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Cooldowntemper:
Pot bellied politicans will ruin Nigeria

It's not an assumption.

This is a step to it

They will or they have ?

franktolk:
You won't see Mike Adenuga in such gatherings. I guessed he only goes to where's invited. Very reserved man he is.

Nope. Nigga has grown an embarassing hunch back. An elderly man who worked very very very closely with him told me so some years back when I said this same thing you said.

bassdow:
That's what happens when you fail to be useFul neither to yourself or the society. if AS a Wife, Husband, Employee/Worker, etc you could easily be replaced, just know you're worth nothing.

e get Women wey their Husbands sef dey fear make nothing happen to them - you know why, itt's cause they know SHE can't be easily replaced

True. Some women are special breed...but still ad man if you no get value or potential to blow soonest women no fit love you.

Or11:
There's something called a warning which is what you could have told her. Try this stunt in a developed world and watch her sue you.

Big lie. You don't come 2 hours late for work and leave your workstation to make a call for one hour.

That is time stealing and you can be fired on the spot.

If you racially abuse me , na so smile I go dey smile. The opinion of an ant is irrelevant to me.

If you see me as a monkey, me sef see you as a pig.

jackcanfield:
Be calming down, e get why some of us didn't join the Nigeria Military, especially Nigeria Army , the discipline get as he be .

There is discipline and there is straight out stupidity. Beating and harassing the relatives of your soldiers is outright stupidity

Astra101:
History has never been fair to Africans. I'm from the river lines I know how many hours my people spent under the water yet no one talk about it. You said they held their breath 5 to 13 minutes? , that's a joke bro compared to what my riverine people do on a daily.

Show us a simple video

constancefriday:
The term "Native Doctor" is racist; Africans (Especially Nigerians) should stop insulting their own home grown experts and big brains.
if a Swedish Man studies in Sweden, gets his Bsc, Masters and Doctorate in Sweden he's called a "Doctor" respectfully.

India, England, China, Japan, Korea etc they all respect their home grown experts and professionals.

Why do some Africans, Nigerians especially disrespect themselves so much?

That an individual got all his academic cup cakes from within the shores of Africa or his homeland doesn't mean he's not up to global standards.
Don't you think it's a kind of mind conditioning or mind control of some sort that makes you think, being home schooled doesn't mean you're schooled?
Now I'm not saying going abroad to study or to carry out any educational tourism of some sort isn't okay but if you begin to spit at egusi soup and ewedu because you've seen spring rose and mayonnaise, are you really wise?

Think about it.

Can you be respected if you disrespect yourself?

All our leaders who travel out to treat a megrim, or take mere cold caplets, y'all need to read this.

Dr Nelson Mandela was so confident that the health system of South Africa had all he needed to treat himself of cancer.

He was never known for flying out of South Africa for issues such as health, education etc

He ruled the world from where he was.

Although he did a few traveling for diplomatic relations, he never allowed anyone disrespect his home.

Take a few moments to also read this NL post on the same topic
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https://www.nairaland.com/7694681/south-african-celebrities-traditional-healers

Remain Blessed!

Keep quiet. What does the native doctor know about anatomy and physiology. Una like to worry.

Native doctor na native doctor...those who go to them know exactly what they are are getting

kestolove95:
If you like give them the world e no go stop d one wey go spoil...women and preeq no dey separable

The biggest truth. They just mastered the art of pretending like they are doing you a favor

M4A1carbine:
Treacherous
Conniving
Despicable
Untrustworthy and untruthful
Trust them at your own peril.

Ganduje was dropped because it's obvious kwankwaso has a better foothold politically in Kano ..

Ganduje has fallen to sophisticated politics Even Bashir Ahmad go cry Blood

Una dey trust Agbadorian RATs...e choke ohh!!

The nature of Nigerian politics. There is no honor among thieves

achimendy:
Oga forget woman, make you go add value to your life, then see how this bitches rush you.

One girl like 25 years ago wey dey take me play when I really like am. She go let me talk talk talk...den ask me if I dey talk finish?

Today she dey ask why I no want talk to am wether she offend me. After you don born 3 piken for man wey no send you.

When everything tight you no give me chop na when e don turn express you want come dey form love.

