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FamilyRe: Tired Of My Marriage by okewumi: 10:06pm On Jun 13, 2021
Talk to your wife and also mind your language when passing the message. I understand you but you still have to be careful. Your tone looks as if you do their family a favour by marrying their daughter whereas l don't think they sell her to you. Handle it with care
PoliticsRe: June 12: What Are Your Plans? by okewumi: 9:36am On Jun 12, 2021
Buhari is not my problem. Governors, commissioners senators, judiciary system are my problem.
They channel their aluta to them, not Buhari up and down.

Governor will be on a sit for good eight years without anything and when you check the allocation he received for the whole years, it is huge.
Senators are collecting kidnapping allowance. Who do they help.
Christianity EtcRe: What TB Joshua Said About His Mother And Father (Photos) by okewumi: 8:20pm On Jun 09, 2021
Haaa TB Joshua is a cheerful giver. I remembered how he assisted Nigerians that were deported from Libya. Also during xenophobia problem in South Africa. He still donated to Nigerians that came back.

You will see trailers of rice from Emmanuel church being transporter to different part of the country. I beg the man of God is a giver
BusinessMy Experience With My Twitter Account And Benefit by okewumi(op): 9:00am On Jun 09, 2021
Government announced the ban of twitter in Nigeria some days back. I tried to ask myself, have l ever benefit anything from twitter since l join? Let me share my brief experience.

I graduated some years back and l am one of people that is not privilege to stay with my family due to the nature of my work. Most of the companies l work with always post me to site in remote/rural areas and my job is usually from Monday to Saturday. Well l am enjoying my job and l am very grateful for many organisation for having twitter account. With this, l can easily send message to rectify any problem, it has been helpful and saves me of wasting man hour.
Let me start from my bank account. Sometimes l transferred money and money hangs, or the app fails to send OTP code, l can not visit bank because the company l work with are not interested in your excuses.What l do most time is to log in to their twitter page and complain. They always respond and resolve most of this issue before their close of business.

Secondly, twitter has really bridged the gap between me and my family at home. if they complain of any problem for instance DSTV or GOTV network. My wife may not know that children has mistakenly scatter the settings or pull out a cable. i quickly send a twitter message to Multichoice and within short period, the problem is resolved. I think government should help the citizen and rethink about the ban.

Even my place of work have severally use twitter to alert personnel on site and police force during security problem but l don't want to go into that.
This are just few reasons l can mention now of how twitter has benefited to me. Have you ever benefit from service of twitter in Nigeria? please share your experience. Attached are screen shot and please don't mind my typo error. This is my first time of posting and l appeal to moderator to push it to front page

FamilyRe: Let's Be Sincere. "Can You Marry A Woman Like Your Mother?" by okewumi: 4:46am On Jun 09, 2021
Virgin with nagging !
Capital No.

Your daddy married me as a virgin but that doesn't change her character. Sometimes you will think she is the husband.

Good side: she loves her husband, religious, Too generous and has many other good side.

l can not cope with nagging wife.
I pity my father most time. Association of l want to marry a virgin grin.
CareerRe: Massive Sack Looming In Many Digital Companies/banks by okewumi: 7:19pm On Jun 05, 2021
thebosstrevor1:
You don't need lot of people to manage a social media page.

In my opinion, banks will employ more people especially in their customer service section because it will become very busy.

People who complain on Twitter, now will have to walk to the bank to complain.
What about some of us that work in remote locations. Twitter has really help me to communicate to my bank and DSTv. Just tired of this government.
TravelRe: My Experience With "God Bless Ezenwata Motors" by okewumi: 7:47pm On May 24, 2021
I regretted following them in may 2021 from Onitsha (upper iweka) to Lagos. The experience was horrible. Keke napep will run faster than the luxurious bus. Pls run for you life when they appeal to you to join the bus
EducationRe: Two OAU Students Commit Suicide by okewumi: 8:47pm On Apr 20, 2021
if you are an average student, don't EVER school in OAU. The school is for genius. You tried any department in White house, you will spend your five years in depression.
FamilyRe: My Mother-In-law Just Walked Into My House Without A Notification by okewumi: 6:59pm On Apr 13, 2021
Life is not balance oo grin grin grin grin grin

