₦airaland Forum

RikudoSennin:
Brother, what i see daily in this society that i live in makes me shudder. Women will yell at their men in public and the men will be quiet like a hypnotized puppet. I have lost count of me seeing wives yelling at their husbands and the men will be quiet as a graveyard.

It is no wonder that the societies in the western hemisphere is in chaos. No men to put things in order.

Haydens:
I have never heard or seen any video of guys singing carry me dey go my wife place, that shows that we are the prize. The moment you know this then you will value yourself well. No matter her class never prioritize her because at the end you still hold the key to her happinesses which include marriage, commitment e.t.c

They know that men age like wine while they decay like corpse.

igwegeorgiano:
Being in a relationship with a destination on one's mind is a beautiful thing considering the joy of having the right partner in your world to make things happen. Am beginning to have a rethink about my present relationship with the most ungrateful of all ingrates of a lady on the planet earth.

Am presently in a relationship with a lady from the eastern part of Nigeria while I am from the south-south. We met over five months ago and within this short period I have spent well over 7million naira on this lady setting up a boutique biz for her getting her a befitting accommodation tastefully furnished and many more goodies to ensure she is comfortable including a car.

I don't want to bore us with other issues that cropped up which actually prompted me to share my experiences with this ingrate of a woman. I work so smart for my money as a certified mariner and I made my money from every available legit means am very comfortable to a very large extent but true love and affection is missing.

I went into a relationship with the sole aim of settling down with my woman whom I have done so much for. Just last night she called me and requested I assist her with with 500k to take care of some personal issues I agreed to give her the money but unfortunately I was able to raise 250k which I sent to her. Just few minutes ago she called to tell me that am a very stingy man. She told me I can't take care of her needs, yet I want to marry her. My people, am confused right now because I can't imagined myself going into marriage with this lady.

I have decided to relaxed any form of assistance to her henceforth so I can take my time to assess the situation of things in my relationship with her.

faceLAGOS:
Na mumu guy dey trust naija babes.

I remember when my x (father was G.O while mom is a prophetess/evangelist) and I went to a bar to have a drink, and some guys were sitting behind me while she could see them because she’s sitting opposite me.

She asked that I should go get some peppered snail for her inside the bar, because we were sitting outside.

As I was almost entering the bar, my intuition told me to look back. Behold my “church brought up” girl was already exchanging numbers with one of the guys sitting behind me.

Mogbe!

I never knew they were already giving themselves eyes as I dey back the guys.

I was very furious and ask the mad girl that we leave immediately. When I asked her what was that for, on the way.

Guess what she said?



She said she wanted to preach to the guy.

I can never trust any Nigerian girl.

Apili:
Baba something is happening under your nose
Nor go wise up
How did she get the guys account number
Was there a prove to show you she sent the money back to him
Till them give you invitation card your eyes go clear
I don't trust anything that bleeds from their private part
Even donkey can set you up

Jennyclay:
You are overreacting. I don't know why men can be so obsessed. Nawa oo.
Are you her father to be questioning her why was the guy in her room? If you think she's cheating on you then end the relationship. Is not as if you are spending enough money on your girlfriend in the relationship. You can't buy common student plastic chair & table for your girlfriend to put in her room. Shame .

Enemyofpeace:
There was this hot argument we had in class today while waiting for our lecturer.

It was on the ownership of the breasts, some (including ladies) argued that the breasts belong to the father, some argued that the breasts belong to the mother, while some including our old school lecturer who later met us on the argument were of the opinion that the breasts belong to the baby.

We were not able to arrive at a conclusion, so I decided to bring the issue before you my elders and ancestors on nairaland. Who owns the breasts? Is it the father, the mother or the baby?

chigoizie7:
Bro abeg leave that insensitive human.
I left one too. Came back to naija for my papa funeral, my account wasn’t working well, I decided to put small change in her account until I need it. Came to her city, asked for the money, just not upto 1 week ooh. This girl is telling me that she loaned to her friend. Okay collect from your friend, she is telling me shits. That kinda put me off. Actually I can’t be with a woman who thinks and reasons like that.

Dracula05:
I no wan read epistle. Op you can do whatever you like o. See me I no get papa and mama and I know what should bother me and not. Even if you get this money. Try to know who wants to spend it with you and those that 'll like to plan with you. Go In Peace.
May the Almighty bestow you the fortitude to bear the loss. Bless brother.
No 4get better babes dey out there...don't go for leeches.

chigoizie7:
Bro abeg leave that insensitive human.
I left one too. Came back to naija for my papa funeral, my account wasn’t working well, I decided to put small change in her account until I need it. Came to her city, asked for the money, just not upto 1 week ooh. This girl is telling me that she loaned to her friend. Okay collect from your friend, she is telling me shits. That kinda put me off. Actually I can’t be with a woman who thinks and reasons like that.

LaSenior:
Mod please I want this piece to be pushed to front-page this is happening to me though I have prepared my Mind to do what is in my mind but I want this honourable house to look into this

I was supposed to go and do marital introduction but because of my dad's health which was going bad everyday I couldn't. I thought maybe when we stabilise him a little then I can quickly arrange for introduction but sadly my beloved Dad passed away 4days later

I have been crying endlessly and been so weak and saddened just this morning this girl I was planning on spending the rest of my life with chatted me up saying that she has looking at me since that I don't want to say anything concerning her Christmas things that she needs 50k to buy Christmas things. I was shocked to the bone haaaa why are you this heartless towards me? Does it mean you are not concerned about what I have been passing through, infact I don't want to speak more because God already saved me from a heartless lazy woman.

