₦airaland Forum

Righthussle:
Make I summarise am for Una because this article no be for people wey graduate with third class and 2.2 .

Him say make Davido no apologize.

ican2020:
You are wrong here and pray that Nigeria does not happen to you

I lost my wife in April this year not because of lack of money but rather due to very poor health infrastructure
When you are faced with instant health crises that's when you know how backward Nigeria is

Life is just ones and if you can afford to japa to a great country even if you are 70 years old (the new environment will give you more vitality thereby aging gracefully)

Take those who can or are making money continuously either with their phones, laptops or as investors, japaism matters as long as you can work in your home and enjoy the atmosphere unlike here where over 70 percent citizens live in watch your back environment

I am way older than my elder sister who is in Europe with her family

ecolime:
$3,000 in Naija and you wan JAPA? Don't be foolish son.

If abroad dey hungry you that much, your earning can afford you a yearly vacation anywhere in the world.

ednut1:
you yourself as a man. You dey find sex, free cooking and companionship. Its transactional na

pansophist:
I have this friend that lives in Germany (lets call him John). I connected John with a Nigerian girl in the UK in 2019. They matched and vibe well but as soon as she knew that he is not a German citizen or with PR, she just jilt the guy.

I was in the UK last summer and met with her. She was still single. She asked about John, and I told her that he is fine, done with his masters in engineering and works for Bosch. He is also a German citizen now.

It was few weeks later after my holiday John told me that she has been disturbing him since for a relationship, citing all kinds of excuses as reason why she suddenly cut off. Excuses such as mental health, dealing with personal and family issues etc.

But John is not an idiot. Anyways, John already moved on and will get married soon to his Ivorian/French fiance. I will be a best man for sure on his wedding. Na my sure paddi.

What I've seen in the UK few times I was there is the need to outsmart the other. The girls won't be with a guy that is just coming up. They date/marry for interest. That's the story of most.

They don't think ahead. If you do Uber today, then in their mind, you'll do Uber forever. It's either a ready-made or nothing. Working together with a guy and build up is almost an abomination. They don't build, the move in.

Whatever.

ednut1:
even your fellow 9ja students will refuse to date you talkless of those with citizenship or permanent residency. Na men wey get good jobs and papers dem dey rush o. As a student you are probably starting from one room shared accommodation. Many 9ja babes here cant get wet for u in such accommodation when guys with cars and nice apartments staying alone dey. If you look good, black ladies from jamaica, other african countries or average looking white babes fit give you small nacks 😆.

ednut1:
This one is doing PR for Nigeria women in the Uk. If they have all those qualities listed up there men will be rushing them. They are mostly being avoided for obvious reasons 😆. The average Nigerian woman abroad has this over inflated ego just because she don japa. Tufiakwa

uche87:
Often when single young people move to the United Kingdom, they are always caught between starting new relationships abroad or sticking to their old relationships in their home countries. This short article is aimed at guiding you to make the best decision on the basis of reality and not mere emotions and sentiments.

I will try as much as possible to make this piece less controversial. The aim isn't to break relationships and destroy the efforts of couples in their relationships.

Dating a good Nigerian woman in the UK is amazing. They bring happiness and increase your zeal to succeed by giving you strong backing.
Below are some of the reasons why dating a Nigerian woman in the UK is highly recommended.

(1) Nigerian women are appreciative:

Let's face it, there is no abundance of 'original' male suitors in the UK. Some coloured women even go for several months without anybody stopping them on the street to say hello. This adds value to men (law of demand and supply). So when single women ever meet their male counterparts, they value you like the pound note.

(2) Financial independence:

The UK creates an enabling ground and a level-playing field for everybody to succeed. As long as you are ready to work, you will make good money. UK-based Nigerian women have their own money and take pleasure in buying their own things unlike their counterparts back home, who are at the mercy of Tinubu and his APC friends.

(3) Beauty and fashion:

UK-based Nigerian women are not only beautiful, but they are so classy. They could be fashionable due to the extra cash and the affordability of clothes in the UK. I believe they have more 'packaging' than Amazon lol

(4) Better opportunities:

Nigerian women are doing really well in the UK. They are like the last piece of the puzzle you need to make your life complete. I have seen some men doing blue-collar jobs marry doctors and company management officials in the UK. This opens a door of opportunities and stability.

(5) Adaptability:

If you are in the UK, you are better off dating a Nigerian woman who lives in the country. This is because they have adapted to the system and have a strong knowledge of how it works. This is always as smooth as when Robin Van Persie moved from Arsenal to Old Trafford. He hit the ground running.

