Opinions are like as5holes and everyone is entitled to one. So this is my opinion, I have free time today

Link to Original thread https://www.nairaland.com/5782313/chai-nigerian-girls-canada-lonely

Sisijetue:
What you want to do is in your mind already... don’t ask us just do it

thesmallgod:
Na d visa you won marry not the babe

gargoylern:
I visit Canada and the US from time to time, but on this my last trip I could not but observe just how extremely lonely Nigerian girls are there. Why did they immigrate in the first place? What did they expect what waiting for them on the other side? A man gift wrapped in iced sugar?

They all have Youtube channels now, or Instagram channels and release video or vlogs every other day. I guess it is the easiest way to stop themselves from going crazy over the dreary loneliness.

But the problem doesn't even stop there. Normally, I would have been interested sef. But many of them are actually not so good-looking or resourceful. Too bad!

If you are a Nigerian girl thinking of immigrating to Canada, make sure you consider it hard and deep. You could end up being just as lonely and dejected. Am not kidding when I say this. If you aren't there, you have no idea how tough it can get.

ghettokid1:
U mean the Audio giant of Africa?

ghettokid1:
U mean the Audio giant of Africa?

DexterousOne:
By giving their daughters out to be fvcked ?

DexterousOne:
You know this how?

HITMEUP4ANYBIZ:
Any deal ?

How did trump threaten India?

Mohdi is one of trump’s best friend, honestly I’m tired of how media houses report news, headline is always different from the News

I have some UK, US and CANADA number for sale at affordable price

chatinent:
Ghenghen! I went to his Twitter handler and people were wishing him dead!