₦airaland Forum

JoeNL22:
Obi......hope you are taking note.
Security should be your No.1 priority.

Ferrous:
It's better now if you do it for your wife, not a girlfriend that would leave you tomorrow and look for next available man

Ferrous:
Not even his wife? Just girlfriend

Villa12:
You and your likes will obviously stop existing if ladies stop to have anything intimate with your type

You think you can live nor survive without women?

Lol

Zonefree:
Videos like this make me to always thank God for not creating me a gentleman.

Nairalander248:
Please I need address of the restaurant...

The lady must be charge to court for publicly embarrassing the young man.

No lady is talking about the violence meted on the guy by the lady.

ahnie:
You sef REST.
are you a virgin? does one being a virgin makes the home peaceful, successful, enjoyable?
Mstcheeeeeew.
For your info.....I married as a virgin.

zedegit:
Where is mosdii who said,I quote: " Nigerian women are useless; all of them", well you can see where he drew his premise from.

He was able to pay your dowry and carter for your numerous fancy as well as the children's needs.

Infact I see she's trying to project her senselessness on Basket mouth.

It's one thing for couples to separate due to irreconcilable differences but coming online to rant about it is stooping too low. For starters people don't even care.
It's not about the flamboyant wedding but marriage needs sacrifice and compromise.

Most of the women these days, their lives revolves around illusion. It starts with and ends with money.No wonder they fix useless eyelashes and bone straight hair on top empty skull. Tueh!

Last Bullet: In a way she's right: because if Basketmouth was sensible he would have known she's a gold digger. Imagine who's forming marriage councilor. Gossip together? Care about your family. Like providing for them. Una wan kill am with excess billings abi?

She should just keep quiet already.

ibkayee:
Not after tax it doesn’t lmao

2 million quid over a period of 40 years is not ‘high’ earning

Hobbiton:
look that truck driver well. He looks healthy, educated n well paid.

Truck driving n fick lift driving is lucrative in yankee

micflo28:
OP you are the real reason people commit suicide, you broke and went back to her to finish her up. When you break up, never look back. What you didn't see at first instance isn't still there. Sex rode you back to her. You said she cheated, if she was loyal to you, what's the possibility that you will marry her. I bet you have an array of girls you are testing to see the most suitable to marry from, don't women also have that right to choose from an array of men to marry from. Please, never accuse a lady of cheating until u either marry her or put a ring on her finger, else she is searching as you are doing so too. Don't return to the girl, but forgive her and set her free. If she had your semen while you were copulating with her, then you have a course to worry. Please, if you don't want a woman, three weeks is enough courtship to tell her to move on, don't let people get too attached only for you to kick them out into the cold lonely street. Avoid long unserious courtship. Know what you want in a girl from the onset.

advanceDNA:
Report to police first....
They will invite her to cime and write undertaken for threat to life and if anything happen to you...na she be first suspect

Olatara:
Only few people on Nairaland will tell you the truth. To give yourself peace, just call the girl with another number and apologize to her.

That's all

Don't go back to dating her, don't allow any manipulations. Tell her to move on. Render some little assistance (be part of her success story). No fear.

Meedon:
They would mock you if you open up.

femijay8271:


ABI ORI EBUKA YI NI?

BRATISLAVA:
Likewise Nigerian men detest kids that are not theirs and treat them badly.

As the wife, if you correct then, they will tell you it's not their child and that they cannot feed another man's child to adulthood when the father is there to claim him, that their blood is their own blood.

On this forum, a lady told the needless abuse her son faced at the hands of the man she wanted to marry.

dalass:
Almost 100% of the child abuse cases on Nairaland is from Igbo women. What of their husbands, don't they see what their wicked wives do to these children?

One locked a child in dogs cage, and so on. It's not by force to take care of relatives oh....

This particular one is evil.

Davidave:
Is disheartening to know that most news about maids been tortured or maltreated are mostly done by Igbo women. Wicked peoples

Realists:
The Igbo women have choosen to become tools of toture against Orphans and House helps.

Devdevdev:
What else do you suggest I do? Spend hours taking photos updating my status every 30 minutes? Go on Twitter and argue all day about bullshit? Or maybe prostitute my body on social media for thirsty guys like you to feast on?

RikudoSennin:
Brother, what i see daily in this society that i live in makes me shudder. Women will yell at their men in public and the men will be quiet like a hypnotized puppet. I have lost count of me seeing wives yelling at their husbands and the men will be quiet as a graveyard.

It is no wonder that the societies in the western hemisphere is in chaos. No men to put things in order.

Haydens:
I have never heard or seen any video of guys singing carry me dey go my wife place, that shows that we are the prize. The moment you know this then you will value yourself well. No matter her class never prioritize her because at the end you still hold the key to her happinesses which include marriage, commitment e.t.c

They know that men age like wine while they decay like corpse.

igwegeorgiano:
Being in a relationship with a destination on one's mind is a beautiful thing considering the joy of having the right partner in your world to make things happen. Am beginning to have a rethink about my present relationship with the most ungrateful of all ingrates of a lady on the planet earth.

