Originalsly: I'm not saying what the wheelbarrow pusher did was right ... but some people have to pay to learn. As I see it ... she is one of those people who judge people by status. To her ... a barrow pusher is a nobody ... she does not respect his hustle nor his time ... he is her houseboy. She got him to push her stuff out .... not to have him be waiting around for her to haggle and shop. Serves her right.... guy be losing jobs waiting for her.
Jennyclay: Aside that sef,… the way these wheelbarrow pushers walk very fast ehh! One would think they want to run away with your stuff
If I go to the market and I need wheelbarrow to push my stuff, I always beg and even pay them not to walk too fast.
Wheel Barrow Pusher work with Time: a 10Mins Movement = like N200 You Can DELAY 10Mins to 1 Hour and then expect to PAY 200(which is what she will offer eventually). that''s Crazy
ahnie: Some women are negligent,you would see the barrow pusher at the front and madam will be at the far back buying pepper.
I see them alot.
Thank You, I see that too....
Other things they Do.
1. They will Take Bike and Won't Negotiate at the Beginning of the Journey: Causing Serious Fight at the End of the Journey when its time to Pay 2. They wiill Stop a Bike between Journeys to Make Long Transactions (Like Buying Food or Worse) and Expect the Bike man to Wait and Still Collect the Same Amount at the end of the Journey. so Pathetic.
3. They will take a Wheel Barrow Pusher and won't Negotiate Before the Movement to the Destination, They will still be buying everything in sight expecting the Aboki to wait for them all the way . Journey of 10 Mins will become 1 hour for the Aboki to get to the Destination. but will still want to pay N100 for that Long Delay : Again Serious Fight and Insults is the Result
when I see the Quarrel at the end of the Journey, I already know the Lady is the Guilty one. i just feel sorry for the Aboki
Leggodeals: Men like crying that women can't look past material things but even men can't look past the artificials in women.
We, ugly women have been quiet and watching on the side for so long. We have a voice too but make we observe finish first. Our pretty friends get picked first all the time. They take the best of men and leave us with scraps. Or should I say men give them their all and fall back on us.
The day the[b] ugly women association of Nigeria[/b] will reclaim our voice, no man in this country will have peace, the internet will scatter. Men must look at our potentials of being pretty and stop choosing pretty girls above us.
Dreadlock69: We know dey for 5 month . I just dey with my phone , scrolling through my contact list on what app the phone start to shake and called her number three times without me knowing. She called back I don’t even know what to say.
SIMPLE: SAY: Sorry its a Mistake. THEN CUT the Call easy as ABC
myyansh68: En pain you!. Nigerian Men lazy Can't work always looking for the easiest ways to success. Jealousy. Competitive among peers. Marry a rejected American grandma for poverty lifting. Scammers. Ritualist. Fathering a child, but can't take responsibilities as or to be a father. Even your White Chicks Cheque and Bread and butter are now aware of this. Harvesting organs. Drugs and Human trafficking. Rented to promote hoodlum when elections are knocking at the door. Rape. Can sleep with mad Woman for money Can't take rejection. Taking bad characters to foreign land. e. g Cult.
is this okay or should I add more salt to the wound?.
Why Then do you wish to be a Man? You Labeled yourself a Male.
WannaHowzit: Just this week on radio i heard single Nigerian women struggle to find housing in Lagos when they want to rent 😳😳😳
I'm a South African man and that shocked me.
SPOT on. it's Really True. The Reason is That: 90% of (single ladies and single mums ) Cannot pay the Rent a 2nd Time, they Cannot also pay the Monthly Utility Bills Like Electricity, Waste Management etc. So the Landlords just want to Avoid Incapable Tenants altogether.
When you listen closely to some of their conversation you Hear:
"God Bless me with a Good-man that can help me pay all my Bills o. God Abeg o"
tensazangetsu20: I have this Chilean friend I met online that has been begging me to try their food and all she has recommended has Been wack. Chilean food is tasteless. Omho I go just buy rice once I move into my house. Also saw a fire service truck. Here they come to an emergency in less than 5 minutes
tensazangetsu20: One thing I noticed here is that their apartment blocks are multi storey and rental cost are cheap. Agbadorians go dey shout tinubu built Lagos but they can't afford to live in eko Atlantic and that's all they chant as achievements
Congrats Tech Bro. Where is your final Destination?
You Really are Determined...Being that you are more than 35 years of Age....
