European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: Arsenal Vs Liverpool (3 - 2) On 9th October 2022 by placeofallure(f): 5:07am On Oct 10, 2022 |
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Romance › Re: I Invited A Female Friend Look What Happened!!! by placeofallure(f): 10:53pm On Oct 09, 2022 |
Mrtaye: Oh no so sorry orekelewa mi  Apology accepted. |
Family › Re: My Wife Suddenly Stopped Having Sex With Me by placeofallure(f): 5:06pm On Oct 09, 2022 |
@ efelicity, I can categorically tell you beyond any reasonable doubt, that your beloved wife is cheating. It's a difficult pill to swallow but it's what it is.
Why's she hiding her phone? Why's she talking to people at odd hours? Why has she refused to lay with you for weeks running into months?
My phone has a lock- a finger pattern which is the same pattern as my husband's so we can open each other's phones whenever we need to. I go out without my phone at times, I leave it with him. There are times we go out together but I keep my phone with him.
Now, my husband offends me at times and I'll tell myself I will deny him but for how long? Most times I'm not able to follow through with my resolve cause I need it too. The only reason your wife's able to stay away that long is because she's getting it elsewhere.
Have a tetê-a-tetê together. Demand to know what is wrong exactly then you can decide what to do going forward. Good luck to you. |
Politics › Re: Pasuma Attends Park Managers Rally For Tinubu And Sanwo-Olu In Lagos by placeofallure(f): 4:26pm On Oct 09, 2022 |
Reinaldo: APC has failed already. Nigerians will not vote for them. The people wey dey match be Senegalese abi? Nwa Teacher! Na you sabi who go pass or who go fail. Elenu yanma-yanma! |
Politics › Re: Pasuma Attends Park Managers Rally For Tinubu And Sanwo-Olu In Lagos by placeofallure(f): 4:20pm On Oct 09, 2022 |
successmatters: Agberos March for their godfather  Igbe l'enu vendor Aroye ni'se Ibaka Igbe ki ke ni'se eye E ma ke ku ni! |
TV/Movies › Re: Feed: Stanley Kalu Selected By 20th Century Studios To Write & Direct Movie by placeofallure(f): 4:18pm On Oct 09, 2022 |
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European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: Arsenal Vs Liverpool (3 - 2) On 9th October 2022 by placeofallure(f): 4:13pm On Oct 09, 2022 |
Great100000: Arsenal 2
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Liverpool 3 Who be this na? #COYG |
Romance › Re: Should I Forget About My Standard And Take The Risk? by placeofallure(f): 3:42pm On Oct 09, 2022 |
satandeterrible: Rantings of a frustrated prostitute. The man has every right to set and stick to his standards. If e pain you, go hug transformer. You're more terrible than Satan. Satan is wise and cunny but you have been depleted of anything called common sense. Did you say prostitute? Allow me to rant my rant - Your mother wey spread her smelly toto as dem dey hammer com birth you, a bastard, is a prostitute! Her mother before her, is a prostitute. Your sisters, aunts, sisters-in-law, nieces and cousins join are all prostitutes! Omo ale jatijati! |
Romance › Re: I Invited A Female Friend Look What Happened!!! by placeofallure(f): 3:36pm On Oct 09, 2022 |
Mrtaye: Place of failure hmmmm Go get your glasses, it's Place Of Allure! |
Romance › Re: I Invited A Female Friend Look What Happened!!! by placeofallure(f): 4:19am On Oct 09, 2022 |
kyber: You are smart Just being curious. How's your name pronounced? Is it Kyber /kiba/ or /kaiba/ You haven't released for months? Wetin be that? Na album? You want to get into her pant? Na bus or train? What did you tell her before she agreed to visit you? I mean she is in your place as what? As an acquaintance, friend or girlfriend? If she agrees to be with you as a girlfriend, it could still happen. Wetin be my own sef? I'm interested in updates. What eventually happened? She gree or she no gree? I'm anxiously waiting  |
Romance › Re: Should I Forget About My Standard And Take The Risk? by placeofallure(f): 10:07pm On Oct 08, 2022*. Modified: 4:26am On Oct 09, 2022 |
Ebenman: Exactly my thoughts I pity you if that's exactly your thoughts. You'll let some trolls who had no control over their own life mislead you in life. First and foremost, women do lower their standards for men if they're in love. Get that belief off of your head that they don't. Secondly, to ba ri se, ma pe paddy e l'ole. What standard are you talking about? You sound like some pompous, overbearing slave master. Do you know where she's coming from? It's either you like her enough to share or you don't. You already even anticipate her family will be leeches and needy. Some people are poor but they keep their dignity intact. I won't tell you to marry her, Lord of Standards, if she doesn't merit your aggrandized benchmark or calibre. Just let her know on time so she doesn't invest her priceless emotions where it'll never yield returns. Good luck to you. |
