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edoman2016:In real sense as long as his 'stinginess' doesn't mean he won't do his duties as the landlord then its non of the tenants business and there's no need to be frustrated. Na personal gen e no buy e no commit any offence abeg. |
You guys should come together and look for a solution. Even if he has a gen the proper thing will be all of you come together ask to use his gen then everyone contributes fuel for the running of the gen and pumping at specific times. If you don't want them charging at your place simply say so. Don't call him stingy because he refused to buy generator. In this case provision of water is your business, landlord has done his own he has provided the source of water and provisions for pumping its not his fault the transformer spoilt. |
GboyegaD:He wants to ask the landlord why he doesn't have a gen at his age despite the fact that he has collected over 2 million from the tenants. ![]() |
saaphiere:And what makes you think I am male? Sorry for even engaging you. |
saaphiere:Yes and so? Is that the main message. You need to understand your mentors messages more and not pick a line and run with it. I believe that line is there basically because people feel having a male child is the all in all, having a male without training or guiding appropriately or even praying for the child might not make end well for all the parties. |
saaphiere:Yes I just did, what's the aim of using that particular headline you know its going to bring nothing but arguments so why use that. The aim should be people to get the main message she's trying to pass across. |
All these sensational/controversial headlines that this OP uses to bring arguments , I still don't get it the aim, mission and purpose of all these. I am yet to understand because its your heading is doing the opposite of what the message is supposed to do. The message was about children generally, how sins of the fathers can be upon the children ,the seasons in the child's life,praying for our children ,How pastors wives should pray more etc etc How many nairalanders will watch that video. Picking just a statement (out of context) that has very liitle to do with the message she's trying to pass across and using it as a headline to generate arguments doesn't seem christain-like . |
kingemaker:Thank you, What is it with Nigerians saying pack out pack out. Instead of saving up, making investments and diversifying most young people will move out spend a lot on accommodation just to prove they are independent , not a smart move if you ask me except there are solid reasons like the house being very far to the place of work or another state etc. The worst that can happen is to contribute to the running of the house. Stay there and be firmly grounded and you move out later. I don't know why people see a young guy leaving home as a sign of being a man, its not ooo. Small endurance to achieve a good aim they don't have they keep on saying they want freedom, which kind yeye freedom. The 1m this OP has will just vanish by the time he rents and apartment and furnish it. |
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dan761:Phewwww @bolded are you not the same person as the OP ![]() If you can't understand that I am not even talking about all these things you mentioned up there except for documentation then there's no point. Bye. |
knowhowk:You opened the thread to get diverse views/ opinion I believe ,you don't have to get emotional about my post and start resorting to subtle insults if you don't agree with me. You should have read my post with understanding and I started with my extended family and friends and Yes the people I move with do not take such for granted. Never. So yes its non negotiable for us. So what do you present as proof of marriage when you need to prove you are married Did you at least register the trad marriage with the local govt and get a paper for it. If you read my post well you will notice the point of view I am coming from which is - documentation, how on earth will someone get married and it won't be documented in this day and age? It doesn't make sense. Hope you know that the church marriage you are talking about in the OP issues the same certificate with the court if the church is registered. I know how many times I have had to present my wedding certificate ( govt issued) for one thing or the other what if I didn't have one. You are mixing up marriage itself and the possible challenges attached with getting a document to show you are married - two different things entirely. Yes I will tell people marriage backed by law is a must. How will someone marry( the most important decision one will ever make) and not have an evidence that is acceptable, Its only on NL I see people saying all these things |
Brachaa: ![]() |
bukatyne:The author has this same view about marriage? Like he said all these things ? He is not a christain then. Ewwwwww Anyway I do agree about the man being the head of the family unit. Lots of other points I don't especially some parts of Point 17. |
