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athenswonders:
First, I've to apologise for taking this long to drop this final concluding story as against my promised time of 9pm.... I had to pay keen respect to camp nou, Barcelona game that was airing life and just finished now against real valladolid. You know camp nou i can never forget camp nou in a hurry.

Back to the story..

I slept like a warrior that night, i had puzzled my way to victory and had gotten my revenge. This point I didn't care to know about Gbenga were about. I left him in TJ house digging peggie... That dude was having the time of his life so i had to let him. The next morning i got info that peggie left very early but requested she needed to see me before leaving, gbenga claimed he tried my number but it was all switched off and didn't wanted to bring her home without my consent. She had left and TJ didn't even come home that night to see her. She left alone with gbenga seeing her off to the park. Later that evening, i called TJ on phone and requested we meet in a bar and have a drink together. I also told gbenga i wanted him to be there, he agreed and we met in a bar 7pm... we drank, laughed and joked about what happened, i told him about gbenga and how he slyed me from being my camera man and he went leaving straight into action leaving me the only camera man... We laughed, but then I was curious to ask TJ about that accounting babe that came and how he pulled that arrangement with that babe without any issues. he said, it wasn't hard to talk her into it cos they have done that before with her friends and that she personally has flair for 3some... I was tempted to tell TJ to organize another with her and get ,e involved but then I had to stop myself knowing I was gonna tell him about my relationship with his sister soon. We talked, laughed and i paused looking to TJ and told him, there's something I needed to tell him, he was reluctant and was like "oga what again: i started by telling him that I didn't know he had a sister, he was just calm and trynna to say opportunity didn't present himself to introduce her to us, make i no vex. then I told him directly to his face that I was in a relationship with his sister and that she doesn't know I know him, but she wants me to meet you, so I want us to settle our scores..... TJ was furious, warned me that whatever child's play i had with his sister should better cease, that I'm a looser and a simp. I told him, what I have for her is real.... he just got pissed immediately and walked off... he called me a looser, there was he underating me again, i didn't tell him of the ceaseless times I banged his sister (of course that wasn't necessary as that will only add flame while trusting to prove as point)... Immediately i dashed out and told gbenga that my plan has ticked. gbenga was clueless, but kept telling me that I shouldn't have told TJ.. These while Anita and myself were communicating regularly via calls, but we talk most times towards evening. when she calls during rhen day, i yank her off and tell her to call evenings.... she was gonna come back, but this time she called me with a disturbed tune and asked me on phone what my relationship with her brother was... Didn't understand how I could answer that, i needed to know the source to that question and why she was asking... she ended the call, she texted and called me a bastard. I was clueless to what was happening but i knew TJ was up to something, but i remained calm and never called her back to apologise or ask what was wrong when she easy calm she called, but i snubbed the calls and texted her that i needed her here to demand an explanation to why she called me a bastard and warned her not to call me again. I turned the table against her.. she didn't call me for 3 days until surprisedly she travelled down and met me, she explained her brother told her he knows me very well and that he heard from again reliable source that I placed a bet that I was gonna bed her and that he doesn't want to see us together. Guys for once I was mad. Didn't know TJ was again crafty liar, it was then I called gbenga to my presence and hers and told him to say what happened last night when we went for a drink... I deliberately tool gbenga as ad witness cause i felt the need will come for this and surprisedly to gbenga i had recorded to my conversation with TJ when I told him I wanted us to settle our scores cos I really liked his sister... immediately i could see from her eyes that she was melted emotionally. I had plan all this out cause i knew knew a recording could suffice to vindicate me when TJ tries to paint me evil. She then asked me, what scores are you having with my brother to settle. I then told her it doesn't matter anymore and asked her out of my apartment. She was all trying to beg for misunderstanding the situation, i locked my door and left she and gbenga outside.

Anita called leaving me so many missed calls and then she sent text messages begging that she doesn't want anything to come between us, not even her brother and begged to see me. Then I told her to come over, she came begging crying with her eyes soar (guys i felt like a king) she begged to know the dispute between myself and her brother. I told her let's just say i had had a past bad life and your brother thinks that will rob off on you... but he doesn't know I'm changed.... I didn't giver her the full gist. She then proceeded and called her brother in my presence to stay off our relationship... I was speechless, tapped her head against my chest, told her she looked pretty when she cried or worry.... she laughed and spanked me... then I whispered to her ears, daddy wants his toy now. we bleeped and it was happy bleeping after.

It's been over 6 years since I graduated from school and served, i still keep in touch with TJ, he's in Germany now, has two kids yet unmarried as a babydaddy. I frequent naija sometimes to see my 3 year old son too... I'm not married too.... Anita is set to marry a naval officer, she asked for for my permission to proceed, i told her it's time to let go (after a send forth bleep tho) she cried and suggested that we can have my son as both parents and start a family but starting a family is far from what I need now plus my son as to see me ass responsible.....