(6) Happy Ending:

UK women have very strong 'grips'. Legends in the house would understand. This is because of the scarcity of men and the busy nature of the country. You can't boldly say the same about Lagos-based women who are mostly 'sexually stressed' due to too multiple relationships running concurrently and marketing activities.

(7) Mental stability:

Due to the performing nature of the UK economy (compared to Nigeria), the women are generally happy to an extent because their needs are easily met via simple financial plans. Tinubu, back home has triggered an epidemic of mood swings amongst women with highly counterproductive public policies.

( Fiscal compatibility:

Nigerian women in the UK are largely transparent with their finances. They also contribute to the payment of bills. They know for sure that their spouses might develop hunchbacks carrying those responsibilities alone. This attribute isn't easy to come by in Nigeria where the women regularly say 'Your money is our money and my money is my money' to their men.

(9) Better exposure:

Traveling itself is a form of education. As you pass through places, they also pass through you. Nigerian women in the UK have mixed with different races by virtue of being in the country. This has also broadened their perspective on life and made them better people.

(10) Cooking:

Nigerian women are generally fantastic cooks. They don't just have the skill, but they also have the financial resources to explore new measures of making both local and foreign dishes. Inadequate financial resources impede the abilities of their local counterparts.

Osahon George Osayimwen writes from the United Kingdom.

Lildav07:
Lol! Calm down Bro! All those early memo nacks , better food , ur kids beautiful smile...etc makes marriage worth it! All roses have torns bro! Nothing is perfect , even life isn't.

9jabox:
My friend works in a private organization where he’s paid 80k per month. It was actually increased from 69 to 80k after the first fuel hike. The company can’t do another increment after the second hike meanwhile, his transport fare had increased by another 25%.

He works from Monday to Saturday.

His transport fare to and from work is 1500 daily excluding feeding. Dude spends an average of 3k daily for TP and feeding.

Tell me, what is his gain?

3*26 work days = 78k
2k Change!! to do what

He should Start Sleeping in the Office o and go home Monthly

or Get Accommodation very Close to the Office

WantsandMore:
Why did you pay for a girls education without wifing her first?

FRANCISTOWN:
One of my home boys once helped a girl secure a job at one of the very high paying organizations in Nigeria.

The offer was below his salary so, he thought to put his "future wife" instead, so this guy tried all his best.
He somehow used his connections to get the aptitude test's questions a day before it was to be written. He stayed up all night to solve the questions, provided the answers and sent them to the lady to memorize.

After the aptitude test, he helped the lady prepare for the interview, plus a few strings here and there. The lady got the Job.

2 months after the lady got the job, my guy lost his high paying job and was working a gig that paid him less than 10% of what he was previously earning.
First six months, she was still her normal self.
A year after she got the job, she started acting fancy. Mind you about this time, my guy was already in his broke state.

All of a sudden, this lady started posting a particular guy at her place of work. My guy complained and complained and rebuked, but she was complacent in her wrong doings.

To cut the long story short. One day she sent my guy a message that read "all of your mates are moving up in life. I don't even know what I'm still doing with you sef"
And that was the end of their relationship. Till date, my friend is still suffers the post traumatic.
If you were on WhatsApp, I'd love to share you some interesting true life stories.

You see, anyone who is interested in supporting their GF is free.
As long as the disappointment has nothing to do with me.

In this Gen_Z/ Gen_A . I'm saying it with full authority and realisation. Once a lady is richer than you, deep down her heart she feels like you no longer worth her. Forget this useless game people keep shouting up and down, I'm not talking about sex. I'm taking about a committed relationship (husband/wife, fiancé/fianceé). Once a woman is richer than you, forget it. In the space of one year, if you refused to level up. You can kiss your woman good-bye

Karlifate:
LMAO!
🤣🤣🤣

Twice beaten, multiple times shy.

WatchYourSix:
Support?? Its not rocket science, His girl is already cheating on him..and u blaming him of no support.....

Being rich will always be relative....if u are sayin its okay for a woman to drop a man in the name of moving up becos the next rich man has showed up...then it wont matter what the sons u are training have.....because there will always be richer man....

Everyone expects a little bit of loyalty in their relationship men or women...

Na because e never happen to you.. make ur wife leave u because a rich man likes her and gave a house and a g-wagon....lets see if u will support her

Depriest2020:

Guy you've lost her to the senator. The person that rented and furnished the room for her warned her not to bring another manchi there.

If am to advise, you don't have to be upset with her, she just upgraded her status. Just see her as a f**k mate and not a girlfriend, as long as you sabi knack her well, she will always come to you for good f**k and to the senator for the money. She can introduce you to the senator as her brother, through the senator you will get better job, meet more senators and more contacts + connections.