Romance › Re: Why Did Ladies Stopped Wearing This (pix). by placeofallure(f): 9:39pm On Oct 08, 2022 |
angelfallz: What kind of traditional outfit makes you wear it? Robe-like dresses (babariga) Iro and Buba etc. |
Business › Re: Can A Woman Who Runs Beer Parlor Business Still Be Faithful To Her Husband? by placeofallure(f): 9:36pm On Oct 08, 2022 |
FengChui: Okun o iye! Brotherly, thank you. How do you do? Work and family. It's been a while. |
Romance › Re: Men Are The Most Wicked Being On Earth by placeofallure(f): 4:54pm On Oct 08, 2022 |
OkpaNsukkaisBae: a DNA test might send your husband into coma...i.e if you are not a single mother. That they troop around doesn't translate to we're having a tango. Were you in affairs with every chic you tried to woo? |
Romance › Re: Men Are The Most Wicked Being On Earth by placeofallure(f): 4:51pm On Oct 08, 2022 |
tiswell: you think being delusional could make you feel good about yasef 
continue! Don't need people's endorsement to feel fly. Not real people how much less Nairaland where we have the ugly, the mad and the nightmarishly insane. That comment is for someone else. Surely not me. |
Romance › Re: Why Did Ladies Stopped Wearing This (pix). by placeofallure(f): 4:48pm On Oct 08, 2022 |
NoToPile: Ehen, something wey full market. If people don't buy, I doubt it will be for sale.
It's very good when wearing natives, this one in combination with short length shimi is a perfect undergarment or better still wear the knee length shimi.
Back then as a child mumsie will sew shimi with white China material , they will now put lace trimmings, we wear it under clothes to school, to church, this was even before we started developing boobs not to talk of wearing bra
One of the reasons why some of us can't go out without wearing proper undergarments. Wow! My mum too. She used to do exactly that. She can use the China material for the long one or short. Do you know I still have one that she sewed? Even though it's no longer my size, I still keep it. I dunno why but I'm keeping it. |
Business › Re: Can A Woman Who Runs Beer Parlor Business Still Be Faithful To Her Husband? by placeofallure(f): 4:45pm On Oct 08, 2022 |
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Business › Re: Can A Woman Who Runs Beer Parlor Business Still Be Faithful To Her Husband? by placeofallure(f): 4:44pm On Oct 08, 2022 |
GeneralPula: You don’t need to open a Bar self. Instead of Bottle Alcohol like 33, Stout, Trophy & co, you can be selling Origin/Bullet/Power horse/Gins/. You can add Can trophy/33 & co..
People will buy and won’t have to sit. Even at that, they’ll still talk to you for romance... And this one you’re saying you’re beautiful, you’re getting yourself ready potentially.. Thank you. Yeah! I can do Can Drinks but it wouldn't stop it from being alcohol, will it? You're all giving me ideas. I'm gonna archive this thread I think. |
Business › Re: Can A Woman Who Runs Beer Parlor Business Still Be Faithful To Her Husband? by placeofallure(f): 4:39pm On Oct 08, 2022 |
Threesha: Start the business, I know of a guy that runs only shawarma at a junction average daily sales is 25k I'll go join shawarma skills to what I have already. Thank you. |
Business › Re: Can A Woman Who Runs Beer Parlor Business Still Be Faithful To Her Husband? by placeofallure(f): 4:37pm On Oct 08, 2022 |
Emaprince: Truth be told..as long you sell alcohol..your sales will sky rocket...especially if you are good looking too. A lot of the men coming are not necessarily there for the drink. Many of them will start frequenting your place because of YOU. Many men are that foolish. They spend more than they can handle just to please a woman. Then next will be the ones that will start flirting with you and groping you. You can't even tell them off so you don't chase them away. You must be ready to deal with all the sexually explicit jokes directed at you and the boldness of some drunk ones touching you inappropriately infront of people. It will even be worst if you have a physically grown up daughter...cos some will have a target of fuckkking both mom and daughter. We seen it happen a lot. And it is usually these bear parlour women.
