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Thanks for this video! I am definitely visiting!!!

This year end, may the good lord watch over our families. Amen.

Very good job! That substance is destroying the youths!!!

Cute couple! You are handsome and Madame is Beautiful!

May God bless your union with children, love, and all that you desire in a marriage and family!

This na the goat wey Ronaldo be

wirinet:
Father: Hello! Who's on the line?

Owner: it's the Owner of Dowen school

Father: oh, the killers of my son?

Owner: I am sorry for the death of Sylvester. His death came to me as a huge shock. The police and school management is carrying out an investigation on what really happened. At the end of the investigations, I promise you that anybody found culpable or negligent would be punished.

Once again accept my personal condolences. May our Lord Jesus Christ give you the strength to bear the loss.

HEADLINE NEWS: Dowen owner makes condolence call to Sylvester's father. Vows to punish anyone found culpable.

Unless you think the owner herself is culpable or responsible for the murder.

Now why was no sensational headline when the class teacher called the father to console him?

My brother seriously it can go any direction. The best is to play safe until investigation is concluded before any call and apologies. Right now every one is watching their every move and these bloggers ain't helping. They can easily twist narrative just for a few traffic.

wirinet:
What do you mean misyarn? Are you saying calling the parents to commiserate the family for the loss of their student who happens to be a student of the school will amount to misyarn? So the teacher that called to sympathise with the father was misyarning?

This shows how much the school value their students.

Father: Hello! Who's on the line?

Owner: it's the Owner of Dowen school

Father: oh, the killers of my son?

Owner: we didn't kill your son sir

HEADLINE NEWS: Dowen owner says they are not responsible for Student's death!

The case is highly sensitive, any misyarn from the owner, 2 seconds everything done burst o.
The best thing is for the owner to keep quiet until the investigation is concluded!

With the anger Nigerians have shown over the death of Master Sylvester, I doubt if any of the suspected boys would ever type such a thing!

I mean that would be really daft of them!

Their phones would have been long confiscated by the parents!

People let’s refrain from wrecking havoc to the investigation.

We are angry that Sylvester died, but now creating lies and propaganda to further taint the people involved will also turn us to bullies.

Let’s calm down and let police do their work!

I don't trust those people at all! I refrain myself from tribalism but when it comes to my health, I don't kid myself

They didn’t declare bandits as terrorist! They declared terrorists as terrorists! All these people without brains sef.

Unless you are a billionaire, polygamy is bad!

I sincerely mourn this kid in my heart like kilode!

Especially since he is in the age bracket of my son.

But the world needs to know what really happened that sad day so that it would be prevented even in all schools all over.

I suspect this is not just bullying, but a greater evil!

Football match? Drinking substance? Life threatening beatings?

All these reeks of cult initiation.

I suspect what happened is initiation gone bad!

If this is true then I fear for the future!

The present and ex house masters/mistress, teachers, guidance etc must be investigated.

The students involved must be investigated.

Students in the school must be persuaded to come forward and testify any anomaly that smears cultism

Cultism has destroyed lives of many undergraduates

We must reject it at all cost in our secondary schools!

I charge the police to explore the possibility of cultism initiation, rather than just bullying.

May the gentle soul of Sylvester Rest In Peace.

I fear for the coming generation!

The best guard against bullying of your ward is by being their close confidant and to let them know that whatever goes on out there he/she feels that isn’t right can be reported to you and you are their messiah I.e you are greater than any threat they can face out there even if it is their proprietor or governor or President! Build a great relationship with your children now!!!

Senior Farowaja!

Take N5, buy 3 meat pies @N2 each, buy 2 sausage rolls @N1 each. 4 ice water @ 50k each. And bring my N3 change. I remember just like yesterday and read it in my dairy when I went to my dad’s house recently! I just laughed. Dude became a senior tout at computer village years later. Heard he is in South Africa now sha

Nope the Op didn’t drag her name into the limelight, mumu Ubi Franklin did! He gave all the necessary clues, it was only with time that her name would be dragged out! A simple google search would have been sufficient!

