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geunik:
In usa, it is minimum of 2 weeks. In nigeria, it is minimum of 4 weeks. It is unlawful for companies to extend it more than that.
If you fail to give the official duration of notice, you will forfeit salary and maybe other benefits. But in a country like nigeria without law, they can sack you without notice. So resignation without notice is becoming a norm

if you are entitled to Benefits (like Gratuity), its not Advisable to Resign without Notice

ejimatic:
3months it depends on the place It could 2 in some places. The mistake you made is that you should have waited till 15 for your salary . Following day yiu submit your resgnatiion lletter. You may have to fotgo the 15 days you have spent in the new month.

what about the other benefits like:
leave Allowance, unused leave, terminal benefits, Gratuity(if long worked term)

will he forfeit that too?

JOACHINpedro:
The bolded is a comic relief.
I must be a boy then cus I don't wanna have a pussy

LWKMD....

you knew she actually meant : wanna have a taste of OR (dive into OR enjoy OR enter)

sharpwriter:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sNCjY0LjOvU

From 0:19 to 0:24

Some other videos dey there too.

wow! Thanks

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fupohed:
Look!...either the WEST likes it or NOT, Russia is winning this particular war. Winter is coming and over 40% of the Gas consumption by the WEST comes from Almighty Russia.... people will start protesting on the street, alot of people will loose their jobs and i can bet you the WEST and EUROPE is not ready for what it is to come.. My man Putin knows his game well and there's no amount of self-burning or protest sponsored.

WINTER IS COMING!!
THE NIGHT KING is Real!

Mrjegede444:
Oji!

isoko man

sharpwriter:
Hmmm.... Na wa o... Hand really touch this guy. Him cup really overfull.... After dem catch am, that his video where he displayed dollars saying, "hustle, hustle".. Still dey funny to me dey make me laf always.

People no go know say the olórí burúkú na Evans younger brother

His emotional picture while worshipping in church too was hilarious. Dramatists fill naija!

where is the clip....

Shadysen:
am always sacked

why?
on what basis?
Do you normally expect it?

Slynation:
Tho the man didn't act mature by exposing the chats, but this widow wants a tear rubber young, rich and fresh dude that would take responsibility on two kids fathered by someone else, Nah...This is not love but fantasy because she has imagine herself as the madam of the house, this people no dey fear God shaah...

THE shocking thing is that:

THE MOMENT THIS WOMAN ENTER THE HOUSE NOW(GET MARRIED TO HIM)
SHE GO TURN TIGER!!

Fearyourcreator:
Comment up their just dey make me laugh... Currently I am at the bank because I want to buy data... I only have money in my business account... Madam sub yesterday she no gree send me 500mb data... Data I dey give like water... I vex enter bank ...

She no gree share u data....(very stingy)
But when you Buy data now....You go still Sub for am too....

are you sure you are safe....
all the best man

Godoverevery:
Only those who are married or have lived with a woman can relate.

A woman will put all her life expectations and expenses on you as man......she will blame you for everything and the society expect you to be a MAN.

I always advise men to live minimum 6month to 1yrs maximum with the woman you want to marry so you can understand what you are walking into with your eye open.

I can't blame the man because we are different and not all of us are mentally strong.......A woman frustration can actually make you do the unthinkable no matter how strong you are sometimes.

Example:
you mistakenly let her know you Earn 200k/Month, Most Wives will help you spend / Bill you to like 180k. (This is why it is very dangerous for her to know your income)

If you resist by saying: we need to save for the future (our own House, the kids, etc), You will hear: let's spend now GOD will take care of the Future. You end up Borrowing and spending more than You are Earning.
The Debts lead to Massive Frustration.

Suddenly, A JOB Loss happens....

Then YOU are Disowned by your Advising Wife,
Curses and Abuses will then Start....

The Same person that pushed you to spend it all will now ASK.....
You have NO savings How could you NOT Plan for OUR Future?

look at your Mate, they are doing this..........they are doing that....

The Verdict:
Always be in control of the Family finances
Never tell your total Month income to your Wife.
Never be Pushed to Spend More than you Earn
Don't be pushed to put your kids in school that is too expensive to keep up with your wife's friend's kids

Lvgirl:
It's not the guys fault anyway...
I have witnessed a lady passing out during sex. The guy thought the lady is dead. He shouted , we all came inside his room to offer help. The girl toto is shaved , the breast big but he done fall...na so we put onions for her mouth. She jerk back to life. I am the one that is supposed to lift her up from back but one stupid guy like that chanced me. Na him lift her with his hand touching the Bobby.
After a week the lady came.to thank us all even the bf bought Alomo big bottle for the guys.

BAD GUY!!

highchief1:
i stl Dey Bleep o.as day break sef as I discharge her we stl fok o.why I go spend almost 50k like that.

ahhhh! You GET MIND O!!