My mother in-law place is not far (like 45 mins drive)

I love whenever mama comes. she will assist with washing and many other things. Especially taking care of children.
Na serious beg whenever she wantt to go. I love to always have her around.
My parent stays in another state and they dont have my time
PoliticsRe: Performance Survey: Rate Your Governor by okewumi: 12:38pm On Apr 11, 2021
i drove round ibadan for the past 14 months because of the nature of my job and l give Seyi Makinde 7/10.

My reasons are
{a} At iwo road, work is on-going to construct a bridge that will reduce traffic for people coming from ife to iwo road
(b) Work is on-going to construct bridge at Ojo area to reduce traffic for people coming from Oyo town to ibadan.
(c) He flagged off Akobo bridge and they have started work already. (in fact, l don't know why l did not have all this pic on my phone} l will snap in my next visit.
(d) During this Easter, another layer of coal tar was placed on the road from because to islamic high school
(e) I went to an area around Kumapayi area after olodo garage and l saw a new school building.
(f) He pays pensioners on time. Thank you Mr Governor because my parent is one of them


Governor Makinde should be very fast, l know the IGR is small. He should please fastrack Akobo road project and extend to Olorunda.

Don't quote me, Oyo state is very big. From ibadan to Oke-Ogun to Oyo town and then Ogbomosho
PoliticsRe: What Is The Electricity Situation In Your Area? by okewumi: 5:19pm On Mar 13, 2021
I think most distribution company has to be make accountable especially PHCEDC.

I now understand life is not balance. As l dey enjoy light, l would have love every household enjoys it in Nigeria.

In my area in Lagos (l don't want to mention name because the country security situation is something else), we enjoy 23hours. Thanks to IKeja distribution company oo.
PoliticsRe: Sanwo-Olu: Ambode Left Agege-Pen Cinema Bridge At 20% Completion by okewumi: 5:09pm On Mar 06, 2021
Truth will surely prevail. Within four years, Ambode completed Abule-egba bridge, Ajah bridge and he constructed many road bypass like the exit bypass at Ojodu Berger if you you are going to isheri-olowora. He expanded the packing space at iyana oworo to minimize traffic on third mainland bridge and many more. Even that Agege bridge was 60% completed before he left but they intentionally drag it to two years.
Mr pointus Sawolu, we are watching and God is watching u. You have spent two and half years with nothing.
I know if Ambode support Agberos and yellow buses, they will support him but those are tools Tinubu want to use to for 2023 ambition
PoliticsRe: Sanwo-Olu: Ambode Left Agege-Pen Cinema Bridge At 20% Completion by okewumi: 5:08pm On Mar 06, 2021
VaselineCrew:
They keep berating this guy, but some of the common sense developments were done by him.

For example, he dismantled the roundabouts at the lekki epe expressway and replaced them with traffic lights. A move that drastically reduced the traffic along that axis

He introduced 112 police squad cars in Lagos and they were actually quite effective at pulling people over at the start.

He pushed for reconstruction of the international airport road that had become an embarrassment to Nigeria.

...Don't mind them.
Truth will surely prevail. Within four years, Ambode completed Abule-egba bridge, Ajah bridge and he constructed many road bypass like the exit bypass at Ojodu Berger if you you are going to isheri-olowora. He expanded the packing space at iyana oworo to minimize traffic on third mainland bridge and many more. Even that Agege bridge was 60% completed before he left but they intentionally drag it to two years.
Mr pointus Sawolu, we are watching and God is watching u. You have spent two and half years with nothing.
I know if Ambode support Agberos and yellow buses, they will support him but those are tools Tinubu want to use to for 2023 ambition
CelebritiesRe: Meet Mya Yafai, Davido New Girlfriend (Video, Photos) by okewumi: 3:23pm On Feb 28, 2021
Jakumo:
When a woman has borne a child, her breasts droop and flatten, while her belly gets loose and flabby, which all adds up to be one major turn-off for many males. That is why married men are most likely to stray from their wives the instant pregnancy enters into the equation.