Am presently in a relationship with a lady from the eastern part of Nigeria while I am from the south-south. We met over five months ago and within this short period I have spent well over 7million naira on this lady setting up a boutique biz for her getting her a befitting accommodation tastefully furnished and many more goodies to ensure she is comfortable including a car.

I don't want to bore us with other issues that cropped up which actually prompted me to share my experiences with this ingrate of a woman. I work so smart for my money as a certified mariner and I made my money from every available legit means am very comfortable to a very large extent but true love and affection is missing.

I went into a relationship with the sole aim of settling down with my woman whom I have done so much for. Just last night she called me and requested I assist her with with 500k to take care of some personal issues I agreed to give her the money but unfortunately I was able to raise 250k which I sent to her. Just few minutes ago she called to tell me that am a very stingy man. She told me I can't take care of her needs, yet I want to marry her. My people, am confused right now because I can't imagined myself going into marriage with this lady.

I have decided to relaxed any form of assistance to her henceforth so I can take my time to assess the situation of things in my relationship with her.

faceLAGOS:
Na mumu guy dey trust naija babes.

I remember when my x (father was G.O while mom is a prophetess/evangelist) and I went to a bar to have a drink, and some guys were sitting behind me while she could see them because she’s sitting opposite me.

She asked that I should go get some peppered snail for her inside the bar, because we were sitting outside.

As I was almost entering the bar, my intuition told me to look back. Behold my “church brought up” girl was already exchanging numbers with one of the guys sitting behind me.

Mogbe!

I never knew they were already giving themselves eyes as I dey back the guys.

I was very furious and ask the mad girl that we leave immediately. When I asked her what was that for, on the way.

Guess what she said?



She said she wanted to preach to the guy.

I can never trust any Nigerian girl.

Apili:
Baba something is happening under your nose
Nor go wise up
How did she get the guys account number
Was there a prove to show you she sent the money back to him
Till them give you invitation card your eyes go clear
I don't trust anything that bleeds from their private part
Even donkey can set you up

Jennyclay:
You are overreacting. I don't know why men can be so obsessed. Nawa oo.
Are you her father to be questioning her why was the guy in her room? If you think she's cheating on you then end the relationship. Is not as if you are spending enough money on your girlfriend in the relationship. You can't buy common student plastic chair & table for your girlfriend to put in her room. Shame .

Enemyofpeace:
There was this hot argument we had in class today while waiting for our lecturer.

It was on the ownership of the breasts, some (including ladies) argued that the breasts belong to the father, some argued that the breasts belong to the mother, while some including our old school lecturer who later met us on the argument were of the opinion that the breasts belong to the baby.

We were not able to arrive at a conclusion, so I decided to bring the issue before you my elders and ancestors on nairaland. Who owns the breasts? Is it the father, the mother or the baby?

chigoizie7:
Bro abeg leave that insensitive human.
I left one too. Came back to naija for my papa funeral, my account wasn’t working well, I decided to put small change in her account until I need it. Came to her city, asked for the money, just not upto 1 week ooh. This girl is telling me that she loaned to her friend. Okay collect from your friend, she is telling me shits. That kinda put me off. Actually I can’t be with a woman who thinks and reasons like that.

Dracula05:
I no wan read epistle. Op you can do whatever you like o. See me I no get papa and mama and I know what should bother me and not. Even if you get this money. Try to know who wants to spend it with you and those that 'll like to plan with you. Go In Peace.
May the Almighty bestow you the fortitude to bear the loss. Bless brother.
No 4get better babes dey out there...don't go for leeches.

chigoizie7:
Bro abeg leave that insensitive human.
I left one too. Came back to naija for my papa funeral, my account wasn’t working well, I decided to put small change in her account until I need it. Came to her city, asked for the money, just not upto 1 week ooh. This girl is telling me that she loaned to her friend. Okay collect from your friend, she is telling me shits. That kinda put me off. Actually I can’t be with a woman who thinks and reasons like that.

LaSenior:
Mod please I want this piece to be pushed to front-page this is happening to me though I have prepared my Mind to do what is in my mind but I want this honourable house to look into this

I was supposed to go and do marital introduction but because of my dad's health which was going bad everyday I couldn't. I thought maybe when we stabilise him a little then I can quickly arrange for introduction but sadly my beloved Dad passed away 4days later

I have been crying endlessly and been so weak and saddened just this morning this girl I was planning on spending the rest of my life with chatted me up saying that she has looking at me since that I don't want to say anything concerning her Christmas things that she needs 50k to buy Christmas things. I was shocked to the bone haaaa why are you this heartless towards me? Does it mean you are not concerned about what I have been passing through, infact I don't want to speak more because God already saved me from a heartless lazy woman.

To the women in this forum is it right to ask your fiancee Christmas Money in the midst of seeing him mourning of his late Dad just few days his dad died this attitude of this girl is it right?

yinkeys:
My housekeeper friends in Arizona & Vancouver make at least 2 million naira (700 naira/usd) n conversion after tax
The cost of primary school fees right now in the one I attended is soaring like crazy
Let me not talk about house rent in a clean environment
Car bills, security, labour rights etc
Some employers can choose to not pay you after a job
The country is gone
There’s a reason I talked specifically about housekeeping and not a white collar job