Food › Re: See The Food I Got For ₦900 No Meat Because It's Too Costly by OvertheTop(m): 4:38pm On Sep 29, 2022 |
Channah1: Mehnn... See the food I just got for 900. Rice 650 Moimoi 250. I couldn't bring myself to buy the meat at 400 cos it's the size of 100 naira meat outside.
Naija which way? So annoying. am I mistaken? I thought you were GLAD Last week THAT: they were about to BAN Kpomo  You are feeling the HEAT already.... |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: How Can I Handle This Particular Situation In My Place Of Work by OvertheTop(m): 4:32pm On Sep 29, 2022 |
Tundex911: Firstly, the oga you're talking about he's the CEO? If not, try and explain to the highest authority before anything okay what if he is CEO? you didn't solve that part of the equation |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: How Can I Handle This Particular Situation In My Place Of Work by OvertheTop(m): 4:26pm On Sep 29, 2022 |
MisterMan123456: In this life, never be timid if you are right and honest. The truth always prevails. Who should be sacked? The randy manager? Or the honest server? My Point is that he should take steps carefully because it's him vs his Boss if he wants to remain in that Job and not drag the issue unnecessarily thinking "I have a witness" because when the situation gets really heated, that witness go deny you to save his own job. Bro, Life is Not Fair, it's not in all cases that : The truth always prevails.you might be out of a job before it does... |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: How Can I Handle This Particular Situation In My Place Of Work by OvertheTop(m): 3:03pm On Sep 29, 2022 |
deardevil: Let me explain my experience to you....... one time during our Friday night out and he come by with his friends and they have a lot to drink and I was the one handling him that night [ i already know how he behave]. He asked me not collect money from him friends. As soon I spot him going I quickly meet him before the gate man open up he said I should remind him tomorrow. Omo as I know the kind man way him be and amount way him friends and him chop, I collect padlock from the game man hand say make I sign my docket cus if not he no go go and na so he look me shout but I no answer am then he laugh and he then sign the docket and leave.  |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Is It Right Or Wrong For A Candidate To Ask Questions (s) During An Interview? by OvertheTop(m): 2:50pm On Sep 29, 2022 |
LordIsaac: Actually, to an average Nigerian boss, your question is more imdictive than inquisitorial. You know why we always pay attention to how people's comments have deeper meanings.
That same question could be captured thus: " I have observed team work amongst your staff. That's commendable and I really look forward to working with such a wonderful team. What's the secret sir?"  In my own opinion, his question to the MD actually Meant: I ONLY work only with companies that have Team Work spirit.... Does your company have this Quality? Is it simply a see finish question...to the MD |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: How Can I Handle This Particular Situation In My Place Of Work by OvertheTop(m): 2:32pm On Sep 29, 2022 |
BalticGold: Next time make him to sign the docket before leaving. Some years back, my boss came to the office and ask for 50k, l brought it with a sheet of paper for him to sign before collection, he started shouting and ask why he should sign to take his money. I stood my grounds and he signed.  You get Mind o. What happened afterward.... |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: How Can I Handle This Particular Situation In My Place Of Work by OvertheTop(m): 1:56pm On Sep 29, 2022 |
efelico: I wonder why people keep saying OP has a colleague as witness. Person wey fit deny am when mata cast Yes o That's Reality. Remember how the harlot denied Tyrion Lannister in Court (game of thrones) despite the love, they thought they shared (even when the case was life/Death) |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: How Can I Handle This Particular Situation In My Place Of Work by OvertheTop(m): 1:40pm On Sep 29, 2022 |
lamanda: Hmmm....I can relate to what you're currently facing because I've been in similar shoes before, but I don't know why all this 'Hospitality Managers' like living fake life. A few of them even get to abuse their complimentary priviledge.
The truth is just make up your mind to pay because if you press him too much, he may get to pay but at the end still look for a means to set you up on the job..., no matter how hard working or smart you may be.
I'll advise you to meet him & tell him you've realised your mistake but he should kindly break the bill in instalments for you so that there will be something left from your salary.