In short, wives are for breeding and child rearing, while nubile young women are for hot sex and fun times. Rich men, as a rule, hastily upgrade to tender young single women with pert jiggly breasts and toned midriffs, the instant their wives grow fat from bearing babies. Blame nature if you will, but the male human being is hard-wired to seek out fit young women that have NEVER been pregnant. Once that woman's belly grows large with a baby inside, the sex drive of her husband DIES.

Expect our man Ned Nwankwo, of the Young Puszy fame, to hurriedly dump his child-bride of last year, since she has borne a bouncing baby for him, thereby becoming a housewife with zero appeal to the billionaire. Time to move on.
You took bad

TravelRe: Woman Shares Injury Inflicted On Her By A Bolt Driver (Photos) by okewumi: 2:00pm On Feb 28, 2021
AuroraBrls:
This e-hailing/uber/taxify hustle is pure refurbished slavery. The drivers are the ones who are worse off no matter how you assess the situation.
The are always helplessly sandwiched between the devil/e-hailing firms and the deep blue sea/riders.

You pick someone from Murtala Mohammed International Airport and drop them at Sango-tedo, the app brings up a fare of 2500-3000naira, after 1hr30mins or 2hrs in traffic. Uber/Taxify deducts their 15-20 percent of the fare. Remember to also deduct the 500naira parking fee at the airport. But a Yellow cab will charge you about 8,000 to 10,000 for this same ride distance, even without AC or any comfort., an airport taxi will bill you even 15,000 to 20,000 for this same distance.

A lot of these drivers are surviving by the skin of their teeth. To even squeeze a decent profit to enable them feed, maintain the car and do repairs, pay car owner 30k every week, the go through horrible stuffs. You must drive 15-20hrs everyday, you sleep in your car, if u exhaust uber allowed driving time you switch to TAXIFY, you beg filling station attendants to help you use their bathroom and toilet to freshen up as early as 4am, you eat rough, your health goes bad easily, alternatively you have to improvise. A lot of them have a small bag containing their clothes and small buckets. By 3-4am anyday try and visit TOYIN street IKEJA, A filling station at Maryland BUSTOP Lagos, Total filling station Abraham ADESANYA in AJAH, farmcity LEKKI, admiralty way LEKKI, EKO HOTEL axis, fela shrine etc. you will see hundreds of cars with their owners sleeping inside. they are all uber/taxify drivers, some of them leave their house or where ever they are squatting and live on the road for a month. A lot of them sleep off on the steering out of stress and fatigue and trying to meet up with money to pay car owner..

The app owners and car owners and mechanics are the only true winners in the biz. the drivers are pure slaves. Even someone doing daily pay job at a site will make more and have much rest and peace of mind. Unless the driver does more of interstate offline trips that are off the app or resorts to sharp practices that manipulates the app. even at that it always backfires as you will be blocked.

It's only the devil in most riders, ESPECIALLY MOST VAGINA PEOPLE, I AM SORRY TO USE THAT WORD BUT I MUST OUT OF ANNOYANCE, that makes them to dehumanize these poor helpless drivers. 90percent of the problem of these drivers are from women. if the driver insists on collecting his money complete they rate them bad on the app and add false comments, if the driver keeps quiet all through they rate them bad, if the driver tries engaging them in small talk to keep awake or Alert on the steering they rate them bad, if the driver politely asked them to not talk to them condescendingly they rate them bad and make false reports. they get blocked every now and then. their words have no weight or value before the app companies.

I am writing this lengthy piece to sensitive people, pity these drivers, give them tips, go the extramilr to be nice to them, if you know of a better job old refer them, some of them were on white collar jobs before unfortunate stuff happened to them, they resorted to uber instead of banditry and kidnapping, encourage them. the app company makes billions out of this drivers and the drivers wallow in abject helplessness and lack.