The only effective fight against bullying is letting your child know you are always there for them and that you are their confidant and their messiah, that’s all! Always give them a listening ear, build their confidence and also make them know you will defend them no matter the situation.

Let them know their right from wrong!

mastermaestro:
Shut the hell and read everything I wrote instead of picking on a line to spew rubbish. You must be an irresponsible father yourself.

Some of you don't deserve to have children. GOD forbid, I almost had this same experience with my ward who lived with me while attending a boarding school in my city.
After one session, I pressured his parents to withdraw him. I already gave details of what transpired in his case in a previous thread. I don't have time to banter words with another apparently irresponsible father who doesn't know where to place blame.

If we had child protective services working well in this country, many of you would never have children. Bunch of irresponsible infidels...yes that's what the Bible calls you lots. The father failed to provide timely fatherly protection. He still pushed the boy back the same place where they had threatened to kill him. Maybe because he and his wife were too busy 'working' for money.

You are really pissing me off. Don't ever mention again in defense of that idiotic father.

No matter what you intend to communicate, don’t ever say anyone deserves to lose a child. As a father mind no go gree you say that kind of rubbish, that is how I know you are still a kid. I am prolly wasting my time because you will end up not understanding and quoting me to spill off some more frustrations. May God bless us all!

mastermaestro:
The father is gradually letting the world know his failure in this whole tragedy. I said it in the other thread that Sylvester's parents should take an equally sizeable chunk of the blame. They failed their son as parents.

So the young dude had been going through this bullying, yet the stupid father is saying here that he didn't know what to do. Madness! You deserve the loss. That young dude didn't deserve a failed father like you. Look at the coward lamenting and crying all over the place as if he cared! He didn't! If he did, he would have withdrawn the son from the school after he came home saying that he had been threatened with death.

See now, those who threatened him with death have carried out their threat!
Nonsense!

@bolded Obviously you are yet to be a father. No man that father’s a child will ever say that another man deserves the death of a child.
May God in his infinite mercies forgive you and not let karma have a plot in your life.

Mercychen:
Hi fam.

Something has been bothering me of late and leaving me emotionally and mentally stressed and drained for the past weeks and I'm cut between the devil and the deep blue sea.

There's this bro we're trying to see if we can work things out. though, I never really wanted anything relationship again or at least for now until I'm decided later in the future on what I really want for myself.

Before, I delve into the main discuss , let
me quickly highlight how it all started.

Some months back, My publisher came to deliver the books I ordered for. So while sorting the books, he just got teasing me like " Babes, na wa o. What's up with your romantic life now?. I've never seen you pulling with anyone. It's always work, biz Money money money I see you pursuing. Lol... I just told him, guy, free me abeg and I went on counting the books at the boot of his car.

He now walked up to me and said, on a more serious note, what is happening? So I told him it's a personal choice cos I dont have the strength for relationship brouhaha now. He agreed with me that truly its not easy and even as a married man, he too feels the heat but the good thing is, he married in the Lord. So I should choose wisely from among the brethren.

So he said, he has this family friend, an eligible bachelor, who wants a decent lady and I'm the one that comes to mind each time the guy mentions it because since he's be dealing with me, he can vouch that I'm a very honest, hard-working and decent lady. So he would want the bro to have me.
That was how I got to meet bro.

Now fastforward to the main reason of this post.
There was this particular day we tripped out to cool off and discuss about US. So we got talking and planning on how to build our home in a way that we will not be caught unawares with some setbacks and unplanned responsibilities. So the issue of children came up and I suggested we have only one, which he reluctantly accepted after much convincing. So we tried to look at ways we can maintain that decision and I suggested a vasectomy. citing the possibilities of health risks (as a result of mismatches ) and failures that might occur if the family planning is done on me but with vasectomy, no issues. He looked me in the eyes and said, "my darling" no!

I was dumbfounded.... And became a little worried because, if he has no plans of having more children, why would he kick against the idea of a vasectomy?

If we are going to be one and follow one course, why shying away from a plan that will benefit us as a couple and a family?


Could it be, he only agreed to have one with me and plans to have more else where?
Is vasectomy a life threatening condition?