Chizzyjforce:
You've got bad energy mahn... You only yearned for increment in salary because your friend is earning more than you. I dropped off a friend because of something like this...

you will feel same way...if you were in his shoe man.

you were on 100k for 6 years....
no promotion, no Raise.

you help a friend in, he is promoted to Vice CEO within a short period of 1 year
+ increase 500k

Guy, imagine this scenario,
tell me You won't feel unhappy about your own situation

the guy just needs to be very careful now....and destroy every seed of jealousy left in his heart.
and work diligently

ogbiwa:
In my opinion, Peter Obi, Tinubu and Atiku has ensured that this year's edition of BBNaija has taken a massive back bench amongst the youths. And I'm loving it! They can try again next year, we have a country to fix!

is there any statistics to buttress this opinion?
Just asking

Darren95:
I had femur fracture on my left leg and it’s been difficult to move around the house and get things done because I can’t put weight on the operated leg until the fracture heals.

There is this lady friend I knew last year. Back then I tried persuading this lady friend to let me have a shot from her honey pot but she refused.
Honestly back then I was only interested in her honey pot nothing more because I’m not ready for a committed relationship at this stage of my life.

Nearly 2 months after I had the surgery, i called this lady friend (we have not been talking for close to a year) and told her I had accident. She immediately book a car and came to my house to see me. I was surprised and appreciated her quick response. I told her how it happened and that my two friends (guys) have been the ones helping. I told her I would be glad if she comes around to care for me while I heal as I can’t get food from the kitchen myself because I can’t step on my both legs due to the surgery. I live alone in my two bedroom apartment.

Omo starting from that day she started caring and didn’t leave until 5 days later. She said she was going to her home town and she needed to see her 2yrs old daughter (she got pregnant while in a relationship with her ex).

The issue on ground now is that, ever since she returned she has not gone to her own house where she rented. She has been in my house doing virtually everything and my both friends have left (they are business men). I was tempted to approach her for sex and she gave me smoothly without complain unlike before. I was like, look at you when I was healthy you didn’t let me have your honey pot, but now you gave it to me without stress! Hmmm we laughed over it.

But the rate at which this lady friend is taking care of me is scaring, she does everything to the point that I can’t remember the last time I opened a bottle water myself. She does it for me, the only thing I do is bath myself!
Few days ago my guy who was with me came with his female friend to pay me a visit and omo this my lady friend was looking at this girl with all force and frown on her face. I mean the looking was like; ‘’who is this girl, does she have parol with me’’ you know that kind of look.

It pissed me off and since then I have been feeling irritated. I mean we are not dating, has she taken this too far inside her heart!

I’m thinking of moving her out but I don’t have a perfect option In getting someone I can trust like her to take care of me especially because I’ve not started walking.
Will this turn out to be a problem tomorrow? I only had sex with her ones and refuse to ever do it again because of this.
I always tell her I will appreciate you with something very nice when I heal completely, that I appreciate her support and that if she has anything to do, she can go and do it and come back but NO she never left my house and i asked myself what was she doing before I called her??!!
To even ask her say Watin you Dey before I call you, tire me because e go look like say I dey tell her to go!!!

She has seen a Potential Man whom she can Raise a Family with:
She has Observed you are comfortable ( live in a good house, make money etc) so would be good for Marriage.
so she has Triggered 100% care + honey pot to win that Goal
seem she is Ripe for marriage (in her Thirties and also a single mother-(lesser option for men)) - so she has zoomed in on you

My advice: I think she is a good person,
even if you don't like her Make sure You Appreciate that care (maybe through money) when you are healed.
in my opinion, she deserves your love in return

prciouschika:
Kpomo abi Kanda has no nutritional value in the body.

Yet you have eaten it a least 100 times since you were born...
you wan deny am?

RightToReject:
Most of you've got a poor/absurd concept of respect. Even if your brother is the sole breadwinner in their union, I don't see how a wife sending her husband on a just errand (a wife expecting/reminding her husband to be diligent) amounts to disrespect to him.

Like in this scenario here, telling him to go and check whether the woman that sells provisions is back showed that there was a pre-existing arrangement between the husband and the provisions seller. So, I wonder how she erred by reminding her husband to strive to bring the arrangement to fruition. And don't tell me that you had expected her not to send such a request to her husband because of your presence, citing that you're a brother-in-law and obviously wasn't having some kind of formal deliberation with him.

Eschew needless pride.

Don t worry,
your Wife will tell you to : Go and Throw away the Dustbin while you are in a discussion with your Work Colleagues / Friends in your Home.

Then you will understand the Gravity of the See Finish/ disrespect!

Romanoff:
Stay out of their business. If your brother ever complains to you that his wife treats him badly and he's not happy, then you can give him advice.

If not, stay out of married people's business.

As long as she's not disrespectful to the man stay out of their business.


Them go soon settle their issue turn am for your head.

Sending your Husband Message....Even in the Front of Visitors is MAXIMUM Disrespect!

