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i am not unfeeling or insensitive, just how on earth will somebody give birth to 30 children? Especially when you are impoverished. Is that not mindlessness?

Anyway RIP to the dead. Now he has successfully inducted more IDPs into the already overgrown population.

Alexgman1:
In every relationship I find myself, I always try my best to please & satisfy my woman even to my own detriment but it seems no matter what u can never pls a woman. Only few women out there are sincere, loyal & faithful.

My recent & 4th relationship was the most tasking. I fell in love with this girl out of pity & compassion. She was the 1st child of 14 kids. Her mum is late & her dad is based in cameroun with his other 2 wives. I vowed to love & care for her & her sibblings as if they are mine. I sacrificed all i had to make them happy & comfortable.

But the issue is she wanted everynight sex but i couldnt attend to her always. My work was time & energing cosuming so I can't over stress myself. After 1year & a half she left me & went back to her ex. It took me 5 months to get over it.

Recently I called her to come celebrate my birthday with me. I took her to a fast food we eat & drink alot & she even ordered take aways 4 her sibblings. I took excuse to go & do POS & dat was how i left her to pay #24,000 bill.

No! It didn't take you 5 months to get over her. You never did! If you could do this recently, it means you never got over her. She's haunting you in your thoughts and actions! She has been cruel to leave you, you think? We weren't there, we don't know what made her leave but you are not any better than her. What you did is a wicked thing too. Go and ask God to forgive you. Awon elese!

drololaaof:
Jandor no worry now wait until Warri enter your boat,Funke stardom cannot be related with that of Zelenesky, Desmond Elliot. Somebody who cannot manage home to come and manage state!

Infact the timing of the separation was a spanner in the wheel for her political ambition. She didn't think it through at all. If she were a good manager, she could've still held on and get a good hold on the people before showing JjC the door. Personally, I think she's a user

Jandor, Nollywood is speaking, they're just being subtle about it. Their silence means disapproval. Sikena!

Jandor or Jendor or whatever he calls himself is talking like a baby. Nollywood is keeping quiet? Na by force to talk? Theatre is different from reality fa! There is no completely bad person in the world. Even Hitler or Putin had people that will be forever loyal to them because they have been good to them.

As Buhari wowo reach, some people will never speak evil of him no matter what. That's Tinubu's standing with our Nollywood practitioners. Tinubu has been bailing them out since 1807. Who will they pledge their allegiance to? It's only natural nah! I'd do the same too if I were them. Yoruba so pe, gba mi nigba ojo, ki n gba e nigba erun. That's the rule of one good turn.

pocohantas:
Yes you can.

There are some that do not require you to be resident in that country. At best they ask that you have EXCELLENT written and spoken English - NO HEAVY ACCENT. Some would require you to be familiar with American English. So you know it is FAMILIARIZE not SE.

- You would also need uninterrupted power supply.

- A noise cancelling headset with microphone. Make them no hear “ekaro ologi de o” or “condemned iron…aluminium”

- Stable and backup internet connection.

- A quiet and proper workstation because your back go hear am.

- They pay entry level customer service $3/hr to $5/hr and you would work 40hrs a week or more.

- You should also be familiar with CRM and Ticketing tools. Mostly Zendesk and Freshdesk. They are things you can learn in a day on YouTube.

- For your portfolio, create a google slide of bespoke customer service responses to various situations. DELAYED DELIVERY, MISSING ITEM, DAMAGED ITEM, REQUEST FOR REFUND…etc. These are the recurring issues in customer support for e-commerce and majority are e-commerce firms. Close it with your name. Make it look real and sell it as your sample responses while working in similar capacity for another client.

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Apologies for all the epistle without mentioning where these jobs can be gotten from.

-Upwork, Fiverr, LinkedIn.

There are more, but I don’t know them. These ones would link you to foreign clients. The competition is very stiff and they have a preference for freelancers from the Philippines. We would talk about this bias some other day.

If you get one and they like your work ethics, they won’t let you go. That I am sure of.

Well spoken. You can also get those on Glassdoor and Indeed.

lovediehatelive:
So, we had a little quarrel some weeks back, not up to a month and stop talking to each other.


We stay in the same area, but not too close. so seeing her all the time is difficult.