The drivers, especially those that work at night are always the target of cultists, car robbers. ritualists, police, agberos, riders that give fake Alert, prostitutes that want to pay with sex rather than cash, they face a lot. if they die on the steering uber never pays a dime, if they get killed by ritualists the app firms look the other way. even the drivers don't even have a single United leadership. please be kind to these drivers and overlook some of their shortcomings esp the unlearned ones. the hustle na pure hand to mouth hustle
shocked.
You are right
TravelRe: Woman Shares Injury Inflicted On Her By A Bolt Driver (Photos) by okewumi: 1:52pm On Feb 28, 2021
maishai01:
I think this is very true. I've actually wondered how it's computed especially in Lagos. If you ask me, some of those rates are quite ridiculous, especially if you consider all the traffic.

During my visit there, I boarded one from Opebi to airport and was shoked to see the app showing 650!! Those yellow taxis will collect nothing less than 1500 - 2k!! I gave the man 1k and only collected 200 change.

For Abuja the rates are a lot better
Thumbs up. God will continue to bless you. I take Bolt a lot and l marvelled at what app brings most time after the trip. A trip l expect to be like #1,900, the app will show #700 at the end of the trip. I pity those drivers a lot. God will open better offer for them
TravelRe: Woman Shares Injury Inflicted On Her By A Bolt Driver (Photos) by okewumi: 1:46pm On Feb 28, 2021
uuzba:
I used to give "lift" to people before on my way to work and back. People generally understood and paid same money they pay for bus. N200, N300..
That kind small change.
One day I carried 4 people. 3 men, one lady and we were in traffic, all that kind of stop-go traffic.
Me I was tired and upset. The guys already understood and were just chilling and looking. I was using AC to avoid smoke and fumes from other vehicles.
Na im, the girl come dey make noise.... mtchew.... mtchew.... mtchew....
Can you imagine?
I'm the one stressing and doing the driving, then you are the only one in the car complaining. And I had covered like 75% of the journey and not even collected the miserable N200 O!
I just parked the car at the next bus stop and told the girl, to get F*** out my car. She can enter any other fine car that is faster than my own.
Girl come shock. She no wan open door.
I got out, went to her side, opened the door and told her to get the f*** out my car with her f***ing N200 before I descend on her.
Na im she carry herself go.
The remaining guys were just chill.
We continued our journey went our separate ways.
Ladies can really irritate car owners. Don't ever enter somebody's car and be forming big.
I have close gentle friend that did the job after his Msc. The guy has to stop and focus on another area.
He said the best people to pick are educated and yahoo guys. They are friendly, talk to him politely and most time appreciate him with cash after trip grin

He said the most HORRIBLE people to deal with are mostly ladies. They will drink ice cream and littered/stain the back seat. some will sit and fold their legs on the chair as if it is there papa sitting room. Some thought the car belong to bolt and all the maintenance of your car whereas it is not.
Bolt will collect 20% on every trip( i.e on every #1,000 trip, bolt will collect #200). You buy recharge card on your phone, buy data on your own for the app and you don't have control of the app.

I think Bolt and Uber needs to educate their customer that drivers are not school drop-out. Respect is reciprocal. When you respect them, they respect.you.
RomanceRe: After I Took A Loan For Her, She Blocked My Number by okewumi: 11:04am On Feb 23, 2021
If your mama or younger once beg you to help collect loan, you will start story. Shior
CelebritiesRe: Zlatan & Bella Shmurda Show Off Dribbling Football Skills (Video) by okewumi: 10:52am On Jan 26, 2021
Doncyn:
[1/25 11:41PM] Data Sell: 0043467599
Asomugha ifeanyi onyebuchi
Access bank.. he is a fraud..dont do any data business with him
You too don't enter am. The guy need to be reported. Just type his name in google first and you will know is oncoming hush.

BusinessRe: Allarounda1: Dangote Sued Me For Declining His Silence Money – Alleged Ex-lover by okewumi: 12:10pm On Jan 25, 2021
illicit:
Omo, billionaire affair dey different level sha....



