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freshcvv:
I am too "smart" to be played by her, she is the type that can't stand my curiosity, it's obvious she's going to break if she does anything funny, then pretend about it in my presence. i asked her if what was wrong had anything to do with the relationship and she said "No", so for now i think it's something else. (maybe her family?)

There's nothing i was doing before that i still do not do except that i have reduced it (man dey grow, time to be serious with words). SHE ONCE COMPLAINED THAT I AM TOO BOSSY!!, serious when talking and have reduced how many times i smile, but i kinda adjusted to this because she hardly took me serious (my words) when i smile saying them.

Aha! Thank God she said it herself cz you would have accused me.

I read through your post and felt soo uncomfortable with the the way you run the show. This is but a one man show and she's given up in her heart already.
When she says you are bossy take that seriously cz it is all she must be thinking about everytime you open your mouth to talk.
She has started interpreting everything you do into 'being bossy' and it's no wonder she isn't bothered and doesn't care cz she's a time bomb ticking.
Am sure there's hot lava burning in that girls heart and when it explodes, I swear that volcano will engulf you in seconds.

You know even volcanoes give out warning signs.These are hers. Run or open a fissure to let out steam.

Note this: Never underestimate women.The most quiet and dormant mountains produce the worst volanoes. You are left wondering,what the heck was boiling in there.
Bring luster into that  relationship cz boredom has already kicked in and trust me if another exciting guy comes her way ? you are history.

Where is Ayale the racist somali.

Most of these fellows (men) are hypocrites.They even violation their cousins and sisters.Once discovered the poor girls are subjected to honour killings and you ask why they are terrified of speaking?
If not,to cover their shame they go for reconstructive surgery. Isn't it a fact that Arab/muslim countries have the highest number of hymen reconstructive surgeries?
I personally know a gynae that has made lots of money reconstructing hymens of young muslim girls as young as 9 who flock his clinic like God knows what.
Most are victims of intimate abuse from family members and they are brought in by their mothers in secret.

These girls getting married early suffer a lot from what is called Fistula cz their reproductive systems are not fully developed and ready to carry and bear a child!!  gosh what a terrible culture.

But Ayale says they call us apes.I guess am a proud one.

[quote author=Mrs, Chima link=topic=881568.msg10297525#msg10297525 date=1330508654](playing Scrabble with OP's post)[/quote]lol. you borrowed vowels from another thread. Must be ur new hobby.

onila:
whats wrong if people think your women are the most beautiful in Africa? pple usually rank brazilian and venezuela girls as the most beautifull in africa are theyv self hating?

dd u mean world?
just leave deluded wale alone. I understand where he is coming from.He has a small point but his att? bad

I am not sure about 'living the school' but there's a principle here everybody is ignoring.
[b]She is married.[/b]She's one with her husband.I mean what is the use of marriage if you cannot involve the other half in such critical matters?
It threatens to tear a marriage apart and you choose not to involve him? Are strangers better placed to help you deal with lecturer?
Take the advise here and discuss it with husband.Choose the appropriate one if it suits you. Whatever the outcome you both face it! cz there's gonna be one.
How, just how can a man give you sleepless nights when you have a husband by your side and u choose not to share with him?
You are all partners in crime and are already halfway in it so go all the way and deal with it together.

I will say my mind here.I find it very odd for a married woman to discourage/seclude the hubby and seek advise on such matters online. It beats me and that is why I lack any proper words.
just asking.Who advised you against involving your hubby? What do u think he's capable of doing? killing the lecturer or handling him wisely and sparing you stress? He wants you to pass, so whatever his actions are must be for ur own good.No?

the dude could be here on nl.Infact he could be on this very thread reading all ur schemes and planning his.

And for those planning to kill him   ,have you verified the story to confirm its true or are people just passing judgement on some poor lecturer who refused to take a bribe to allow somebody pass?? what if?

I have learnt to give most stories here a shadow of doubt cz one may ruin another's career through acts of revenge.

What if blackmail backfires? things dont always go according to plan at times and one can get another killed in the process.

This is a married woman with kids and I want to believe the husband can do something for her not strangers.

kenyaman:
Just to take the vital messages to the Kenyan forums should neveer all you to be a chameleon. Should it?

Its 2012! thought you would change.

HOW DO THEY EXPECT US TO CUT SUCH CAKES WITHOUT FEELING GUILTY

I am glad the holes are starting to show.

segan:
Why did you pay the lecture money , Is he not paid wages? so you decided to pay him wages, why cant you pay for sex? what is the difference ?? In that case
If you can give him money , then you can give him anything, is logical, #
You cant take your case to court because you offer bribe to pass your supervision but refuse sex in return,

How does it feel to bribe so you can pass exams? That is the time you should have cried for help not after it has graduated to demand for sex.

One crime always leads to another. Am sure if u had sex with him he may threaten you with failure unless u continue feeding his sexual appetite.

You are both partners in crime, cz if you are smart my dear the flag would have gone up the first day he asked for money.

wish u luck anyway.

see? that's what am talking about! Get ur hubby involved! man to man and get out of the pic.Gosh I think only a man can handle a fellow man in such matters esp where ur future and education are concerned.
If u do it on ur own you will hit the wall.

