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DonWizard:
My people, first of all, I've been on Gram free since June 14th, 2020.
Throughout my dedication to the pressing, I never cheated for one day.
After a whole year, I placed my withdrawal on the 9th of June, 2021(using PAYPAL)
Today is 20th July; over a month since I placed the withdrawal.

I dey hopeful say e go pay, even though many signs dey in the negative.
My flatmate done laugh me tire on top this matter, but I hope say I go get the last laugh.
Naija is hard abeg, we need to be encouraging one another.
As for my proof of payment, if it drops, I go share am here.

ianq:
By the way, in contrast to some opinions on here, I would have no qualms with posting evidence of payment if and when I do get paid. ..like, why not? Lol. It would indeed call for celebration.

abiambo:
Keep sleeping on bicycle. So people should come here any upload alert so your lordship can believe. Who you epp ? It’s not even like you registered under dem or are going to register under dem.
If you tire stop. For me I started because the person I’m under got paid …
If you like believe , if you like don’t . I’m struggling with the thing and still below 200 grams as I don’t want to cheat.

A lot of people who don’t get alert cheated with fake referrals but they won’t say this here because “ as dem no get, others must not get �”

Oreope123:
You will need lots of patience as I have placed withdrawal since February

Oreope123:
Since 25th of feb, 46 days and counting

HyperCoaster:
Some people got paid within 2months of placing withdrawal while some had to wait for like 3-4 months. For me, I'm going to wait for as long as... A friend placed a withdrawal of $1750 on the 2nd of February and got paid on the 23rd of March (his luck though). I can't give up now, I have come a long way so I urge you not to throw in the towel yet...

advert616:
I have cashed out from gram free b4 ,.... The persons calling it scam, av u gotten to 500 grams and you didn't get paid ..... U have nothing to loose bcus u ain't investing a dime , ur just doing few tax on the website which doesn't even consume ur data ... There is no harm trying

iamSirPhil:
EXACTLY... that's what Nigerians don't wanna do... They want to cheat every platform they come across and when they get blocked they come here and be screaming scam scam scam... Nonsense.

maxjax:
its not a scam.....but dont try to out smart them. 9ja we cheat a lot

Frankenstein992:
Oga use another method. I use payeer to withdraw. Meanwhile u can join my group to see investment platform where you invest zero naira.
08096145992 (whatsapp only)

Chymummy89:
hope we are talking about same company ( orange drug company)? If yes, I have two supervisors there and they pay more than 100k monthly.

beautyhd:
What is wrong with the dressing above?

Do they now bully women for having curves?
A woman that is endowed has no hiding, even if she wears buba, the curves will still show.

The news isn’t complete, she teaches nursery school kids whose minds are pure and has no business with her curves.

winner37:
My bleeping is always consensual.. God had put sweet melodies in my mouth so anytime am on the mode of toasting any Lady the gods are appease after the knacking there will be no future allegations..

Some ladies are after food ,some after free house,some after hanging out and some are after flashing life style and car so if you possessed any of this qualities, my brother you can bleep any pussy

Mactons:
A friend of mine called me that she applied for a job with INTEGRATED VECTOR MANAGEMENT, in Uyo.

Luckily, she was successful but she became sceptical when they asked her to pay #8,500 for the induction fee.

She is worried that why would a company that want to hire her ask her to pay for a T-shirt and materials for her induction training.

Please I would love to know if anyone can verify if they are legit so I can make a decision.

winner37:
Me that am fucking for free and see how another man is paying for sex ...this life is extremely hilarious...
Wait , why a sensible man be paying a lady just to have sex with her ,I can't still believe this ...
If we want to probe it deeply this man his family is somewhere crying and he used 5000 for sex....

virginprincess:
The deal has been done already,the idiot has learnt his lessons in a very hard way,i hope you men also learn from this,if you want sex get a steady gf and stop patronizing sex workers.

Blessedmercy8:
Which kind advice be this wan?

Did I tell you I'm desperate to have a child or bothered about menopause?

Any man that fathers a child by me should be ready to take full responsibility of that child cos na him pikin.


Abeg, leave me.

Helpout12345:
What is your problem this lady?

Everyone is telling you the truth, you are just being adamant with this your mentality.

Continue to wait until you are 60 years old.

I hope you tell that your boyfriend all these you are spilling online so that the man can see your kind of mind in 3D and take a walk from you. Because you are not ready for marriage

JASONjnr:
Wait ....


The cost of running a home isn't entirely a man's responsibility....

And if you're a woman and you feel that because a man asked your hand in marriage, then he should be the one to foot the bills because he wanted marriage and kids.....