She sha say make dem tell Dangote make he send her 5 million dollars to one Peruzzi


On top say na him f u c k up hmmmm
I can see why price of Cement jump from#2,500 to #3700
CrimeRe: Amotekun Arrest Primary School Pupils For Emulating Naira Marley (video) by okewumi: 2:06pm On Jan 24, 2021
InfernoNig:
Really sad that we've lost morals in this country. What is the job of the so called amotekun? This is a misplaced priority, assault and unlawful arrest of minors. Nigeria is a Failed State with Failed System of Government.
Instead of them to go to igbohora, igangan, ibarapa, Oyo villages and protect them from fulani and bandits. They are constitute nuisance in the city.
AutosRe: How I Almost Got Scammed at Berger Car Depot. Read And Be Wise by okewumi: 1:11pm On Jan 24, 2021
ShenTeh:
Thank God for you @ Virgonhills.

Usually when I want to transact business with a stranger, i google his/her phone number and account number when given.

It has saved me a lot. Eg, i just type your phone number+fraud or +scam,.

Anybody who does not give you full address on the first go is a total no-no.

If anybody tries to or defrauds you, please come online like the op did, even if it is on your Facebook page or Twitter, to call out the person with all the person's details that you have. It will save others.
Waaooo. I tried it now and it brought a nairalander that defraud me of data asomugha ifeayin onyebuchi by name and google brought his name. Chai

FamilyRe: Three Experiences That Make Me Think I'm Married To The Wrong Person by okewumi: 5:05pm On Jan 23, 2021
malcom1X:
Guy be a man.
Don't ever borrow money from your wife to do anything. If you don't have tell her you don't have. That her money should be spent on her children.

Pay her dowry, don't owe her, it's her money. She saved you from embarrassment.
I guess you must be a family man. one Heineken you grin grin.


Rule number 1 as a family man of this generation.

NEVER burrow money from your wife. If you do so, you are in soup. I remembered when l used to burrow, l was surprised when she brought a book of debt. Since then l manage the resources that is available, if she want to assist good, if not, we manage what we have. cool shocked
FamilyRe: Some Damaging Words My Wife Said During A Quarrel by okewumi: 5:32pm On Jan 11, 2021
CrescentMoon:
Let me first tell you my kind of character. For you to make me angry, you have to repeat an offense more than 30 to 40 times. After each offence, I would only give you facial expression that will let you know that you offended me. And I would ensure you get the message.

So wife kept repeating same offence. I told her I don't like what she was doing. She said she would adjust, but kept repeating the same thing. When I got fed up, I tried to retaliate. My only retaliation is that I stopped being around in the house. I would leave the house very early in the morning and return late at night. I would go for business in another town and return 4 days later. She knows nothing stops me from coming home everyday from the other town because I have means of transportation. She flared up. Started calling relatives that I'm maltreating her. They asked her to say which ways I have been maltreating her...she said I'm avoiding our home. Relatives asked if I'm beating or starving her. She said no.

I know why it pained her very well. If she wants to go and urinate outside, I would go and drop her there. When she is through, she would call me and I would go and pick her up again.

She's a woman that's always settling fights for couples in the street. So, she never wanted it to be heard anywhere that we are quarelling in our home. She won't want anybody to come to our house to settle disputes. So this prolongs our fights always.

When she couldn't bear it again, she sent a message to me that goes like this: I INITIALLY DIDN'T WANT TO DIVORCE YOU BECAUSE OF YOUR DISABILITY AS I PITY YOU. BUT NOW, IT'S OVER. YOU HAVE TO BEAR THE CONSEQUENCES OF YOUR ACTIONS TOWARDS ME ALL THESE YEARS. WHAT DID I HAVE TO DO WITH A JUJU DIABOLIC MAN IN THE FIRST INSTANCE.

