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Me? Eat anything strange? Never!
Quite selective. Really really very selective right from childhood. My taste isn't expensive, I'm just so choosy. I don't eat birds of any form, no roast meat, no snails or offals just beef and fish. If the beef has a bony part, it's not touching my mouth. I don't explore as far as food is concerned. I'm comfortable eating only the things I'm accustomed to. Not really a foodie.

uchaymart:
You were in SSS1 at what age?? Do you even know when Abacha died?

Abacha died when you were about 13years, yet you said you were in SSS1...

It's possible. My 13-year-old is in SSS1 now.
creamypie is correct in her assertions. I was in 200 level then I remember vividly.

ceaser:
Job creation.

Now next in line is to make sure the parts for their equipments and trucks are sourced for and locally manufactured within Nigeria. This will ensure another round of people indirectly employed by this action by Lagos State.

A job well done.

I know one of the new recruits and I'm happy for him that he had the chance to serve and still make money.

God bless Lagos State.

IFSHR:
All Those Arsenal haters don see wetin dem go take masturbate today....

Arsenal is topping the group win or lose...you all should focus on your team's.....no team wey never taste defeat this season


This is arsenal's second all season
Top of EPL
Top of EL group....

If u wan quote me....quote me with your team or just read and scroll ..

Don't mind them, they have started their balderdash as if that's what they've all been waiting for.

akinsadeez:
What about reasons not to date a lawyer



- Most of them talk too much especially those who are used to litigation.

- Lawyers are generally known to be liars. They can lie for Africa. Remember the popular joke about the wife that found a woman's underwear under the passenger seat of her husband's car, got angry and threw it out. The husband promptly told her that she just threw out a key piece of evidence in a rape case. Their specialty is coming up with convincing lies on the spot.

- Lawyers often womanise. With the nature of their job, Lawyers come in contact with people daily and most of them can't resist hooking with the pretty women that cone their way. Their annual NBA conference is just a convenient excuse for many of them to hook up.

- They are often dishonest. This might seem ironic, but many lawyers are dishonest. The fact that they know the law and the loopholes means they often skirt the edge of legality in their business dealings and when cases blow up, they can rely on their contacts in the police stations to bury cases. That's why some people prefer having estate agents in charge of their properties rather than lawyers.

- They wont have time for you. Lawyers, especially those who are very active in litigation hardly have time for their partners. They will always be thinking about the next case they are handling, how to address the court e.t.c Sometimes they have diff cases in diff courts in diff states.

I agree with the dishonest part. They're great liars and some of them are fetish too. All of these things, especially as exhibited by my uncle - a lawyer, made me resolve not to read law. He was manipulative too. I avoid anything that will make us have any contact. I can't remember the last time I saw him. Enu opuro o n seje!

UnusualEmissary:
Arabic isn't an official language here, is it?

Definitely not.

This coming from an Adamu Garba makes me wonder if he's high on tramadol. Arabic? Official language? Fia!

Zonefree:

Which one is no sin is too great to be pardoned? So, seeing another man banging your beloved wife on your matrimonial bad, you'll pardon her

If you won't pardon her, take gun and shoot her na. Who's stopping you? If it's the other way round now, you'll expect to be pardoned abi? Murasi!

advanceDNA:
He should manage her like that....plenty ladies are into runs these days....na retired runs babe most people dey marry....

.the ones not doing runs have high body count and dont date without money.....so all join......

as far as he give u peace of mind, she sabi cook, sabi appreciate the what u give her.... and dont have evil inlaws frustrating your life....equation don balance

I agree with you 100%

ZIMDRILL:
it depends how you want to deal with it

1 not upsetting your wife

2 dealing with like man

3 not getting involved

4 dont enable her husband to relax

1 not upsetting your wife aka accepting that your wife's sister and wife would happy that you didnt throw out too

2 dealing it like man, you were supposed to consulated before moving in and understand abit of why she left

3 not getting involved, your in-laws are the ones supposed to take her in while they get to know the issue and finding the solution, its not your issue is supposed to go to her parents or other elder relatives

4 enable her husband to relax, him knowing that you accomodated them, he will relax in solving the difference

Demise means death
The twin sister to his wife's husband is dead.

Really this is not funny. I pity the man, not at this crucial time in Nigeria. Everyone is complaining, how do you add extra responsibility to your own wey you still dey manage cope.

The woman is not understanding. She shouldn't have put her twin sister and the husband in a difficult position as this. The wife should tell her twin sister to leave.

Okoroawusa:
No be Muma Gee husband be this? The failed Nollywood actor? He is celebrating American citizenship? Obi Cubaba na American citizen?.... shioor!