See, God will never allow some men to get entangled with female who doesn't understand home economy.

Home management is a very serious quality that men should look out for.

I wonder why you think that your work is to pray instead of to work to also support a man....
And if you think that you can't manage home or a man's little earnings... then stay away from such men... and allow women that will scale the fence to do so.

Blessedmercy8:
How am I supposed to add value with my income that cannot sustain me alone as a single? Or you now forget how the same you men always kick against the woman depending on the Man for her needs? Now you want a woman to add value to his 100k. No be only value, na value bread * * chuckles**.

A man that woke up and says he's ready to settle down should be very very ready and not depend on any woman. I'm speaking from the men's perspective now. That's how you men tell us not to depend on our husbands money. So i won't lose myself just because I want to add value to a man in carrying out his responsibilities.

I gat "me" to take care of as well and the money never rish me.

Blessedmercy8:
In sequence to a post I made earlier on how couples can run a home with a 100k income in this present economy, which gave rise to another and yet another post where a breakdown was finally given, something caught my attention which brought me close to tears and this are my exact concerns and worries about the OP I made earlier.

Now, the man that gave the breakdown said some things in his reply to a commenter and in the tone of that reply, you could sense hes already feeling the heat from what he said in the attached excerpts.

This goes to show that while everyone was busy commending and cheering him for running a home with that amount, he on the other hand is not finding easy and is already planning to subject his unborn baby to a life of discomfort and that is just one aspect of the so many uncomfortable adjustments he might be forced to make if he still on that income but I reject that for him.

Now ma ladies, after seeing this harsh reality, would you still wanna go ahead?
The choice is yours to make and endure or enjoy the outcome.

Below is an excerpt from that post that made me create this post.

Blessedmercy8:
Between 150 and 200.

wiseone28:
There's a heaven for a G

ashewoboy:
Really! Na him their test come hard like that? Think say na better place to work.

GUY, them go Drill you for like 5 to 6 stages on interview.....
You will think is Oil and Gas job

at the end, they will offer you 45k to 50k per month....
if you Accept.....
they will Train u for 1 month.....
and then you could be shipped to anywhere ( branch dey for Nigeria)

Chymummy89:
You are right about the stages of interview but the pay is good. They even pay 13th month.

OtubuAKS:
Good evening house.

Should I Drop First Bank Contract Staff For Orange Group?

FireUpNow:
It will not be a top priority after having kids

rollandben:
Honestly I so much have phobia for sides runs this days with the way sudden Deaths popping out among the sides lovers ehn. Die there die here just because of industrial pussy. it worth running from o. May his soul rest in peace

FireUpNow:
From kpekus he came and to kpekus he returned. Old man at 55 still craving for sex, too bad. Don't let your erection be your direction. If any man on earth can control his libido such a man has conquered most life threatening problems

CaveAdullam:
1. A man must build himself for his well being. And as a result, he becomes a person people respect, love, fear and want to relate with.

If you don't respect yourself as a man, nobody will. Self-respect will always culminates into general respect.

But I do disagree with you on some cases.

Let's go.



2. Do you still remember alpha fvcks beta bucks?

Who impregnates women and make them single mothers and baby mamas? Is it the guy focus on his study or business. Of course you know, many of these men are players, bad boys, thugs, jerks. A man of self-respect will not.

Who are the men that are friend zoned? The ones that want to deal with women from a self-respect level. They want to always take things cool and easy with women.

Please, don't interpret me wrongly. I'm not saying self-respect is not important when dealing with women or for you to fvck women you must turn into a bag of shit. But what you must understand about women is that they don't view things from a moral and ethical point of view. They go where their feelings dictates. They don't care.

All of us have guys who are called "street urchins" in all of our environments, these are guys you will not want mingle with because you carry yourself with self-respect, however, they are the ones impregnating sister angels.

3. Do women respect self-esteem and high value men? Yes. But that isn't going to their pvssy. They must be stimulated emotionally and sexually for you to fvck them. If they really care about self-respect, guys would not be complaining of being friendzoned.

4. "COME TO MY HOUSE" is a direct game. He cares for nothing. It shows that he's on the pedestal and will not waste time jumping around texts and phone calls just to get her attention. He shows that he respects himself and time.

5. For example: I have a female friend in another state, we've known for close to 5 years now online. She has been asking me for some help, and I have told her several times, that if she wants anything from me, she should COME TO MY HOUSE. She always say that if she comes she will not go back the same way, and I always tell her is just one baby noy in her womb. Has she come to my house? No. Have I been preaching about sex to her? No. Have she received a dime from me? No. Does she respect me? Yes. Do I respect her? Yes (at least she has sense more than the average Nigerian girl).

