₦airaland Forum

jojothaiv:
Funny enough, the 'naturally wicked' Nigerians will still comment on this thread.

Most are on this high horse
But then, Ain't most self righteous..

If you were to Employ a Gate Man today, How much will you pay Him?

TUTU147:
That is why you see many of the domestic staff doing evil to their oga.That is the reason many young guys go into crime in other to survive. We don't love ourselves in this country,how can you pay someone 20k in nigeria and expect that person to be motivated.The man have family to take good care.Money that cannot sub for your tv monthly is what you are paying a family man or woman and still maltreat that person as if the salary maltreatment no do.

see it is very Easy to say the payment is Small....
Until you need to employ someone yourself....Then You will Braze with Reality that it is not easy to pay Salary.

Just think about it for a Minute....Based on your Income How Much can You pay a Gate Man?

You will realize that Sometimes, to pay salary give high blood Pressure to Employer

Oritna94:
Here in KSA, a domestic worker is paid about 1000sars which is about 200k in naira..

so how much is your income, if you are paying such an Amount Monthly?

SavageResponse:
He got it made cos you're paying him a miserable 35K a month?

Go to the UK or any sane country and pay your gatemen 35K and see if you will not be arrested and charged to court by the government for using slave labour!

How much will you pay your Gateman, Your Chef, Your Gardner and your Cloth Washer per month?
Based on your current income

Blossommind:
I want to share what could have landed me in death or in a disfigured state but God said NO, having seen that I only came to hustle for my daily bread. There are cases of this type that people don't live to testify. I shall not die before my time.

Note: please I dont know how to write without errors and as I am in an unstable state now. So apology to English teachers and students in advance if you see errors. I'm a product of evening school.

First of all, I am a hustler and I have this strong desire to become a better person in life despite my background. 30+, father of two who still went back to school to study for a degree for the sake of the future, which is also putting additional pressure on me.

I do house painting and farming. So I got this small painting work that could have help me earn some money which I really needed it, thus, I grabbed it with joy. A one story building. It is one side of the house, given to me by the main contractor. Everything was going fine until at some point when i shifted the ladder to another position, put a stopper at the base so that the ladder won't slip. Everything looked good just like l have been doing all the while before I climbed it. While still climbing far up with a bucket of paint and long roller on my left hand, suddenly, the ladder slipped backwardly and with speed like siooooooooooood....... (like in a second or two) till it crashed landed. You know that kind sioooood sound. Meanwhile, I can't explain when the paint left my hand back to the ground and when I also left the ladder without even knowing, on free fall until I crash landed too. There was nothing to hold or anyway to help myself to land well. Chai, may we not die while looking for our daily bread. That was how I landed on my back roughly and hit the head on the wall. Chai, come and see me in this condition, no how you won't pity me. I didn't even know what to do immediately on crashing on the ground, to cry hungry me but I no fit cry at the same time.

Worse thing is that this kind of fall does not give any room to defend yourself. You just fall helplessly like a bag of fufu and land anyhow. Poor me! This hapoened after 10am today.

As it were, that was the end of the work and am back in the house now licking my wounds. Since the job is at personal-risk, whatever you see, you take. Nobody to complain to for sympathy.

Meanwhile, my second child is less than a month old. Praise be to God for not letting this moment of joy turn to tears, assuming injuries required medical emergency or even death.

To be a man is not a day job. It takes a lot to build to become a man especially, financially.

Right here at home, back/body pain, swollen head with serious headache (as I hit on the wall), dislocated joints (right wrist) and sharp pain around the left part of the waist, all going on around me.

"Brother Bernard" happened to me.

Go to the Hospital to make sure you do not have internal bleeding

28plus:
These days, it's either graduates are talking about Laundry business, POS business, or betting shop. All trash.

While they can earn you reasonable amount of cash, it still doesn't change the fact that it all boils down to lack of vision and ideas. I'm also guilty of this. We lack ideas in this country and that's the major cause of unemployment.

Not everyone will be fortunate to work in the cooperate world, true! But everyone can set up a "formal" hustle that can make you wear that suit and tie.

We only need one great idea.

Great Man,
How much do you make Monthly?
i want to confirm something

Guyman01:
She is in love with Dante while using him for survival till he gets out of prison

Exactly!
Connecting to a Weak Wifi until she gets a Stronger Wifi Signal

Caramia2020:
Lol, robbing Peter to pay Paul.

