₦airaland Forum

OMO IBO:
this compnay is a joke.
NCC for just withdraw their licence instaed allowing them to sell on the ailing company.

The new prospective buyer go only do panel beater work just like Econet=vodafone=vmobile=celtel in the past

Fhemmmy:
All those people on the street, na like this dem take start oh.

OgidiBoy:
Your head no correct

Is this what you forgot?

omofola:
What about those that married early and had their children 10-15years later or are divorced like so many of them are now, then compare it to those that married late and had there kids a year or 2years later and are happy, which would you prefer?

Some got married early and are ok, while some are not, secondly some got married late and are ok while some are not enjoying their marriage

I think getting married early or late is not the determinant factor to joy or peace in a marriage, go into marriage when you know you are physically , emotionally, and spiritually fit as well as mature enough because marriage is not all that easy to venture into, it is not mearn't for children , You need God before you go into marriage whether early or late.

So effects of early marriage can neither bring a  positive or negative impact in our lives, it is just a choice.

lucabrasi:
its not right,im from a polygamous family and i can tell you that you might see them all getting along but there are always undercurrents,tensions in the house,petty jelousy envy [/b]e.t.c and this is assuming money isnt an issue

FKseun:
Thanks for all your advice. She's yet to return from her business. I have made up my mind. I am going to confront her tonight! I do not need to start stating here what I have done for her, her family, and others. I have been a 'very' good husband, father, inlaw and all. Imagine, the husband of the woman in question called me few minutes ago to warn my wife to steer clear of his wife. Imagine! He said he has reported to his mother-in-law. I just can't believe all these. whatever comes out of it, i will take.

lagerwhenindoubt:
A close friend was robbed this year in the Surulere area

His pregnant wife and house-help were raped and he was beaten up seriously.

Valuables worth over N1m was carted away as he watched helplessly.

He had the mind to fight but his wife pleaded. (she lost the baby by the way)

My question is.

1: Would you risk pain and possibly death to challenge and possibly kill an armed robber.

Consider the following before you answer
1: The trauma is unimaginable
2: Psychological friction it will create between spouses can only be imagined
3: Possible infections from HIV to other STDs
4: Constant fear of staying indoors or in any other neighborhood in close proximity to the event

I have been robbed before (infact recently) at a gun point so I can contribute cause I know how one feels.

Firstly, I will not risk pain or death to challenge or kill an armed robber cos in most cases they work as a team and an attempt to fight might lead to anything. All I can do is to plead and if they fail to listen, no prob. If you attempt attacking them, they might kill you and eventually do what you were preventing. So who loose?

Of course the trauma is terrible and I can tell you that it still occurs to me everyday cos I was robbed on my way to work. I have tried to overcome the trauma  but still find it difficult to relax my mind when going to work even though I have prayed before leaving.

It is still better for the couple to be alive even if they will be psychologically affected, although I know they won't find it easy but someday, they might overcome it.

Any of the ailments is better than death. You can still achieve your visions with any of them. All you need are right medications and counseling.

Above all, it would have been better if the man kept it secret that his wife was raped cos the trauma of saying it to friends and families makes it worse. By saying it out, everyone now has a eye on the woman and will make things worse for both of them cause it is a shame.

ifyalways:
so many unanswered questions in the story
poor woman,Lucky baby.

dalaman:
I personally believe that a person can be born gay, I have come across a lot of gay people here in Europe and I believe them when they say that they did not chose their sexuality. [/b]This behaviour even exist naturally in animals and has been very well documented it has been [b]proven scietifically that it is not a mental illness.

davidylan:
It is true that we are born with the nature to sin but we are also born with a natural inclination towards the opposite sex. Even animals, who do not have the nature of God neither were created in His image naturally gravitate towards members of the opposite sex.

the bible is CLEAR - Gen 1:27 So God created man in his own image, in the image of God created he him; male and female created he them.

That was the natural order . . . even after Adam and Eve fell that order still prevailed.

