₦airaland Forum

ImaIma1:
There's nothing wrong with the age or being unmarried. What if she was 17, 18, 20,...? It's not a license or justification to sleep with anyone in the house.

What if the maid was married and she still slept with the FIL? Your reasoning is flawed.

I guess you are one of those who see people having maids as lazy. The woman has a business, has children and lives in a duplex. Can you yourself manage a business, children and still clean up a whole duplex? When you want to shame someone, stop and think first.

ImaIma1:
I see no reason why they should still all be living under the same roof. The reason the FIL was there was because of loneliness. Now that he's married, he's no more lonely. Can't he move into one of his houses?

How will they all be living in the same house with all the awkwardness. Papa was irresponsible, sleeping with the maid. Now he has married her and still staying in the same house. Yet he is given a pat on the back because he is rich and he owns the house.

All I see in the comments by guys especially, is the agenda to condemn the woman like she's completely crazy to be upset. But everyone acting like it's normal and ok. If it's the other way round that her own mother sleeps with the security and gets pregnant. These same men here will do a u-turn with their fingers.

Christmasdon:
well, all those commenting this and dat .what if u uarself is the one in this madam shoes, stop talking about this madam. talk n advise urself . i think many here are even more selfish than this madam with her nanny. people can just come out and be talking anyhow Hypocrites everywhere.

Daboomb:
Its her Life, her vagina and her problem.
I might feel unhappy initially, l am human but then, as long as my Driver and my Mother can provide for their own space and let me also control my own space, the Sky is big enough for all Birds to fly.

But the story is a bit different from your analogy.
In this case, the father of her husband has lost his wife, so he has a right to re-marry and be happy (not that he is cheating on anyone).
Secondly, Women generally need to understand that it is their responsibility to their Home and Husband, that makes them a Wife, not Sex as most Women think.
If you shirk you responsibility to your Husband and Home and allow a Nanny to do it, the affection of the beneficiaries, including your Children, will shift to the Nanny who provides those Services and before long, you will be wailing "Over my dead body".
Nnaa, die naa, Life will continue. This is the reality of Life

Finally, Nannies, HouseMaids, House Boys, Drivers, Cleaners, Cooks, etc are all Humanbeings too though, of lower Social Standing but if by your own actions or in-actions, you elevate them above their Social Standing, they can and will compete with you or even out-compete you with your Spouse.

As a Husband, l wont let my Driver or even my "best Friend" dolt over my Wife, in the name of "helping Mummy" or do certain things a Husband should do to his Wife, because l know the long term implications.
E get as e be.

BTW: Wife's Father in-law and his new wife should not live together with his son and wife.
Father in-law is no longer lonely, his Son should go and buy another House and live with his "over my dead body" wife.
Too much familiarity breeds Contempt. Each Wife shoudl respect the other.

Bolu45:
This world is a wicked place, click on the link below to watch as 2 university students rape a 15years old girl.
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HelloWriter:

Soludo will NOT be a wonderful state Governor just as he wasn't a wonderful CBN Governor. People keep saying SOLUDO SOLUTION, and I wonder any unique solution he has ever offered.

Dr. Maduka is the person who has shown a long-term PASSION to better the lots of Anambra people. But, see how he was rejected - why Nigerians deserve bad leaders everywhere. Anyway, from Maduka's experience, I have learned to never worry when I have good intentions but I am rebuffed by myopic people. Na wah!

aremuforlife:
Like I said 1pound means nothing in UK, just as 1euro means nothing in Europe, and 1dollar means nothing in US.

Difrent:
Really?
Tell me something i dont know
So its also in the bible that a believer will have 7 virgins waiting for them in heaven. Okay
So all those violence chapters of the koran you people always like quoting were actually copied from the bible....interesting

Difrent:
I said it
Next thing is olden days have passed
As if the atrocities passed too
The point is christianity cannot be acting holy when it was spread through unholy means and be turning round to call islam names .
Why is it always the chriatian nations leaving their countries thousands of miles away to wage wars in islamic nations?
If muslims in arabia are killing muslims in their country what is the motive for christian countries to wage war against them?

Difrent:
The stories in the bible are only fit for a comedy script....no wonder such a global industry was built around it and sustained with further lies which now make anyone called a christian look stupid among intellectuals. So you dont know the sexual orientation of your messiah is gay...reason no mention of him having any association with any woman in your storybook

Difrent:
Let me add more to your misery.
Hitler was a christian and it was believed he murdered 6 million jews alone acting as a christian and in the name of christianity.
Before him the church has actively engaged in the trans atlantic slave trade...even owning a sizeable number of slaves in the name of the lord their savior who claims to be love....only the love didnt apply to slaves.
Earlier the church had carried out a genocide and progrom against muslims and carefully labelled it the crusades....history is full of the tales of atrocities and destruction carried out in the name of the Lord

America...the Gods own country has been carrying out genocides in the name of the lord since the end of world war 2

Yet its islam thats called all sort of names.
Oh that was in the past for christianity right?...Okay the allow islam have its own past too so there will be comparable history

Jen96:
i mean see them in my dreams. I take all my dreams serious because if I don't bind them they come to pass

Jen96:
I know things before they happen. Up to seeing questions before exam. I did extremely well in school because I was led by the spirit of God not because I was the best. How do u explain knowing things before they happen?

Lightorder:
oga , it is not a matter of what she believes or you believe or not. Spiritual things you don’t know is far complicated than the ones you know. It should bother her . Things like this when down-played now, is the reason why you see people speaking big English on NL without achieving anything in the future . She crossed the red line spiritually and should be spiritually restored

Jen96:
Yes and I see them physically too. They dissapear after I see them. Is that not acessing the spirit realm? Mine was a gift but when I got closer to God by constant studying my Bible and praying in d spirit at night (1hr by 1am) , my eyes became opened to the supernatural. I see things physically now. Is that not acess?

theophorus:
Hmmm!
You believe in God...
You have the Understanding that Spirits exist..
You have "24/7" Spiritual encounter...

But think that every of Human experiences can be explained through Physical Investigation.
#IHailUooo.

Sex outside marriage is SIN. Just like every other acts of SIN none of it affects God. In the Old Testament, God gave us the Law to guide us from Destruction. In the New Testament, He gave Us His HolySpirit whose is the Main Component of the New Man.

See, when we urge You to repent from your Sinful ways, it is because it is the Great Commission we're given.
Repent, because if you don't, you will only discover that You are Empty, when your 'Rapture' takes place.
#Shalom.

mutvy:
Give Southeast their Biafra and expell all Igbo people from the remaining parts of Nigeria . Igbo are stubborn people, kill them if they refuse to leave the remaining parts of Nigeria.

Evolutionlove:
True, even though Catholic Church Is the most deadliest Church In the World. #Christendom comes to mind.....

flokii:
See the result of Azikiwe's greed staring at everyone in the face now. Let there be secession clause for peaceful exit of any ethnic group, he and his Igbo people said no, everyone must stick together no matter what.

Yorubaland is target for terrorists from North and East.

Yet my Yoruba people are still sleeping. Who will wake Yorubas up from slumber?

blamingthedevil:
In comparison to Eastern States, States such as Kaduna, Kano and Katsina are doing better than Abia, Anambra, Imo, and Enugu. Based on available data reproduced below, in the past eight months, total VAT generated in Abia was N2.290b, Anambra -N5.938b, Imo -N1.941 compared to Kaduna -N18.262b and Kano -N24.492b.

South West-2 States
North West- 2 States
South South- 1 State...
North East- Parasites(Honorable mention(Yobe)
North Central-FCT
South East- All Parasites.