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Family › Re: Should I Question Ny Landlord? by NoToPile: 10:44am On Aug 22, 2020
edoman2016:
Seriously, his landlord is a case study. The OP must have been frustrated with his landlord's stinginess.
In real sense as long as his 'stinginess' doesn't mean he won't do his duties as the landlord then its non of the tenants business and there's no need to be frustrated.

Na personal gen e no buy e no commit any offence abeg.
Family › Re: Should I Question Ny Landlord? by NoToPile: 10:52pm On Aug 21, 2020
You guys should come together and look for a solution.

Even if he has a gen the proper thing will be all of you come together ask to use his gen then everyone contributes fuel for the running of the gen and pumping at specific times.

If you don't want them charging at your place simply say so.

Don't call him stingy because he refused to buy generator.

In this case provision of water is your business, landlord has done his own he has provided the source of water and provisions for pumping its not his fault the transformer spoilt.
Family › Re: Should I Question Ny Landlord? by NoToPile:
GboyegaD:
What question are you planning to ask him?
He wants to ask the landlord why he doesn't have a gen at his age despite the fact that he has collected over 2 million from the tenants.

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Family › Re: If You Have Boys, Don't Rejoice Yet That You Have Children: Pastor Funke Adejumo by NoToPile: 4:56pm On Aug 21, 2020
saaphiere:
Whens she was calling women idi.ots you didn't come here and rant. Now the table has turned
And what makes you think I am male?

Sorry for even engaging you.
Family › Re: If You Have Boys, Don't Rejoice Yet That You Have Children: Pastor Funke Adejumo by NoToPile: 4:25pm On Aug 21, 2020
saaphiere:
Did she make the statement ? YES or NO?
Yes and so? Is that the main message.

You need to understand your mentors messages more and not pick a line and run with it.

I believe that line is there basically because people feel having a male child is the all in all, having a male without training or guiding appropriately or even praying for the child might not make end well for all the parties.
Family › Re: If You Have Boys, Don't Rejoice Yet That You Have Children: Pastor Funke Adejumo by NoToPile: 4:16pm On Aug 21, 2020
saaphiere:
I doubt you watched the video.
Yes I just did, what's the aim of using that particular headline you know its going to bring nothing but arguments so why use that.

The aim should be people to get the main message she's trying to pass across.
Family › Re: If You Have Boys, Don't Rejoice Yet That You Have Children: Pastor Funke Adejumo by NoToPile: 4:10pm On Aug 21, 2020
All these sensational/controversial headlines that this OP uses to bring arguments , I still don't get it the aim, mission and purpose of all these.

I am yet to understand because its your heading is doing the opposite of what the message is supposed to do.

The message was about children generally, how sins of the fathers can be upon the children ,the seasons in the child's life,praying for our children ,How pastors wives should pray more etc etc

How many nairalanders will watch that video.

Picking just a statement (out of context) that has very liitle to do with the message she's trying to pass across and using it as a headline to generate arguments doesn't seem christain-like .
Family › Re: Age 25 With 1 Million Naira & Living With My Parents: Buy Land Or Pack Out? by NoToPile: 3:13am On Aug 21, 2020
kingemaker:
Im also 25, earn close to 4m annually net, and still live with my parents. At this point in my life, "freedom" is the least of my worries. Trying to build a very solid foundation for myself (career) first while I enjoy the free accommodation and feeding. Life will become easier for you bro. Think this through.
Thank you,

What is it with Nigerians saying pack out pack out. Instead of saving up, making investments and diversifying most young people will move out spend a lot on accommodation just to prove they are independent , not a smart move if you ask me except there are solid reasons like the house being very far to the place of work or another state etc.

The worst that can happen is to contribute to the running of the house. Stay there and be firmly grounded and you move out later.

I don't know why people see a young guy leaving home as a sign of being a man, its not ooo.

Small endurance to achieve a good aim they don't have they keep on saying they want freedom, which kind yeye freedom.