If you assure her you won't cause trouble for her and her man-friend, then she would be free to answer her calls in your presence. Am telling you from experience, I got most of my contacts & connection through that way.

nnamdizen:
Now we are arriving somewhere, for the fact that you do all that for her makes you an indispensable asset in her life. Imagine for a minute you decide to withdraw that support, do you think your home will still remain thesame?
So moral of this whole conversation is, men should not prioritize any relationship with the opposite sex to the detriment of their self improvement, rather they should aspire to grow and put more effort in raising their current status, which in turn will provide all the necessary advantages they need to keep any relationship with the opposite sex.

Lifestone:
I'm a Nigeria Man too and Married. Anytime my partner is into anything progressive, I get involved without even been invited, I offer advise, share significantly in the advancement and most of the time, they end up thanking and appreciating me for making it happen. But the fact is that I know I have to be part of that success otherwise another person will play my role and I will be left behind. Even if she's going to the wrong direction, I will usually championed her into seeing that the direction she's heading is headless.
The other part is that Men should consistently grow themselves. I am also praying for my daughter to succeed and marry a responsible and successful husband. You can't wish less

jaelz:
What I Just Discovered About Women

A woman loses respect for a man or her current boyfriend once she starts getting intimate with someone that is richer and more well to do than him

Hear my story out before you judge me:

So I lost my ex about 2 months back when she became a Personal Assistant to a serving senator, I just noticed that she stopped appreciating the little money and things that I usually gave her and did for her since she started working with the senator.

She was staying at her parents house in Abuja but recently rented a place for herself and furnished it to taste, I was shocked and I asked how a girl that just started a personal assistant job with a senator and a salary of just 120k per month is able to rent a self contained apartments of about 750k per year and even furnished it to taste, she got very angry and said I should be happy for her that if I can't do it atleast she did it herself.

She has also never allowed me to stay in the house 🏠🏡 for once not to talk of coming to visit her

Silverberg:
She and my mum are of the same age.. happy birthday to her
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Meanwhile at a cheap price Dm me for your logo and flyer design

Danisaint112:
Never had a girlfriend. Still single. Probably the reason I don't understand what heartbreak or setback by women is. Progressing fine and steadily.

Some have assumed I am a gay. Funny.

I understood at a very young age that as a man if you can control your sexual urge and stay way from women over 77% of your problem is solved.

Fryx:
Got a chipped tooth about ten years ago, and those brown stain have cover the chipped parts ever since.

They don't bother me in any other way, except that I love grooming myself and those stains irritates me.

Is it possible to be removed? Or, can a dentist file that part off and make it more even without the stain?

Note that I brush my teeth 2 to three times daily cause I hate it when plaques started building up after eating. But those stains have remained.

And I be fine boy fa. I no want make that stain dey there.

ogododo:
https://punchng.com/naira-devaluation-nigerian-students-face-tough-times-in-uk-tuition-soars-by-60/?amp

adexpa:
I will blame Davido because he was not ready to settle down when he publicly declared Chioma has his wife. Why doing such when you are not ready to commit yourself to the woman.

The same with this guy, why bringing a woman on board when you are still struggling to discover path and purpose, you want her to suffer while you're struggling to find your fit. It's a no no for me. Find your path, walk the path to a reasonable point and then find a lady who is interested in that path to go with you

Kooldon:
I know a nice guy in my area that relocated to village because of this same thing.

He has 2 kids with the wife.

The wife had a boy from her previous relationship.

The wife's two sisters also joined them in a small single room apartment.
He discussed with the wife severally. She didnt accept and she is has no job

He has been sleeping in his shop for more than 2 years without touching the wife.

All of them were feeding from his pocket.

No Savings.
He couldnt pay the shop rent. He recloted to the village and the wife refused paying him a visit til date.

You stil have the final say

Davidave:
Na responsibility go kill you. RIP in advance

adexpa:
A man does not need any woman in the first place until he can define his path. Let him define his path and purpose, then he can invite a woman to journey together. I can not blame the lady because she was with her based on his previous path, and he has discovered a new path, he will have to walk the path to a reasonable end and them bring in a woman who is ready to go that path with him.
It's foolishness when men complain about women leaving them for economically stabled men. Nobody wants to be suffered. Find a path, walk the path to a reasonable point and then bring a woman on board to walk together

Ebubu6:
Will you take such girl back if she warms herself back to your heart when you start making it?

Just a simple question

maxiart2:
Ladies of these days sha. She probably didn't take time to see a big future in him but was after his pay.

His passion will pay him more than that on the long run. Moreoso, he will have freedom, peace of mind and happiness in doing what he loves doing.

incogni2o:
Hmm, maybe He has more than enough savings in His account.

He shouldn't relent, If He truly knows what He is doing, the Lady will look at Him tomorrow and may regret her actions.