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Mrperfecto:
I will just be brief without writing too much.

We are based we have 4 children, my first child is 13 from my previous relationship, she has become very terrible, she doesn't listen to me or my wife. She tells her that she is not her biological mother and she cannot control her. She had threatened to call the police on my wife telling her if she touch her she will fight her back and call the police. She goes to school and closes at 3.45 her school is 10 mins walk from home, but she is always late for home.

She comes home around 6 sometimes 7pm , as I am writing now every friday she closes at 12.30 but she is still hasn't come back home yet.

I am on my way to work. I start at 6.30pm till 2.30am so I rarely get to see her and she only misbehaving when I am not around. So far we have seized her phone because we had found so many inappropriate messages exchanges between her and boys. We had also removed the TV from her room and her behaviour has gotten worse. She is behaving like she's possessed.

My wife and I are fed up. Even her siblings are tired of her. We want to send her back to Nigeria maybe in a boarding school until she is 18 in order to protect her younger ones. If we keep her and she continues with her terrible behaviour I may beat her badly and we may end up loosing all 4 children to the authorities.

Please what advice will you give to me concerning this issue?

Did she have access to biological mom? Let's figure that one out first.

How do you part ways with her mom?

Rinrey:
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I can operate but I'm Lagos based, if pay is 200k and above I will relocate.

TheRealOwner:
Wait o, na the wife dey work, husband make money, con go tell wife, wife vex to report give her Ogas, her Ogas con sack d wife, she con divorce husband

E get as this matter be o

Very confusing, the wife no just get sense. Na she lose at the end. No work, no husband

Idi*t! the more reason Nigeria will likely never get better.

Hausas won't hold their own accountable, same goes to the Yorubas, I can't say about the igbos because their kinsmen are yet to contribute to the disaster of a country.


Igboho has suddenly lost his voice because Bulaba is his kinsmen. Buhari was a disaster every human with functional brain knows that, bulaba is another disaster... Accord them their cards of failures accordingly and stop shifting blames to one and exonerate one.

Buhari was a disaster, bulaba is a disaster... PERIOD.

It's shamelessness for APC to blame APC for APC failure...

APC did not solve the problem of insecurity, APC did equipped the agro sector to capacity of meeting the demands of 200m+ Nigerians, but decided to blocked the importation of food items. How many years since APC blocked the border but no headway?

APC believe cutting the head off is the best approach to curing headache.

Women are against this but feel OK when a man knees to proposed... We are all mad in this life

Argentina 8, Nigeria 1

Funkyswagzz:
Yours is small.. I bought some goods last week for 353000 carton price as of today it is 411000. That is 58k difference in less than a week

Things are spiring out of control honestly, this is worse I've ever seen in Nigeria.

Before APC, if there's price increment in any product, it wasn't more than N10-N50 and N200-N500 for carton... It's a different story now.

I have a neighbor that sells provision, she has locked up her shop because she keeps restocking at loss.

Bought bread N500 on Friday morning, went back to buy on Saturday and I was told it's now N600. As of yesterday, I was told that bread is N800.

Something is terribly wrong and we are keeping quiet. N300 increment in less than a week, same is applied to other food items and snacks.

Gas I filled at the rate of 1k per kg was told it's N1700 yesterday

seunmsg:
That’s a bold and courageous leader who knows what to do. Correcting the mistakes of the past is not an easy process. The reforms, though painful, is the only sensible option considering our current situation. We must all endure and allow the process to achieve desired outcome.

You'll repeat same thing after 4 years

Karleb:
You don't know what you are saying. I should expect nothing less from off point.

List any player in the eagle squad who's Gen Z... I'm not talking about football age here. Give me the names

Karleb:
You guys are blind to Gen Zs building companies from scratch, the ones putting the country out there unlike the elders that keeps embarrassing due to incompetence but once you see a Gen Z misbehaving, you'd generalize.

Why didn't you generalize with Gen Zs that took their country to AFCON final?

