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ROTFLMAO. Please oga go back and read it  again. Even if it is his mother. Why should she move into the house of her just married son. If she was there before they got married she should have made arrangement to leave as soon as her brother got married. This goes for anyone. Unless of course it is a mother who is too old or ill to live by herself and has no other children to help out.

That's okay. Just show me one way as long as it does not include vomiting then I am all for it

I think I know what runs mean but you used it in a weird way here. Please say it in regular english or use Nigerian slangs from the 90's. I have not updated my vocab yet

I have no idea what any of them means. These are just some names of friends and acquaintances. I am Etsako/Igbo

Why is she calling her daughter "My husband"

Osagie (I think this is pronounced Osajie not OsaGie like the binis do)
Isimeme
Ehizojie
Aburimen (not sure of the spelling)
Eromonsele (It might be Ora or Ishan-Is there a difference between Ora and Ishan?)
Ehimen
Ehimentalo
Ohiowele

Brorrowing money and not paying back in a timely manner is not necessarily are crime but this case is different. It is bigger than just non performing loans. If these people were breaking laws by taking that much money then it becomes a crime. If the bank gave out more than it is legally required to by law then it is a crime. When the actions of these few people can be catastrophic for the economy then it's time to take action. Maybe the EFCC knows something we do not. What deals did they make with the banks Did they lie to get the loans?

They need to find those parents and have them arrested. That girl would have to have been 16 when her mother took her there. Honestly their parents should be used as an example to other parents

Can we focus on the question asked. LOL. So funny. The thread was totally diverted.

Birthdays are an opportunity to thank God. How can you pull those two verses out of the Bible and then say that that proves that this is means that Birthday celebration is bad. Don't you think that is misleading. Weddings were celebrated in the Bible. The birth's of babies was celebrated, engagements were celebrated and you can go on and on. Please do not mislead people.

Someone like this can kill

So are you saying that because the child's parent's were not married the child cannot be dedicated to God? Makes no sense.

A man like this just needs to make it plain from the beginning that he knows his family is trouble but that he is willing to cut them off if they cross the line. So do you think that is possible? Of course it is not possible. Imagine if they get married and she does not conceive right away. Can you imagine the hell that a family like this will put this woman through. Some people just do not know when to back off and I am sorry but our African parents take it to a whole new level. Maybe if the boy goes to his mother and tells her that he does not want her in his life for what she has done. She will change her behavior quick quick but we know he will not do it. He would rather come here and say he hates her.

They are not blood relatives but in Nigerian marriages where people usually do not respect people's opinions it can get ugly quickly when there are family issues. It could quickly be a case of this family against that family

Treetop thank you for breaking it down

You can always move to that island that way you will not have to deal with gay people

[quote author=na2day? link=topic=313691.msg4409732#msg4409732 date=1251093818]typical NL girl, always twisting the story, i hope u actually read her post b4 u made your comment[/quote]I read the story but obviously you did not

If your best friend loved you enough he would not have let you marry another man. Stop contacting him and focus on your husband. I just have this feeling that you and you alone will get hurt if you do not let this go

I am 31 so I obviously do not listen to Miley Cyrus music but Selena Gomez is very pretty

I am sorry but children are involved. Is the husband secretly enjoying the moaning self. She needs to speak to them preferably with her husband going with her. It should not be confrontational. Do it the nice way and see if that works. If not then maybe they need to tape it and let the landlord listen to it

LOL. Can you people please allow him finish his question

She is not mad just a will collector

agathamari a woman that goes to that length does that of her own free will. She has no one to blame but herself. I agree with you though that women have done that and even worse. A friend of mine did something almost equally stupid recently and I wondered if she was not mentally unstable. Some people just simply refuse to help themselves

My finger nails are always clear but I have like a berry/coral color on my toes

Why don't you try to go to bed a little earlier. I know some women suffer insomnia as they get closer to their due date but if you want to keep this job then you have to drag yourself out of that bed and be at work on time. Mind over matter. It is well

You don't know how long I have wanted that Marc Jacob. I am on a shopping diet so I will only look at the menu

This can work if the man is enlightened. For most Nigerian marriages the man will simply make the woman's life a living hell.