Peter is the Nice Guy
Paul is the BAD Guy

Ladies Always Love the BAD Guy even when she knows their future is not Secure with Him

Nawttiboi007:

That one no Say ''Make Stray Bullet No Hit am"

LeeSmart:
No wonder oga kunle no gree let me hear word yestaday, e just the disturb me say their company na the most valuable company 4 africa.
Na to try find space 4 my madam sister be that oo

You are funny....
is it by the rank or by the money that enters your personal pocket for Survival

dohyn:
I usually don't like to comment on threads like this because the Nigerian public hates doctors and their minds are already made up irrespective of any explanation you may give.
However, that wasn't a medical student. The doctor is likely a resident in training, but definitely not a student.
2) Hysterectomy (removal of the womb) can be done as a last resort to save the patient's life when all efforts to stop the bleeding has failed.
3) The bleeding caused reduced blood supply to her kidneys, making them shut down, leading to kidney failure and subsequent dialysis.
It's a very sad story and unfortunate outcome.

What Hospital does one get the Best, professional Hands?
is it Private Hospitals?

Evidenx:
Whenever I borrow people money,I discovered it always turn out bad when I want it back, even as far as loosing some friends,so God gave me wisdom to deal with the situation,if for instance you ask me me to borrow you 10k, I will cut it into half,send you 5k and I will tell you, I didn't borrow you the money but a gift from me and that u should find a way to complete it and use it for what you want. That way I have peace of mind and I don't loose friends again.

When you say the Bolded, you have just given the person a Ticket to come back and Borrow Again.

What you should do is:
Have intentions to dash him....But tell him 5k is all you have available to borrow him and even set a date for the refund
BUT never ask for it.....

He will never come back to borrow from you again...Because he knows he Owes you 5k before.

That is the Logic

Lovelyn451:
capital letter yes!!!

Take time out to Read other peoples Experiences above and below....
and wake up from your Tribal intent.

Lovelyn451:
shikenan!!! Chai, u don talk am finish.. flesh and blood didn't reveal this to you! My dear I avoid them like poo poo, once I smell them from far I swerve....omo

So if i live outside the South west where Yoruba People Reside,
I will Have No Problem of Rumors'?

dey Mumu yourself

davien:
I've been accused of being gay too, because I speak good English. Next was that my father did ritual is why we're always in good times. The most recent was that I raped a girl who stayed with me, this was spread by the girl herself because I didn't want her.

This is a Very Serious Accusation. You better Gather your Evidence and Dispel the Rumor. make you go Jail for Fun

Donedeal1:
Good or bad
I love to be mentioned

Better still to be the topic

You would not love to be ignored

It's not better neither

So be intentionally scarce some times.

What if you are Called and implicated in a Criminal Case Like Murder?
Will u be cool with that?
you will realize that khaki no be Leather!

JeffreyJunior:
Silence in public and loud laughter in private, that's how I handle them.

Some have said my dad put me in his "cult" before he died. My pops was never a cult man just that he was not naive in matters of religion eventhough he was a knight.

Many others once said that the gay country affected me and that I could be one.

Another set said that oyibo woman don born pikin for me which was why my mum haff not killed herself over my matter then.

The last trending one was that I died, my mum arranged for me to be buried abroad and covered it up so that umunna people would not take over my papa properties.

Sometime ago, I called my uncle and asked him to do a task on my behalf but he was kinda insisting I showed up fess. I never knew the reason until I went home and visited him in PortHarcourt afterwards. He knelt down and thanked God saying his enemies had been put to shame. He then told me that the rumor was why he was dillydallying. I asked him about my calls and he said if oyibo could clone human being, na my voice go come hard them to forge. That day, I laughed like I was on cheap drugs.

Be Careful moving around in naija o. alot is happening now...abeg

bukatyne:
From your own examples, the rumours have a bit of substance perhaps embellished.

1. You stake a bet with a married man that if he successfully woos a lady, you would give him N10k. Do you understand that you are encouraging a man to commit adultery? While he is ultimately responsible for his choice, you are aiding and abetting him hence his wife is very correct.

2. You bought a partly stolen(it is either stolen or not), partly used laptop for approx N13k. Your neighbours thought you bought it in a honest way and accessed the laptop's value based on the market value. Now, I do not know the living arrangements you have that your neighbours know every new thing you buy however, they are right to assume you have hammered given your new purchase and clean up. Do they have the right to harass you, definitely not.

I would advise you re-evaluate your life style and live a blameless life before accusing people of starting rumours about you.

Exactly.
. Why should he Stake such a Bet. its not Right.
. Why are you feeding kids in the compound? its Dangerous
. When there are terrible harmful rumors like Stealing rumors , call one of the parties and explain how innocent you are. be plain..
make dem no go arrest you before you clear yourself

NigerianAngelo:
Indomie we have been peacefully eating for years?

LOOOL
Do you think Cancer Grows and Kills Over night?
it can Grow undetected for 20Yrs before you detect it.

LoL

BusinessPlan22:
Just finished eating it now.
Last time. Never again

LOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOL

FanRong:
I came late. I have one here.
Its everywhere. Once you tell a girl that you like her, you're owing her money but u don't know.

Let me Guess...
You sent 5K to prove a Point!

