₦airaland Forum

nicerod:
They eat it

Hydroxide:
I no dey find job bros.

baretalk:
Sea is in portharcourt, the colonials developed Opobo, cross river and portharcourt too, Lagos is not the only old city in Nigeria where colonials came to, the colonials have left for almost 65years now. You people from other states are foolish and select dumb criminals to lead you. In the next 100 years you idiots will still be saying 'lagos was a capital '

The importers can raise money with their governors and build seaport. Stop blaming others for your failures and inefficiencies. You don't need 100million USD to build seaport.

Hydroxide:
Most people in Lagos has lost touch of living but they don't know. Nothing can make me stay in Lagos. God4bid

StrongAlphMale:
Bros no One asked you about those places you just mentioned, but However even with traffic on those places it can never be compared to Lagos traffic. Lagos traffic is by the worst.

You should know that there are lots of companies in Lagos than any other states in Nigeria, so what are you saying?

Oga we're talking about sane places with good road networks, drainage systems and sane environment for people to live in, Lagos State no join at all. I hope you know Lagos is One of the most dirtiest cities in Nigeria currently?

You're talking about expensive lifestyles? I'm Sure you have never been to Lagos before. Do you know how much I paid for an apartment in lekki as compared to Benin City? Despite the dirty environment and how unkempt everywhere looked in that lekki

You guys should stop hyping Lagos, apart from the Job opportunities and the economic structure there, oga nothing dey Lagos. Too dirty to live in

StrongAlphMale:
Lagos is an overrated dirty place. Of a truth, you can't wear White or even dress clean without getting messed up due to the dirty environment.

Lagos is too dirty and highly overrated, gosh !!! I stayed in lekki area and I no dey too commot for House because you must surely look like a pig while coming back. Thank God I am in my beloved Benin City now, a home of kings and queens. I can confidently tell you that pH, Abuja, Benin City, Akwa ibom , Calabar, Enugu, Asaba amongst others are by far beautiful, Sane and better than Lagos

Temptee101:
Lagos is one hell of a place to visit, let alone reside in.

The first time I went to Lagos, I swear, I had headache for 3 days. I fell seriously ill.

Noise everywhere, thousands of motorists blaring their horns at the same time.

Everyone is impatient, angry and ready to fight in Lagos.

Everyone is willing and eager to dupe you.

On our way back to Abuja after spending few days in lagos, we boarded a sienna mini van, LASMA officers caught the driver for driving one way. You need to see how these people jumped inside the vehicle in order to grab the driver's key. They took us to their office, the refused to release the vehicle after pleading. We even had airforce officers in the vehicle with us. After spending hours there, we had to return to their park to enter another vehicle. We got to Abuja by 12am.

After such an awful experience, I swore with my life never to live in Lagos.

The driver is cursing, the conductor is shouting and the passengers are screaming all at once.

I really pity calm people who live in lagos.

DenreleDave:
You are very much right.. If I wana go for job interview, I put my white inside back, so when I get close to the company, I find a place and change. If I go Wear white, people go stain you for bus b4 u reach where u dey go


I served in akwa ibom and I didn't wana leave there but I had to bcox of job.. But i love dt state.. Sane, cool and sweet state with beautiful ladies..

DenreleDave:
My own experience as a lagosian who have lived in other states in Nigeria:

I don't see any reason why people are taking offenses in what @iDanDizzy said actually. For God sake, the guy is fv cking right. He bestly describe the normal lives of lagosian. I have lived in Lagos all my life, I'm a lagosian, I schooled in ogun state, I schooled in kano, I served in akwa ibom and to be honest, I enjoyed those states far better than Lagos. I feel sad dt lack of Job opportunities made me leave those states to come back to lagos and hustle. If not for money, I rather stay in akwa ibom and live a stress free life than lagos.

Spicycat:
Congrats madam, your children have done well in the eyes of both God and man.

ednut1:
To born girl dey fear me. 22 yeas old gal dating 42 years old man. Omo

peter0071:
Biko sleep over it. i have few questions for you before you make that decision:
1. whats her genotype
2. whats her blood group.
3. what.s her character
4. what type of lady is she?
5. lastly, confirm that she is not pregnant and wants to do this marriage project to pull you into commitment

why is your girl not ready for marriage? are you ready for marriage?

i love her bold steps though. if your girl wont be ready even 2023 and you are ready, and you love this other girl, get to knowing her and do the needful

JoeNL22:
Obi......hope you are taking note.
Security should be your No.1 priority.

