₦airaland Forum

Kobojunkie:
Why should she have to do that if her place in the marriage is as a homemaker and not as a provider? If she is to resort to taking on part of the husband's responsibility as the sole provider in the household, shouldn't it equally follow that the man shares in her responsibilities as a home maker?

Jewessgratitud3:
Non of this.

Kenmatt:
Why wasting your money in the name of paying tithes?

Most of you claim you go to Church, you read and receive Bible teachings but you don't understand the teachings of Bible.

Just like Philip and the man he met near the River bank.

Jewessgratitud3:
Is it right to split your tithe to different parishes if you don't want your parish to know how much you're earning? Will it still cumulate as tithe?

Is this a wrong or deceptive move?

Maryam1234:
If we should take Ariel view of our farms in Nigeria you will discovered that it's very organized in photo.

I can assure you the physical view of those farms are not as the camera portray it to be.

IjeBos:
Thanks. That makes sense.
So, a friend of mine recently cautioned me against it. Told me he had a friend die in Ikoyi biking. I'm double minded and so following the path of least resistance, most likely won't bring a bike, but would still like to bike at least once while I'm there. Is there any place to rent a decent bike? Appreciate all the info.

oyolima:
I want to register a company, what is the cost house ?
Can I also register a company without a lawyer.

YoungDaNaval:
Greetings naira Landers, my only sister is happily married to a lawyer and this guy have been instrumental to me and my family since he got married to my sister. Now I intend getting a car for my sis because her office is a little bit far from their home, the problem now is I don't know how her husband will feel if I use my sister's name for the car papers. Now I'm contemplating between using only her name or including her husband's name to the document which made me to bring the question here. Please married couples in the house,I need your sincere advice.

Note: I don't want to discuss this with my sis and her husband because I want the car to be a surprise

Chironks:
Love is beautiful, however, it can be challenging to manage.

How can one look past the partners' flaws and love them regardless?

Flaws in this context is when a partner lacks common sense.

Caveatemptor:
Sorry it is not a quarrel.
I experienced an infestation of those small black roaches when I moved to PH in mid 2000s. They were everywhere and I used every expensive insecticide you could think of to combat them to no avail. They just kept on multiplying. So I cam understand the OPs anguish.

xin5:
I had only 20k left after lodging the room..I thought I should double the money over the night through sportybet... they swallowed it around 1am...till now I haven't slept.
The runs gal preparing to leave now I don't know what to do...I have placed some calls to friends everyone claiming they don't have.

Please help how do I handle this matter

Caveatemptor:
Rambo can never kill those small cockroaches completely they are terrible. It is only that Chinese powder that can suffocate them to death. Rambo can kill those big cockroaches but those small black ones are resistant to insecticides.

mokwechineme:
The elites among them have continued too gain and get fatter though but the majority of Yorubas are still extremely poor. If u visit Yoruba land outside the state capitals, you will be depressed. You will encounter where people co-habit with extreme penury, peasants at its dplorable state.
The truth is, Yoruba elites dont care about Yoruba as a nation but about the selected, prominent and lucky few. The rest yorubas are tools to sustaining the aristocratic system

naija1stnigar:
Going back to history we all aware of how the Berlin conference of 1884/1885 birth what we know as the scramble for Africa. Different African tribes and nations were taken captive and reorganized by famous European powers and we're governed directly from those countries like Britain, France, Portugal etc.
As times went by Nigerians were schooled in different parts of the world, and would later realize the importance of self governance. The exploits of great Nigerians like Chief Nnamdi Azikiwe, Chief Obafemi Awolowo, Anthony Enahoro and others later birth our independence from our colonial masters, many of which granted those independence with tears because they knew what they would loose.
After they had all left, an uncommon and unconventional concept called"neo- colonialism continues to exist up till date, and that has brought the the rich continent of Africa to her kneels, as supposed leaders of different African States would always grant the interest of Western powers at the detriment of the citizens of such countries. Our resources has birth more successes to the west and in contrast more misfortune to Africans. This invisible but powerful concept has shown how myopic an average African can be.
The case of Nigeria is peculiar here because, as a country with over 250 ethnic groups and speaks over 300 languages we have over the years embarked on hatred along our different ethnic lines and are always ready to fight one another to defend the interest of a few who called themselves leaders but are only there to sell the rest of us out.
A lot of us are still locked up in that inter tribal hatred while another scramble for Africa is already on going.
This time between mighty powers like Russia, China and north Korea against Western powers like the United States, the United kingdom, France and others. If we can see clearly, we will know how soldiers are beginning to overthrow civilian governments in different African countries like Burkina Faso, Mali, Equatorial Guinea and just recently Niger which is the closest to Nigeria. Without any doubt we can all see how the Russian president has publicly backed these countries up and we can also see how the west is making inroads to this issue using puppet Ecowas headed by Bola Tinubu who heads the committee of west African leaders with slave mentality. Without any doubt it is quite possible that a proxy war might begin in no distant time, which is likely be fought by to puppet Ecowas and other Russian controlled slave states in Africa. But Nigerians have gone quiet on this issue, with our education, we see no reason to speak out when even if the war starts those foreign nations have nothing to loose, but we will rather have many things to loose, ranging from economy to security to infrastructure even to the lives of our loved ones, but we have rather chosen to remain indolent and rather find pleasure in attacking ourselves along ethnic and religious lines. In view of this, the following are the few questions to ask from sound minds:
1. Why has Africa always been victim to the west?
2. even with our education this time when another scramble for Africa is presently ongoing, what can we do to revive Africa from foreign dominance?
3.Shall we continue in our inter tribal/ inter religious hatred and achieve anything?
4. To drive back these foreign forces who are hell bent on destroying the future of our coming generations requires that Africans unite, is this unity possible when the Average Yoruba hates the Average Igbo because of Tinubu vs Peter obi matter?
5. What should we do to make sure that Nigeria does not become a victim of this scramble that has gotten to our neighbors Niger and what role should the Nigerian youths play this time to prevent that from happening.
Thanks, I will be expecting reasonable comments.