There's no way a man can harrass me without my hubby knowing. Unless I got other intentions, I will and must let him know.
I have put off some silly guys just by mentioning a man's name.
like forces repel.

aaaaaaaaaw.I love all of them! I am spoilt for choice.I need a cake now.

so many loopholes in this story.

1. Where is your husband's voice in all this? I have seen wimps turn into supermen whenever a fellow man crosses his boundary
2. How did the lecturer get your phone number? Did you give it to him willingly? If you do not want his calls what about a change of sim?
3. Somebody here has evidence of the money remited to him.You know its difficult to win this because you are a partner in crime. He knows that very well and can use it against you by claiming you tried bribing him instead so as to pass.
4. Is your husband aware that you have been giving him money? did he support it? Could be the reason he is helpless.

You know what dear? you messed up from the beginning when you bribed him.Its deep and only you can get yourself out.

Till ur husband speaks, I have no advise.

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This is a WAR CAKE!! Who would eat the dead soldier!!

thanks for correcting title.

still figuring out where to start.Guests should just eat the petals and go.

There was a pic of a cake here.beautiful wedding gown.Mysterious disapperance.lol

martinsflo:
she is of islamic background and am a believer in white garment church but my father is an islamic practisioner which also aided the acceptance and support from my parents,

nov 2011 marks 7months of MouthAction without penetration in our relationship but with heavy committment & i finally made love to her just one's as she declined other attempt till am writing these.,

LMAO!!!

Dude I stopped there and now my ribs ache.I seriously don't know what you are on about cz that is a volcano of issues.

Point out the major issues not every nitty detail. gosh and what is white garment?

You know what? just finish your studies.This cocktail of marriage,religion,mouth action,pregnancy,education,relatives,future children?? at 24 and 21 respectively,aren't you feeling dizzy? cz I already am !!!

lemmie grab coffee.you will recover.

Nayah:
Guys, hope you had a good day, just tell us how can you comfort your half when she feels insecure, has complexes and refuse to be n aked in front of you because of that

Hope it can help some sisters or brothers about this big issue

lol today is my laughing day on nl. Now why would one refuse to be naked in front of his/her loved one? is it cz she/he's got a butt out of proportion or?
u know what nayah, I cant speak for anybody else but it's good to always highlight the good aspects and tone down on the negatives esp if somebody feels uneasy.
But again c'mmon u aint gonna make love if u feel uneasy in ur own skin and nobody I believe, can make u feel good but urself.
inside out, not outside in when it comes to appreciating one's self.

whatever find somebody who loves the whole you.

Jenwitemi:
So, obeying the christian god is suffering, then? I believe you, tbh!

A christian's is supposed to obey God's laws.No?
That obedience must pass the test of time.Faith in God must be put to test for it to stand. Any bible believing christian knows that every man of God was put to test and suffering is part of it,whether it's physical or mental.

This is what I know from exp. God spares a fresh christian some suffering cz they are not yet grounded in Him.It's like forcing a baby to chew meat.
It's impossible.But as soon as he is grounded in God's word,all teeth out and he's out of the cradle, the tests start coming one after another.
Its a process of life and it happens even to people who are not christians. If you listen to what successful people go through to make it in life then you will appreciate and embrace suffering/persecution/failure.
Suffering is a ladder that can build or break you depending on the state of your heart really.

Please DO NOT CONFUSE FOOLISHNESS FOR SUFFERING.When I say pay ceaser what is ceaser's,I mean respect the law of the land.eg.you cannot refuse to pay your rent/tax, face the law and call that suffering. It's silly cz God commands that you pay your dues to ceasar or get jailed.

It's doing what you must do to stand,shine and getting persecuted for that.That doesn't kill you, it only makes you stronger and better.

The foolish suffering makes us bitter and worse.No good ending

^^ hey gal. looking good.

This is one nasty and rusty thread.It made me boil. But karibu tena.

Nope.
But did christ suffer? yes.Was he persecuted? yes. Did he fall? No.

Simple.suffering creates endurance and perserverance.It makes us strong and ready for battles without giving in.

The big question you ought to ask is.What is the cause of your suffering? Is it foolishness,pride or your irresponsible nature?

The kind of suffering christ talks about is the one where you obey God, live by His laws and pay ceaser what is ceaser's.

In short obey God and the law of the land. Be a normal balanced christian representing christ well then suffer for that.

Most christians suffer as a result of stupidity then call it persecution.sorry cz misery/tribulation will kill you.

Am sorry op but its either the way u describe it that makes it sound funny.
@ out of proportion.omg

Take heart, some women love such men.I don't know    ok try the health section cz am sure some doc knows better.

But just to try, if its only ur butt increasing in size and leaving the rest of ur body behind then u got a serious condition.

Its only a matter of time.
Every now and then the kenyan goverment carries out swoops and they are bundled into lorries like goats and taken back to somalia.
But as soon as they land,they start fighting and they run back to the camps as refugees! before they buy their way into the city using pirate money.
Its only a matter of time. This guy has just increased my hatred for them and I will make sure his arrogant comments are posted on a kenyan forum for kenyans to read.
lol a kenyan was telling me that somalis are trustworthy? well I directed him here and he swore never to deal with them.
Infact he asked,why awale would want to do biz with apes!! who does biz with apes unless hes an ape??

ok this sucks. am out.

I love the smell of a baby's skin

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