Ferrous:
It's better now if you do it for your wife, not a girlfriend that would leave you tomorrow and look for next available man

Ferrous:
Not even his wife? Just girlfriend

Villa12:
You and your likes will obviously stop existing if ladies stop to have anything intimate with your type

You think you can live nor survive without women?

Lol

Zonefree:
Videos like this make me to always thank God for not creating me a gentleman.

Nairalander248:
Please I need address of the restaurant...

The lady must be charge to court for publicly embarrassing the young man.

No lady is talking about the violence meted on the guy by the lady.

ahnie:
You sef REST.
are you a virgin? does one being a virgin makes the home peaceful, successful, enjoyable?
Mstcheeeeeew.
For your info.....I married as a virgin.

zedegit:
Where is mosdii who said,I quote: " Nigerian women are useless; all of them", well you can see where he drew his premise from.

He was able to pay your dowry and carter for your numerous fancy as well as the children's needs.

Infact I see she's trying to project her senselessness on Basket mouth.

It's one thing for couples to separate due to irreconcilable differences but coming online to rant about it is stooping too low. For starters people don't even care.
It's not about the flamboyant wedding but marriage needs sacrifice and compromise.

Most of the women these days, their lives revolves around illusion. It starts with and ends with money.No wonder they fix useless eyelashes and bone straight hair on top empty skull. Tueh!

Last Bullet: In a way she's right: because if Basketmouth was sensible he would have known she's a gold digger. Imagine who's forming marriage councilor. Gossip together? Care about your family. Like providing for them. Una wan kill am with excess billings abi?

She should just keep quiet already.

ibkayee:
Not after tax it doesn’t lmao

2 million quid over a period of 40 years is not ‘high’ earning

Hobbiton:
look that truck driver well. He looks healthy, educated n well paid.

Truck driving n fick lift driving is lucrative in yankee

micflo28:
OP you are the real reason people commit suicide, you broke and went back to her to finish her up. When you break up, never look back. What you didn't see at first instance isn't still there. Sex rode you back to her. You said she cheated, if she was loyal to you, what's the possibility that you will marry her. I bet you have an array of girls you are testing to see the most suitable to marry from, don't women also have that right to choose from an array of men to marry from. Please, never accuse a lady of cheating until u either marry her or put a ring on her finger, else she is searching as you are doing so too. Don't return to the girl, but forgive her and set her free. If she had your semen while you were copulating with her, then you have a course to worry. Please, if you don't want a woman, three weeks is enough courtship to tell her to move on, don't let people get too attached only for you to kick them out into the cold lonely street. Avoid long unserious courtship. Know what you want in a girl from the onset.

advanceDNA:
Report to police first....
They will invite her to cime and write undertaken for threat to life and if anything happen to you...na she be first suspect

Olatara:
Only few people on Nairaland will tell you the truth. To give yourself peace, just call the girl with another number and apologize to her.

That's all

Don't go back to dating her, don't allow any manipulations. Tell her to move on. Render some little assistance (be part of her success story). No fear.

Meedon:
They would mock you if you open up.

femijay8271:


ABI ORI EBUKA YI NI?

BRATISLAVA:
Likewise Nigerian men detest kids that are not theirs and treat them badly.

As the wife, if you correct then, they will tell you it's not their child and that they cannot feed another man's child to adulthood when the father is there to claim him, that their blood is their own blood.

On this forum, a lady told the needless abuse her son faced at the hands of the man she wanted to marry.

dalass:
Almost 100% of the child abuse cases on Nairaland is from Igbo women. What of their husbands, don't they see what their wicked wives do to these children?

One locked a child in dogs cage, and so on. It's not by force to take care of relatives oh....

This particular one is evil.

Davidave:
Is disheartening to know that most news about maids been tortured or maltreated are mostly done by Igbo women. Wicked peoples

Realists:
The Igbo women have choosen to become tools of toture against Orphans and House helps.

Devdevdev:
What else do you suggest I do? Spend hours taking photos updating my status every 30 minutes? Go on Twitter and argue all day about bullshit? Or maybe prostitute my body on social media for thirsty guys like you to feast on?