The 1m this OP has will just vanish by the time he rents and apartment and furnish it.
Family › Re: Court Marriage : Why Are Some Women So Desperate And Bent On It. by NoToPile: 8:57am On Aug 20, 2020
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Family › Re: Court Marriage : Why Are Some Women So Desperate And Bent On It. by NoToPile: 8:38am On Aug 20, 2020
dan761:
. Oga You have mentioned Nonsense .I don't even know if you think at all before you type . Continue to run arround to tell people they must observe Court Marriage ,It's not by Force ,You are not an authority to issues out Command and orders to people on how they would live there life .I don't even know the essence of Discussing this .I am in firm support of Individual Decision .I am Married ,Believe it or not ,Very very Happy ,But I never observe any Court Marriage and I am not willing .What the hell is the Law Guiding my Marriage .The Law does not Determine who I Love ,Choose to Marry .Some would even say If U need to Travel Abroad with Family Marriage Certificate would help boost Ur Chances ,Can you imagine such a Selfish reason ,U go to Court so U won't be thrown out ,U go to Court for What self . If you like Come up with the Selfish reasons everyone must observe Court Marriage I Differ from it . The op ,God Go bless U Jare Any man that agreed to be Pulled by force by a woman to Observe Court Marriage Can form Mugun .It's not be force ,It does not Guarantee Peace ,Unity ,Safety ,Progress and Joy in Marriage .Make I Waka for now and Wait for your Empty Command again ....Mtchew
Phewwww

@bolded are you not the same person as the OP grin grin


If you can't understand that I am not even talking about all these things you mentioned up there except for documentation then there's no point.

Bye.
Family › Re: Court Marriage : Why Are Some Women So Desperate And Bent On It. by NoToPile:
knowhowk:
. Non Negotiable for where , Na you make the law of Non Negotiable right ,Which non negotiable are you even talking about sef ,Go and start telling People that getting a Marriage legally backed by law is a must .Crap .It seems U are yet to go far if it's only on NL U see people debating this .Everyone with His or Her Decision and how they wish to leave there lives .Let Law stands on it own ,The law of the Country won't determine my own Love . Very strange you mentioned that it's an Abomination to marry without having a Legal backing ,says who ,Which people and who are those your friends that spewed that Funny talk sef .See am married and no Court Marriage ,Am enjoying the best of my marriage ,There are many Couple married Legally with Stupid and Abominable experiences. Court Marriage has nothing to do with the Essence of Marriage ,Argue with your Phone Keypad
You opened the thread to get diverse views/ opinion I believe ,you don't have to get emotional about my post and start resorting to subtle insults if you don't agree with me.



You should have read my post with understanding and I started with my extended family and friends and Yes the people I move with do not take such for granted. Never. So yes its non negotiable for us.

So what do you present as proof of marriage when you need to prove you are married

Did you at least register the trad marriage with the local govt and get a paper for it.

If you read my post well you will notice the point of view I am coming from which is - documentation, how on earth will someone get married and it won't be documented in this day and age? It doesn't make sense.

Hope you know that the church marriage you are talking about in the OP issues the same certificate with the court if the church is registered.

I know how many times I have had to present my wedding certificate ( govt issued) for one thing or the other what if I didn't have one.

You are mixing up marriage itself and the possible challenges attached with getting a document to show you are married - two different things entirely.

Yes I will tell people marriage backed by law is a must.

How will someone marry( the most important decision one will ever make) and not have an evidence that is acceptable, Its only on NL I see people saying all these things
Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by NoToPile: 8:44pm On Aug 19, 2020
Brachaa:
You're welcome.

More pics on how to line them and how they'll turn out.
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Family › Re: Bibilical Gender Roles by NoToPile: 5:59pm On Aug 19, 2020
bukatyne:
Not support per say. According to him (with biblical references)

1. Divorce: a wife can only divorce for lack of provision from her husband and sexual denial. She cannot divorce for adultery while a husband can only divorce for adultery. He supports polygamy so a man is expected to marry another wife and not divorce his first wife because she denies him sex.

2. Adultery: a man only commits adultery when he sleeps with a married woman. He is a whoremonger when he sleeps with a single lady. And it is against God and not the wife. Any sex outside marriage for the wife is adultery. Husband can divorce wife, wife cannot divorce husband for adultery.

3. A husband can correct and discipline his wife by spanking also called Christian Domestic Discipline, seizing her credit cards, etc etc. A wife cannot correct talk less of disciplining the husband. If he is doing something wrong, she pleads, prays etc.

4. Masturbation: not a sin because it is with yourself. Going to strip clubs, phone intimacy etc are however wrong.

@ Number 3: While I think the marriage atmosphere in the West is too gynocentric pandering to the wives without recourse to the husbands, I was very happy to note that he cautioned his followers to be mindful of the law when pursuing Christian Domestic Discipline. I was truly happy for the Western marriage atmosphere for once. Every bad dog truly has its day.
The author has this same view about marriage? Like he said all these things ? He is not a christain then. Ewwwwww


Anyway I do agree about the man being the head of the family unit.

