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EducationRe: LASU, UNILAG, UNIJOS Will Defy ASUU To Conduct Post-UME's by oludashmi(f): 1:50pm On Aug 21, 2009
Students are tired for goodness' sake.

FashionRe: How Can One Be Really Photogenic? by oludashmi(f): 2:13pm On Aug 06, 2009
I think being photogenic should not be the question but looking good all the time because the image in the picture is like a mirror, there is nothing you do about it.

Except in cases whereby the photographer didn't snap well but if this happens repeatedly from different paparazzis, then work on yourself first and then take pictures.
RomanceRe: Is Love Still Blind? by oludashmi(f): 2:06pm On Aug 06, 2009
As love ever been blind? Only that Love as never taken time to study enough.
CultureRe: Is It Ever Too Late To Learn Your Language? by oludashmi(f): 1:59pm On Aug 06, 2009
@poster
All you need is the interest and passion for the language, then take a step. As you learn, speak and do not mind if people make jest of wrong pronunciation or intonation.

Before you know it, you are there.
BusinessRe: Games That Nigerian Banks Play To Rip Their Customers by oludashmi(f): 10:55am On Jul 13, 2009
Diamond Bank is wonderful, I don't have any prob with them at all. No nonsense charges or what so ever. GTBank is also doing wonderfully.

Does anyone know about Access Bank, I mean what are their charges and operations like?
Foreign AffairsRe: Nigaz! Someone Has To Sack Their Marketing Team by oludashmi(f): 3:32pm On Jul 03, 2009
Funny.

Let them name it Idiotnigaz
PoliticsRe: Cross River State Lawmakers Embark On Hunger Strike by oludashmi(f): 2:22pm On Jul 03, 2009
When I read this early this morning, I didn't know how best to laugh to this kind of joke in the National Comedy Assembly. Whether to sit and laugh, stand and laugh and laugh, jump or  undecided undecided undecided undecided I just couldn't help myself.

Do these set of IDIOTS think they are fooling anyone at all or what do they take us for? Useless people want to go on hunger strike after they have eaten and stolen for the day. God punish their big tummies.

Christianity EtcRe: Pastor Adeboye Says Pray Btw 11p.m To 1 A.m by oludashmi(f): 2:12pm On Jul 02, 2009
Well, whether the text is real or fake, have it in mind that NO PRAYER IS WASTE. You have it stored/saved for the sake of a loved one in the nearest future.

At least you prayed and the hours/mins you deprived yourself of sleep cannot be compared with the hours of sleepless nights or the trauma of loosing someone. For those who think telecom companies made money with it, I say, its better oo cos what you spend to inform people that a loved one just kicked the bucket is far off compared to that.

Anyway, the msg achieved its goal cos we have always been informed in the church to pray at night but we all give excuses, so, the message wasn't a bad one REAL or FAKE.

Christianity EtcRe: Pastor Adeboye Says Pray Btw 11p.m To 1 A.m by oludashmi(f): 2:00pm On Jul 02, 2009
javalove:
ANOTHER REASON WHY I'M HAPPY TO BE A MUSLIM !

NO ONE TELLS ME WHEN TO PRAY . . . WE ALL KNOW WHEN . . .

NO ONE NEEDS TO TELL WHEN TO RISE UP IN THE NIGHT AND PRAY, WE ALL KNOW WHEN TO . . .

grin grin grin grin grin grin grin
I hiss strongly in Islam angry

Imagine this ignorant? Who told you that Christians don't pray or who told you we are being forced to do so? From your post alone, I have concluded you are not a devoted muslim cos devoted ones (ask your Alfas and Imams) go beyond the 5 times a day prayer and that is why they can see things before it happens and know more than you do.

The information is just to tell you that the pastor saw something and want people to go beyond their normal praying time in praying for or against a coming occurrence.
FashionRe: Michael Jackson: A Style Retrospective. by oludashmi(f): 10:09am On Jun 29, 2009
spikedcylinder:
Till date. Michael and Janet Jackson have one of the most beautiful smiles I have ever seen. Janet still has it but towards the end, Michael's smile started to look like that of a wretched monkey.

What't the name of this so called disease that changed his skin colour so? huh
They said vitiligo
CelebritiesRe: Drop A Tribute To Micheal Jackson Here by oludashmi(f): 1:38pm On Jun 26, 2009
Take it or leave it!

Micheal, you are definitely irreplaceable.

A Legend. A Celebrity. An Icon. An independent man whos' foot print crosses the world.
CelebritiesRe: Michael Jackson Died: Cardiac Arrest by oludashmi(f): 9:55am On Jun 26, 2009
This is the first and only single man (no partnering ) with the highest fame in the world.

