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Travel / Re: Living In Australia/life As An Australian Immigrant by ozonechrome: 9:53pm On Mar 01, 2020 |
pitman10: I'll advice you buy a reliable car because fixing cars is very expensive here. Don't buy a1k car and you'll spend 3k for mechanical issues. 1 Like |
Family / Re: Husband is disappointed that we are having another girl by ozonechrome: 9:51pm On Feb 18, 2020 |
Psalme91: You need to be very strong now. Stop having kids. Find a way to take care of the ones you have. Time tells a different story. Invest in your girls. 5 Likes |
Family / Re: Husband is disappointed that we are having another girl by ozonechrome: 7:16am On Feb 18, 2020 |
You both need help. 18 Likes 4 Shares
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Family / Re: Single Mother Challenge. (SMC) by ozonechrome: 6:49am On Jan 27, 2020 |
I'm sharing mine so young ladies can learn. I met my ex in school. We dated for about 5years and in those 5years there were ups and downs in the relationship but he always came back begging and made up for it. He's the text book narcisst. We already had our introduction when I got pregnant. I relaxed a bit because we were already preparing for marriage and were just waiting for his parents who were not not in the country then to have our trad. After I took in my ex changed to a monster overnight. He felt I trapped him with pregnancy. It didn't make sense to me as we had dated for about 4yrs then and had done introduction and waiting for traditional ceremony. He asked me to abort it and I refused. I can't kill a child I can't create. I had a very good job and could take care of myself and the baby so I asked him to take a walk if he doesn't want to take responsibility. His parents and mine got involved and then we settled and got married traditionally. We were preparing for the white wedding but his attitude towards me was intolerable. He hated me like really hated me. I couldn't understand it then until I started reading about narcissism. I refused to do the white wedding as I knew I couldn't tie myself to this for the rest of my life. We were living in different states because of job and after I took in he never visited me again. He talked me down and tried to kill my self esteem. I wasn't a saint too as I also said hurtful things to him just to make him know how it felt. He brought out the worst in me that I never knew I had. I had an accident when I was about 8months gone. I was the one driving and my car somersaulted into an open drainage. My "husband" didn't care for me or his baby. I can't go into all he did as the story is so much. After I had our baby he didn't bother to see her until she was 6months old. When he finally came, he left the next day even though he was on 20days annual leave. He spent it with his new catch. I can tell this story with so much joy now as the pain is all gone and I'm happy again. He's remarried and I left the country with my baby. I decided to share this to let every woman whether single or married know that no one defines you. You are beautiful, you are strong and can be someone for yourself and your baby. Just trust God he makes all things beautiful in his time. The pain fades and you'll be happy again. 16 Likes 1 Share |
Romance / Re: She's The Best Woman For Me But Not That Beautiful. Should I Still Marry Her? by ozonechrome: 12:13am On Jan 27, 2020 |
Omoakin120 I remember when my elder brother was searching for a wife. All the nice and hardworking ladies he met he was never saitisfied. This one is too skinny, this is not tall. Until he found a lady that was tall and pretty enough for him. Now she's his nightmare. He lost his job and has a less paying job, and she reminds him what a failure he is daily as she's just interested in being a slay queen and doesn't understand that in marriage everyone contributes. He has finally gotten the slay queen he deserves and his happiness is gone. I wish you the best. We are all a product of our choices. 5 Likes |
Romance / Re: My Ten Year Struggle With Sex Addiction Is Ruining me. by ozonechrome: 10:12pm On Jan 09, 2020 |