Vintage100:
9090498231

OPAY account

Abolaji

Who did You Vote in the Last Election?
That's the Criteria for Payment

LOOOL just Joking

Oluwomonext212:
Met this lady on my street, days gone by I didn’t message or call and she decided to take the bold step. Just a week thereafter, she said you know I have not asked you for anything since met, pls I need 15k my landlord just called for his rent. Sincerely I sent her the money ! Few days later she wanted shawarma couple of times, all that was nothing to me cuz I give even stranger if I have, but it will never stop !!! Until she told she was expecting some goods to be delivered to her customers as a vendor wey she be But another customer wanted a bag and human hair and she doesn’t have money to order for that. So she asked if I could give her 50k and she will pay back later ! Na there we end the journey after two weeks

You mean You Got Nofin back from the 2 weeks of continuous Billing?

Na ATM be that naa

Shedking:
They're everywhere, lady's of nowadays only know how to bill you.

They hardly look for job, but are on 3 to 5 relationships which they uses to survive.

Most of them are always coming out first position while in school, but replicate same thing in real life, they will tend to go for begging men to survive.

Maybe their parents no deh feed them

She Needs like 100 guys to fall for this format to BLOW!
and they normally Get them.

Aigbedion141:
Omo! Was a gambler for 4years only GOD knew how he manage to pull me out.
Now I'm into womanizing spent over 300k within 4months.

I'm extremely tired and saddened, And always remorseful! I regret everybit of my actions after chyking olosho (Hookup, hoe).

Once I'm broke sex doesn't cross my mind.
But the moment there is enough capital my mind is filled up with different theories of sex style.

Initially I started it to kill depression, boredom and shyness.
Now I'm addicted, as a knowledgeable man I'm aware it will obstruct my pathway to success and it's diminish glory and destroy destiny.

I'm very willing to stop and will be very grateful to the advice i will be receiving here.
Thank you to everyone who contributed and to everyone who read.. love always.

Set your Mind on a Very Massive Project like Building your own House....
You will be so Broke Every month...because of the commitment to this project that,,,,Erection go Hard to come by... for the next 3 to 4years

MyAmericandream:
You better no give yourself unnecessary headache. You can never understand women. Women can’t understand men too. E dey una body Humans are very complex to deal with… just live your life and do what makes you happy and avoid over dramatic people.

Absolutely!

MyAmericandream:
All these celebrities don’t even have class. So this is the kinda guy that sweep them off their feet? When a kind hearted, responsible man hit on them, they be like he is not my type. I don’t do broke azz niggas. So this is the best they can date? Tufiakwa

Yes o, That's how it is o.
we are still trying to understand you, Ladies/women.

we are on page 1,894,635,456 of the BOOK 'understanding Women with EASE '

omoredia:
Hehe the guy too wohwoh. Empress no impress at all

Attraction is Guaranteed if money is involved.

southsouthking:
I'm a die hard Manchester united supporter and a core fan of christiano Ronaldo, but it's high time someone tell him is to Retire.

Great Ballers Need Great Teams to do well.
You cannot blame Ronaldo.

Thats why Haaland can not join a middle-table team
That's why a great Coach cannot help a Middle table Team to win league ask Conte
Thats why Messi cannot join AJ Auxerre

Chijeep:
just a little reminder to those[b] who take their job more important than their family and even their freedom.[/b]
It doesn't worth the hype. Take care of yourself, your family and make sure you don't trade them for anything

Can Family and Freedom PAY YOUR Salary and BILLS?
OR how do you intend to be Loved by Family Without Paying Bills and Flexing Them?
OR how can you Take care of Yourself and get Freedom, if you have No STABLE Income?

Even if you want to be a Business Owner, You must First Work for Someone Diligently!
to get Funds to Start Yours

PatrickOkunima:
What you wrote there is not Archimedes' principle. According to Archimede's principles, when an object is immersed in a fluid (liquid or gas), it experiences a loss in weight equal to the mass of the liquid displaced.

Of Course, he was right, its Archimedes' principle:
The the mass of the liquid displaced = to the FINAL Water Height - initial Water Height

(The water does not necessarily have to spill out of the cup for it to become 'Liquid Displaced' )


cc: CivilianJTF

Evolutionlove:
Lol if you will be performing this Test on Most Nigerian Ladies😂

There is high probability you might never get Married😂

I want to tell you for Free that many Nigerian Men most especially the Financially Poor Men are aware thier Wives are being fvcked by other Men but they just decide to feign ignorance because They are at their Wives Mercies and they know how difficult it is to get Modern Ladies if you are not a Financially Successful Man.

Believe Me, Many Nigerian Men either Elite/Wealthy/Rich/Poor "BEGGED" their Wives before they Agree to MARRY Them. It's an Open Secret.

Life is very Terrible for Most Nigerian Men.