Sorry about that....kindly see this as a practical lesson for the future. Great advice! Take this Advice. if you wish to remain in that job |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: How Can I Handle This Particular Situation In My Place Of Work by OvertheTop(m): 1:37pm On Sep 29, 2022 |
MisterMan123456: Does he have a boss? If he does, don't be scared to report him if that money is deducted from your salary. You have a witness. It's not that you misplaced money or can't give proper account. Infact you've given proper account with a witness to back you up and follow up emails sent. If it gets to the stage you have to report him, make sure you watch your back else he me might set you up. let's be realistic when things are moving towards....sack or No sack, you can't count on a colleague as a witness.... they will deny u |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: How Can I Handle This Particular Situation In My Place Of Work by OvertheTop(m): 1:28pm On Sep 29, 2022 |
IsellSmartTvs: Part of the fraud that goes on in workplace. U are abt to learn life occurrences the hard way. You can only wait out the storm and see the aftermath.If he doesn’t turn up,bro u settling the bills(I bliv u knw this already). He is getting those girls laid at ur own expense  I believe he didn't Archive this....that's why he is dodging the bill |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: How Can I Handle This Particular Situation In My Place Of Work by OvertheTop(m): 1:22pm On Sep 29, 2022 |
gaby: Your oga is obviously a very SIMple, wicked, and a cunning man.
He probably was hoping to score one from one of the babes but I'm sure it didn't turn out to be and he decided to dump it all at your stead.
Not a very good man. THAT IS EXACTLY MY THOUGHT!! |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: What Is The Duration Of Notice Period For Resignation by OvertheTop(m): 1:06pm On Sep 29, 2022 |
dosage150: I have not really worked with them for long, i am willing to forfeit the benefits as the other job is times 3 the current one OK. but still do two weeks before leaving so that (leave on a good note): if your current employer writes them to get a Recommendation, they can get +ve feedback about you from your old company |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: What Is The Duration Of Notice Period For Resignation by OvertheTop(m): 1:24pm On Sep 28, 2022 |
geunik: In usa, it is minimum of 2 weeks. In nigeria, it is minimum of 4 weeks. It is unlawful for companies to extend it more than that. If you fail to give the official duration of notice, you will forfeit salary and maybe other benefits. But in a country like nigeria without law, they can sack you without notice. So resignation without notice is becoming a norm if you are entitled to Benefits (like Gratuity), its not Advisable to Resign without Notice |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: What Is The Duration Of Notice Period For Resignation by OvertheTop(m): 1:13pm On Sep 28, 2022 |
ejimatic: 3months it depends on the place It could 2 in some places. The mistake you made is that you should have waited till 15 for your salary . Following day yiu submit your resgnatiion lletter. You may have to fotgo the 15 days you have spent in the new month. what about the other benefits like: leave Allowance, unused leave, terminal benefits, Gratuity(if long worked term) will he forfeit that too? |
Health › Re: Women See Why Your Private Part Is A No Go Area by OvertheTop(m): 12:57pm On Sep 28, 2022 |
JOACHINpedro: The bolded is a comic relief.  I must be a boy then cus I don't wanna have a pussy LWKMD.... you knew she actually meant : wanna have a taste of OR (dive into OR enjoy OR enter)  |
Crime › Re: Kidnapper John Ewa Was Laid Off As Bank Cleaner For Stealing Money - Police Boss by OvertheTop(m): 10:21am On Sep 28, 2022 |
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Health › Re: Kenyan Woman Kills Her Husband Before Committing Suicide (Graphic Photos) by OvertheTop(m): 10:16am On Sep 28, 2022 |
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Foreign Affairs › Re: Russian Man Lights Himself On Fire To Protest Putin’s Draft (photos) by OvertheTop(m): 9:44am On Sep 28, 2022 |
fupohed: Look!...either the WEST likes it or NOT, Russia is winning this particular war. Winter is coming and over 40% of the Gas consumption by the WEST comes from Almighty Russia.... people will start protesting on the street, alot of people will loose their jobs and i can bet you the WEST and EUROPE is not ready for what it is to come.. My man Putin knows his game well and there's no amount of self-burning or protest sponsored. WINTER IS COMING!! THE NIGHT KING is Real! |
Crime › Re: Kidnapper John Ewa Was Laid Off As Bank Cleaner For Stealing Money - Police Boss by OvertheTop(m): 6:31pm On Sep 27, 2022 |
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Crime › Re: Kidnapper John Ewa Was Laid Off As Bank Cleaner For Stealing Money - Police Boss by OvertheTop(m): 6:26pm On Sep 27, 2022 |
sharpwriter: Hmmm.... Na wa o... Hand really touch this guy. Him cup really overfull.... After dem catch am, that his video where he displayed dollars saying, "hustle, hustle".. Still dey funny to me dey make me laf always.