Let me disect those words in capital letters for you. I have a disability, but you can't notice it easily until you start talking to me. She said I have to bear the consequences of my actions towards her... looking back, I have done unimaginable things to make her happy. I even saved her life when she didn't want blood transfusion from unknown persons as a result of her Christian belief not to contract demons from the blood of unknown person. Fortunately, my blood group is that of a universal donor. That means I can donate blood for anybody. Note that she had never done any noteworthy thing for me apart from giving birth to our babies. About being a juju man, I will tell you how she arrived at this: somebody was about to give birth from her family side and the baby was in breech position. She asked for advice and I told her that if I take the woman to the village my uncle will give the woman a concoction to reverse it. Her faith is against it, but because someone from her side just gave birth through CS, which almost led to the death of mother and baby, she asked me to take the woman to the village. The breech position was reversed. I'm surprised she now labelled me a juju man.

Instead of me to take her message personal, I urged her to please herself. This infuriated her the more. Instead of leaving me, she invited someone to intervene, tracked me to the second town, and it was settled there.

My problem now is that those words are still ringing in my head... someone I thought was a lover said she married me out of piety.
You need slap grin grin cheesy.

Na woman abuse you want to carry for head. Just ignore my brother. Wify abuse one million times, l ignore and we settle it later. Just ignore bare, this is 2021
PoliticsRe: Nnamdi Kanu Launches ‘Eastern Security Network’ (Photos) by okewumi: 9:35am On Dec 15, 2020
Job well done. The guy is more serious than most South governors. After ENDSAS with all hidden palliatives, l gave up about the country.

Long live Namdi. God bless you.
Nairaland GeneralRe: What Major Set Back Have You Ever Experienced In Life? by okewumi: 7:07pm On Dec 07, 2020
Invested in plantation farming, the result was zero. Partner with a friend in cow rearing, the result was zero. I was just thinking of having another source of income apart from salary.

This year January, expatriates travelled home and they could not come back because Nigeria is recording daily covid(audio). We were told to sit at home since march without pay.
CareerRe: Tension As Boulos Sacks 70 Workers by okewumi: 6:59am On Dec 02, 2020
If u know what most people are passing through in the hands of employer at this moment, u will pity them. No labour law nothing.
The worst is Lebanese or India companies
RomanceRe: Marrying An Older Lady? by okewumi: 11:57am On Nov 30, 2020
supereagle:
God has picked your call. Do not waste time again. I am older than my wife with 14 years, she is the boss at at home. not supportive, she depends on me for everything. She cannot even enter kitchen to prepare food for the family. Marrying someone you are older than is not guarantee for happy union. I always tell her that she is beautiful outside but no inner beauty.
Thanks for your response. Women doesn't send you if you are older than them by 10 years. If she is respectable type she will and if she is an arrogant type, you are in soup. I have dated mature lady that is older than me by 4years and l really enjoy her level of reasoning on different issues
PropertiesRe: General Topic Thread-To Discuss Anything And Everything in Building Construction by okewumi: 2:55pm On Nov 08, 2020
Three plots of plantation farm land at Elekure area (after Akobo-Olorunda) in Ibadan.

Price: 400k each
Reason for selling: l couldn't manage again became my or sent place of work in South East.
Contact number: 08034492494

A resident is close which means you can build on it

Nairaland GeneralRe: What Is The Greatest Lie You Ever Told Or Someone Told You? Share Experiences by okewumi: 4:38pm On Nov 05, 2020
A room mate told me his father (a soldier) died during official assignment and his mother stays in village. I started feeding the guy not knowing the guy was lying. The guy was just using his money to flex codedly grin
The day l met his parent, l felt so mumuish
FamilyRe: What Do Some Men Gain From Sleeping With Other Men's Wives??? by okewumi: 1:57pm On Oct 24, 2020
A promiscuous man said married women hardly have diseases (HIV, gonorhea etc) but Olosho are embedded with many diseases
PoliticsRe: Soro Soke: EndSARS Protesters Launch Online Radio by okewumi: 10:16pm On Oct 18, 2020
fireback:
SORO SOKE means speak louder.
The station make sense (music and discussion). Their program is in English.

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