₦airaland Forum

Ckonnet:
He paid oo, I no want talk my mind. But we wey grind to get to the level we are cannot. If you are made na that time you go know say girls sabi save money unless na pure ekuke.

Pells:
Is that not sweetplum
She looks like Sheistoopretty / Virginprincess
All these broke feminist that cannot pay for their food
That is why I trust Rozros
Her olosho work dey give am funds

BanevsJoker:
Stop talking nonsense. Update yourself with proper information or keep quiet. The flood was caused by release of water from a dam in Cameroon. Nigeria was supposed to build another dam in Adamawa state to cushion the effects and since the early 80's are yet to build it. Town planning and drainage will not build a dam for the Nigerian Federal Government.

Ransomware:
The concept of covering up is good but the idea that you have to do it for a man is absolutely ridiculous. It is this dependence on men that have spurred this viral outpour of 304s all over Nigeria. Every young girl even older women believes that they need a man to survive, it has turned them to 304s since survival is solely based on how they can please a man.
This ideology needs to die along with the people who propagate them. The irony is that the men who support this are still the ones that call women all sorts of names but fail to see how statements like this drive that psychological wedge that turns women into men dependant toys.

olisaEze:
A man will take care of you is exactly why many women subject themselves to abusive relationships in Africa.

Prodigy100:
Mumu husband! as far as she didn't steal the money wetin concern me with how she take get the money.
na too spend d money go dey worry me

miketayo:
Still scary.. I will think twice before I goto ogun state from lagos

Abizz:
I like her confidence.
Relationship isn't for broke boys.
Fix your pocket first.

Tradepunter2:
The day Nigerian men will come to the reality that relationship in niaja is transactional the better for them...

Spend the best you can fk the best you can and hope for the best but prepare for the worst....

Freshgrace4life:
Abegi , I see person wey go dey give me 50k every month , na im I neva open supermarket..

miketayo:
Girls get mind, how will u travel to uyo from lag for D

smi2021:
Landlords can me reckless. Back in uni my landlord put me through hell. Well.. now am a real estate agent.. jokes on you I guess

Lucrativress:
No not woman hating
These set of men see everything as a property that can be acquired at will with no sense of attachment.
You won't see anything to like don't worry, I'm a sharer of peace
Proudly Yoruba even though not fully.
I get your drift.
You're not difficult,the word might just be thoughtful

Abizz:
I wrote a piece of what happened at my workplace and I'm being bombarded with emails and questions not about the subject matter but about my office. Is this a vacancy post?

JaskanFactor:
fking African people, when you see them abroad, run the other way.
All the other races want to wipe you off the face of the earth, and you still acting like your own worst enemy.
Africans who attack each other are demonstrating false sense of security.

And in all the troubles i ever had in over 25 years in Europe, the only time i ever ended up in jail was cause of fellow Yoruba man whom i was trying to help.

Am done, case closed.

Buckeyemedia1:
Even Saint Pandora aka Pete Obi is guilty of associating with them.

kelvine:
How will the wife's relative and close friends feel reading this.
Definitely they won't be as excited as the actor wishes his fans to be.

BigYash:
The tip of the clitoris alone has a whopping 8,000 nerve endings ..

Na the female dey feel am pass.. Na only when man wan nuts,he suppose make sound,but for man not to loose guard, you gat control the sound.. Infact silent am..

I hear say some men dey scream and moan sha ,based on kayamata levels..

Ayomiddee:
We're not the weaker vessels. Only weaker vessels scream

Wealthbrain22:
If you’re in your prime either as a man or a woman, getting all the attention and praises..I need you to know that your 30’s and 40’s will be different. You won’t look as young and fresh anymore and guess what? The attention will dry up and if you have not married as a woman , it’s only God that will now help you. Your beauty will fade, your body will sag, and you will look like a desperado with 100 body count searching for a “mugu” to settle down with. You may not be desperate but your appearance will look desperate, men will wonder why you’re above 30 and have no man in your life, they will fear that there’s something wrong with you. Please young girls, stop doing too much shakara, grab your youthful opportunities, TikTok won’t be there to save you.

As a man you will be lonely to stupor. No girl will desire you because you’re over 30 and you can’t get girls with “fineboy” anymore, it will be all about your value , your net worth and your place in society. Teenage girls won’t want you because you’re too old for them and you have nothing to offer them, girls your age won’t want you either because you will be perceived to be a “failure” not necessarily because you are but society will tag you as one.

My point is, when you’re looking young and fresh, everyone wants you..job opportunities, career opportunities, easy attention, sharp mind, free accommodation for those still living with their parents, make use of these opportunities and build your life.

Your later years will be brutal, 30’s and 40’s will break you if you don’t get your life together on time.

For men, money will save you , for women marriage will save you. Stop all these unnecessary shakara, it’s not worth it..age will humble you.

EDIT: men at 30 don’t look like failures at all, it’s only when you don’t have money that it may seem like that. With money your 30’s will be the sweetest part of your life. I guess I didn’t add this part.

Chisomann:
My older brother is 27 jobless he has a child ,my younger brothers are 21 and 19

Faber:
Na their way, but normally women are naturally stingy, they don't call you, except they're in need

Medianna:
We test people base on their capacity not base on our own capability.
Imagine you keeping like three ladies at the same time and you have the audacity to say you want to test them base on your capacity..
Surely surely it won't go well...
And what exactly are you rewarding the lady that is billing you because you did not respond she kept her cool for?
For respecting herself?
Oh no for considering you?
Probably for getting it elsewhere?
Ok I understand now for loving you overload

SerendipityHIGH:
I travelled for a few weeks and have been in the East since then.

I intentionally stopped calling or chatting all my girls.

I wanted to rate their level of interest in whatever relationship/ situationships we have.

Note: I left them to initiate the chats or calls themselves.


MY FINDINGS

80% of relationships/ friendships with women will die once the guy stops calling.


Many called in the first week.

One called till 4th week and hasn't called for 16 days now. She used to visit me weekly before.

Only one still kept in touch till date.

She billed me too but I avoided it to access her reaction. She kept her cool.

I have planned to reward her upon my return.



ASIDE: This reminds me of a girl I met at BRT going to Ikeja. She works at Computer villa.

I took her number. We chatted once in a while and I have sent her data and airtime on few occasions.

I intentionally stopped contacting her and she never did. I deleted her number 2 months after.

I suspect this might be happening because I don't reveal my identity to them because I always want things to flow organically and also to avoid raising high expectations of me.

R0LL0N:
Lol. U can't escape Glo debt in diaspora. I owe them for good 7 month after I japa, they keep sending me messages everyday. Out of pity I Sha buy d credit and pay them back.

OyeofIkoTuN:
They have no right joor

TueH to them..

Ndi ala.

I thought they disgraced and banned lots of this loan shark apps abi na audio ban.