6. Commanding what you want from a woman at a short period of time reeks self-respect for your time and well-being. It doesn't mean you are a bag of shit.




7. You built yourself because of pvssy, and you said you were not pvssy focused?

This is not meant to be a mockery but an evolutionary sexual instincts. Whatever women desired in men, men evolved to become that thing. And same for women.

"COME TO MY HOUSE" is a command.
"I'm a self-respect guy" is an attitude.

Both boils down to pvssy. What matters is one or both not metamorphosing into something stupid just to get pvssy.



8. If you know your worth as a man and have an understanding about women, by virtue of your worth, women will help you filter themselves. If you are a man of self-respect, you'll encounter with idiotic women less because you're not always around idiots.




9. Maybe you are misconstruing that every woman a man sets his eyes upon he must fvck. Will men want to fvck any woman? Yes. Will a particular man fvck all the women he comes across? No.

If the women that helped in you in your areas of life opened their pvssy for you will you fvck them?
Sex may never had been an open objective dealing with them, but that sexual instinct was lurking under your skin.

10. There are gender roles. Women nurture, clean, cook, serves as companion. Men provides protection and provision.

Women have nothing to offer because a man can get everything a woman provides on his own. Even other men can do it for him. The only reason for women is sex and reproduction.

Except for independent women, women can't protect and provide for themselves and kids. Even the state is made up of men who provide and protect them on a macro scale. Women can't get commitment or provision and protection from other women; any different men. And they also need men for sex and reproduction.

Men want women. But women desire and need men.

A woman can't boldly say "all what a man can give is just provision and protection" - because they are expensive, everybody desires it. Any woman that says that is a pathetic liar.

But a man can "say all a woman can provide is sex", and he can get it from different women.



11. Men can't care less about sex because they are damned by the hormone testosterone. You can deny it but you can't erase it.

It was even men of old that care much about pvssy, they became hunters and warriors to secure more women.

According to recent statistics, marriage rate is declining, the rate of active sexual men is declining. Incels are on the rise. MGTOWS are on the rise.

Men are not desperate for sex per se, it is an evolutionary instinct that makes them desire women in a haste where the sexual market place is deregulated. In ancient times men can easily get women because the rate of inequality was low compared to this day. Women will settle for men in their community because they don't have social media to scan men from different geopolitical zones.

The seeming desperation is because, 100% women are only focus on 20% of men in the society totem pole and are not interested in the other 80% of men.

Is self-control important yes. Is self-respect important yes.

Refer to 8 above.

Thanks.

Pukkalolo:
What you said make some sense at least on a rational point of view...but then recently after I went through my cousin's social media and saw the battalion men in her DM telling her to "COME TO MY HOUSE" in their own different words, then suddenly what you said doesn't seem to make sense anymore.....

(Note: My cousin's is very beautiful and she's 22 years: she's in her prime. Hundreds of guys are wooing her steadily and trying to invite her to their place. )

Yes, you're right in the sense that a guy has to test a girl to confirm female sexual attraction/genuine desire; at least the purpose is that so he won't waste his time, but the problem is the ''COME TO MY HOUSE'' part that you talked about.

Here's why:.

Most times guys think they have dating problems; but what they really have is "Self-Respect" problem. Their lack of self-respect is only reflecting in their dating lifes.

Back in the days, when I was struggling with girls, I always wondered why. But then I eventually realize that the reason why it was so was because I was trying to get pussy instead of trying to build self-respect. When I stopped being pussy focused and start being RESPECT focused, that was when women started responding to me differently and started giving me the treatment I want.

A guy who is pussy focused is all about being liked and trying to get her to come to his place and give him sex.

The truth is, if you develope a high self-respect... instead of telling a girl to come to your house, you'd actually be more careful about the kind of girl you invite your house. You'd no longer be impressed with just physical appearance anymore.... Instead of being concerned about getting sex, as a high self respect guy, you'll more concerned about not dealing with the wrong girl; you don't want a girl who's higly deceitful, gold diggers, drama queens, mannerless, bitchy, STD infected or any other has any other negative traits.


I see many guys say "women have nothing to offer and the only thing they can offer is sex"

But that's a lie.

If you're pussy focused, then it will seem like sex is the only thing women can offer because sex is what you're focused on trying to get.

I think women have more to offer apart from sex." Women can be very nice, nurturing and supportive, if you give them the opportunity to.

The first nice job I had it was a lady i dated back then that connected me to it. I've got ladies who bring food stuff for me and cooked for me. I've got ladies who has help promote my biz on their social media for free and many more...