Here, fourteen people discussed all the things you have to take into consideration to make your decision to relocate including the three highly controversial pathways to residency. I suggest you listen till the very end. It's a very practical conversation, highly educative and thankfully, they aren't selling you anything. Pay particular attention to what the geologist says he had to do when he relocated. You can thank me later.
All the best.
Very Interesting and Eye Opening! So eventually if one was Married in 9ja, one will have to Re-Marry a Green Cardholder to get Citizenship. This is not normally Discussed (its Top Secret i guess)
ican2020: You are wrong here and pray that Nigeria does not happen to you
I lost my wife in April this year not because of lack of money but rather due to very poor health infrastructure When you are faced with instant health crises that's when you know how backward Nigeria is
Life is just ones and if you can afford to japa to a great country even if you are 70 years old (the new environment will give you more vitality thereby aging gracefully)
Take those who can or are making money continuously either with their phones, laptops or as investors, japaism matters as long as you can work in your home and enjoy the atmosphere unlike here where over 70 percent citizens live in watch your back environment
I am way older than my elder sister who is in Europe with her family
i understand your point. In Life You can't have it all....no matter where one stays, one may get 5 Advantages and 5 Dis Advantages this Decision no easy
ecolime: $3,000 in Naija and you wan JAPA? Don't be foolish son.
If abroad dey hungry you that much, your earning can afford you a yearly vacation anywhere in the world.
Almost N30 Million Naira per Year. if you Japa with that, You will become a Normal human being just struggling month on Month to pay bills Here in 9ja, You are a KING!
pansophist: I have this friend that lives in Germany (lets call him John). I connected John with a Nigerian girl in the UK in 2019. They matched and vibe well but as soon as she knew that he is not a German citizen or with PR, she just jilt the guy.
I was in the UK last summer and met with her. She was still single. She asked about John, and I told her that he is fine, done with his masters in engineering and works for Bosch. He is also a German citizen now.
It was few weeks later after my holiday John told me that she has been disturbing him since for a relationship, citing all kinds of excuses as reason why she suddenly cut off. Excuses such as mental health, dealing with personal and family issues etc.
But John is not an idiot. Anyways, John already moved on and will get married soon to his Ivorian/French fiance. I will be a best man for sure on his wedding. Na my sure paddi.
What I've seen in the UK few times I was there is the need to outsmart the other. The girls won't be with a guy that is just coming up. They date/marry for interest. That's the story of most.
They don't think ahead. If you do Uber today, then in their mind, you'll do Uber forever. It's either a ready-made or nothing. Working together with a guy and build up is almost an abomination. They don't build, the move in.
ednut1: even your fellow 9ja students will refuse to date you talkless of those with citizenship or permanent residency. Na men wey get good jobs and papers dem dey rush o. As a student you are probably starting from one room shared accommodation. Many 9ja babes here cant get wet for u in such accommodation when guys with cars and nice apartments staying alone dey. If you look good, black ladies from jamaica, other african countries or average looking white babes fit give you small nacks 😆.
WOW, That Means Relationship are Purely Transactional!
ednut1: This one is doing PR for Nigeria women in the Uk. If they have all those qualities listed up there men will be rushing them. They are mostly being avoided for obvious reasons 😆. The average Nigerian woman abroad has this over inflated ego just because she don japa. Tufiakwa
Even from the Writeup, She is Placing herself Over (Nigerian_Based) Female
uche87: Often when single young people move to the United Kingdom, they are always caught between starting new relationships abroad or sticking to their old relationships in their home countries. This short article is aimed at guiding you to make the best decision on the basis of reality and not mere emotions and sentiments.
I will try as much as possible to make this piece less controversial. The aim isn't to break relationships and destroy the efforts of couples in their relationships.
Dating a good Nigerian woman in the UK is amazing. They bring happiness and increase your zeal to succeed by giving you strong backing. Below are some of the reasons why dating a Nigerian woman in the UK is highly recommended.
(1) Nigerian women are appreciative:
Let's face it, there is no abundance of 'original' male suitors in the UK. Some coloured women even go for several months without anybody stopping them on the street to say hello. This adds value to men (law of demand and supply). So when single women ever meet their male counterparts, they value you like the pound note.
(2) Financial independence:
The UK creates an enabling ground and a level-playing field for everybody to succeed. As long as you are ready to work, you will make good money. UK-based Nigerian women have their own money and take pleasure in buying their own things unlike their counterparts back home, who are at the mercy of Tinubu and his APC friends.
