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Ishilove:
And all the 7 tests confirmed she was AA prior to the child's diagnosis, but after diagnosis the result turns to AS? How very convenient

If one lab can make a mistake, 7 random substandard labs can also make the same mistake. That's my point.

There's no point trying to prove if the woman is Inocent or guilty.

My own friend also felt she was AA, done tests and all that. We went to do free medicals at military hospital as corpers that's how result said AS, she challenged the result that its not possible, the lab re-ran the test and it was still AS. Her only saving grace was her fiance was also AA, seems they also had to go and reconfirm that too before they eventually got married.

Winneygirl:
7 times

Considering how mistakes happen here, its not out of place.

Winneygirl:
As she is not the one making the post, there must be something we don't know yet.

Most people don't do genotype testing 7 times.
If you're AA, you do maybe one confirmatory test before marriage, that's all.

Why was she running up and down doing genotype test?
It is because she knew she was AS long ago.

Not necessarily @ bolded she was most likely trying to be very sure she was AA ( Knowing how often these mistakes happen ) because she knows her fiancee is AS to avoid stuffs like this.


Its simple if you want to marry an AS, its common sense to confirm, confirm and reconfirm your AA status.

Price?

How did your mother and siblings know about this?

You told them right, you knew your father was not financially transparent to her yet you told her your wife is the financial manager.

Not a smart move.


Your method is working for you guys, stick to it. Different families different dynamics.

jarkbauer:
this is wrong

It happened to me and although its been a little while it still rings in my memory. I still wonder why the doctor allowed that and even when the matron called his attention he ignored her, maybe they thought I wouldn't notice since I was in active labor.

How about in non teaching govt hospital involving non medical staff, these technician guys entering labour ward, rolling in some equipments and actually stopping to look down at the open legs of a woman in labour, the doctor was observing the woman in labour and this guy was beside him looking down directlydiscussing with doctor matron came over to tell the doctor that this guy is not supposed to be beside him looking directly but the doctor waved her of.

The lady was certified fully dialated few minutes after the incident and taken to delivery room but the scenario rings In her memory.

https://www.nairaland.com/5727914/not-been-able-sex-yet


Diagonal read this thread above.


Its more of a mindset thing for her, this too shall pass away.

I am surprised you are talking about 'cheating' thinking you haveade a mistake etc because of her fear.

You are not the first neither will you be the last to experience this issue, it always gets sorted last last.

Be careful of advice you assmilate here, your wife will be accused, even insulted on this thread.

I am also wondering if he's okay.

Where I come from pregnancy is not announced.

They will see the pregnancy I.e it will announce itself, in case they don't see her pregnant (due to distance) they will hear when she gives birth

I think he was the one that the head got chopped off very gruesome way to die.

RIP

Na wa ooo, lots of families had/still have serious financial issues due to covid, will all the spouses leave their husbands?

Lots of people are managing the way they can manage, your family should understand noww

dannybrasky:
If it wasn't for that experience,I would have stepped down from the lexus,and trust me they would have zoomed off.
They didn't buy the car in the end,meaning they were on a mission.
Some dealers now don't care,if you don't Pay on the spot they won't move the car. You go here after all even in cotonu you won't test drive more than a meter lol.


And with the Friday fake alert,these scammers come to your stand to inspect,they don't even bargain that much,when leaving they collect your account details and tell you they will make a transfer. They will wait till Friday to effect a fake transfer around 2pm or 3pm showing your old balance added to your current balance lol.
How they do that i don't know,I don't want to believe someone is aiding them in the bank.
He will then call and ask if you have seen alert,your only saving grace would be you checking your bank app,atm or calling your bank to be sure the money reflects. If you no do am na gobe o,cos the money won't be there.

He will then send someone, possibly one of his cohort to come pick the car,if you didn't find out the alert is fake,you are toast,if you find out,he will tell you didn't you see alert,the problem is your bank,he will put so much pressure on you to release the car because he is traveling with it. If you mistakenly buckle under pressure and you release your car,na segobe cos they know bank don't open till Monday and by then they are long gone

Na real waaa

dannybrasky:
There are different levels to this scam.
Sadly no be dealer get the car self,na person give dealer the car to sell,thats a double whammy

Lobatan, the person wey get moto fit dey think dealer sef wan scam am with the tori .

Na to dey add I shall not be scammed to daily prayer point oo.

Happy for you oooo OP.

Haaa for new year, which story would you have told the person that sent you.

Over 3million chai.

dannybrasky:
Kubwa stand ABUJA.

Well dressed Hajia walked into an innocent mechanic workshop who was doing his job jejely,asked him to help inspect a car,told him she would pay 100k for the inspection if the deal falls through.
On hearing 100k for inspection,innocent mechanic left what he was doing and followed Hajia like a sheep.

They both boarded uber to a car stand in kubwa,she pointed at a 2017 camry,mechanic did his inspection and certified car ok.

Hajia asked she test drive the car,she hopped in,drove off to test drive,left mechanic with the car dealer. 5mins passed,10mins to 30mins Hajia was no where to be found. It was then they asked mechanic,where is Hajia, he replied,I don't know her from Adam, I was working under a car when she came into my workshop,asked me to help inspect a car for 100k in return.

Long story short, Hajia was never seen,neither was the 2017 camry. Mechanic still cooling off in kuje prison as we speak. N8million gone into the wind.

This one weak me ooo

Does he still air ' The Teju baby faceshow'

This guy is good at what he does.

Lagos state maternal and child centers are quite good, very good.

But she covered your shame by claiming she had collected the dowry, why have you not given her the dowry since 2018? Na wa.

Besides You should have paid the 20k Dowry during the wedding its not too much please no matter how broke you were haba. These things have their significance its not proper to borrow such or letting your wife give you the money.

Why are you even threatening your wife sef,

You see someone ready to struggle with you wahala again.

Nawaoo

bukatyne:
@bold:

I am not disputing her achievements or qualifications:

Let me ask:

If Peter Obi became the first Igbo VP in Nigeria, do you think it is worth celebrating?

Yeah I am certain some people would celebrate.

Near Idol status?? Not at all I think.

You can't just pick anybody for post of a VP, he/ she must have achieved something to even be considered .

The matter is even more complex than I thought initially,

Molahnelson:
I see a lot of people will gladly marry legally, but they will do that, only if people like you will Lean a hand to them.

Because you see it is not enough to sit at your comfortable position to analyse others unfortunate people position

I do know that sometimes it seems churches can be very stiff but honestly I don't blame them. These things set a bad precedence for others coming up. Of course you are forgiven but there are consequences for every action .

Most churches I know will name the child but it won't be announced on the altar that sis and bro xyz were blessed with a baby,but the child will be properly named because they will say the child is innocent its the parents that will be dealt with.
That's their own way of disciplining the parents,

I once read a thread where a lady said her church said she can't have open dedication because she's was not married but the baby will be dedicated in the pastors office. Different churches with different systems in place.

In my church if you are planning wedding you guys have slept together you will most likely suspend the courtship for some months, ask God for forgiveness , you will go for deliverance sef, even reevaluate the relationship.


The truth of the matter is fornication is so rampant nowadays,people can't delay gratification and I wonder why but there are those who still keep to it.

The church is not to blame, the individuals that broke/disobeyed Gods instruction are to blame but people keep blaming the church instead of keeping to simple rules.

Is naming same as dedication? No



What would be done at the thanksgiving that won't be done at dedication? Not much I think Probably the title will be thanksgiving instead of dedication. As long as the child is presented before the altar of God and prayed for no ish.

After paloma and Diego,I vowed not to follow any of these contionous series/soap operas or even watch season films.I was obsessed with Diego/ Paloma ( practically every one was)

I would be dreaming what might happen in the next episode it was that bad

Almost 15 years after it ended I still don't watch them with my heart , I might jusy watch if the station is on but never with the fervency and vigour we used to watch paloma, never - my own personal policy I would rather watch a 2hr movie and be done with it.

This is the 2nd counter thread that will be opened as a result of that thread.

Them no fit read and waka pass for NL

Roseey0:
There is no seat down and talk to that will work sir.

Take her responsibilities off her neck and she will have nothing else to think about than fashion and physical appearance You don't help around the house yet you expect her to do magic and still maintain her youthful appearance.

You think raising kids is easy?
Thats Why the society is failing. You have parents who do not know their responsibility. Their priority still lie in vanities of this life, leaving social media and peers to raise their children.

Las las , na you go lose.

@ bolded EOD, I laughed so hard when he said she's not stressed.

One poster was even asking how Kim kadarshian manages to look how she looks after children . Does the wife have access to what Kim has access to?

@poster go and take care of your wife