Unless you are ready to play these roles..do not venture into it. Thank you, I perfectly understand. |
Romance › Re: Share Your Breakfast Story. by placeofallure(f): 8:56am On Oct 08, 2022 |
This morning, breakfast is Akara with custard. Yummy!
If you're talking about heartbreak, I've never been heartbroken in my affairs. I am a careful person, thorough and detailed. I won't say I can read the end from the beginning but I always win. |
Romance › Re: Why Did Ladies Stopped Wearing This (pix). by placeofallure(f): 8:43am On Oct 08, 2022 |
NoToPile: Who told you ladies stopped wearing it.
If they did it won't still be available for sale everywhere. I still saw it at horo Pedro in idumota the other day. Exactly! Infact the trimmings are more beautiful now and there is this glistening, shimmering, shinny material they use to make it more appealing to the eye now. It's everywhere in the market. Still saw it last week when I was at Balogun. |
Romance › Re: Why Did Ladies Stopped Wearing This (pix). by placeofallure(f): 8:38am On Oct 08, 2022 |
angelfallz: I think the name is shimmy? Some ladies have replaced shimmy with tights. No. This one in the picture is underskirt. Shimmy is the one with straps. |
Romance › Re: Why Did Ladies Stopped Wearing This (pix). by placeofallure(f): 8:30am On Oct 08, 2022 |
nifemi25: The skirt is outdated. Says who? I have them and still wear them. Especially when I'm wearing anything traditional. I even have the ones with straps. |
Business › Re: Can A Woman Who Runs Beer Parlor Business Still Be Faithful To Her Husband? by placeofallure(f): 8:27am On Oct 08, 2022 |
Faber: You come back by 4:00pm, then by that kind 5:30 your stuffs should be ready. Make your food very delicious even if the quantity you serve is small, they will be rushing it, than you serve them quantity without quality Of course! Everything I do has always been about quality. I'm unrepentant and unapologetic about quality. |
Romance › Re: Men Are The Most Wicked Being On Earth by placeofallure(f): 8:24am On Oct 08, 2022 |
feminist35: Men are all over always trying to deceive Young girls, 20yrs to 25yrs, into a relationship. Many of these men will not bother with a mature and independent lady because they know these type of ladies will see them for the coward and failure that they are. A 35yrs old woman is mature enough to know what she wants, but no, they won't go for her. They will rather be disturbing Young girls in their prime and be looking for virgin up and down Well it depends really. Some of us are older and they still troop around. |
Business › Re: Can A Woman Who Runs Beer Parlor Business Still Be Faithful To Her Husband? by placeofallure(f): 8:16am On Oct 08, 2022 |
Faber: There is huge difference between a restaurant and a beer parlour/bar...
Most bars/beer parlour don't sell food... Most restaurants don't sell beer/alcohol...
Now since your faith is against alcohol (same with me, I only drink water or wine) then, you run a mini fast food. Indomie and eggs, custard/pap and beans, fried rice and chicken, You don't need to prepare soup cos it's time consuming and stressful. Just fast food only, With good location you will hit.
It also depends on the time you do come back from work Thank you for the insights. I mostly return by 4, a few times later. |
Romance › Re: Is This The New Trend Among Nigeria Girls? My Experience by placeofallure(f): 7:39am On Oct 08, 2022 |
StrongAlphMale: Buying food wasn't the issue but the order part.