Lots of other points I don't especially some parts of Point 17.
Family › Re: Court Marriage : Why Are Some Women So Desperate And Bent On It. by NoToPile: 5:43pm On Aug 19, 2020
I still don't get what the fuss is about.

Everybody in my extended family the Muslims and Christians had a legal marriage

The Muslims had the traditional, nikkah, then registry

The Christians - Traditional and church alone (if the church is registered).

Or

Traditional and court alone if you don't intend to do church wedding.

Or

Traditional, church and court ( If the church is not legally registered)

Not having a legal backing to your marriage is almost considered an abomination the way I was brought up and from people and family friends I see around, in fact it seems its only on NL I see people debating this. Its non negotiable.


And it has nothing to do with whether someone will leave the marriage or not, your marriage has to be legally backed .
Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by NoToPile: 1:19pm On Aug 19, 2020
Brachaa:
Yes. Next time place cup papers in a cup cake pan not on a flat pan or tray to prevent spilling..
You can use the individual ones or the one that comes in rows like this...
Thanks so much
Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by NoToPile: 8:05pm On Aug 18, 2020
Akposy:
Wow.I made that cake for my birthday before going to NYSC camp...how time flies. Can I get the recipe. I don't have it again.

To stop them from pouring, use a cup cake pan. You have to put the cupcake papers in the cup can pans or tins before baking

The cake looks moist and yum. I called it Chocolate Mud Cake


Modified.
This is the pics
Yeah I remember you posted one receipe back then I just did a Google search and got it. I have posted it in my response to viettasitches


Lool @ the bolded - armateur baker like me. I was wondering what I did wrong I wanted to pour to 3/4 level of the paper but it was pouring away the shape was not coming out fine it was looking shapeless. I just decided to pour little angry I never knew one still had to place in a cup cake pan.

Thanks jare.
Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by NoToPile: 7:58pm On Aug 18, 2020
viettastitches:
please share the recipe .I am literally drooling.
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Akpos Birthday Moist Chocolate Cake recipe

2 cups all-purpose flour
1½ cup sugar
¾ cup unsweetened cocoa powder
2 teaspoons baking powder
1½ teaspoons baking soda
1 teaspoon salt
1 evaporated milk
½ cup vegetable
2 large eggs
2 teaspoons vanilla extract
½ cup boiling water

Shift the dry ingredients together in a bowl
Mix gently with an egg whisk or spatula
Mix together the wet ingredients (except the boiling water)
Add the wet ingredients into the dry ingredients and mix in.
Gently add the boiling water. Mix with a spatula till you get a uniform mixture.
Pour in a baking tin/pan
Bake for 25 - 30 mins in a preheated oven (180degree)
Remove from the oven when am inserted toothpick or knife comes out clean.
Allow to cool and frost as desired!

Note
The cake batter will be very thin after adding the boiling water. This is correct and results in the most delicious and moist chocolate cake I've ever tasted!
Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by NoToPile: 5:58pm On Aug 18, 2020
Chocolate cake

Followed one 2017 receipe by akposy, it was very moist kiss kiss

Made some cupcakes for the babies, any hint to stop them from pouring out of the paper plate while pouring the cake mixture ??

Family › Re: I Am Being Ignored by NoToPile: 4:47pm On Aug 18, 2020
rhemauni:
Stop wooing a man, it will lead u to premium tears.

A man should woo u not the other way round.

He has more interesting babes that he is begging for their attention

Free him I don't know why it is hard for some people to read sign messages
Abi ooo

The man does the chasing as we all know, I don't know why some ladies will be chasing men.


Ignore him naaahhh Haba since he doesn't want to 'know you' free him.

Abegii.

If he later comes around good if he doesn't then no problem.

If he's interested in you he will show interest.
Career › Re: Can I Cancel My Resignation In A Federal Government Institution? by NoToPile: 2:38pm On Aug 18, 2020
Try and retrieve it but if its not retrievable you will have to cope with our wahala here in the south.

Working in the north / with northerners is easier I accept.

Everybody is after everybody in the office here ( even in a govt job)
Family › Re: She Returned My Ring Today After 8 Years Of Engagement, Never Trust Women by NoToPile: 2:45pm On Aug 17, 2020
Lool at heartbroken man.

8 years haba some peeps don't fear God at all.
Family › Re: Adjusting To Life As A Widower by NoToPile: 8:05am On Aug 17, 2020
This oga serubawon and his wife are just shining and glowing year in year out.