Then last night, i went to an eatery with a shawarma joint and placed my order while waiting.


Lo and behold, i felt someone touch me from the back and it was her! She said I should buy for her too, told her I am short of cash. She now went to my far left still on the counter, and I don't know what she wants to buy.

Still waiting, I looked towards her direction and was shocked! She was murmuring her number to the guy beside her. I felt disrespected. When I got my shawarma, I quietly left without looking at her direction.


Why would she do that? I mean. why would she give her number to a guy in my presence? That is disrespectful. We didn't break up na

She has broken up with you, na you neva break up with her

My hubby is 2 and that's my spec. 1 or 2 is ok for me.

yinkaOdutuyo:
Almost everywhere in the room, kitchen and toilet.

Mind you, I'm not dirty, my room, kitchen and toilet are clean. I sweep my room.

Many times I have used goknight, cockroaches powder and others.

Yet, they'll go and come back after after a little while.

Pls whats the advice comrades

Go and get DD Force. You'll thank me later. Better than sniper. The smell is not as repulsive. You can mix with kerosene if you think it's too concentrated. Dem no born dem well!

I can't remember the last time I saw cockroach in the house. Make the remaining no go expire self.

NextD18:
A lady that got married a virgin cannot cheat.

I said it!

I laugh in Mandarin at your foolhardiness! Says who? O ma se o!

Oh! My God! This is a sad news. Oh God! When you run from one evil only to land in a graver evil! My God! Young men. They haven't even reached their prime! May God comfort their families. A o ni gba letter ofo lori awon omo wa.

Zanzibar1:
6 figures ? Which school? Is there any opening

None for now, sorry.

Scamupdates:
A friend of mine lost his 350k job the very moment he got it because he is lefty . he was told left handed people bring setback to any thing they do. why do we hate left handed people. Lalasticlala Mynd44 Seun - are we not human .

Superstition! Pure ignorance. Arrant nonsense! It's a medical condition that has to do with placement of stuff in one's brain. Something that has to do with the developmental process that differentiates the right and left halves of the body, (hemisphere) otherwise known as right-left asymmetry. Medical practitioners can throw more light on this.

Zanzibar1:
I am a teacher. I work in a school that pays 18k.

It's rough out here but nobody go dash me that 18k

18k for a teacher? Naija!

I'm a teacher too and earn 6 figures.
Upgrade yourself. Learn digital skills you can use to teach. You can have online classes as a side thing. I do other side stuff too cause even the salary ain't enough. God 18k! Some school owners are witches in disguise!

Congratulations Tobi!

When you were saying the national anthem at your award ceremony and crying, I cried along with you. You're the only positive thing I've seen or heard about Nigeria in a while.

I love Nigeria but she's breaking my heart over and over again.

Alapojamesy:
Some parents really needs to work on their children.. Most of them were seeing these signs, but they're too busy to put them in statutory position.. They will just bring their children and dump them in school and japa..
Some have been given prior noticed of their children's derogatory activities or attitudes but they choose to to care..
Well, to train a child includes both the parent and the school. They both have roles to play..

You can compare a teacher and what he sees to Musa at the gate and what he sees too.

I once told a parent that the daughter is a "roughian" I mean the notes and her work generally, only for the mother to say she's not rough in Jesus name. Na me be devil abi?
The thing is some parents don't want to hear the truth about their children. Me I don't know how to sugarcoat. I try to be as professional as I can be, but I'll tell you the truth. I don't know how to play dilly-dally with a child's life.

In the case above, what the teacher wrote is unethical, especially on a record that's gonna stand forever. She should have facilitated a meeting with the parents instead.

Arkmanbuddy:
You see what I'm saying? You don't even understand what a church is. The church is the people that meet to worship God, not the building. God has no business with the building but the hearts of the people.

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If your pastor has all these things to make life easy for the people that gather at the place, he should be able to take care of them. Anyone who has the means to help out can do so without being coerced or forced to do it.

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The only concern of God is the people, not the church buses, or community service. Once the holy spirit takes over, everyone will see it as their duty to do these things. The pastor will call for it and everyone will turn up for it because their spirits align with it.

Nobody forces anybody to pay any dues, fees or levies in the church. It's always voluntary. Dunno where the idea of coercion comes from. That's number one.