Quality20:
Hello nairalanders, esp those men with family men, I mean those who have vast experience as married men. I recently met a lady that I wish to marry as a wife, but when I told an elder who knows about how gentle I am and how don't go about following women, he simply said I should look for another that short women do suffer men far more than the average or tall ones. I was kind of dumb stocked cos I found it to believe . However , I do know that short women can be troublesome but that his claim that short women suffer men more seems unbelievable to me

Crystalom35:
It's not a lie. Everything grows and sometimes a man just have to do what he needs to do.

I have been with this wonderful girl for a while now.

The relationship has been very good and peaceful. I couldn't ask for more.

But recently things have not been the same and I've been rethinking a lot of my decision and one of those is sex.

Sex life is good but lately I'm becoming afraid.

First off, I won't want to abort her pregnancy if it shows up. But then again, I won't be able to maintain her and the baby if she were to give birth.

I don't have much more as I'm still in school and she's still in school.

So, we are both living off our parents.

And it would be disastrous if pregnancy should come in especially these trying times.

So I'm considering hanging the boots and keeping away from sex from now on.

I just am afraid she'll cheat on me in the long run but then again, my fear of "irresponsibility" of not being able to take care of the pregnancy if it ever happens is worse.

So, now this relationship needs a new direction. Maybe I'm wrong. I just don't know.

priesthood13:
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Serious buyers alone.

Regards,

Onlinefarmstore:
From Gurara LGA, we moved to a place called Pikorro (forgive the spelling), towards Minna, I was so hungry by now.....the person with me wasn't bordered at all. The food I had with me for no reason I forgot it.

In Pikorro we couldn't get what we where looking for we moved to Minna (I had made some contacts prior to today in Minna),........Disappointingly they where all in Abuja.

One thing you need to note is that once you are travelling and you have an opportunity to eat, please do...


In Minna we ate something (very hot food)...... then I was offered security (I rejected it)..... no be una wan drag attention to.

scoobyblogspot:
My ex was having some issues with me cause of my addiction to alcohol and a lot of times I misbehave then, although I have changed now that I am married.

Well, she asked us to take a break from the relationship which I refused and she said she has made up her mind already, I pleaded but she refused so i respected her decision but I kept calling her and chatting with her so we don’t go far from each other. The feeling was fading as contact wasn't regular anymore.

Let me caught the long story short

I found someone else, now my wife and she is so understanding and caring towards me, when she got to know this, she hated me and called me all sort of names and wept via chat that is it because she asked for a break just to test me that I broke her heart and she also didnt give me S**?. Don’t judge me yet, I found some missed calls from a guy who kept calling her by 12am on video call at night and sent her gifts upon gift, even took her out secretly. I missed her anyways and I know she misses me too, we have both moved on but I can’t stop thinking about her months after our break up.

dlawsamesq:
So I am very confused right now because of all this red flag I am seeing.

I lost my wife early last year when she was birthing my third child and only son, I have had my family taking care of the boy since then and now there is need to move on.

There is this lady I am currently seeing, we are both serious with the relationship, infact I have met her family to disclose my intentions and we are planning to get married this December.

Now, this is the issue, this lady is very stingy to herself. She is an entrepreneur, she runs her own business and is doing averagely well, she can afford to cater for need without anyone's support. She has been complaining of body pains and body weakness for almost 2 months but she refused to take herself to the hospital and when I complaint she told me that I should give her money, I am not trying to say it is bad if I give her money to do that but she is quite aware that things are not very rosy for me now.

I am really confused now because I don't plan to wife a liability, I think I will opt out of this relationship.

happiness440:
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Business Names:
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3. Business Name Registration and Certified True Copy of Registration
4. Change of Name
5. Annual Returns and other Post registration and miscellaneous filings
6. Status Report/Letter of Good Standing
7. Voluntary Striking -off
8. Same day Post Incorporation filing
9. Relisting
10. Restriction of Proprietor's/Partner's Residential Address
11. Certified True Copy of documents/extract
12. Application for Cessation

Brek:
Which "point"