If I was pussy focused and all about trying to get her to come to my house and give me sex, I might not enjoy those benefits. These ladies respect me that's why they do things for me.

If you've read any popular dating advice book for women, you noticed that most of the advice is often centered around playing hard to get and making it difficult for men to have access to their pussy.

Ond of the two best-selling dating advice books for women are "The Rules" by Ellen Fein and "The Power Of Pus*y" by Katty King. In this books, women are told that most men are desperate, thirsty and Hot for sex and men are all about "come to my crib". And so these books advice women to use their pussy to gain control over men and they should always not give up the pussy easily, and more importantly they should pretend they don’t like men that they’re actually interested in.


So, telling guys to tell a girl to ''COME TO MY HOUSE'' is almost miserable because hundreds guys are already telling her that, and it also re-establish the fact that most men are desperate, thirsty for sex and men are just about "come to my crib."

The sad thing about this generation of young men is that they are the horniest and most desperate for sex. Men in the past generations were not really like this. The reason is not far-fetched.

The men of the past decades were naturally strong and alpha because life force them to be so... Their women naturally respect them.
Most of these men were farmers, hunters, cattle keepers and soldiers. The average young man of those days don't even have the time to be telling girls to "come to my house" because he's busy hunting antelopes and lions or he's at the war front defending his country and trying to conquer territories..

But this generation of men are weak and feel sex-starved because we are not experiencing the harsh nature of the olden days...so we've got lots of time to idle away begging girls for sex.

I always tell guys to careless about getting sex. The reasons some guys are finding difficult to get sex is because they are trying to get sex... Sounds ironic, but that's the truth.

You should careless about getting sex and care more about getting RESPECT.

When most guys are wooing a girl, they are more concerned about trying to make her like him, trying to get her to "COME TO HIS HOUSE" and trying to get sex. There's nothing necessary wrong with that, but the problem is getting sex shouldn't even be the goal. The goal should be achieving SELF-RESPECT, and getting sex should only be a side effect of that.


Remember, this generation of men is the horniest, weakest and least respected by women. One reason for that is because this generation of men are more concern about getting sex and getting female acceptance..

This is why unlike most guys, when interacting with a woman I'm less concerned about getting sex and being liked her. Instead I'm more concerned about getting RESPECT...

The sad thing is, most young beautiful ladies often view men has Hot, weak and desperate for sex, so when interacting with a her for the first time, she's kinda seeing you that way. This is you should always seek every opportunity to establish yourself as a self-assured guy with HIGH SELF-RESPECT.

99% of the time, the woman gives you the oppurtunity to so you when she starts acting bitchy, rude or difficult... When you're more concerned about being liked and getting sex, you’d probably end up just accepting her bitchy, rude or difficult behavior, by ignoring it or laughing it off. And as a result, you won't get the girl despite all your efforts with her, and you'll be wondering what you're doing wrong.

A woman often provides an abundance of opportunities to for you to establish yourself as a self-assured guy with HIGH SELF-RESPECT.
For example, let say you try to initiate a conversation with an attractive lady, and you say “hi” to her, but she just looked back at you from head disdainfully and say "please can I help you?".

If you're like most guys(pussy focused), you would try to make a joke of her bitchy, rude or difficult behavior; or pretend it didn’t happen, and try to say something that would calm the her down and make her cheerful. By doing that, you're only giving her more power and re-confirming the fact that men are Hot, weak and desperate.

Never forget that when an attractive lady start misbehaving, she's clearly aware of it. She knows exactly what she's doing. She's curious to see how you respond to that situation.

In that situation, if you're RESPECT focused, you'll see that as opportunity to establish yourself as a self-assured guy with HIGH SELF-RESPECT. You respond by calmly and confidently calling her attention to her rude and difficult behavior: "That was rude...I believe you are better than this!”

You are indirectly telling her that you deserve to be treated right.

You'd get either of these outcomes:
1.) She gets more bitchy, rude and difficult, and then you respond by walking away from her immediately.
Or
2.) She softened immediately... and talk to you in a more respectful and polite manner.

The outcome itself doesn't really matter, what matters is that you've changed the entire dynamic of how she view you. She would never view you as a dude that is Hot, weak and desperate for sex.

The average guy is pussy focused and lack respect for himself--- that's why he's in the other room begging a girl that he should put "just the tip inside"

You can never see a guy who's RESPECT FOCUSED begging a girl for sex or relationship.

RESPECT should always come first. Sex or relationship can come later if they want to. You should never be part of an interaction where you're not being treated with respect.

As a guy, It doesn't matter whether you get sex or not. What matter is that you never accept being DISRESPECTED.

Stay blessed.