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Una no go kill person. I am sooooooooo loving the last two

It depends though. What if my husband makes 50,000.00 a year and he wants to further his education and I make well over $100,000.00. It would make sense since full time work and full time schooling will be a serious strain on the family. My husband went to school and kept his job though when he was working on his masters. I was gone long hours too so he had to have the kids with him and still study. It was a huuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuge strain on us. In our case though he brought in most of the money so he had to keep working.

COMMUNICATE. You just need to tell her that you NEED it. Settling for a life of begging for sex is crazy. If she needs therapy then she should go get it. If all else fails just smack her on the head with your dick. That should wake her up LOL

SadeK:
lie, why would i lie. It is the way we do it in our family. I am on my second husband. who know i may meet an abuja alhaji and dump this banker. One of my friend knows a senator. my eyes are on him soon.

You are not serious self

You guys do not know the whole story. Would you say it is right for a man not to put his adopted child in his will but put his biological? How do you know that he has not been in their lives since they were babies.

You cannot even pay me at this point to live anywhere in the north. The fact that there are white people there even proves my point. You know they have to get their adrenaline flowing so they can have an excuse to shout whoo hoo. You will not see them back packing through uselu, Benin city. Boko Haram is too fresh on my mind. 800 people dead in a few weeks and yet people should be expected to fill safe. That's whole freaking village.

Well I do not know about truphie's solution. I actually think it is dangerous to give the impression that if she steals something then it is because it was not provided. I was raised that if my parents did not buy something then I did not need it. That was just how it works. Whether or not they buy it for her is not an excuse to take something that does not belong to you. Even a 5 year old should understand this clearly. So what happens when she is a teenager and sees a $200.00 per of jeans that her allowance will not cover? Should her options be steal it or tell daddy to buy it for you? She should simply just understand that you do not take what does not belong to you and it does not matter if your parents can afford it or not.

I hope everything goes well but they should have waited till at least the 3rd trimester

LOL. For the most part. Under the african sun with no protection though = not aging gracefully

Abeg what is the definition of baby because some of those old mamas and papas there don reach to get full time job.

Did they even understand what he said?

[quote author=na2day? link=topic=310574.msg4391013#msg4391013 date=1250792405]slave trade has been abolished? didn't get the memo [/quote]LOL

omo oloye it seems that way though it is not an excuse. Just because you felt like sitting back and letting someone come into your home and make your life a living hell does not mean that you should not give your son the chance to enjoy his wife anyway he deems fit. If you see these women with their in laws even in their old age you will not know that slave trade has been abolished. They want their daughter in laws to accept it all because they chose to accept it

I do not have any wrinkles and I honestly don't think that having wrinkles is the worst thing that can happen to a woman but I use anti aging products. Mary Kay time wise products are great. They also have an even complexion serum that does not bleach you. You can buy them on my website. For people who spend time in Nigeria and here in the states I can get it to you in 1-2 weeks to Lagos after you place the order provided you have a minimum order of $500.00. You can pick it up at my cousin's boutique in Lagos. Here is my website to order.
http://www.marykay.com/faithe

I love the way Tracee Ellis Ross dresses. There are few others but she is the basic example of how I like to dress

milkan05:
MIL! MIL! MIL MIL! cant live with most of em cant live without some of em!!

To think all of them where daughter in laws at some point. My sister's mother in law is cool and she only has the one son who married my sister but I thank God for her everyday. She is just and angel. My mother has retired and moved back to Nigeria but she still calls my mom every now and then to check on her. I have called her on every birthday and anniversary she has had since my sister and her husband got married. They are Sierra Leonians but you really can't tell because they come to all our Nigerian functions to support my sister. Every woman should pray for a mother in law like her. I always pray that God will give her long life. This is a woman that is an administrative nurse so you know she is not depending on her son for anything financially. She just respects my sister. It also helps that she is not one of those fake Christians that preach one thing and do the other. She is a God fearing, bible reading, tongue blasting woman of God LOL

I am not confusing it at all. What I mean is you pay them and tell them you will prefer to pump. Will they say no because their fingers are more experienced or is there an unwritten rule that customers should not pump because they might "manhandle" the pump

Is it really news that Ellen is gay?

Why can't you pump it yourself. I mean will they stop you from doing that if they are standing right there?

Of course all cultures have mother in law issues. All the examples you listed are not the same as a mother in law packing her daughter in laws things and asking her to leave her own home. I think when people try to pretend that something does not exist then it only proves the point that these things exist. It's just like hearing that a man divorced a woman and left her with 5 kids on no kind of financial support and then you use the argument that it happens everywhere. It just does not make sense. Sure it happens everywhere but in Nigeria our culture sees it as okay. Don't compare it to the west where the woman is putting up with it because she knows that at the end of the day the woman can only talk smack and that is it. She cannot arrange that the whole family gather in your house and pack her things out when she knows that all that would happen is that the county jail will have a bunch of new inmates.

Miller was born in Chipping Norton, Oxfordshire, England, UK; the son of Joy Marie Palm, a special education teacher, and Wentworth Earl Miller II, a lawyer and teacher.[1] Miller's father, a Rhodes Scholar, was studying at Oxford at the time of Miller's birth. Miller has stated that his father is of African-American, Jamaican, English, German, and Jewish descent; his mother is of Russian, French, Dutch, Syrian and Lebanese ancestry.[2][3][4]

I just got that from wiki. I always wondered what race he was. The first movie I saw him in her played a black man and I had no reason to think he was not black and then I saw him playing a white man after that. I guess with all that mix and a little tan he could pass for black. Black, lebanese, french or whatever he is simply smoking hot.

Sorry o. If only you had a brother that was a military man then it would be a different story. I hate when people's rights are violated. Please do not let your anger get you in more trouble. These people are thugs and some of them simply have no sense. They are even willing to die for something stupid. Be careful.

Sauron I can't even say that you have a vagina in your brain. That would be a compliment. Your comments on this site alone emphasize my point. You have no respect for women. Period. You of all human beings and I use human being loosely should not even whine about how much advantage society has given women over men.

stillwater:
Hehehe is that what is paining you? Come as a woman next time and let me hear word!!! Shior!!!

Don't mind him. I can't even believe that it is coming from an african man's mouth when we are well aware of the culture of dehumanizing women in Africa. If you can whine about it then I am sorry you should have just come into the world as a hermaphrodite

Her mother must really hate her. You beat her up and now you are stalking her but her mother sees something good in you?

I cannot believe that people are saying it's just sex. It is not just sex. I feel sorry for your brother but you have to negotiate with your wife. If you are the only option then you need to make it up to your wife. You are newly wed. I would feel really uncomfortable if my in law was around and then trying to get it on. I am sure if you guys have been married for 2 years she would not be saying the same thing.

What did you do when your mother and the whole family were bad mouthing her

spoilt:
Turn the other cheek so that he can paralyze the other arm too.

I weak o. He slapped her so hard she felt in in her arm and she was confused about what to do. Unless it is to ask for creative ways to torture him I don't know what else we can do for her

LOL. Poor baby actually thought he now understood the whole thing

I agree with what english said. She even deserves a butt whooping for this one