I was still trying to wrap my head around his refusal, when he said, it will be done on you ( the family planning). That instant, I felt all alone, like im on my own. So I told him I needed to cool off, and he said feel free.
I left the tent and went to the waters prentending to be playing with the water. He came and dragged me out of the water. we strolled without a word and I asked him to take me home. He did.

He called when he got home. I was cold to him so, he promised to call again but since then Ive refused to pick his calls or reply his texts.

The big question is ..
WHY DID HE BLUNTLY REFUSE A VASECTOMY?

COULD HE HAVE ULTERIOR MOTIVES?

IS IT NOT BETTER TO OPT OUT NOW THAN PRETEND I DIDN'T GET THE MESSAGE AND END UP IN REGRETS?

WHAT DOES IT MEAN WHEN A MAN KICKS AGAINST VASECTOMY?

I don’t want to sound rude but you are VERY SELFISH! you are already trying to control the poor brother when you guys are not married. You want him to take a life decision and you want to impose it on him. Your reaction to him is self centered and crazy. May God give the good brother an understanding and caring wife (obviously not you).

What do you think pankere is for?

Chamilionaire

Hakeem Temidayo Seriki, better known by his stage name Chamillionaire, is an American rapper from Houston, Texas. He was the founder and an original member of The Color Changin' Click from 2001 until the group split in 2005. Source: Wikipedia YouTube


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CtwJvgPJ9xw

Tinnie Tempah

Patrick Chukwuemeka Okogwu, better known by his stage name Tinie Tempah, is a British rapper and television presenter. He has been signed to Parlophone Records since 2009, a subsidiary of Warner Music Group. He created his own entertainment company Disturbing London in 2006, along with his cousin Dumi Oburota. Source; Wikipedia YouTube


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QzvGKas5RsU

Nas
Nasiru bin Olu Dara Jones, better known by his stage name Nas, is an American rapper, songwriter, and entrepreneur. Rooted in the New York hip hop scene, he is regarded as one of the greatest and most influential rappers of all time. Source: Wikipedia YouTube



https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JCOURZ-yx4E

Seal (Olumide)

Henry Olusegun Adeola Samuel, known professionally as Seal, is a British singer-songwriter. He has sold over 20 million records worldwide, with hit songs "Crazy" and "Killer", the latter of which went to number one in the UK, and his most celebrated song, "Kiss from a Rose
Credit: Wikipedia , YouTube

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yivLt9cTaio

Lemar

Lemar Obika (born 4 April 1978), known as Lemar, is an English singer, songwriter and record producer. Initially rising to fame after finishing third on the first series of British talent show Fame Academy, he was later signed to Sony BMG, where he has gone on to release five studio albums, three of which are certified platinum or double platinum by the British Phonographic Industry (BPI).

Credit: Wikipedia , YouTube


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SdNGCfDowEU

And my personal favorite


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OrXB31Znxpk

Tunde Baiyewu, lead vocalist of lighthouse family.

Lighthouse Family are a British musical duo that rose to prominence in the mid-1990s and initially remained active until the early 2000s. Vocalist Tunde Baiyewu and keyboardist Paul Tucker formed the act in 1993 in Newcastle upon Tyne, England, after meeting while studying at university and both working at the same bar. Their 1995 debut album Ocean Drive sold more than 1.8 million copies in the UK alone and established them as a popular easy listening duo throughout Europe.

Credit: Wikipedia YouTube


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=taOL5HJdx1A


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=taOL5HJdx1A

Sade Adu is a renowned musician known for her bedroom serenade. Helen Folasade Adu CBE, known professionally as Sade Adu or simply Sade, is a Nigerian-born British singer, songwriter, and actress, known as the lead singer of her eponymous band. One of the most successful British female artists in history. Credit: Wikipedia , YouTube

Notable songs:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=C8QJmI_V3j4


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kcPc18SG6uA

I had my nieces over and an argument ensued that Wizkid, Davido, etc were the first to bring Nigeria into the limelight. I was bemused and had to educate them on several Nigerians that made Nigeria proud, even before the advent of the new superstars ( apologies if any taken). Here are some of the stars that shaped the music industry world wide…