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CrimeRe: Ugochukwu Nsofor Chukwukadibia Owner Of The Mansion Where Drugs Were Discovered by placeofallure(f): 11:48am On Oct 04, 2022
igbotormentor:
He is a Zombidient and one of Peter Obidi0t campaign manager
Yes o! Na dem!
RomanceRe: My Fiancee And My Friend What Is Going On?? by placeofallure(f): 3:10pm On Oct 03, 2022
thegroomspa:
Continue...

She went back to work, and later that day evening I started receiving a message on Whatsapp from her friend I once meet asking want happened between I and her friend...

On explaining things to her, she said there was nothing wrong that if I love her friend enough that shouldn't be an issue...

I was so angered that I stopped replying to her friend...

Then my girl started texting me on Whatsapp apologizing and at the same time swearing with her life that she can't sleep or do anything that her head and her heart are heavy...

I became afraid so she doesn't hurt herself, I then replied her and fixed a place to meet her after work...

We meet and I pointed out everything she burst to tears saying it wasn't true that it's not what I think and was swearing with her life...

I told her I forgave her...

This month made it the 7th month and we have not mated, since we met ourself...I initiated it to ease up a little bit...we've made love twice now...

But I still feel insecure when ever about her and don't trust her...

I feel like quitting...




I was so pained
Well, humans especially women, are difficult to read. She may not mean to date your friend. He may just have made an impression on her that she found so captivating and she was too careless, maybe naive, to manage well. If she really wants to Bleep your friend, if she's a pro, you won't catch any wind of it.

When I was still dating my husband, his home was a Mecca of some sort to his numerous friends. There were about two of them that I liked a lot. Even when I complained about the others intruding into our privacy, I never did about those two or three, if they like, they can stay till forever. One of them buys me things like perfume, make up kits, gives money and all as if he were my bf. My bf knows cause he never did it behind him. He buys Tshirts, shoes for hubby too. The other one, we just jelled. We can gist for Africa. At times, he comes accidentally when his friend is not around, we gist - normal gist and I see him off, distance of 500 m, beyond even. At times, he comes with his babe too. Trust me, just plain likeness. He never acted like he'd take me to bed, neither did the thought ever crossed my mind too. Just undiluted friendship.

It's true you acted too quickly. Who knows? She may be the loose type of girl. You would have lurked longer in the dark and waited for them both to fall before you react. I wish you good luck with her.
RomanceRe: Dbull on this one!! It's My Birthday Guys(pics) by placeofallure(f): 2:42pm On Oct 03, 2022
Congratulations @ Iamdbull. Wishing you many more prosperous and fulfilling years and of course that you blow so loudly that the Gboah sound will reverberate the world over.
RomanceRe: . by placeofallure(f): 1:16pm On Oct 03, 2022
Maysdevices:
You’re blind to the countless men on the streets begging random people these days? Countless men beg me on the road for 100 naira everyday. Several of my male friends always ask me for cash. Most rich young boys got rich by begging and deceiving white women. I’m sure countless boys harass you too for cash on the road but you’re so excited to bash women you are completely blind to them.

Seems I will open a counter thread asking why men are always begging me for money on the road. Even where I buy my smoke, it is not any different. Some will even have the audacity to ask me to do transfer for them.


We have have the highest amount of poor people in the world and this still surprises you? You are a complete joke of a man.


Grow up.


Nigerian men, grow up. If women start to bash you for these things too, Na Una go vex pass.
PoliticsRe: I Am Not Dead & Have Not Withdrawn From The Presidential Campaign - Tinubu by placeofallure(f): 5:05am On Oct 03, 2022
iamwilliamsfx:
Baba I hail you sir

I hail you oooo

Baba for the girl

This is my first time of
Seeing someone wearing senator for sports

I hail you sir
Be objective in your criticism. This is not senator he is wearing, it's a tracksuit. Se e le chewing gum mo oju yin ni?
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga)Re: Manchester City Vs Manchester United (6 - 3) On 2nd October 2022 by placeofallure(f): 7:10pm On Oct 02, 2022
colly1860:
But something bad happened grin
grin grin
CrimeRe: My Friend Raped A 14-year-old Girl by placeofallure(f): 2:36pm On Oct 02, 2022
Greattestman:
My close friend raped a 14-year-old daughter of his neighbour. He's a 20-yr-old guy.