JamaicanQT:
Personally i dont think that age is a factor where there is true love,  I remember when i was younger i always say that i'd never date a guy who was more than 5 years older than me and now i am with some 19 years older actually he's 41,

LadyT:
Sometimes older guys can have more patience and they can be more loving. . . Since they have been there done that and have the T-Shirt

Hi all,

I use Red Jean by Versace (Did i spell it weel, I hope so)
And it is good.

@kachiside
You are eventually spelling it wrong.

I use Body Fantasy-Vanilla Flavour, Amanda or Brut

i will simply ask him who is the president of Nigeria.

@kshow1
Do you mean we don't have a president?

UNLEASHED:
I will ask him what his son is doing with an Ak47 Gun

Nairalanders

Libra38:
I will tell him to master his pronounciation of 7 points Agender - not 7 point I DANGER as he is always fond of pronouncing.

SapeleGuy:
Where will their revenue come from?

What!!!! you asked her, her family and her neighbours if she was wayward because she has larger than average boobs?

She should have slapped your face with one of them.

OMG!!!!!
You made me laugh so much that I couldn't talk.

Fhemmmy:
I will tell him to do Nigeria a favour and vacate office of presidency.

blacksta:
I will tell God will never forgive him for his crimes he has committed and still commiting against Nigeria.

heritage00:
I will tell him to keep ruling until his heart problem kills him in office,Slow Thief,

hackney:
I will ask him who the next president will be.

ud4u:
I will only ask him to reduce the seven point agenda to one point so that he can achieve it and leave the rest for others after him.

ROFLMAO!! I will tell him to take a closer look at above replies.
All these guyz will not kill me.

dawg7o:
This is absolutely irrelevant to the topic being discussed but can anybody tell me how to create a topic of discussion in this forum?

Apologies for any inconveniences caused.

Many thanks

dgreatrock:
there's so much news flying all over the place about Nigeria's Oil rich Niger-Delta, but i dont always buy some of them knowing that some might be mere propaganda.

Hence i want those who know the true story behind the region's problems to share their the truth they know with us here.

Please be objective and not sentimental.

ayinisong:
I'm 24 and she is 22. She is just my friend and we are not lovers although we are close. I took her for sightseeing. During the discussion with the tour guide, he paused and asked her whether she will marry me, just like that.

We were not discussing relationships mind you. He was showing us around the place. And when I asked him why he asked her such a sensitive question, he said he doesn't talk anyhow, that something just put it in his mind to ask her.

When we were about leaving the place he asked me whether I will marry her. I told him I had to think about it.

How come he didn't think that she could be my sister, cousin etc.?

Both of us are graduates, but you know as a girl she will be looking out to get married very soon and definitely, I'm not ready now.
what do I do cos she might be the one for me. Also what do you think about the age difference.

Could it be that we were destined to be together and we didn't know all these years cos she has just been my casual friend, although I know I love her.

I happened to call the guy later and ask him the meaning of what he said, he just said I should think about it. that there is a day that a guy and a girl came to the place and he made the pronouncement and today they are married. I'm confused.

O boy, age has nothing to do with marriage.

There is nothing like you were destined to be together, if you are [b]very sure you love and understand her (vice versa) [/b]and ready to live with each other for the rest of your lives, then go on. But be very sure you are not mistaking love for closeness/familiarity or lust.

The guy is just match making based on the closeness between you two. The fact that he made the pronouncement for a guy and a girl in the past does not mean he has to make the same pronouncement for every guy and girl that comes for a tour guide with him. Now, he told you that the guy and girl are married but did he tell you if followed up to see if everything is well with the marriage and will last?

Don't be confused, be sure of yourself.

If he has to pronounce that always, then some desperate ladies will have to go with a guy they are close to so that he pronounce it and they get married.

untainted:
maybe you need to read iice post again.
she didn't give it to any gender; she argued
it depends on the personality and not even the cost
of clothe or class of wearer

untainted:
need I say more?

kshow1:
you have said it all.

iice said some of you, not all. So don't be too happy.

@iice
See now? You have given them a say. You can imagine how happy they are with your post.