(3) Beauty and fashion:
UK-based Nigerian women are not only beautiful, but they are so classy. They could be fashionable due to the extra cash and the affordability of clothes in the UK. I believe they have more 'packaging' than Amazon lol
(4) Better opportunities:
Nigerian women are doing really well in the UK. They are like the last piece of the puzzle you need to make your life complete. I have seen some men doing blue-collar jobs marry doctors and company management officials in the UK. This opens a door of opportunities and stability.
(5) Adaptability:
If you are in the UK, you are better off dating a Nigerian woman who lives in the country. This is because they have adapted to the system and have a strong knowledge of how it works. This is always as smooth as when Robin Van Persie moved from Arsenal to Old Trafford. He hit the ground running.
(6) Happy Ending:
UK women have very strong 'grips'. Legends in the house would understand. This is because of the scarcity of men and the busy nature of the country. You can't boldly say the same about Lagos-based women who are mostly 'sexually stressed' due to too multiple relationships running concurrently and marketing activities.
(7) Mental stability:
Due to the performing nature of the UK economy (compared to Nigeria), the women are generally happy to an extent because their needs are easily met via simple financial plans. Tinubu, back home has triggered an epidemic of mood swings amongst women with highly counterproductive public policies.
( Fiscal compatibility:
Nigerian women in the UK are largely transparent with their finances. They also contribute to the payment of bills. They know for sure that their spouses might develop hunchbacks carrying those responsibilities alone. This attribute isn't easy to come by in Nigeria where the women regularly say 'Your money is our money and my money is my money' to their men.
(9) Better exposure:
Traveling itself is a form of education. As you pass through places, they also pass through you. Nigerian women in the UK have mixed with different races by virtue of being in the country. This has also broadened their perspective on life and made them better people.
(10) Cooking:
Nigerian women are generally fantastic cooks. They don't just have the skill, but they also have the financial resources to explore new measures of making both local and foreign dishes. Inadequate financial resources impede the abilities of their local counterparts.
Osahon George Osayimwen writes from the United Kingdom.
With All these? How come You are Still Single. If You Really have these, You can't be Single
Lildav07: Lol! Calm down Bro! All those early memo nacks , better food , ur kids beautiful smile...etc makes marriage worth it! All roses have torns bro! Nothing is perfect , even life isn't.
9jabox: My friend works in a private organization where he’s paid 80k per month. It was actually increased from 69 to 80k after the first fuel hike. The company can’t do another increment after the second hike meanwhile, his transport fare had increased by another 25%.
He works from Monday to Saturday.
His transport fare to and from work is 1500 daily excluding feeding. Dude spends an average of 3k daily for TP and feeding.
Tell me, what is his gain?
3*26 work days = 78k 2k Change!! to do what
He should Start Sleeping in the Office o and go home Monthly
FRANCISTOWN: One of my home boys once helped a girl secure a job at one of the very high paying organizations in Nigeria.
The offer was below his salary so, he thought to put his "future wife" instead, so this guy tried all his best. He somehow used his connections to get the aptitude test's questions a day before it was to be written. He stayed up all night to solve the questions, provided the answers and sent them to the lady to memorize.
After the aptitude test, he helped the lady prepare for the interview, plus a few strings here and there. The lady got the Job.
2 months after the lady got the job, my guy lost his high paying job and was working a gig that paid him less than 10% of what he was previously earning. First six months, she was still her normal self. A year after she got the job, she started acting fancy. Mind you about this time, my guy was already in his broke state.
All of a sudden, this lady started posting a particular guy at her place of work. My guy complained and complained and rebuked, but she was complacent in her wrong doings.
To cut the long story short. One day she sent my guy a message that read "all of your mates are moving up in life. I don't even know what I'm still doing with you sef" And that was the end of their relationship. Till date, my friend is still suffers the post traumatic. If you were on WhatsApp, I'd love to share you some interesting true life stories.
You see, anyone who is interested in supporting their GF is free. As long as the disappointment has nothing to do with me.
In this Gen_Z/ Gen_A . I'm saying it with full authority and realisation. Once a lady is richer than you, deep down her heart she feels like you no longer worth her. Forget this useless game people keep shouting up and down, I'm not talking about sex. I'm taking about a committed relationship (husband/wife, fiancé/fianceé). Once a woman is richer than you, forget it. In the space of one year, if you refused to level up. You can kiss your woman good-bye
Crime › Re: Abuja Housewife Bursts Into Tears As Barrow Pusher Escapes With Her Foodstuff by OvertheTop(m): 3:07pm On Aug 18, 2023
Fiscal compatibility: