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RomanceRe: What I Discovered About Women After Break-up With My Ex by OvertheTop(m): 12:38pm On Jul 18, 2023
Karlifate:
LMAO!
🤣🤣🤣

Twice beaten, multiple times shy.
STORY, if she comes Again, He will still SPONSOR....
We Men don't Learn....we dey find : Love, Loyalty, Sex, and Companionship.....
All na Scam.


cc hensparkings1:
RomanceRe: What I Discovered About Women After Break-up With My Ex by OvertheTop(m): 1:13pm On Jul 15, 2023
WatchYourSix:
Support?? Its not rocket science, His girl is already cheating on him..and u blaming him of no support.....

Being rich will always be relative....if u are sayin its okay for a woman to drop a man in the name of moving up becos the next rich man has showed up...then it wont matter what the sons u are training have.....because there will always be richer man....

Everyone expects a little bit of loyalty in their relationship men or women...

Na because e never happen to you.. make ur wife leave u because a rich man likes her and gave a house and a g-wagon....lets see if u will support her
I want to Like this a 1000 Times.
He Feels he is Married...So he has Cross the Finish Line shocked grin

cc Lifestone:
RomanceRe: What I Discovered About Women After Break-up With My Ex by OvertheTop(m): 1:07pm On Jul 15, 2023
Depriest2020:
huh
Guy you've lost her to the senator. The person that rented and furnished the room for her warned her not to bring another manchi there.

If am to advise, you don't have to be upset with her, she just upgraded her status. Just see her as a f**k mate and not a girlfriend, as long as you sabi knack her well, she will always come to you for good f**k and to the senator for the money. She can introduce you to the senator as her brother, through the senator you will get better job, meet more senators and more contacts + connections.

If you assure her you won't cause trouble for her and her man-friend, then she would be free to answer her calls in your presence. Am telling you from experience, I got most of my contacts & connection through that way.
NOW That's EPIC.
Blend In, and be TRANSACTIONAL TOO 100%
RomanceRe: What I Discovered About Women After Break-up With My Ex by OvertheTop(m): 1:03pm On Jul 15, 2023
nnamdizen:
Now we are arriving somewhere, for the fact that you do all that for her makes you an indispensable asset in her life. Imagine for a minute you decide to withdraw that support, do you think your home will still remain thesame?
So moral of this whole conversation is, men should not prioritize any relationship with the opposite sex to the detriment of their self improvement, rather they should aspire to grow and put more effort in raising their current status, which in turn will provide all the necessary advantages they need to keep any relationship with the opposite sex.
Guy, Even with that Support, HE can Still Collect breakfast.
He could even be Gifted children that are not His...
Don't Think because you are Married, You have Reached 100% Woman_Managerial_Success.

lol

cc: Lifestone:
RomanceRe: What I Discovered About Women After Break-up With My Ex by OvertheTop(m): 12:54pm On Jul 15, 2023
Lifestone:
I'm a Nigeria Man too and Married. Anytime my partner is into anything progressive, I get involved without even been invited, I offer advise, share significantly in the advancement and most of the time, they end up thanking and appreciating me for making it happen. But the fact is that I know I have to be part of that success otherwise another person will play my role and I will be left behind. Even if she's going to the wrong direction, I will usually championed her into seeing that the direction she's heading is headless.
The other part is that Men should consistently grow themselves. I am also praying for my daughter to succeed and marry a responsible and successful husband. You can't wish less
OGA,
what if she sees a More Successful man than you (They are Plenty out there) and she changes her attitude towards you and then you discover the hidden reason that it's a NEW More Successful Man.

Will you help her to Connect with the Better Man to achieve her Aspiration/Desire (As a Loving Partner that you are)
RomanceRe: What I Discovered About Women After Break-up With My Ex by OvertheTop(m):
jaelz:
What I Just Discovered About Women

A woman loses respect for a man or her current boyfriend once she starts getting intimate with someone that is richer and more well to do than him

Hear my story out before you judge me:

So I lost my ex about 2 months back when she became a Personal Assistant to a serving senator, I just noticed that she stopped appreciating the little money and things that I usually gave her and did for her since she started working with the senator.

She was staying at her parents house in Abuja but recently rented a place for herself and furnished it to taste, I was shocked and I asked how a girl that just started a personal assistant job with a senator and a salary of just 120k per month is able to rent a self contained apartments of about 750k per year and even furnished it to taste, she got very angry and said I should be happy for her that if I can't do it atleast she did it herself.

She has also never allowed me to stay in the house 🏠🏡 for once not to talk of coming to visit her
Normal, She use you Climb.
Next, if She Sees Governor Connect, she Will Climb Again...

Get Used to it.
SportsRe: Van Der Sar Stable, Back In The Netherlands After Brain Haemorrhage by OvertheTop(op):
Updated News on United Legend!!
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SportsVan Der Sar Stable, Back In The Netherlands After Brain Haemorrhage by OvertheTop(op):
Former Netherlands goalkeeper Edwin van der Sar is back in his home country and in the intensive care unit of a hospital, his ex-club Ajax tweeted on Saturday on behalf of his wife.

Van der Sar suffered a brain hemorrhage last week while on holiday in Croatia and was admitted to a hospital in Split, which he has now left for the Netherlands.

"Edwin has been repatriated from Croatia on Friday evening and is currently in the intensive care unit of a Dutch hospital," the statement said.

"His situation remains the same: stable, in a non-life-threatening condition, and communicative. The Van der Sar family would like to express their deep gratitude to the ‘University Hospital of Split’ for their great care during the last week.


"Edwin has to remain in the intensive care unit where he will be investigated further, and the family fervently hopes he can focus on his recovery afterward."

Van der Sar had last month left his post of Ajax managing director after a season without any silverware, saying he needed to recharge his batteries after almost 11 years as a top official of the Amsterdam club.

https://www.msn.com/en-xl/sports/football/van-der-sar-back-in-the-netherlands-after-brain-haemorrhage/ar-AA1dTB2v?ocid=wispr&pc=u477&cvid=21b215e6b143447b87c36b1150b7c509&ei=76

CelebritiesRe: Throwback: Evi Edna Ogholi (Nigerian Female Reggae Musician) Is 57 Today by OvertheTop(m): 11:57am On Jul 15, 2023
Silverberg:
She and my mum are of the same age.. happy birthday to her
.
Meanwhile at a cheap price Dm me for your logo and flyer design
it means
You are 32 or 33 years of Age
RomanceRe: How Old Were You When You Had Your First Boyfriend/Girlfriend? by OvertheTop(m): 5:31pm On Jul 14, 2023
Danisaint112:
Never had a girlfriend. Still single. Probably the reason I don't understand what heartbreak or setback by women is. Progressing fine and steadily.

Some have assumed I am a gay. Funny. grin

I understood at a very young age that as a man if you can control your sexual urge and stay way from women over 77% of your problem is solved. grin
The Problem is That:
if you dint have Experience of how to deal with Women through several relationships,
You will be Easily Manipulated when you eventually want to get Married.

you might easily fall for a Retired....." " in her 30s

So: there is Disadvantages to not having the experience
HealthRe: How To Remove This From My Teeth by OvertheTop(m): 5:23pm On Jul 14, 2023
Fryx:
Got a chipped tooth about ten years ago, and those brown stain have cover the chipped parts ever since.

They don't bother me in any other way, except that I love grooming myself and those stains irritates me.

Is it possible to be removed? Or, can a dentist file that part off and make it more even without the stain?

Note that I brush my teeth 2 to three times daily cause I hate it when plaques started building up after eating. But those stains have remained.

And I be fine boy fa. I no want make that stain dey there.
You have A Long Tongue.
Best Recommended for LICKING PLATE! grin
EducationRe: Naira Devaluation: Nigerian Students Face Tough Times In UK,Tuition Soars By 60% by OvertheTop(m): 6:49pm On Jul 12, 2023
CareerRe: Man Leaves High Paying Job To Follow His Passion. Wife-to-be "Unfollows" Him by OvertheTop(m): 10:37am On Jul 06, 2023
adexpa:
I will blame Davido because he was not ready to settle down when he publicly declared Chioma has his wife. Why doing such when you are not ready to commit yourself to the woman.

The same with this guy, why bringing a woman on board when you are still struggling to discover path and purpose, you want her to suffer while you're struggling to find your fit. It's a no no for me. Find your path, walk the path to a reasonable point and then find a lady who is interested in that path to go with you
From your Yarns, You are Saying Only a Man is Meant to Suffer...and when things become Soft/rosy, You Bring a Lady onboard.

Reality:
Things are Not Rosy for Life. When you Hit your all-time Low, Your Girl will SERVE you Breakfast (Leave You)....Because as you said Above She is not suppose to suffer with You.

So Who Will You Blame Then?
I Guess You will still Blame Yourself

well done bro
FamilyRe: Am I Doing The Right Thing Or I Will Regret It by OvertheTop(m): 5:42pm On Jul 05, 2023
Kooldon:
I know a nice guy in my area that relocated to village because of this same thing.

He has 2 kids with the wife.

The wife had a boy from her previous relationship.

The wife's two sisters also joined them in a small single room apartment.
He discussed with the wife severally. She didnt accept and she is has no job

He has been sleeping in his shop for more than 2 years without touching the wife.

All of them were feeding from his pocket.

No Savings.
He couldnt pay the shop rent. He recloted to the village and the wife refused paying him a visit til date.

You stil have the final say
This is the REality that will Set in.

You will have Money, But you won't be Able to Care for your own self
You will be Paying Bills like Mad....
while you will look haggard.

think of another Solution Not to Inherit all these liabilities
FamilyRe: Am I Doing The Right Thing Or I Will Regret It by OvertheTop(m): 5:38pm On Jul 05, 2023
Davidave:
Na responsibility go kill you. RIP in advance
THIS IS THE BITTER TRUTH!!
CareerRe: Man Leaves High Paying Job To Follow His Passion. Wife-to-be "Unfollows" Him by OvertheTop(m): 5:10pm On Jul 05, 2023
adexpa:
A man does not need any woman in the first place until he can define his path. Let him define his path and purpose, then he can invite a woman to journey together. I can not blame the lady because she was with her based on his previous path, and he has discovered a new path, he will have to walk the path to a reasonable end and them bring in a woman who is ready to go that path with him.
It's foolishness when men complain about women leaving them for economically stabled men. Nobody wants to be suffered.
Find a path, walk the path to a reasonable point and then bring a woman on board to walk together
So you Can not Blame Davido for his Adventures (After Being a Made Man)
CareerRe: Man Leaves High Paying Job To Follow His Passion. Wife-to-be "Unfollows" Him by OvertheTop(m): 5:06pm On Jul 05, 2023
Ebubu6:
Will you take such girl back if she warms herself back to your heart when you start making it?

Just a simple question
Watch the video, He Later Started Earning abt 800k and the lady attempted to come back
CareerRe: Man Leaves High Paying Job To Follow His Passion. Wife-to-be "Unfollows" Him by OvertheTop(m): 5:02pm On Jul 05, 2023
maxiart2:
Ladies of these days sha. She probably didn't take time to see a big future in him but was after his pay.

His passion will pay him more than that on the long run. Moreoso, he will have freedom, peace of mind and happiness in doing what he loves doing.
Watch the video, He Later Started Earning abt 800k and the lady attempted to come back
CareerRe: Man Leaves High Paying Job To Follow His Passion. Wife-to-be "Unfollows" Him by OvertheTop(m): 5:01pm On Jul 05, 2023
incogni2o:
Hmm, maybe He has more than enough savings in His account.

He shouldn't relent, If He truly knows what He is doing, the Lady will look at Him tomorrow and may regret her actions.
Watch the video, He Later Started Earning abt 800k and the lady attempted to come back
RomanceRe: The Amazing Moment A Bride Said Her Wedding Vow In ‘Tech Language’ (Video) by OvertheTop(m): 1:11pm On Jul 05, 2023
[quote author=Likoya post=124217923]Nonsense....Even person wey no go school go understand everything wey she talk..... Computer Science indeed...So you need to be a computer scientist to know what unlimited data is? When they said tech language I even thought she was speaking in C++ or Phyton... Rubbish[/quote]

Exactly....
1. she was Reading it...Anyone can do that.
2. No technical Jargon in the yarns... Just Common words.
3. was looking forward to code related Jargon not understandable to the common man
Jobs/VacanciesRe: NIMC Is Trying To Make Me Loose International Job. Please Help by OvertheTop(m): 1:00pm On Jul 05, 2023
Emir8:
I don't know what to do again! I got an international job which will require me to work from Nigeria and I have submitted all other document but the company is not accepting my NIN Slip. They said it is one-faced Id and cannot be accepted.

I downloaded the NIMC App and tried to activate my account but no OTP is send to my mobile phone number.

I went to the NIMC state headquarter in the state I live and complained. They checked my email and phone number in their system and all are correct. They told me to keep on trying the App. I have been trying the App day and night and no OTP was send to activate my account.

I was asked to check if the plastic one is ready for collection. The web page (https://nimc.gov.ng/eid-card-issuance/) does not exist.

I tried to check the status of the plastic one if it is ready through their website - http://touch.nimc.gov.ng/ The page is no longer existing. Everything about NIMC is not working now.

I even make attempt to get driver's license, I was told it will take 60 days to be ready.

Please what will I do again. I don't want to loose this job. I have send messages to different emails in NIMC but no response. I have submitted the police clearance certificate containing my 10 fingerprints yesterday but they still insist I will not be assigned roles until national ID is provided and the documentation period deadline is Monday 10/07/2023

The company said they are not accepting the blank backside below
I Just Downloaded the App from Play Store with my Android Right NOW
The OTP was Delivered to my Registered number without issues via text.
and i did the rest.