Me sef I be baba for my side. Shey make I leave my family for you ni?

shomutuski:
You are truly in love with a 19yr old girl? LMAO XD

men like you lack gut and drive, you are here crying while shes leaving you for another guy who is creating value for himself, cant you see that the you are the cause of your problem and your solution?

Go and make your family proud, stop all this nonsense over a small girl that alot of niggaz will still Bleep the shit out of.

Don't be too harsh on him. We've all been there. Na so OPC carry me as I dey parambulate around my smallie girlfriend house that year for night. I knew she was cheating and wanted to catch her as she don free me.

Now I look at her pictures and even her voice self dey repulsive to me. For six years, she no add one single value to my life.

Thank God say I never stopped developing myself. Girls that don't add any value are just for playtime that's all.

I don't even follow them discuss anything meaningful.

WiseTravel:
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What is the nature of the job. I might have a candidate if this is legit. If na dagbo, I go collect my money back for sure one way or the other.

okeysoninv:
Ndo Igbo for how long are we going to allow ipob to continue to desecrate our land. Time for us to end ipob and their sister groups madness is now

Simon Ekpa don do pass himself. Finland will give him up to US soon.

yrhuhfy113:
WOW....

Your wife is not under a spell, and you did NOTHING wrong.

what is happening is called LIFE. People's mind change when they see a better life or better people.... what is popularly known as THE GRASS IS GREENER ON THE OTHER SIDE effect.

sadly they do not know that THE GRASS IS ONLY ACTUALLY GREENER WHERE IT IS WATERED. Your wife doesn't want to SUFFER with you anymore, she is wishing she was always in lagos so that she could have married someone better.... This is common when people migrate from sub-urban areas to metropolitan cities like lagos. kindly understand that its NORMAL... it is HUMAN NATURE.

I know it hurts and its not easy BUT you need to handle this matter with wisdom. Can you send someone to check on your wife's activities to be sure she is not cheating or over religious and some randy prophet is not confusing her?

Now once you have established that NO MAN is entertaining your wife... then you need to find areas in lagos according to your budget. There are places in lagos where you can pay monthly rent of between 7-11k . And there are places in lagos as high as 230k monthly... so you need not worry yourself... you can relocate to lagos based on your budget... also you need to check yourself spiritually, what could be the cause of your downward turn in business... check and solve it.

NEXT, you need to skill up sir, your current business may tie you down in the east if you do not expand your abilities mentally. THERE IS A MAJOR OPPORTUNITY SIR IN THIS ISSUE, the good news about it is that, it gives you room to reinvent yourself and grow. So don't let your wife and her mother mess up your mind sir, detach and work on yourself.... if you can learn soft skills using a laptop, it will help. If you can change your appearance and style physically, it can also help, YOU NEED TO PACKAGE YOURSELF PROGRESSIVELY.

YOU WILL COME OUT OF THIS SITUATIONS FAR BETTER SIR, but for now, for the sake of the children, this is the little wisdom you need sir to save your home. PLS VISIT LAGOS OFTEN... it is a sacrifice you will have to pay.... TRY TO MONITOR YOUR WIFE.... you can do this by cloning her whatsapp and reading all her chats or spying on her phone, so that from the east you can read all her messages, chats, get voice record of her phone calls....IT IS NECESSARY... these days, you can not just let your spouse go without some form of tracking or remote accountability .... else they will lie to your face and hurt you, then you will feel bad. So I hope these few points will help you know where to start from and what to do

Men you just spoke my mind. You are very experienced in worldly matters and human psychology.

You don't reason with words with a woman..it's a waste of time. If you persist she will begin to resent you and if your wahala too much,she will get rid of you one way or the other.

DollarBag:
I’m at a loss about the so-called IDAN. All of a sudden almost everybody is saying IDAN do/did this and that. I’ve even tried to google it, not even satisfactory results hence my curiosity. Who or what is IDAN and what does (s)he/it represent please?

Idan is not a person.It is a yoruba word for unbelievable "feat"," achievement or magic.

My uncles...said many discouraging things that only motivated me to bide my time and become successful.

lovediehatelive:
This one is strong o.

10 years?

The thing here is that I can never forgive a cheating partner.