Which one is she can order while I pay for it? As per what? That was a total turn off and entitlement mentality. Definitely! What does she mean "order" Poor person dey order? I cook my Ila Alasepo soup yesterday with less than 1k and e sweet die! Her demand is an outright put off! |
Business › Re: Can A Woman Who Runs Beer Parlor Business Still Be Faithful To Her Husband? by placeofallure(f): 7:29am On Oct 08, 2022 |
Faber: If you want to enter this business and wants to stay faithful to your husband and also make lots of money...
I have a secret that some smart ladies use. Just mention me and I drop it for you here I'd wanted to start an evening restaurant, something like a Bistro, outside the house when I return from office. The main thing holding me back is the concern raised in this thread. An evening restaurant may not readily thrive without alcohol as people are back from work and want to unwind. But, I have my misgivings about alcohol. I hate irresponsible drinking as a person. I'm beautiful, what if they make advances at me? How do I balance alcohol sale with my faith? How do I make sales if I exclude alcohol from my menu list? |
Properties › Notice To Quit - Legal Approach Needed by placeofallure(op): 5:36pm On Oct 07, 2022 |
My kid brother has been living in a room and parlour self contain apartment for about 5 or 6 years now. He pays rent yearly. His rent will be due by 31st November.
His landlord brought a quit notice, served by a lawyer, today 7th October asking him to quit the apartment by November 31, the exact day the current rent expires.
The puzzling thing is the letter was backdated to May 15, 2022. That's about 5 months ago. Isn't that fraud? My brother will need a few months to gather himself and get a new apartment.
Please, what legal moves does one make to ensure he is given between 3-6 months to leave the house. He may even leave before then.
Thank you. |
Family › Re: My Wedding Was Stopped 6 Weeks To The D-Day by placeofallure(f): 3:25am On Oct 07, 2022 |
Gabless: I am 28 years old, a graduate of one of the university in South West. I work as a contract staff in a bank.
I met this guy about a year ago through my best female friend, and the journey started. I took him to my parents and he also took me to his parents too, and the wedding preparation started.
We were suppose to do family introduction but my parents says there is no need considering some logistic reasons. Although my mum has her reservation concerning him. But since my father has no objection I think am good to go.
He has sent money for some preparation since he is not residing in Lagos. The problem started after I went to idumota with my aunt to buy our engagement clothes. It was my aunt that drove me to the market. When we returned, my fiance called me, we talked for some times, but he couldn't appreciate my aunt for her kind gesture. Although my aunt didn't say anything that day but she wasn't happy. My dad also complained that he has been rude to him. The same goes with my mum.
The last straw that broke the Carmels back was when he was arguing with my aunt over the phone. He did not know I was in my aunt's house that particular day. I wasn't happy at all, thinking that if he would not regard my parents how would he treat me after marriage.
So I confronted him the second day over the phone, telling him that I'm not happy about the way my parents where complaining about him, and that attitude of him is creating fear in me. Instead for him to be a little remoseful and even call those people and apologize, he was arguing with me, still in my aunt's house.
So I told him, maybe we should put the preparation on hold thinking he would at least try and apologize to them. He just said, is that what you want and ended the call.
Everyone was surprised. He didn't call back it was his mum that called my mum, she didn't even persuade them to stop me from taking such step, and the guy too didn't call me for like too weeks until when I called him and he said he wasn't interested in the marriage again.
Actually, I wasn't happy and I have been downcasted since then, but on the other hand, May l ask this question does this guy really loves me?. Is he really mature enough for marriage. Is it all my fault? Please don't insult or abuse me. I just want to know if it's all my fault. I'm old enough to be your aunt. Baby girl, go and do Thanksgiving in church, you just dodged a bullet. Ah! This God loves you so much. Even if he changes his mind and apologises, don't listen to him. This is a miracle of God, no more. |
Politics › Re: Moment APC Women Leader Jumoke Okoya-thomas Turns Arise TV Interview To Comedy by placeofallure(f): 5:18pm On Oct 06, 2022 |
AdamuKD:
 If I dey support the evil party, I go advice them not to be granting interviews again because it's the hardest thing to support a criminal that is about to meet his maker  You could meet your maker before him boy. It's not by age. Meanwhile, when has a mere party presidential flag bearer become so important that everyone has to know his whereabouts? He's an ordinary citizen until he becomes the president. Cut him some slack! E gbaju mo tiyin! |