It is really painful. R.I.P
FamilyRe: Ladies: Can You Be A Housewife? by oludashmi(f): 10:14am On Jun 23, 2009
I have nothing against being a housewife but I can not see myself in that position. I am too Ambitious and Independent. I like the idea of going out there and making my own money. I think a husband will better respect a wife that makes her own money than a woman that relies on him for everything. I do not care If I marry a billionaire, I will never be a housewife. I will be out there doing what "real women" do.
@Seant21 kiss
What else will I say? This is ME!
The only thing I am planning is to make my job more flexible so that I can have more control over my time than now.
PoliticsRe: Adeboye Wins Living Legend Polls by oludashmi(f): 10:30am On Jun 19, 2009
[quote author=rich_john link=topic=285423.msg4054688#msg4054688 date=1245402820]@skyone
sorry O, tomentor in chief who is scared of your DADDY G.O or you think is everyone that adores him the way you do? God cant be manipulated sorry about that, so you mean people who adore Daddy G.O wont go through problems I pity you sad[/quote]
Go thru skyone's posts so far, you will understand his points, he didn't say the boldened statement.
PoliticsRe: Adeboye Wins Living Legend Polls by oludashmi(f): 10:25am On Jun 19, 2009
kalmebad:
Oh i have forgotten! Adeboye is god! He created the heavens and the earth and mankind was made in his image! All of us that didnt vote for him are definately going to hell because Pastor Adeboye is the "way, the truth and the life". No one comes to Adeboye except through pastor adeboye himself and his deluded followers!

Up god adeboye the legend!

[b]Now does that mean the traffic on the ibadan express road will double any time soon?

What a bunch of sorry retards that have been brainwashed so badly that they can't think without their spiritual father bamboozling them to submission.

[/b]

jus curious to kwn you, each time i stumble on your name,  am gripped with shivers, so sure of what to get from u,lol
Stop spamming! you have it before. Don't be deceived that you receive some naira by your number of posts because here is nairaland  wink

Is that the only church on that express road? Is he the only one that does prog monthly? Did he just get there or how long has the church been there and you want it moved today? Is it a crime for people to worship where they like? Is that the only crowded road in Lagos? Is there a church on third mainland brigde, Oshodi road, Ikorodu rd and other areas and that is I leave at 5am and come late in the night? Does the church make effort (with traffic/transport officials) to ease traffic on those days?

PONDER OVER THESE and reply but remember to allow your brain send enough signal to your fingers before you punch your keyboard.
smiley
PoliticsRe: Another Pipeline Explosion In Lagos by oludashmi(f): 10:05am On Jun 19, 2009
[quote author=mr.official link=topic=284147.msg4032789#msg4032789 date=1245091125]That's it! I think you need to open your bible.

Nothing like working on the necessities.
[/quote]huh huh huh
Make yourself clear
PoliticsRe: Adeboye Wins Living Legend Polls by oludashmi(f): 8:56am On Jun 19, 2009
MrCrackles:
You are a toothless vagabond for the comment above
What you think you have in your [b]ameoba shaped [/b]head is not a brain, it is mucus, diseased greyhound! angry
shocked shocked cheesy
Oga, you see now? Oyinbo don scatter your head. It is AMOEBA, not shocked shocked shocked what you have there.
PoliticsRe: Adeboye Wins Living Legend Polls by oludashmi(f): 8:40am On Jun 19, 2009
@tkb417

I went thru all your responses and I say NOTHING, I mean there is ABSOLUTELY NOTHING to be added. If people still question the existence of GOD, question if JESUS trully died for them or even some things about MOHAMMED, then we should expect them to do the same for their fellow human beings. But when these people die, they will tell you how much they miss them.

I am not defending anyone but the truth remains that even if you make your parents your Legend people will still ask why they deserve it. I don't like to pull people down cos I know I am not perfect, I make mistakes, I do the little I can and people won't still appreciate it and I have not contributed enough to the society myself.

As for Jakumo, leave him with his probs for two reasons: 1. Whatsoever you sow, you will reap. 2. He has the same reward as those who laughed at Elisha the other day and those whom the earth swallow for Moses' sake. 3. He is not referring to the man in question cos he has never gotten his name right.
PoliticsRe: Adeboye Wins Living Legend Polls by oludashmi(f): 1:38pm On Jun 18, 2009
And you speak what thought? The thought of your stomach? What makes Adeboye a legend in Nigeria? At least I am persuaded to assume that more than half of the Nigerian population (I mean muslims) may not have voted him as their legend. Then for the rest half, what has he done for them? How many charities has he established? How many scholarships has he given? Was he not mentioned in custom duties evasion bothering on corruption? Lemme hear word ojare.
@ Afakwu
At the boldened part, what ever your right hand do, don't let it be known to your left hand.