I still don't get what the fuss is about. Everybody in my extended family the Muslims and Christians had a legal marriage The Muslims had the traditional, nikkah, then registry The Christians - Traditional and church alone (if the church is registered). Or Traditional and court alone if you don't intend to do church wedding. Or Traditional, church and court ( If the church is not legally registered) Not having a legal backing to your marriage is almost considered an abomination the way I was brought up and from people and family friends I see around, in fact it seems its only on NL I see people debating this. Its non negotiable. And it has nothing to do with whether someone will leave the marriage or not, your marriage has to be legally backed . |
Brachaa:Thanks so much |
Akposy:Yeah I remember you posted one receipe back then I just did a Google search and got it. I have posted it in my response to viettasitches Lool @ the bolded - armateur baker like me. I was wondering what I did wrong I wanted to pour to 3/4 level of the paper but it was pouring away the shape was not coming out fine it was looking shapeless. I just decided to pour little I never knew one still had to place in a cup cake pan. Thanks jare. |
viettastitches: ![]() Akpos Birthday Moist Chocolate Cake recipe 2 cups all-purpose flour 1½ cup sugar ¾ cup unsweetened cocoa powder 2 teaspoons baking powder 1½ teaspoons baking soda 1 teaspoon salt 1 evaporated milk ½ cup vegetable 2 large eggs 2 teaspoons vanilla extract ½ cup boiling water Shift the dry ingredients together in a bowl Mix gently with an egg whisk or spatula Mix together the wet ingredients (except the boiling water) Add the wet ingredients into the dry ingredients and mix in. Gently add the boiling water. Mix with a spatula till you get a uniform mixture. Pour in a baking tin/pan Bake for 25 - 30 mins in a preheated oven (180degree) Remove from the oven when am inserted toothpick or knife comes out clean. Allow to cool and frost as desired! Note The cake batter will be very thin after adding the boiling water. This is correct and results in the most delicious and moist chocolate cake I've ever tasted! |
Chocolate cake Followed one 2017 receipe by akposy, it was very moist Made some cupcakes for the babies, any hint to stop them from pouring out of the paper plate while pouring the cake mixture ??
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rhemauni:Abi ooo The man does the chasing as we all know, I don't know why some ladies will be chasing men. Ignore him naaahhh Haba since he doesn't want to 'know you' free him. Abegii. If he later comes around good if he doesn't then no problem. If he's interested in you he will show interest. |
Try and retrieve it but if its not retrievable you will have to cope with our wahala here in the south. Working in the north / with northerners is easier I accept. Everybody is after everybody in the office here ( even in a govt job) |
Lool at heartbroken man. 8 years haba some peeps don't fear God at all. |
This oga serubawon and his wife are just shining and glowing year in year out. ![]() Countinue shining in his glory, many more years to you and olori. |
Reference:What do you define as a 'high quality child' Are you saying a well educated and well groomed mother won't deliver a 'high quality' child simply because she is a housewife? |
Reference: Oh really ![]() That's a new one. Lool at high quality children |
bukatyne:Lool Peeps and sensational headlines if I had watched the video before this thread I wouldn't have noticed that housewife talk there were other very important things to note in the video. |
The way people just lift a line is quite alarming, I just watched the video and that was just a statement that was made. Other things like humility worshiping the lord not being proud, being an asset to your husband and destiny were mentioned infact they were mentioned in fact they were the main parts of the short video. |
@ topic its not even about being a pastor. God reveals things about other people to others, maybe church member colleague whatever. |
RTSC:Exactly. |
Rtk5:Na so e easy? Is it not just a week she left? Is there another reason except the malice? Does she still not love you? Possibility very very slim Abeggi Call the woman better still visit them and don't leave without your family. And have a thorough discussion when you guys come back |
Rtk5:I will tell you point blank it is the devil telling you not to call her. She will do small shakara just beg her and she will come home, try and talk about it when she comes back, you will change from keeping malice and she too will change from running away. Abegii forget that weakling part. |
Rtk5:Loool this your perception of marriage will take you no where. Lots of people can't deal with malice. Ogbeni better go and bring your wife from her parents place ooo, you were advised in your initial thread to call her, you didn't . Now you are opening thread, you better don't let pride destroy your marriage ooo. She has not moved on any thing go and get your wife back and you too stop keeping malice. You are already thinking of girlfriend ![]() |
majorbravo What type of business do you hope to establish? Or what kind of job if you are to look for a job? This is a major factor in which state ( and area of the state) you would stay. |
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I never knew one still had to place in a cup cake pan.