He said he was expecting his girlfriend to come but unfortunately she disappointed him and he was already high. When the girl banged into his room, he seized the opportunity to forcibily penetrate her.



He was arrested and put in cell but this should serve as deterrence to parents who let loose of their children.


I'm embarassed!
You're crazier than your friend. I think you are capable of a bigger evil. Birds of a feather they say.

K'olorun gba wa l'owo awon ikoko aye, Ajeegunjeran!
SportsRe: Jatim Derby: Riot Erupts In Indonesia League Match. 174 Dead, 180 injured by placeofallure(f): 2:33pm On Oct 02, 2022
udemzyudex:
It's very easy to say, what would you have suggested they do in that kind of situation?
Shout and tell them to stop fighting?

How did the teargas aggravated the situation?
I'm curious.
If you can reason like this, you still wouldn't understand if I expatiate. It's simply beyond what you can possibly process.
Christianity EtcRe: What Are You Thanking God For Nigeria At 62? by placeofallure(f): 2:20pm On Oct 02, 2022
Omooba77:
What are you thanking God for Nigeria at 62?
The most grievous problem Nigeria is facing now is insecurity. To me it far outweighs economic quagmires, inadequate infrastructure, unemployment and the rest of them.

I'm most grateful to God for securing my life and that of my family despite the fact that we sleep and wake up in Nigeria where you ain't sure of where or when the next bomb will explode or where the next banditry action will happen. Oluwaseun!
SportsRe: Jatim Derby: Riot Erupts In Indonesia League Match. 174 Dead, 180 injured by placeofallure(f): 2:12pm On Oct 02, 2022
ThierryJay:
Why would the police use teargas to escalate the situation in a crowd where there are minors which is exactly why Fifa banned its use in stadiums.

Those ones too, they've been beating the other team for a whole 23 years, dem suppose get some empathy for their perennial customer. A single loss and see where their sense of entitlement has led them too?

A whopping 129 souls gone with more soon to join. This is on the reckless Indonesian police.
Exactly my thoughts. Teargas flying into space aggravated the situation of things. Their police don't know how to calm chaotic occurrences. Really sad that this had to happen. In the midst of a confused crowd such as this, I think it's even a lot better to just sit down and not run around. My condolence to the bereaved families
EventsRe: Nigerian Lady Shares Photos From Her Simple Wedding Ceremony by placeofallure(f): 7:14am On Oct 02, 2022
donaldking100:
broke men association slogan.
oga bring out money & do things the right way it's done.
it's a once in a lifetime something, & it deserves to be done well.
Just what is NOT done well about this wedding?

Who defined what is well or not?

Some people will forever be bound, enslaved, and suppressed by imaginary captors.

Good luck to you!
PoliticsRe: Reno Omokri: Peter Obi Will Help Tinubu To Become President by placeofallure(f): 11:28pm On Oct 01, 2022
Urheadmaster:
I've not seen any Tinubu supporter that is normal.

Is as if they only reason through their 'Anus' like these man called Reno tongue undecided.
If you think Reno is a Tinubu enthusiast, then you really don't know Jack about politics. Go back to the drawing table and learn the intrigues of politicking.
PhonesRe: How Much Do You Spend On Data Monthly by placeofallure(f): 8:43pm On Oct 01, 2022
darelar:
3500 for 24GB
What network?
FoodRe: Who Remembers This Primary School Days Method Of Cooking 'Concoction Rice'? by placeofallure(f): 2:21am On Oct 01, 2022
Channah1:
Nah ... tumeric flavor will rid it of that local taste I craved for.
I love concoction rice. It's some people's favourite not necessarily due to poverty.
Infact, it's a delicacy in the part of Nigeria where I come from.

Ingredients
Rice, scotch bonnet and tomato, onion, smoked fish, seasoning, iru, palmoil and salt to taste.