People no go know say the olórí burúkú na Evans younger brother 
His emotional picture while worshipping in church too was hilarious. Dramatists fill naija! where is the clip.... |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Have You Encountered Such? How Did You Handle It? by OvertheTop(m): 6:12pm On Sep 27, 2022 |
Shadysen: am always sacked why? on what basis? Do you normally expect it? |
Romance › Re: Man Shares Message He Received From His House Cleaner Who Was Asking Him Out by OvertheTop(m): 12:55pm On Sep 27, 2022 |
Slynation: Tho the man didn't act mature by exposing the chats, but this widow wants a tear rubber young, rich and fresh dude that would take responsibility on two kids fathered by someone else, Nah...This is not love but fantasy because she has imagine herself as the madam of the house, this people no dey fear God shaah... THE shocking thing is that: THE MOMENT THIS WOMAN ENTER THE HOUSE NOW(GET MARRIED TO HIM) SHE GO TURN TIGER!! |
Health › Re: Newly Married Artisan Burns Self, Blames Abusive Wife by OvertheTop(m): 11:00am On Sep 27, 2022 |
Fearyourcreator: Comment up their just dey make me laugh... Currently I am at the bank because I want to buy data... I only have money in my business account... Madam sub yesterday she no gree send me 500mb data... Data I dey give like water... I vex enter bank ... She no gree share u data....(very stingy) But when you Buy data now....You go still Sub for am too.... are you sure you are safe.... all the best man |
Health › Re: Newly Married Artisan Burns Self, Blames Abusive Wife by OvertheTop(m): 10:37am On Sep 27, 2022 |
Godoverevery: Only those who are married or have lived with a woman can relate.
A woman will put all her life expectations and expenses on you as man......she will blame you for everything and the society expect you to be a MAN.
I always advise men to live minimum 6month to 1yrs maximum with the woman you want to marry so you can understand what you are walking into with your eye open.
I can't blame the man because we are different and not all of us are mentally strong.......A woman frustration can actually make you do the unthinkable no matter how strong you are sometimes. Example: you mistakenly let her know you Earn 200k/Month, Most Wives will help you spend / Bill you to like 180k. (This is why it is very dangerous for her to know your income) If you resist by saying: we need to save for the future (our own House, the kids, etc), You will hear: let's spend now GOD will take care of the Future. You end up Borrowing and spending more than You are Earning.The Debts lead to Massive Frustration. Suddenly, A JOB Loss happens.... Then YOU are Disowned by your Advising Wife, Curses and Abuses will then Start.... The Same person that pushed you to spend it all will now ASK..... You have NO savings  How could you NOT Plan for OUR Future? look at your Mate, they are doing this..........they are doing that.... The Verdict: Always be in control of the Family finances Never tell your total Month income to your Wife. Never be Pushed to Spend More than you Earn Don't be pushed to put your kids in school that is too expensive to keep up with your wife's friend's kids
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Romance › Re: Men Stop Taking Random Girls To Your House by OvertheTop(m): 5:50pm On Sep 23, 2022 |
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Romance › Re: Men Stop Taking Random Girls To Your House by OvertheTop(m): 5:48pm On Sep 23, 2022 |
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Jobs/Vacancies › Re: I Have Decided To Accept The New Changes In My Place Of Work. by OvertheTop(m): 5:36pm On Sep 23, 2022 |
Chizzyjforce: You've got bad energy mahn... You only yearned for increment in salary because your friend is earning more than you. I dropped off a friend because of something like this... you will feel same way...if you were in his shoe man. you were on 100k for 6 years.... no promotion, no Raise. you help a friend in, he is promoted to Vice CEO within a short period of 1 year + increase 500k Guy, imagine this scenario, tell me You won't feel unhappy about your own situationthe guy just needs to be very careful now....and destroy every seed of jealousy left in his heart. and work diligently |
TV/Movies › Re: 2023 Election Has Snuffed The Life Out Of This Year's BBNaija - Opinion by OvertheTop(m): 5:13pm On Sep 23, 2022 |
ogbiwa: In my opinion, Peter Obi, Tinubu and Atiku has ensured that this year's edition of BBNaija has taken a massive back bench amongst the youths. And I'm loving it! They can try again next year, we have a country to fix! is there any statistics to buttress this opinion?  Just asking |
Romance › Re: The Girl Helping Me After My Surgery Is Irritating Me Please Help!!! by OvertheTop(m): 3:56pm On Sep 23, 2022 |
Darren95: I had femur fracture on my left leg and it’s been difficult to move around the house and get things done because I can’t put weight on the operated leg until the fracture heals.