It's true o! Yes I remember Muma Gee! So that man don old reach like dis? Me self go don old be that!

pocohantas:
As in. How do you wear something that revealing to a wedding? I feel it is disrespectful to the couple and not even ideal, given that kids would be there.

It shouldn't even be worn anywhere. I'd never be caught in that! Way too revealing. Less is more.

doggedfighter:
Boobs well displayed there.

Second missionary journeys must be embarked on well equipped.

Davido must agree.

A beautiful woman.

Hopefully the musician boy makes it real for you this time .

Yes O! They say afflictions must not rise a second time!

Mods, but the heading of this thread is more confusing than the confusion between Ten Hag and Ronaldo. Is it not supposed to be Chelsea Vs Manchester United? E Jo e ma yi wa lo ri o!

Sammy101111:
That is the reality of life
After s£x some men will love you more
But some men will loose interest

There is something called sexual feeling if there is no sexual feeling love can’t work oh
Because sexual feeling can make a man love you forever and forget beauty

If she is beautiful
But sexually not sweet to the man
She will end up being dump
Sexual feelings makes a man love a woman dearly

I agree with you bro.

BigDick70inch:
Nigeria can't just be a functional state without the yorubas.......just give it to them!!

From Oshoala to Tobi amusan to Israel adesanya to Anthony Joshua......

Just like Ahmed Musa, Garba Lawal, Victor Moses, Kanu Nwankwo, Daniel Amokachi and Austin J. J Okocha.

tiswell:
a pvssy once fvcked cannot be unfvcked, weda the sex is fantastic as envisaged or not


body counts already added!

What we're saying here's that it's not all the time that a woman becomes emotionally hooked to a man, even after the romps.

Tolexander:
your sickness get no drug

These days women too have gravitated to become users. You have an idea in your head the image of a guy you could get down with and who you'd rather not be caught with. Even at that, if the sex isn't as fantastic as envisaged, you may not let it happen again. That's the end of the situationship!

Tradepunter2:
Leave the pikin make she dy yarn.... Na time go tell am

They nu dy remember the higher they go the smaller the pool of men...

For men the higher they go the higher the pool women....

Na make them dy cheat on poor innocent loving men .... Brainwashed useless cretins

What is the need for that word in your comment? Be civil for once and act your age. You're no longer in secondary school!

Fahvvy:
Sweetheart...
You're the one who didn't understand my own point...

All I'm saying is simple...
If a woman stays unmarried till she's a certain age, then it's because of the series of choices she made over time, simple!!

OP was there blaming "life" for 30+ ladies not being unmarried and I was trying to correct that impression ....

She used herself as a case study...
She said she has turned down proposals...
That means men have been coming around, but she CHOOSE to turn them down...

Why she is turning them down is not the point, the point is SHE MADE A DECISION TO TURN THEM DOWN...

So if she is unmarried by 30, she only have herself to blame for the choices that SHE made...

That's my point....

And on the subject of feelings...
My dear....
Feelings change with circumstances...

You can "feel something" for someone one moment and feel nothing for them the next moment... This is why break up happens...

Because people are entering relationship on the strength of feelings and when the feelings dies off, the relationship follows suit...

What y'all ladies don't understand is that what sustains marriage (or relationship in general) is not feelings but commitment, loyalty, understanding, endurance etc...

Our parents in times past, most times never saw their would to be spouse before marriage...

Their parents would fix the marriage and they would work it out....

And yet even without knowing each other...
Even without having "feelings" for each other...
They had a long lasting and happy marriage...

Shouldn't that tell you that feelings are irrelevant as regards sustaining relationships and marriages??

Lemme recommend you a book...
Go on AMAZON and search for the CLUE OF MARRIAGE, then see what actually makes relationship and marriages work...

I'll look for the book. Not that I need it per se cause my marriage is a little over a decade and we're doing very well, but I'll read it. Someone around me might need it.

Jman06:
You can "love" anybody if you condition your mind to. The whole love thing is in your head!

Hmmmn!

PerfectStranger:
You only know them as being nice and all that but you don’t know their personal character. What if their character is disgusting?

Well you reason like this because you don't know me. I don't call anybody friend if I don't know you inside out. They're not just mere acquaintances at work. We're close, we share personal talks, we help each other solve issues that are not even work related. Trust me, they're good. It's hard luck at times. The older one, nobody even comes to woo her anymore. We that are married gan, dem no dey gree us rest, no be juju be that?

Stargurl20:
Thank you so much, ma'am. Someone even said I'm full of myself. If only the person knows how I reason. If only he knows how I see my self as ordinary and not superior to others in anyway, probably he wouldn't have said that

You are welcome sweetheart.

For Nairaland men, to bash women is sport for them.

PerfectStranger:
too much high standard is what’s keeping them unmarried. Standards their dad didn’t have o.

That's not so. Some people are just unlucky in life.