Roadtorecovery: God doesn't love us because we are saints. He loves us because we are his children. He came for the sinners. The bible says only the sick needs doctor. The doctor is Jesus. That's the devil making you feel you are too dirty for the Lord. It's the lie of the devil. Go the healer with all your sinful self and allow him to heal you. Surrender to him as obviously you have not been able to help yourself because you are only human. We are a product of what we feed ourselves. Feed your spirit with the word, listen to the word on YouTube when you wake up, when you are idle, go to church and fellowship with fellow brethren. Listen to gospel and enrich your spirit. Be sincere in spirit and hand this sickness over to God and watch the greatest healer heal you. That's what he's best at. The bible says do not worry about tomorrow so take it a day at a time. We are all sinners by nature so don't beat yourself. It's only the holy spirit that transforms us and makes us clean. All the best! 4 Likes |
Family / Re: Single Mother Challenge. (SMC) by ozonechrome: 2:37am On Dec 19, 2019 |
Graxie: You can make a point without the insults. |
Family / Re: Single Mother Challenge. (SMC) by ozonechrome: 10:12pm On Dec 18, 2019 |
Graxie: If you separate with your hubby you'll comfortably leave your kids for him��� Not all mothers are capable of being mothers though � I hear stories of women killing their kids to get back at their dad. 1 Like |
Family / Re: urg by ozonechrome: 2:42am On Dec 16, 2019 |
Kindheartedd have you heard of narcissism? Your hubby is one. They never change. They have no feeling for anyone but themselves. They are the human form of devil. No conscience. RUN and don't look back. 3 Likes |
Investment / Re: Please Who Buy Australia Cards by ozonechrome: 7:44am On Dec 14, 2019 |
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Crime / Re: Gildas Tohouo's Wife Stabbed To Death In Her Ikoyi Lagos Home by ozonechrome: 2:55am On Dec 10, 2019 |
This is what high rate of poverty causes. The poor killing the rich to have a slice of bread. |
Career / Re: My Experience With Going Back To My Former Workplace. by ozonechrome: 9:56pm On Nov 27, 2019 |
purples25: You need to learn how to value yourself and build your self confidence. There's a difference between humimilty and lack of confidence. You already felt you weren't good enough for the job and and every then felt that way. Please search for art schools abroad and leave. Remember he who laughs last laughs best. Use your experience to push yourself. Wish you the best dear. 2 Likes |
Travel / Re: Share Your Nigeria To Abroad Stories Here by ozonechrome: 9:56pm On Nov 11, 2019 |
jmanity: https://www.nairaland.com/4478747/diy-guide-australian-permanent-resident |
Travel / Re: Share Your Nigeria To Abroad Stories Here by ozonechrome: 9:56pm On Nov 11, 2019 |
Bioles1187: https://www.nairaland.com/4478747/diy-guide-australian-permanent-resident |
Travel / Re: Share Your Nigeria To Abroad Stories Here by ozonechrome: 2:01am On Nov 09, 2019 |
I started my abroad journey here in this forum and finally got my PR in Nov 2018. I was working in a bank here so I was able to afford money for the entire process. Cost me about 2m exams and all including visa fees. I left this country with my daughter she was about 2yrs old to Australia in Dec 2018 with less that AUD3k It was really tough in the first 3months as I didn't know anyone and had a child to care for as well. The Nigerians I met here then were not so kind but some were. I got a factory job after a month and was able to start paying bills plus baby daycare fees. It was really tough for me. After 3months I got a professional job in a company I never dreamt of. I love my job and I'm happy. Did it pay off? hell yeah!! I've made all I spent long time ago. I'm comfortable and happy and love God so much because he let me go through all I did so that I can get close to him and it worked. Sharing to encourage you all especially women. Don't let any make you feel that you are not enough or treat you less. Love yourself and God will always see you through. 15 Likes 1 Share |
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Am Tired...someone Should Help Me Before I Kill Myself. by ozonechrome: 6:57am On Oct 23, 2019 |
Heineken: You honestly do not need a shop. You have social media. 1 Like |
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Am Tired...someone Should Help Me Before I Kill Myself. by ozonechrome: 2:34am On Oct 23, 2019 |