IT's WORKING, Bro, TRY IT AGAIN
RomanceRe: 2 Friends Find Out The Same Man Took Them On A Date To Same Location (Pic/Video) by OvertheTop(m): 9:32pm On Jul 04, 2023
Guyman01:
They are pretending to each other, they both enjoyed the outing
listen, they both said ..it was the best date they had had
RomanceRe: "My Wife Is Not My Family"- by OvertheTop(m): 7:40pm On Jul 03, 2023
Animegirl:
If you believe in the concept of an alpha male or superior man, it is essential to understand that treating your partner with respect and care is vital in maintaining a healthy relationship.

If you don't treat your wife well, how do you expect your wife to take care of you when old age sickness comes? Funny, how most men deceive themselves by saying "my wife is not my family" if you have such mentality you're a fool.

Similarly, subscribing to the notion that all men are naturally polygamous does not justify cheating or engaging in unfaithful behavior. Cheating on your partner can lead to severe consequences in the future, including the possibility of being abandoned when you need support the most.

Furthermore, having multiple partners and not taking responsibility for your children can result in strained relationships with your offspring as they grow older. Neglecting your parental duties may lead to your children not providing the care and attention you might need when you reach old age.

Infact I rather marry a simp, who loves me and take care of my needs than marry self proclaim Alpha and Omega with so much toxicity angry
Story.
PoliticsRe: Sit-At-Home: Senator Ifeanyi Uba And Nnewi Vigilante Men Parade In Show Of Force by OvertheTop(m): 7:30pm On Jul 03, 2023
Jobs/VacanciesRe: My Office Refused To Remit Pension by OvertheTop(m): 7:05pm On Jul 03, 2023
rhythyson:
Give me the company details make I help you blow whistle, PENCOM Auditors go show one time. The rest go be history
Story....
No be 9ja we dey?
CrimeRe: Akwa Ibom Man Shoots Dead His Only Son During Argument (Photo) by OvertheTop(m): 11:48am On Jul 03, 2023
BanjiHols:
"They say I'm wrong and I'm heartless, but all along
I was lookin' for a father, he was gone"
Dear MAMA
CrimeRe: Akwa Ibom Man Shoots Dead His Only Son During Argument (Photo) by OvertheTop(m): 11:46am On Jul 03, 2023
donbachi:
My anger won't let me feel for a stranger
2Pac
CelebritiesRe: Anita Brown Posts The Receipt Of Cash She Received From Davido by OvertheTop(m): 9:52am On Jul 03, 2023
CandidAdmin:
When you reason with your dick, your life becomes a mess.

Question of the day - If Davido knew he still wanted to have fun, why marry chioma?

Check my siggy
Because You and your Peers were Pressuring him to....
Check the History of the pressure on Nairaland ...
RomanceRe: Share The Moment You Realised You Had A Fake Friend Or Frenemy by OvertheTop(m): 9:40am On Jul 03, 2023
Sirchiboy:
..
You are one of them right?
No.
But that your Situation is Called BREAKFAST. grin grin cheesy

They were never your friends in the first place....
You should have Monetized your Favor to them Massively when you had the Chance.
it would have been a win-win situation.'

but never Mind, you have learnt your Lesson: Monetize always (No free food even in Freetown)
RomanceRe: Share The Moment You Realised You Had A Fake Friend Or Frenemy by OvertheTop(m): 5:01pm On Jul 01, 2023
Sirchiboy:
There was this guy back then In school.
He hardly come to school but one of the bigger boys in school.
I was the most brilliant boy in my department.
Him and his boys normally come to me during exam time so I can tell them answers.
I will meet this guy to tell me how I will be making money like him but he will tell me later.
Do you know after the final exam.
This guy and his friends blocked me and didn't talk to me again.
The sensible people that I would have followed in school, I didn't follow them again.
I was foolishly following those animals thinking they will teach me how to fish but I ended up being used.
grin grin grin
RomanceRe: Share The Moment You Realised You Had A Fake Friend Or Frenemy by OvertheTop(m): 4:56pm On Jul 01, 2023
Hopss:
learnt it the hard way, this lady close to me was acting all nice till I borrowed money from her to settle my house rent, fast forward to when I promise to pay, I no fit pay, this lady has told everyone that cares listen that I am a bad person . well all I am hoping is that I have her money and pay back cos I believe a doubt you owe someone must be paid . I done learn say people na wolf in sheep clothing.
I see....

I hope you have Paid Back....
Integrity is very key.

i don't think that person is a Bad Person, She Borrowed You Money when you needed it.
CelebritiesRe: "Davido Keeps Getting Chioma’s US Visa Denied On Purpose" - Anita Brown by OvertheTop(m): 1:44pm On Jul 01, 2023
lordchiz:
Davido gat no shame
The Irony of Life:
If you have shame, You cant Realize your Full Potential in Life

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