Two, Yes, the concern of God is the people. Plus the people in the community too who might be persuaded by the community projects the church has engaged in. My church organises holiday coaching for the neighbourhood kids. I'm one of the volunteer teachers. Last summer, we had about 200 school children coming for coaching everyday, 80% of them moslems. Some of the teachers are not church members, we paid them. We also feed the children everyday plus stationeries. Volunteer people from the church contributed willingly to this course not by coercion. We do health care services periodically and people in the neighborhood are given free treatment-drugs, tests, injections etc. I know some people who are our church members today because of these projects.

Lastly, you said a church is not the building but the people. Now these people coming together to meet, where do they stand or sit to meet? On the road, in the air or on water? Answer truthfully and show me how a church is the people and not a building!

My favourite is Ecclesiastes 9:11

I returned, and saw under the sun, that the race is not to the swift, not the battle to the strong, neither yet bread to the wise, nor yet riches to men of understanding, not yet favour to men of skill; but time and chance happeneth to them all.


This means your pace, strength, wisdom, skill do not necessarily translate to anything tangible. The fact that you are educated doesn't automatically means you'd lead a successful life. Rather, things are decided by chance, being at the right place at the right time. We need the leading of the holy spirit to be at the right place at the right time.
Thank you.

Arkmanbuddy:
Ogbeni, shut your stupid self up! Is the church a cooperative that needs weekly/monthly contributions? Giving shouldn't be forced on anybody, it is at their free will.

Why should the choristers and instrumentalists be paid? Any church with paid choir is a fake church!

Your thinking dates back to several years back back back.

A church, believe it or not, needs funds to run smoothly. There are staff members to be paid - security, cleaners, secretary, admin staff, etc. Bills to be paid - electricity, diesel for gen, data, fuel for vehicles, repairs and maintenance etc. All of these do not run on water. Some churches even engage in special projects - evangelism, community works etc. Running of a church isn't yam and beans okay?

Then as for instrumentalists getting paid, it depends. If your church has members that can use the guitar well, play drums, gangan, keyboard and sax you're fine but churches with no members who can do this have to hire musicians to do them. Now the musicians who are hired will collect money because that is their own daily occupation that they earn a living from. Na you teach them how to play? Some of them invested in schools and materials to learn all the stuff.

In my church, we have about 6 instrumentalists. My husband is the only one among them that does it for free. He can handle all the other instruments apart from his guitar, but he can only do one at a time.
Apart from that, it's a matter of personal conviction if you wanna do it for free or not. Choristers don't get paid but we have benefits or privileges that we enjoy so please stop thinking like an ancient man biko.

I'm greedy. Wanna choose two things.
Number 4&8, So help me God!

Offpoint1:
Unfortunately I've been discharged like 56 times from there, I'm no longer qualify for admission, I've exceeded an average limit for a single human... I'm hoping on God's healings.

Of a truth, you need deliverance.


I bite my nails. Tried stopping but keep returning.

Fairview1:
Bravo, you have my respect for this single act. I cherish ladies who are highly determined to live by their values. What 8s yours will come your way. But keep the secret with you.

Thank you.

Channah1:
Nope. This is the palm oil version.

One thing is missing, Iru.

I cook this meal a lot. If anyone is from my side of Kogi State, this wouldn't be new to them. We call it Iresi A'borode'fe

StonedLex:
Intelligent people rarely show off lol

Yeah! I remember my job hunting days. I was part of a two-week training, a prerequisite for joining the insurance firm. The training was tough and challenging. At the end we would write an exam to determine who gets picked. During the training, you'd see a lot of foolish or unnecessary questions asked by youths who wanted to show off, some would even make more stupid assertions like that. Me, wetin concern me? I no dey ask questions and I no dey ever contribute or suggest anything.

After writing the exams, the coordinator who also doubled as our trainer called me to his office the next day. He asked me, "How did you manage to come tops of the class when you never said a word since you all came here?" He said he thought I never understood anything that was going on since I was a laid-back kind of. I smiled. This one doesn't know me. All through my school life, I was like that.

I never did pick up the job eventually despite being number one in the training. The man wanted sex in exchange for a slot, with a promise to facilitate my rise in the company by handing me ready-made clients. I refused.