I have two ladies like that. I can call them colleagues or friends. One is in her 40s, the other in her late 30s. Both of them are good people, especially the younger one, she is nice, super intelligent and beautiful, above average in looks yet
no suitor. What do we call that?

Fahvvy:
OP ma'am @Stargurl20
I believe this is the thread you were referring to...

https://www.nairaland.com/7368480/not-all-30yrs-old-ladies

And in that thread, the OP opined that the reason why lots of women in their late 30's are not married is because...

1. They were not approached by men
2. They tried to build with a man who later abandoned them
3. They focused on their schooling so they could build a successful career
4. They were played by men

And the OP now said and I quote "it is not always their fault" (And obviously, that's a BIG LIE!!) ...

By so doing, the OP was absolving women of responsibilities and not holding them accountable for the series of choices that THEY made which has brought them to where they are now ...

And holding women accountable is exactly what the guys in that thread was trying to do ...

What they were saying in summary was "most women are unmarried because it's THEIR FAULT" simple!!!

I agree that they could've been more diplomatic in their delivery , but still, it doesn't change the fact that what most men said in that thread was nothing but the truth ...

Lemme also use you as a case study too ...

You said "I haven't found someone I feel even the smallest of feelings for.....I've rejected certain proposals..."

If for any reason you get to your 30's and you're still unmarried will it also not be YOUR FAULT? ...

Will you also say it's because "life hasn't smiled at you" or that it's because "life hasn't been fair"? Will you then blame life for your being unmarried? ...

Make the right choice today ma'am, e get why ..

You don't understand OP's point when she said ... somebody you feel next to nothing for... You didn't understand probably because you are a man. If a woman feels nothing for you, even sighting you alone can cause convulsion or vomiting. Very irritable! Men can sleep with anything and anyone, dunno how they possibly do that but women cannot. How do you now go into marriage, a lifetime thing, with such? Is that not suicide mission? Cheating on him will not even solve the problem!

kk2027:
Get well soon sir Atiku

Meanwhile Tinubu has been out of the game since he 'disappeared' to London

Dont be fooled by the fake 'likes' his supporters are generating here on nairaland

Go to facebook or street polls where there are real people and see the comments(not fake likes) you'll agree that Tinubu is practically out of this race.

The race is still between Atiku and Obi

But Obi is the best, him and Datti are young and energetic

Obi writes his tweets himself, we get updates from his page directly from him, thats just too cute

We the fake people here are still the people on fb and still the very same people on the street. S'o fe gbo? Don't vote anyone because they're young, that's senseless if you ask me. Remember the young man who led the house that time, Dimeji Bankole? Remember Yaya Bello of Kogi? Won fumble las las ni. Youthfulness or vibrancy is not enough reason to cast a vote for anyone. Be wise.

Corridon:
Abike the jan.jaweed ethnic bigot fraternizing with a well known drug lord Tinubu hoping she will be compensated if he mistakenly wins but both will be disappointed at last.

You can't say for sure. You're not God.

It was #23,000 back then in 2007. I removed transport fare and gave my mum the remaining. I don't need money for anything then. Sometimes I don't touch my salary till another one will meet it there. Good ol' days. My dad, my big sis and my bf, turned hubby made sure I lacked nothing then. Just wanted to work for working sake.

Ballama:
And you are not a bank owner that's why i think there is no difference between what you are saying and trash But if you own even a piggy bank that is when you will understand what is mean for someone to save money with you.

Did you by any chance fall off a moving vehicle, and hit your head?

What you have typed here has no correlation with what we're saying. Don't tell me you are that daft!

I sing. Used to do background vocals for people, perform at events, but time doesn't permit me anymore.

I write too. I do anything that has to do with writing at work. Letters, minutes, reports, memos. I enjoy it.

Now, this is a bit spiritual. Whenever I dream and I remember the dream, it will come to pass.
Also, there are things I see before they happen but I don't like this so I seriously prayed against it. It stopped but not completely.

I have fashion designing talents even as I never learned anywhere.

Truvelisback:
Good day, fellas. Have u ever watch a movie that made u Shed tears profusely? I just watched a particular American movie that made tears drip down my eyes profusely. I couldn't hold back the tears. It's abt a guy whose only son and child had heart failure and needed a heart transplant that cost $250,000. The guy sold all that he had to save his only child. Just because the money he managed to raise was not enough, the doctor(s) refused to attend to him. This guy had to do the undo in the hospital just to save his only begotten son.

Yes I have. I'm very very emotional. A few movies have made me cry.

Titanic
Hotel Rwanda
Sarafina
Unforgivable (Nollywood)

udofia234:
I can't resit it until I knack her more than times before I run oh!!

You slept with another man's wife? Is that what you mean?