It's not me, it's above me. My soul doesn't accept such.

So I believe a virgin has lesser chances of cheating than a non virgin

A virgin will want to explore after a while. No human being will want to have only one sexual partner all his or her life. It is not natural. Especially in this modern era.

Problem is once she starts,she won't stop exploring for a while and because she will be doing it while in the marriage, she would be cheating and hiding and eventually loose interest in the husband or bring a STD to him

Nothing is guaranteed other than to pray to marry a peace loving and reasonable partner with good conscience and minimal drama.

Na Orisa invent drums ?

Abi na Orisa no dey collect goat and palm oil for sacrifice?...she na sand dem dey take buy the animals for market?

TheBillyonaire:
At that age, he should only visit Abuja and Lagos. He has reached retirement age, and still wears tracksuit instead of wrapper and walking stick.

Why are people stigmatizing old age. I cant wait to clock 60, na walking stick and suits with papa's hat. I will show people what it means to be an old boy.

This man.where have you been since all these years?

Hotwest:
Yes not cordial

I decided to let him be because looking for food sometimes and thinking he is there use to give me one bad feeling. Even my friends who knows his status mock me most times. We look alike o. I'm his son. The man is just forming over discipline and kinda too stingy with his money

Okay. When you have some good money. Take him out to a very good restaurant. Just the two of you.

After eating tell him you need his help. That you trust his judgment and you believe as an elderly man you respect his decision based on his life experiences and you admit that he owes you nothing because he worked for his money.

Then tell him that you want him to make you understand why he is not helping you with your business ideas. That you are willing for him to borrow you and you will return with interest with a well articulated repayment plan signed by both parties.

That even if he refuses to help you you will respect his decision and still love him as a father because he has already fulfilled his obligations to you and anything else is extra.

Whatever he says good or bad. Take it as a man and continue to buy gifts for him from time to time and kneel and tell him to pray for you.

Two things will happen. He will help you mightily or God will open mighty doors for you elsewhere.

I have spent about 45 years on earth with some basic understanding of some supernatural laws and human psychology.

Try this till December and see what happens.

Hotwest:
I'm like one of the last person to bring in a child to this world then start to suffer the child or not taking care of the child properly. Do you know during the cashless policy time ..I was missing my Chinese work as a translator in Abuja and sometimes I was ordering uber like a fool...One weekend I went to his house to plead for one of his cars in the house to manage until this cashless time is over so I could save and stop buying 10k with 16k or so because im not mobile...Guess what? I disturbed him to show how i want to keep my work for long throughout the weekend but he refused o. I later got sacked that period

You wont understand my grievance until you are wearing my shoes. Im not a son that takes drugs like his fellow retired major general children

Maybe the man believes he is not your father. You never know what a man may be thinking in his heart. Refusing to help ot set up your grown adult child who is not wayward or irresponsible is not a common thing.

It's obvious your relationship with him is not cordial at all.

dapsoneh:
Must he build hospital? Building new hospitals isn't the priority of all govt, the tantrum should have been 'your dad did not maintain the hospitals' Not all Govs must build new hospital
He can build new hospitals and not equip them, Akpabio is a prime examples
So, maintenance of previously existing with human and non- human resources is key

You are arrogantly-ignorant of mundane issues.

I think the Deer woman is the most common.

Born2conquer:
Life no too hard like that though, if you can't enjoy life in Nigeria, where can you na enjoy it?

There are several locations, lounges, restaurants that are strictly meant for Rich men, nobody will even look at you twice if you go to such locations.

Dress simple but don't dress haggard.

If you allow fear to override you, you will think everybody out there is trying to kill you when in the actual sense, everybody is minding their own business.

The KEY, Move and stay with things on your calibre.
-Lodge in hotels of high class, the staff won't harass you because they're well paid.
-Eat in restaurants for high class, you will have your privacy and also meet other rich men as you.
-Attend rich men church, and you will even feel down with doings that would oppress you.
-Go to lounges that would humble you, there is a lounge on the island that is only accessible by yatch, steamboat


Nigeria SWEETTTT

I understand what you are saying totally.

But when you leave home and return...you really want to see childhood friends, go to your childhood church and stuff like that.