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Countinue shining in his glory, many more years to you and olori.
Christianity Etc › Re: Pastor Funke Adejumo: Full Time Housewife Is Full Time Suffering PLC Limited by NoToPile: 8:19pm On Aug 16, 2020
Reference:
That is a new assignment for you. Start investigating in total objectivity.
What do you define as a 'high quality child'

Are you saying a well educated and well groomed mother won't deliver a 'high quality' child simply because she is a housewife?
Christianity Etc › Re: Pastor Funke Adejumo: Full Time Housewife Is Full Time Suffering PLC Limited by NoToPile: 8:08pm On Aug 16, 2020
Reference:
I cannot possibly have a so called house wife. If for anything I desire high quality children because I believe in legacy.

Housewives just donot deliver high quality children I'm afraid This is just one singular, practical deficiency out of so many.
shocked shocked shocked

Oh reallyhuh
That's a new one.

Lool at high quality children
Christianity Etc › Re: Pastor Funke Adejumo: Full Time Housewife Is Full Time Suffering PLC Limited by NoToPile: 8:02pm On Aug 16, 2020
bukatyne:
Fear who no fear bloggers and ko.

I watched the video when jawjawing with the OP and housewife talk was not more than 2mins.
Lool

Peeps and sensational headlines if I had watched the video before this thread I wouldn't have noticed that housewife talk there were other very important things to note in the video.
Christianity Etc › Re: Pastor Funke Adejumo: Full Time Housewife Is Full Time Suffering PLC Limited by NoToPile: 6:38pm On Aug 16, 2020
The way people just lift a line is quite alarming, I just watched the video and that was just a statement that was made.

Other things like humility worshiping the lord not being proud, being an asset to your husband and destiny were mentioned infact they were mentioned in fact they were the main parts of the short video.
Christianity Etc › Re: Can God Blame Me For Not Telling A Church Member What God Told Me As A Pastor? by NoToPile:
@ topic its not even about being a pastor.
God reveals things about other people to others, maybe church member colleague whatever.
Christianity Etc › Re: Can God Blame Me For Not Telling A Church Member What God Told Me As A Pastor? by NoToPile: 1:59pm On Aug 16, 2020
RTSC:
A lot of pastors underestimate how easy it's for God to replace them.

God can go to the house of the strongest native doctor, convert him, and fill him with the Holy Spirit.

And he will use him to replace a General overseer of 50 years in the ministry, if he misbehaves.

It's that easy.
Exactly.
Romance › Re: Update On My Wife & I by NoToPile: 3:40pm On Aug 15, 2020
Rtk5:
What if she has or beginning to move on. What is the possibility? sorry to disturb you.
Na so e easy? Is it not just a week she left?
Is there another reason except the malice? Does she still not love you?

Possibility very very slim

Abeggi Call the woman better still visit them and don't leave without your family.

And have a thorough discussion when you guys come back
Romance › Re: Update On My Wife & I by NoToPile: 3:34pm On Aug 15, 2020
Rtk5:
I must confess, all you've said really struck my heart, you're really so on point... I wish I can make the move first. I'm finding it very very very difficult. Something which i know is coming from the devil is telling me that it will portray my self as a weakling if I call her.
I will tell you point blank it is the devil telling you not to call her.

She will do small shakara just beg her and she will come home, try and talk about it when she comes back, you will change from keeping malice and she too will change from running away.



Abegii forget that weakling part.
Romance › Re: Update On My Wife & I by NoToPile: 3:30pm On Aug 15, 2020
Rtk5:
Yes, that's the reason she left. But that's not enough reason to leave her home, there are many women out there who the husband beats them but yet they endure the marriag, I've never for once raised my hand on her. Even if I want her back now maybe she has started moving on & forgotten about the marriage
Loool this your perception of marriage will take you no where. Lots of people can't deal with malice.

Ogbeni better go and bring your wife from her parents place ooo, you were advised in your initial thread to call her, you didn't .

Now you are opening thread, you better don't let pride destroy your marriage ooo.

She has not moved on any thing go and get your wife back and you too stop keeping malice.

You are already thinking of girlfriend grin grin grin
Family › Re: Where Is The Best Place In Nigeria To Relocate to From Abroad by NoToPile: 3:02pm On Aug 15, 2020
majorbravo

What type of business do you hope to establish? Or what kind of job if you are to look for a job?

This is a major factor in which state ( and area of the state) you would stay.

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