Do you expect him to start by listing his personal motherless babies home, charity home, annual students on scholarship, other welfare infos or the free for all maternity centre at Ebute Meta? When talking or criticizing, try get facts.

Secondly, majority of those who say bla bla bla about others do not even have 1% of sympathy or show 0.5% love to people on there way up or down not to talk of their suffering family members or relatives.

Anyway, congratulations to them all.
PoliticsRe: Ex- Military Men Have Leadership Qualities Than Civilians. by oludashmi(f): 11:00am On Jun 17, 2009
I poster
I agree with your points partly but will make it clear that the ability to give order, authourity, commands as well as show results within a limited period of time does not really depend on the uniform or knowledge imparted into you, it depends on capacity of the type of traits you carry within. Some people are very authouritative from birth. What of the case of FASHOLA, he is not a military man but does what a military man may never do, he has the vision, leading ability and shows results.

In most cases when people act to the order of a military man, it is not cos he can shout louder than others but they respect the uniform on him and the fact that he can do and undo and no one questions him.
PoliticsRe: Legislator Acquires Private Jet.says Its Cheaper Than Cars by oludashmi(f): 12:46pm On Jun 15, 2009
So he too knows we have bad roads and he can't help by fixing just one. He is leaving the bad roads for us to keep plying while he escapes thru the air. No wahala, God help us.
PoliticsRe: Legislator Acquires Private Jet.says Its Cheaper Than Cars by oludashmi(f): 12:46pm On Jun 15, 2009
So he too knows we have bad roads and he can't help by fixing just one. He is leaving the bad roads for us to keep plying while he escapes thru the air. No wahala, God help us.
PoliticsRe: Another Pipeline Explosion In Lagos by oludashmi(f): 12:35pm On Jun 15, 2009
georgecso:
[size=15pt]What would they learn when the authorities have not given the masses something to live up to. The Authorities have made petrol a scare commodity as such its now a lucrative business to be stealing petrol. [/size]
And should this be the reason for doing something that claims tens and hundreds of innocent lives? Are they the only ones living and suffering in Nigeria? If you know the gravity of what they are doing, you will not even support and justify their moves.
EventsRe: Ladies: Can You Sponsor Your Wedding? by oludashmi(f): 9:37am On Jun 15, 2009
maxtop:
Does it matter, ? To me, it doesn't once there is mutual understanding between both parties and she is ready to foot the bills. But men will always think that the lady can demand or boast of it in the future,
Now you are talking Etisalat wink and you know the implications being a man
EventsRe: Ladies: Can You Sponsor Your Wedding? by oludashmi(f): 9:20am On Jun 15, 2009
[quote author=No_wahala link=topic=284076.msg4029363#msg4029363 date=1245052403]For a guy to post that he has no intergrity, but a desperate woman to go after such a man thinking she would be incharge she's only deceiving herself cos there is always a richer lady out there with open arms ready to take the man from you after all he is a gold digger.

But sponsoring or co-sponsoring your wedding with a serious minded man who is trying to gather things together while you the lady has already does not sound like a bad idea.

LADIES
Do not be of the school of thot that ladies can't help their men financially[/quote]Dear, it is not even integrity, it means he is not MATURED yet. Because both have to be matured in all aspect of life and the man should be able to have a say FINANCIALLY (no particular measurement for finances).

Come to think of it, the guy in the advert pasted by the poster is only looking for a desperate lady to fool, he is just 28 years and desperate for a wife. If he doesn't have a job, let him be patient while he gets something substantial or manageable doing. Any lady who makes this mistake will leave her life in regrets cos after the wedding she continues with the task!
EventsRe: Ladies: Can You Sponsor Your Wedding? by oludashmi(f): 8:51am On Jun 15, 2009
BP:
“If you pick up a starving dog and make him prosperous, he will not bite you; that is the principal difference between a dog and a man.”
Mark Twain


From the stories of women who have tried this, they end up regretting it. Eventually, when the man finds his feet, you will expect him to appreciate u for being there when he was down. But what he will do will be to seek out a woman he can truly woo and win on his own terms. In his mind he'll see u as the woman who emasculated him and he will seek to prove his manhood and freedom outside.

A woman should contribute to the wedding BUT for the good of the man and the woman, she SHOULD NOT foot the entire bill of the wedding. It's a shaky foundation to build a marriage on. Instead, go for a small wedding and the man MUST contribute his own quota.
Totally true!! lipsrsealed
No matter how religious or sainty smiley he may be, his ego will surely rise the moment he is up to his feet. Its better to support rather than be the man at foundation level. Little did you know that one of the qualities that make him my man is the topic.


emmydee:
@ BP:

This is very much unfounded! you it is unfair to generalize this.Even men who counted their money to handle all d costs of a wedding to jolt d lady later, meanwhile, some men who could not sponsor their weddings still live happily with their spouses, so pls dont say what u are not sure of.
It is no news for a man to handle it cos it is his responsibility and whether the marriage stays or not should be between them.