Nigeria was not like this 10 years ago.
Now you have ritual killings, kidnapping for Ransom, herdsmen wahala, street cult killings and a lot of desperate people who will do anything for money.

Better safe than sorry men.

AngelicBeing:
Hahaha, una go kill person with laugh for nairaland.com, that is the way to live and survive in Nigeria especially as a Diasporan otherwise bad people go arrange criminals to either steal from you, kidnap or kill you sef, whenever l land Nigeria, all my movement are discreet, l don't even sleep in my personal home, l keep everyone at arms-lenght, my arrival and departure is hidden on the Top of Mount Everest

When I visited my mum, she was upset and asked why I was dressing like that and not like a diasporan...I told her you don't know what Nigeria has become. I even book like 3 hotels staying in one for not more than a week...so the receptionists don get too familiar. One told me the quality of the simple t-shirt I wore gave me away.

I grew up knowing the streets and I still stay current My driver was frustrated one day and said why don't I go out in the night to enjoy life like other people. I sey were want make I drink and dey vulnerable and easier to kidnap.

Many Nigerians are devil incarnate. Once I finish wetin dey carry me come...I won't visit for a very very long time.

AngelicBeing:
Dayuummmmmm, welc to Nigeria, abeg walk with wisdom with the guy oo, some security guards are informants to Robbers and Kidnappers, it is a cruel and Wicked world out there, so be wise as the serpent and harmless like the dove, that is why anytime l visit Nigeria, l put on my Ghost Garment 24/ 7, l don't trust most people in Nigeria, l have been taken advantage of several times in my visits to Nigeria, so whenever l land, l am a Ghost to the core although I do help, support and assist as many as I can as led by The celestial forces

I dey even wear old Ankara wey don fade sef

IyaebeTheGreat:
See the kind of men we have these days. Truly men are scarce, all we have are nothing to write home about, it's either they are druggie, alcohol addicts, bet addicts, brothel addicts and others. If you are a man and do not indulge in any of these may God bless you abundantly , you are the real alpha male and kings every good woman desires. God bless you

A man can still have vices and do his duties to his family and wider community. It is when you become a slave to your vices at the expense of your duties that you have become a failure.

Family first always!!!

For me to spend 1,000 on any female,I would have spent 10,000 on my family.

God1000:
Congrats to him, we are proud of him.

He deserves the next AFCON player of the year.

Napoli fans will never forget him for putting a smile on their faces after 33 years.

Meanwhlie our players are doing fantastically well in their clubs but they always perform abysmally when it comes to playing for Nigeria

Can somebody tell me why we don't have a formidable senior national team in Nigeria, is it that they are not motivated enough?

You have a stupid bunch of selfish forwards in Moses Simon, Chidera Ojuke, Samuel Chukwueze and Lookman...who will rarely pass the ball to a team mate in a better position to score.

They always seek glory for themselves and starve the strikers like Terem Moffi ,and Victor Oshimen of the ball.

As long as they continue to play like that, they will continue to struggle.

Why would a man want to be King in a land that is not his and over a people that are not his kin.

Hambivert:
Messi is a mastermind in guilt tripping organisations, he did so with Barcelona when he decided not to commit to a new contract and wanting out of the club because he thought him stalling would make them give him a bigger offer. Then he decided to leave, but when he saw it may lead to a brutal court battle he didn't envisage in his plan, he pulled the curtains and stopped his antics.
Surprisingly, he agreed to a salary cut, someone that wanted a raise...but his exorbitant wage had made Barcelona insolvent already.

I guess that's what he wanted to do with PSG, but he forgot the owners of PSG are major stakeholders in the Arab world which he thought he would use again for guilt tripping.

Now he must apologise, big clubs can't afford his excesses anymore.

You Sabi the guy wella. Unfortunately Arabs no send him papa message.

depz:
I wish they shot the idiot instantly. Open phone you're forming boss. You can't try that nonsense abroad. American police tell you to open your phone and you do anyhow, they will blast your two left legs, nonsense. Good job from those officers but they should have shot one of his legs.

You need to shut the ***ck up. You are yapping confidently about what you are completely wrong about.

An American cop will never ask you to unlock your phone. It will lead to his sack and a law suit against his department that they will surely loose.