*Rice on fire first up till half done, with minimal water, I don't like mushy rice.
*Then add sliced pepper and onion (I like to divide the sliced onion into two)
*Add the fish early if it's hard textured if not, wait till later so it doesn't disappear in the rice.
* Add salt, then seasoning.
* Add palm oil, when it's few minutes to get done, add Iru and the remaining onions. I like to taste my iru and onions a bit hard. I love visible onions!
*Allow the water to really dry. Most times I let it get burnt a little . That's additional flavour if you ask me.
* Turn it with ease, you don't want to tamper with the fish.
* Food is ready, dish your food. The aroma alone is a meal cheesy grin
HealthRe: Help!!! My Sister Is Having A Mental Health Challenge by placeofallure(f): 12:20am On Sep 29, 2022
HumbleOptimist:
She is 16. Dad enrolled her in a Private School of Health Tech to save her from stress cuz of her condition. She currently doesn't have friends cuz of her condition. She doesn't socialize. Care to expatiate the bolded?
I don't know what could be emotionally wrenching or overwhelming for a 16 year old to have resulted in her condition. If she doesn't socialise, check out what she does on her own, maybe drugs or anything. Is there a history (even remotely so) of any similar condition in the family. I'm sorry, just trying to trace the root.
As per the bolded, every system in Nigeria has collapsed. In some institutions, the caregivers are not dedicated. They just administer drugs that calm patients down not necessarily anything that will really improve their condition. When the patients are calm, it translates to less stress for them. On the part of the patients, their senses gets more weakened or deadened and automatically lesser chance at recovery.

God will perfect her healing. I don't ever take the God factor for granted. Pray for her too.
RomanceRe: Are These Facts True About Women? by placeofallure(f): 12:10am On Sep 29, 2022
Kantebets:
yet you mentioned me
Truth hurts
Argue with yourself idiot.

From now on, nothing from me to you.
HealthRe: Help!!! My Sister Is Having A Mental Health Challenge by placeofallure(f): 5:39pm On Sep 28, 2022
Mindlog:
Mental homes have always been scary, so it is nothing new.
My concern is not the patients, it's the caregivers.
HealthRe: Help!!! My Sister Is Having A Mental Health Challenge by placeofallure(f): 5:31pm On Sep 28, 2022
HumbleOptimist:
She's a Minor and an Introvert. Always indoors. Thanks for your input.
Hmmmn! Not funny. I can imagine your state of mind now.

How old exactly is she? What school is she in? Who are her friends? What activities do they co-engage in? Find out ASAP. Many mental homes are scary these days, unpalatable news springing out from there.
CrimeRe: Laolu Martins, Co-Owner Of Bukka Hut Reportedly Commits Suicide by placeofallure(f): 4:54pm On Sep 28, 2022
Wow! I just drove past the one around Awolowo Road a few minutes ago. Oh my gosh! Why suicide? This Naija sef don tire person.
RomanceRe: Are These Facts True About Women? by placeofallure(f): 4:48pm On Sep 28, 2022
Holywater123:
Good day ma. Pls don't mind that id¡ot. Pls how can I get in touch?
I'm not minding Kantebets of course! Not gonna dignify his mention with a response. I have no chill for buffoons.
RomanceRe: Are These Facts True About Women? by placeofallure(f): 4:47pm On Sep 28, 2022
Holywater123:
Good day ma. Pls don't mind that id¡ot. Pls how can I get in touch?
Get in touch for what jare.
RomanceRe: Are These Facts True About Women? by placeofallure(f): 2:11pm On Sep 28, 2022
Kantebets:
aside your vagina what else can you offer a man?
I earn a salary in 6 figures every month. Aside that, I have other side stuff that I do. I do freelance writing, I do facilitate workshops, I sell female stuff, I contribute to my home, my husband doesn't joke with me. Fools like you who sexualise women have no place in the present day scheme of things. What am I even saying? Birds of a feather flock together - May you meet your like.
RomanceRe: Are These Facts True About Women? by placeofallure(f): 5:33am On Sep 28, 2022
Number 1, so true for me. Number 2 also.
I love attention, infact I thrive on it. You must tend to me. It makes me feel good.

It's not only men that I don't trust, I don't trust people. I've built this strong wall around me so things don't get to me easily.

How bitter or sweet I get will depend on the man. I have PHD in being secretive and Yes! I love to be begged. I avoid being on the other side of that like a plague.

My husband confirmed number 11. And Yes, we can go to any length if we're in love.

I once told a young man here, if your lady likes you, she'll build wealth together with you, not squander it.

So so...
RomanceRe: Wise Romance Sayings From Falseprophet1 by placeofallure(f): 4:39am On Sep 28, 2022
FalseProphet1:
Some ladies will stop at the middle of romance just to ask you "Do you love me?". How can he hate you at that point?? angry
Well, some of us need it for clarification purposes grin

Many years ago, I asked my bf in our deep throes of passion if he will marry me. Now, we're man and wife.
RomanceRe: Religion and relationship wahala by placeofallure(f): 4:07am On Sep 28, 2022
1TripleC, religion has killed many relationships.