Shame on you!

Which AFCON player is Gen Z? You're just proving this thread right.

SonofGod231:
Last Christmas, during the hols my kid sis who is 21 said I should mind the way I talk to her if not I won't like the way she would respond. I asked her what did you say?she said "I heard her right".
If not for my Dad I for show her how I bathed and wore her diapers before dropping her off at school. It was serious and I was really pissed.

Lol, na you dey dia dey reason because of dad.
If na me before she finish the sentence, her ear for don dey ring and her mouth bleeding.

I don't give or take nonsense. I slapped my neighbor's 16 years daughter because the idiot was talking back at her mom in my present.

Thissystem:
You think so? A basic google search shows the news is everywhere online even on Binance platform by users.

The fact remains though that government needs a holistic approach to problem solving, not only Binance for this matter.

Just bought USDT now on binance and try the sell option, it's still very much active... Where's the ban?

Bulaba he's doing.


If imagine if Obi was the president Maybe Obi lose was God's will, so that zombie will see the emptiness of master strategist and Lagos builder.


If it continues free falling like this on daily, then in 3 years time Emilokan will take it to 1$ = N150,000 or more.

By that time a cup of garri will be 30m

CalmElder:
If I see a Nigerian doing this to a foreigner, here in Nigeria, I'll defend the foreigner.

Very disgraceful act.

No Nigerian can do such to a foreigner, Nigerians are the most accommodating people on earth

Trump! Trump! Nairaland residence pastor favorite 😂 I love how restless he went when Trump lose to Biden he went berserk with endtime delusions 😂

Amotolongbo:
Make me self go buy bench and tray put beside your friend make I dey sell condom and agbo jedi

I go dey by your left with small umbrella and pos machine

The most fascinating things for me is always the distance. 12 billion lightyears away. Meaning if you start running at the speed of light, it'll take you 12 billion years to get there. That's insanely insane.

Meaning, even if humans somehow invent a machine that travels at light speed or 100x light speed, we won't still be able to make it there.


Our only hope is wormhole machine

EmekaBlue:
Before i use to bother and think how can i raise a baby with all i read online about high cost of pampers, cerelacs this and that but now i'm living in the hood...I see people who are kinda poor even raising triplets with normal pap aka akamu and rewashing of babies pampers this and that and the kids are growing strong and fine

Abeg i no fear to have my own kid now. God will provide someway somehow and my child/children will even bring blessing to me and others like me. No more time to waste waiting until i get better money

All these process foods are not recommended for kids in the Hospital.

Pap is the first thing Doctors recommend, after 6 months of exclusive breastfeeding. Processed food is only 2nd option if parents complaint about their kids not taking pap. A pap made with Guinea corn is x better than these processed food.

Chrisrare:
Nigerians don't like to mind their business, how she chooses to dress shouldn't concern anybody.

Yeah, it concerns one... Let her pollute the young kids in public, we should all mind our business.


PATHETIC

Btruth:
Oya now.......follow by states own electricity generations and others. State should control the resources too.

Let's go abeg.

Nigeria needs decentralization URGENTLY.

1Sharon:
Lol sure. You wouldn't even know she is entitled. You'd automatically start doing doing, w/o being asked.

When a woman asked anything not business related it's a big turn off for me. Everyone should carry their financial loads. I can surprised you once in a while, but don't ask because I won't GIVE.

In fact, every lady I approached with the intend of having affairs, I defined this on the first date. If it doesn't sit well with you, you can go. So far, it has made me realized love is an illusion. And ladies don't like the truth, the prefer you lied and the truth comes out in your actions.

Scrap it and let the president fly economic... His country is crashing, he should make a sacrifice.

Angelfrost:
Actually, it is laughable how Ohaneze assumes they have control over what Southeast does.

That is just funny.


Most Southeasterners have no regard for that organization... They see them as traitors and sellouts.

They're more political group... Just disguising.

People are commenting base on the headline, but the writeup is more of support to bulaba

Damn!