To the women in this forum is it right to ask your fiancee Christmas Money in the midst of seeing him mourning of his late Dad just few days his dad died this attitude of this girl is it right?

yinkeys:
My housekeeper friends in Arizona & Vancouver make at least 2 million naira (700 naira/usd) n conversion after tax
The cost of primary school fees right now in the one I attended is soaring like crazy
Let me not talk about house rent in a clean environment
Car bills, security, labour rights etc
Some employers can choose to not pay you after a job
The country is gone
There’s a reason I talked specifically about housekeeping and not a white collar job

Brendaniel:
So you cannot prove me wrong with facts but insult

Brendaniel:
So just like yesterday on a previous topic I have also the same on this thread.

I have waited for the comments to enter 2 pages before making this comment and I read all through the comments to look for anyone who will insult Yorubas for this doctor's action and guess what, I didn't see any, change this doctor's name from Busayo Alagbe to Amaka Obi and see all manner of insults from Yorubas to the Igbos and you begin to wonder why the so much hatred without logic or reasoning, like they hate for the fun of hatred, even Fulani that has been killing them are not hated like this, look all through the thread on the first page and see if any other tribe insulted the Yorubas on the first page and judge for yourself compared to when the name of the offender is an Igbo name on the same first page.

Then it means those that hate Igbos for no reason are only jealous of the Igbos

annisy:
If you have a first degree in Nigeria and you don't have a well secured job or a good business, you better japa if you can avoid it period!! Our leaders are all animals

QuinModah:
Last Friday, I hugged one of my most impressive colleagues goodbye. He turned away, sobbing. I turned away with voice quaking, realizing what a big loss he would be.

Later that evening, I had another get-together with a second friend who relocates this week. While discussing his massive expense, he suddenly slouched in his chair, stressfully squeezed the empty ragolis bottle in his hands and concluded:

"Oremi, this relocation has cost me almost everything"
"You don’t want to know!" He further sighed "You don’t."

Today, with the help and data from three (3) relocating friends, I compile the rough cost (below) for prospective relocating families (focus on UK) and a poem for my friend and Nigeria:

Cost of Japa from Nigeria for a family of 4= 180k
Renewal of Passport
Official rate 22k
Accelerated rate 45k
Some pay as high as 75k

Transcript 75k
Usually, one parent is a student
30-45k for school runs
25-30k to send

Estimated Tuition fee deposit
11,000-18,000-pound sterling
4.5m most schools want 50% deposit

Proof of fund (In deposit)
Family of 4 need 25m in deposited in an accoun 2-3 months

UK Visa 1.4m
Family of 4 pay 475-pound sterling

NHF
Family of 4 pay 875-pound sterling

Flight ticket 2.8m
Depending on booking
700k person x4
Some have booked as high as 1.2m

Arrival Accommodation 4.4m
1st Month shortlet 200-pound sterling per week
refundable deposit of 250 pound
First 6 months at 750 pounds

Total Cost 19m for family of four to UK not Canada or US. It can be cheaper or more

Oremi, I hope we meet again,
as you japa to find fresh grain,
to return if Nigeria again reigns?
God, will any leader ever end this drain?
But prayers will be in vain,
if in 2023, unwisely we vote again.

God bless everyone who has relocated. God bless everyone staying behind. God bless #Nigeria.

nairavsdollars:
His career has technically ended

DeJoeee:
My 96k down the drain

Sweetvie:
Lmao... Who's she going to use as a guarantor?

Sweetvie:
Silly
You'll look for hookup gal

Kobicove:
I wonder what made him fall from grace to grass

Sweetvie:

But what of a girl u know that really need d assistance

Chief4real:
Fear of old Age and poverty . Imagine being inside your house and expecting the day your two eyes will not be open again. At 70 plus, u will just be eating and waiting for dying time.

SeaTrade:
My ambition!
It has taken away every form of things that use to excite me in the past and I now live a very boring, secluded life filled with a lot of thoughts,blueprints building and processes.
I've lost almost 3very bit of my youth and is almost going crazy.
One now finds out that the accumulation of resources isn't enough to make one fulfilled but then greed and obligations won't let you escape from it and be happy.
Capitalism sucks tbh...
And socialising and making friends now has become very herculean!

Cypress042:
These people have keep on giving me reasons to call them fish brain

A snake that nearly dragged a five year old boy into the swimming pool is not dangerous and poinsonous

Romanoff:
Just saw this on instablog.

He was hypertensive and be slumped and died at his home.

His watch has come to end.

yemzone:
Leave GOTV and DSTV alone, there are alternatives. Stream your matches online

Kennyfancy:
They are showing all matches, you need to upgrade to GoTV supa to enjoy all the 64 matches

oluwaseyi0:
I actually put on gen to watch match on gotv because they send me notification about world cup match

No knowing this bastard are just going to be showing me random people for over 90minutee

This is an insult to their subscribers

Kobicove:
If you like you can be earning N5million a month as salary, it does not qualify you to be called a wealthy person!

ibechris:
My problem with u guys is always comparing our minimum wage with foreign minimum wage in Nigeria.

Stop comparing our situation with foreign matters. Most of those guys still spend theirs in those countries than they do here.

cucumbar:
This wealthy we are talking about sef, can someone describe it in specific terms? Because I know there are jobs that can make you wealthy.