What percentage of the marriage are happy today compared to the ones that failed as a result of the woman taking up bills at a foundation level?
PhonesMtn Starts With New Number by oludashmi(op): 10:05am On Jun 12, 2009
MTN yesterday announced that it has secured a new numbering range with the prefix 0813. This will be available in the market from Monday, June 15, 2009.

Since it commenced commercial operations in August 2001, it has been known to offer a wide range of telecommunications services that have been consistently delivered via the existing numbering ranges 0803, 0806, 0703 and 0706.

http://nigerianbulletin.com/summary-plus-news/mtn-introduces-new-number-0813-the-guardian/12062009/7052/

Why new number when the former ones are still available in town infact, you can still get the 0803. I like their concepts and initiative anyway but they should try improve in their services.
PoliticsRe: Can We Charge These Nurses With Murder? by oludashmi(f): 9:15am On Jun 12, 2009
This is really sad sad sad sad sad angry angry

I am really bothered about these:
Is the life a man equivalent to any amount of money not to talk of tax?
Must the boy or his family be the one to pay for the state government's misconduct?
How can the nurses be so heartless that they forcefully remove an oxygen from a surviving child?
If they are going on strike for their right and will not attend to old or new patients , must they deliberately kill the ones on ground?

Ah  angry shocked this is the worst news I have heard this year. God will pay the particular nurse who removed the oxygen in multiple folds.

May God comfort the family of the boy and I pray that his soul find rest.
FamilyRe: Is There A Limit To Making Love To One's Wife? by oludashmi(f): 3:06pm On Jun 11, 2009
chaircover:
She could be scared of you "harming" the baby

She could also be feeling very rough from the effects of the hormones due to her pregnancy

Love making sartsfrom when you wake up in the morning and doesnt always have to start in the bedroom

Spoil her, compliment her, buy her small gifts, show her that you care, hug her etc;

Good luck
oyb:
1) @ op, you need to work on your technique etal if sex is not something madam looks forward to, she will never be interested . . .

2) u need to also understand that you need to do things that will er put your wife in the mood. the fact that you are married is not automatic open sesame. small small toasting and those things that make her feel loved and not a sex object

3) she may also be tired from work etal ; on her feet all day at work, then home to cook and do dishes - and still be expected to perform between the sheets - i don't know whats going down in your house, but you may need to share some of the chores - women who feel used are not inclined towards getting it on

4) i don't know if it will be any help or not, theres a book called graet sex guide by anne hooper - i think her name is - which may be some help

5) pregnancy works differently with diff women. some get heightened sex drives; for others , it is a libido killer . you may have to er resort to self service for the duration of her pregnancy and beyond
I have had this question in mind for a while now cos I am planning my wedding soon. I like the responses of the people in quote and if I am your wife, I will change if you apply the above. Then talk to her about it, communication btw you two is the best KEY
EducationRe: Do You Still Remember Your School Anthem? by oludashmi(f): 1:47pm On Jun 11, 2009
zains:
GOVERNMENT COLLEGE AGEGE.

Mura sise ore mi, ojo ma n lo (2ce)
sise nigba ise, sere nigba ere
ise logun ise, mura sise.

E ma se sa fun se, ka so tito (2ce)
Ka niwa to dara, pelu iteriba,
ise logun ise, mura sise.

E je ka fimo sokan, ka kora jo (2ce)
(Oh my God! I forgot this line)
ise logun ise, mura sise.

Afope folorun, febun tani (2ce)
Government College Agege
a ko ni gbagbe re
ise logun ise, mura sise.

@Oludashmi
Couldn't believe my eyes when I saw GCA's anthem!
Kudos to you.

The line you missed is ''Ise lo ngbe ni ga, Ise si ni iyi''

You are free to insert it if you wish.

Cheers.
Oh my God! shocked wink wink I actually remembered the line today and I have inserted it before seeing your post. I am glad to see a GCA lady here. Which year were you? I was 1998 set.
FamilyRe: Should He Take His Wife Back? by oludashmi(f): 1:01pm On Jun 11, 2009
prittigrrr:
Do u have to go to court to dissolve aa traditional marriage (just curious)? Wasn't this first wife a traditional marriage only?
A traditional marriage doesn't need the presence of a court before it is dissolved although it is the most accepted marriage (before God and Man) cos this is where the two parties and families agree to give a lady to a man. It is the only marriage that conforms to the custom and tradition of the land. It is the most accepted by God cos this is the only place where the bride price (Bible and Kuran supports) is paid.

For one to end this type of union, you only need to inform the other family that you can no longer cope and want to or have dissolved it.

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