There is this lady friend I knew last year. Back then I tried persuading this lady friend to let me have a shot from her honey pot but she refused. Honestly back then I was only interested in her honey pot nothing more because I’m not ready for a committed relationship at this stage of my life. Nearly 2 months after I had the surgery, i called this lady friend (we have not been talking for close to a year) and told her I had accident. She immediately book a car and came to my house to see me. I was surprised and appreciated her quick response. I told her how it happened and that my two friends (guys) have been the ones helping. I told her I would be glad if she comes around to care for me while I heal as I can’t get food from the kitchen myself because I can’t step on my both legs due to the surgery. I live alone in my two bedroom apartment.
Omo starting from that day she started caring and didn’t leave until 5 days later. She said she was going to her home town and she needed to see her 2yrs old daughter (she got pregnant while in a relationship with her ex).
The issue on ground now is that, ever since she returned she has not gone to her own house where she rented. She has been in my house doing virtually everything and my both friends have left (they are business men). I was tempted to approach her for sex and she gave me smoothly without complain unlike before. I was like, look at you when I was healthy you didn’t let me have your honey pot, but now you gave it to me without stress! Hmmm we laughed over it.
But the rate at which this lady friend is taking care of me is scaring, she does everything to the point that I can’t remember the last time I opened a bottle water myself. She does it for me, the only thing I do is bath myself! Few days ago my guy who was with me came with his female friend to pay me a visit and omo this my lady friend was looking at this girl with all force and frown on her face. I mean the looking was like; ‘’who is this girl, does she have parol with me’’ you know that kind of look.
It pissed me off and since then I have been feeling irritated. I mean we are not dating, has she taken this too far inside her heart!
I’m thinking of moving her out but I don’t have a perfect option In getting someone I can trust like her to take care of me especially because I’ve not started walking. Will this turn out to be a problem tomorrow? I only had sex with her ones and refuse to ever do it again because of this. I always tell her I will appreciate you with something very nice when I heal completely, that I appreciate her support and that if she has anything to do, she can go and do it and come back but NO she never left my house and i asked myself what was she doing before I called her??!! To even ask her say Watin you Dey before I call you, tire me because e go look like say I dey tell her to go!!! She has seen a Potential Man whom she can Raise a Family with: She has Observed you are comfortable ( live in a good house, make money etc) so would be good for Marriage. so she has Triggered 100% care + honey pot to win that Goal seem she is Ripe for marriage (in her Thirties and also a single mother-(lesser option for men)) - so she has zoomed in on you My advice: I think she is a good person, even if you don't like her Make sure You Appreciate that care (maybe through money) when you are healed. in my opinion, she deserves your love in return |
Food › Re: Five Benefits Of Eating Kpomo by OvertheTop(m): 12:33pm On Sep 22, 2022 |
prciouschika: Kpomo abi Kanda has no nutritional value in the body. Yet you have eaten it a least 100 times since you were born... you wan deny am?  |
Family › Re: My Brothers Wife Sends Him on errands.. please help by OvertheTop(m): 4:17pm On Sep 21, 2022 |
RightToReject: Most of you've got a poor/absurd concept of respect. Even if your brother is the sole breadwinner in their union, I don't see how a wife sending her husband on a just errand (a wife expecting/reminding her husband to be diligent) amounts to disrespect to him.
Like in this scenario here, telling him to go and check whether the woman that sells provisions is back showed that there was a pre-existing arrangement between the husband and the provisions seller. So, I wonder how she erred by reminding her husband to strive to bring the arrangement to fruition. And don't tell me that you had expected her not to send such a request to her husband because of your presence, citing that you're a brother-in-law and obviously wasn't having some kind of formal deliberation with him.
Eschew needless pride. Don t worry, your Wife will tell you to : Go and Throw away the Dustbin while you are in a discussion with your Work Colleagues / Friends in your Home. Then you will understand the Gravity of the See Finish/ disrespect!  |
Family › Re: My Brothers Wife Sends Him on errands.. please help by OvertheTop(m): 4:08pm On Sep 21, 2022 |
Romanoff: Stay out of their business. If your brother ever complains to you that his wife treats him badly and he's not happy, then you can give him advice.
If not, stay out of married people's business.
As long as she's not disrespectful to the man stay out of their business.
Them go soon settle their issue turn am for your head. Sending your Husband Message....Even in the Front of Visitors is MAXIMUM Disrespect! |