I had a Muslim bf in school, he read medicine so I finished school before him. We were crazily in love, in fact he loved me more but I couldn't continue Even when he started going to church with me. I know we would have problems because there's no single christian in his entire family and my practicing christian family do not want me marrying a Muslim even though we're from the same state. He threatened fire and brimstone when I left but I weathered it cause I also was feeling the hurt so I understand his disappointment.

Do you know he's married to two wives now? Yes, he's rich. Those were the things I thought about that got me scared. He reverted back to Islam! I know he would cause his family won't let him be. Everything I thought of came to pass. He still sends messages to me about us getting together though but hell no!

Now, sit back and think things through like I did. Put emotions aside. You will see a clearer picture of things when you do that. Believe me, you couldn't have loved your girl the way we loved each other back then. The whole university community knew us, we were an item but I borrowed myself brain.

There's no do or die in marriage. Both families MUST agree otherwise you are courting problem!
RomanceRe: / by placeofallure(f): 9:31pm On Sep 27, 2022
Abizz:
Wow! Look at these Nigerian hands holding this particular pant that you shared.

May your sense keep failing, OP.
Love your sarcasm. Some people, they never see anything positive about Nigeria and they've never been to a seaport let alone an airport.
HealthRe: BEECHAM AMPICLOX And The Craze For "Sperm Washout" : Warning (VIDEO) by placeofallure(f): 7:25pm On Sep 27, 2022
Omihanifa:
most girls use Beecham after unprotected sex and it works for them. Don’t know why it works tho but I know it sure works.
Wow! I've never heard about amplicox being used for these weird purposes. Guess I'm old school or too "churchy" afterall.
CrimeRe: Kidnapper John Ewa Was Laid Off As Bank Cleaner For Stealing Money - Police Boss by placeofallure(f): 7:15pm On Sep 27, 2022
Chelsea fans and crime be like ....

I really need the Zuma meme now grin
CrimeRe: Zainab Duke-Abiola Who Assaulted Police Orderly Remanded In Prison, Denied Bail by placeofallure(f): 4:32pm On Sep 23, 2022
slawomir:
Damnnn niggar

Very nice....throw her gadmnnn ass into the dungeon for 669 years..I know say police themselves nor good but that treatment was bad

Nor be small work Peter obi go do once he resume office

Him go Declare state of emergency on electricity
Declare a state of emergency to withdraw police from doing those orderly follow friends and brothers of politicians
Declare on education
Declare on security...
Josefu Alala, dream on............
Foreign AffairsRe: Iran's President Abandons CNN Interview As Amanpour Refuses To Wear Head Scarf by placeofallure(f): 4:30pm On Sep 23, 2022
lhordspy:
It's very painful we africans won't see the light. We are just blind my religious sentimentalism.

Cant you see clearly it was a trap by CNN to justify their hate against the iranian government??. The president knows this, and he still stood on is doctrine. He is a king
He should go and do his interview at Aljazeera then. Awon bigots.
Foreign AffairsRe: Iran's President Abandons CNN Interview As Amanpour Refuses To Wear Head Scarf by placeofallure(f): 8:54am On Sep 23, 2022
lhordspy:
Just another plot to put the iranian in a bad light to the world. But the Iranian president is no coward like the africa leaders that licks the feet of the europeans.

Amanpour knows the iranian president so well, he know he will never accept to that, so why shedule an interview with him when you know you can't dress according to the president religious doctrine.

It is definitely planned either for clout-chasing, cheap attention seeking, or portraying the already battered image of the iranian president or iranians in general in the face of the world.


Thank God, Jesus wasnt around this time. This present day propaganda set of medias would have make us believe he is bad just because he wont do to their bidding.


I think CNN, BBC and other european maintstream media are the problem of this world
Did you hit your head against something?
How could she have known that he wouldn't agree to leaving the head bare?
You didn't see the demand of president as outrageous, even on American soil?
You are nothing but a common misogynist!

Thank you Amanpour for being resolute. You will not trample on my right in Iran and still have the audacity to try it outside your territory. Radarada! Tan ni?

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