Hi Heineken, I sent you a pm to ask for your account number but realized it honestly won't help. You need to learn a skill, probably sewing mechanic etc. When you've learnt how to fix cars you can do home diagnostics for people honestly you'll be making a hell of money as people do not trust mechanics. Imagine if you had spent the four years learning a skill 3 Likes 1 Share |
Travel / Re: Living In Australia/life As An Australian Immigrant by ozonechrome: 10:39pm On Oct 02, 2019 |
I haven't posted here in a while. Enjoy pictures of Sydney harbour 8 Likes
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Travel / Re: Living In Australia/life As An Australian Immigrant by ozonechrome: 10:20pm On Oct 02, 2019 |
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Romance / Re: Why Are Men Scared Of Dating Single Mothers? by ozonechrome: 3:05am On Aug 17, 2019 |
ubunja: I tried so hard not to reply you. I don't know the type of single mums you've met. I need you to understand that not all single mums are broke or will even consider dating you with all your singleness. You also need to understand you ain't a reward to anyone. I understand you are young with your line of thoughts. I'll just advise you that in life be very open-minded. 8 Likes |
Family / Re: 1 Year After Marriage, I Am Already Tired by ozonechrome: 4:00am On Aug 14, 2019 |
goodgirl2409: He's a narcissist. You better run. He's doing all that to control you. That's emotional abuse and it will certainly get worse. As you'll be longing for his good mood. That way he abuses and controls you while you keep waiting and hoping it gets better. 6 Likes |
Culture / Re: Martha Dunkwu, The Omu Of Anioma: As Queen, I Can Only Marry A Woman by ozonechrome: 10:43pm On Jul 27, 2019 |
fowlyansh181: She doesn't sleep with the woman. It's an igbo culture. A woman can marry another woman and she's free to sleep with any man she desires to get pregnant. The woman who married her is responsible for the children as the children belongs to her. 1 Like |
Travel / Re: Living In Australia/life As An Australian Immigrant by ozonechrome: 8:19am On Jun 17, 2019 |
Alexxiss: I know a lady who can take care of your baby for 30$ per day but you ain't in Sydney. Use her sometimes when I have to drop my baby on a public hols. 4 Likes |
Travel / Re: DIY Guide To Australian Permanent Resident Visa - Part 2 by ozonechrome: 8:45pm On May 25, 2019 |
ozonechrome: @tunai please do you have any idea? |
Travel / Re: DIY Guide To Australian Permanent Resident Visa - Part 2 by ozonechrome: 9:34am On May 25, 2019 |
Please what other skills can a medical doctor nominate? Please guys help me out I've forgotten everything about DIY. |
Family / Re: Lady Calls Her Mother Who Abandoned Her For 30 Years, Her Reaction Heartbreaking by ozonechrome: 9:11pm On May 24, 2019 |
SageMK: Children never listen. 1 Like |
Travel / Re: Living In Australia/life As An Australian Immigrant by ozonechrome: 9:43pm On May 18, 2019 |
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Travel / Re: Living In Australia/life As An Australian Immigrant by ozonechrome: 8:14am On May 07, 2019 |
LadyHeaven: No he did not. |
Travel / Re: Living In Australia/life As An Australian Immigrant by ozonechrome: 8:13am On May 07, 2019 |
Travel / Re: Living In Australia/life As An Australian Immigrant by ozonechrome: 8:13am On May 07, 2019 |
Alphadoor: Hahahahahaha. Me that's enjoying the Cold. It's not as cold as I expected. |
Education / Re: Outrage As Teacher Attacks Little Girl In Class, Hits Her On The Head by ozonechrome: 8:55pm On Apr 04, 2019 |
amakadihot87: Please change the school. Your son deserves better. 4 Likes |
Education / Re: Outrage As Teacher Attacks Little Girl In Class, Hits Her On The Head by ozonechrome: 8:52pm On Apr 04, 2019 |
gypsey: You need your head checked. It's called childcare for a purpose. That Child is barley 3years old and so should be cleaned after. Parents pay more because of that. What could she possibly teach that little girl if not to feed, clean and and keep her happy till her parents pick her up. This Nigeria has messed up your heads you guys don't reason like humans anymore. You really need to get your head checked. 3 Likes 1 Share |
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