8BitGee:
People who rile against going back to Nigeria don't know that the women here too are crazy. For example, individualism is deeply ingrained in people here.

how do you mean?
kindly Explain

highchief1:
some ppl will think it’s concoted story.it happened to me life.girl passed out the idiot had no inhaler I was lucky my friend was at home.na so we rush her to hospital in the middle of the night.she has weight I for no fit carry her alone myself.i spent over 47k over night.babe was revived with oxygen o.

You don do Till Day Break since then?
Or you no longer have plan to have sex till Marriage?

Edusouls:
Useless men everywhere, if fellow man beg am 1k make Im use chop im go block him line for phone

if you did Economics.
every penny spent, has a value expectation.

That money spent is not charity

the Bolded is charity....No value expectation.

u understand?

AllDModsAreMaad:
LOL, I no be from SW talk more of Ile Ife, Ile Ife loun loun.
Tho I was born and brought up in Yoruba land sha.

Na different people dey use that word sha.

You are from Delta (isoko)

Okhuadams:
foolish man foolish police men minus DPO wey get sense small
The girls parents should arrest the man for predetermined sexual advances

she is More than 18, dig deeper

Natbrowny:
Real story

I was in front of my house that day.

A male rooster dey pursue one hen. In running process. Dem enter road. D hen crossed successfully. But bike jam d male. D male died instantly. But I was baffled. Coz anoda male was already in the same place d female ran. As soon as d hen crossed. D other male climb jeje, nack d level, meanwhile d main bros wey start don die.

I learnt somtin that day.

'

wetin you learn?

Never Pursue your Goal?
Wait for your Goal to come and meet you?

HonestJOE:
To be honest, all the man needs to do is to have a side chick. Don't border pressing too hard. Enjoy yourself outside bro...

That if you have Plenty Money.....

festacman:
No problems but LASG should erect traffic signs boldly and clearly all over Lagos. Replace them when some unscrupulous police officers deliberately remove them to extort from innocent citizens. The idea should be to achieve road safety rather than to punish.

I believe the ruthless auction at this critical political time is a bold move. I hope motorists would learn from it and drive properly against every temptations to break the traffic laws. Believe me, the temptation can be strong sometimes due various reasons such as time management issues, condition of vehicle, bad roads, etc

PUT this on Twitter...immediately!!
so True

Citizen10:
When you grow older, you will realize that marriage is not all about sex. You will realize that there will come a time when your wife's unclothedness will almost mean nothing to you or when your unclothedness will not mean anything to her. You will, in that moment, realize that there is a TIME FOR EVERYTHING......

but now...its sex time

ElBenny:
Back in my NYSC camp, Afikpo, Ebonyi State, I had this friend.

We met at the registration desk on the first day of my arrival. He was behind me on the queue to the "Book of Life" registration.

I remember cracking a joke right there, everyone laughed, he responded with another joke that prompted another loud mass of laughter.

I took interest in him instantly (I'm highly attracted to sarcastic and humorous people), and we got talking instantly.

We completed the registration that evening together and even "hustled" to get our mattresses and a convenient bed space.

You know, it's good to have one person you're attached to in a new environment/adventure as that makes your adaption easier.

We did a lot together, walked to the auditorium together, ate meals at mammy Market together, went to the parade ground together, even though we were in different platoons.

Since he told me his name was John, I fondly called him Johnny.

Oh the very last day of camp, the atmosphere had an exit setting.

Everyone was parting ways here and there, I and Johnny parted ways at the gate.

I hopped into the bus that would convey I and other corps members back to Port Harcourt and realized I hadn't exchange phone numbers with Johnny.

I called him out from the bus that was already moving slowly and beckoned on him to input his phone number hurriedly as I handed out my phone to him.

He inputed his phone number in less than 10 seconds and returned the phone back to me.

Coincidentally my mobile data was on and truecaller displayed his number as "John Thomas."

Of all names, why JOHN THOMAS? �

Lolz. I no save the number again, I've not heard from him for 3 months now AND THAT'S OKAY! �

Nothing concern me and my fellow man "amu"

When i Read your Story,
I had to check several times to Confirm You are a MALE.

This Write is expected from a Lady about a Guy she had a crush on or so

AstraDroid:
Are You Married ?

what is the point of this question?

On Nairaland Alone, You need to see the Number of posts on : Lamentations of Married Men that are Sex Starved in their Marriages...
It's a Pandemic!

Search Above

BATified2023:
see ehn

Na guys wey no get sense dey get issue with woman as regard sex matter

Once I demand sex from u n u give me stories I will not argue with u,I will even play with u buy u whatever u want n still form love for u then na to just low key go satisfy myself outside then we come back together happy again

I no dey drag anything with anybody,if u like tell me u are tired for 100 years I will not argue na to just go satisfy myself n avoid irrelevant stories then we are happy together again

If u meet a man like me na u go tire cos na u go even dey ask for sex,since u feel u fit use me do shakara na to just lock up dey smile but I go dey enjoy myself steady

Na mumu dey fight woman cos of sex

If she come Catch u nko, and then Goes Violent on u for the Act.....
like attack u with mortal and pestle