About peggie, she's married but expectant of the fruit of the womb!

I'm sure karma has given each of us ass big blow but that's not the foundation i want to lay for my son......

Ohh!! did i mention gbenga, he works with EFCC, doing great, married and his wife is heavily pregnant as i type this now....

Thank you guys.....

Godiswithmee:
Good day nairalanders,

Someone close to me is in a state of dilemma and needs advise.

He has been a contract staff in one of the leading commercial banks in Nigeria and was recently converted into a full staff. The issue now is he has been deployed from South West to extreme North (Maiduguri). He has tried every means to get redeployed but all efforts proved abortive.

Considering the fasting rise of unemployment in the country, he feels it's unwise to reject the offer. Still, he's in a state of dilemma.

Should he take the job offer, even though national security is at the lowest there?

Please advise.

Please feel free to reach out if you have any contact that can help, I'll be in the comment section.

Dear Mods, please kindly push to the front page.

PERVENCHE:
*NOTE
With all due respect, I have changed names and some too familiar details about myself out of respect for my wife to be. I know she likes to catch cruise on nairaland.

My name is Friday (of course not my real name) I am from the middle-belt. So please save your tribalism with all those una Igbo, Yoruba and Hausa insults. I met Grace(my wife to be) few years ago. It was love at 1st sight. She was everything and is still everything I had hoped a woman should be. There is this crass about her that makes her effortlessly better than any lady around her. My type in the true sense of the word. Tall, busty, curvy, sassy, elegant, personable and above all, she has a graceful soul. From the 1st date to this day, I still pinch my self like.. What in God's green earth is a beauty like her doing with a shrek like me.

But then, true perfection is always a utopia. Grace in all her graceful demeanour and aura, has a flaw; Indecision! More so, blind trust seems to be her albatross. (I swear she can even take Lai Muhammad's word to the bank) Though, I still love her; flaws and all. Her complete or should I say blind trust for me and Abigail became one of the reasons Abigail(her younger sister) has become an unending chapter in our relationship. Even though the blame of what happened squarely falls on me.

Abigail just shy off 20, is too savvy for her age. Not the outright outstanding beauty like my Grace. What ever little she lacks in beauty, she more than makes up for it in her mentality. For she is truly a smart and an intelligent girl. Just five years younger than Grace. One who expect them at least to be close and be like Asaba and Onisha but then...they are the direct opposite of each other. While Grace is the introverted shy person, Abigail is quite the extrovert and likes to make friends for Africa. It is only fair to believe their formative time in secondary school played a part in their output towards life. Grace likes to conform like most day school students. Abigail on the other hand, is the boarding school nightmare all parents hope not to experience: the deviant.

Through the 1st years we dated, Abigail was in secondary school and was never in the picture. For some odd or strange reason, Grace was not ready to fully commit. Not that I blame her or something. At 23, Most girls her age are like Alice in wonderland; they crush on celebrities and Chase childhood dreams and fantasies. The vile ones, if truth be told...tend to live out their hoė phase. At 28, I was already grounded to know what I wanted and it was Grace and marriage. Sometimes, you do all you can do but then life has a way of throwing in a curveball. More over, "No be say because I wan chop egg I go begin dey worship chicken." Sensing her shakara, I pulled the hand brakes on us and walked out of the relationship.

***2 years later***
Fortunately or unfortunately after letting go, Grace became incensed and started to want me back. I hardly do any social media at this point. Pride won't let her call me, so there was no way to send coded messages on whatsapp status to me. Being the introvert that she is and the all trusting graceful Grace, she started to send Abigil over to my place to bridge the gap. In just over two years, Abigail had changed and developed into a sexy hippie bohemian. Not that I fancy her in any erotic way or something. It's just that in our contemporary naija society where mostly everyone conforms, it is hard not to notice a bohemian.

Knowing I would do no better than Grace even with a million dollars and in a hundred years of searching, I mended fences with Grace and our relationship became stronger than ever. Over time, Abigail became a bridge between us. At first, Grace would send her over to run errands for her. After a while, it became a second nature for her to come over and fidget with my electronics. Courtesy demands you be nice to your in-laws to be and so I was nice to Abigail.

Abigail's posturing over time made it difficult for me to say no to her especially during them Nengi and Laycon days in the house. She was a fan of big brother lockdown. And would always ask for my keys to watch the silly show for she was equally as silly to be gushing over that vanity fair. Grace seems not have any issues with her coming over and I also did not for I was hardly home and God knows the sub was kinda wasting away.

There are some things in life that are not planned. They just happen! My boss at work then tested positive for Covid and we were all asked to quarantine at home. Grace still had to go to work while Abigail was always free because of the ASSU strike. Suddenly, I started to be alone with Abigail. She would come over "for big brother" around 9am and leave around 7pm in time to beat her curfew at home. It was awkward staying all day with Abigail. Grace too predictable, only comes over on Sunday. For some strange reasons, on Sundays, Abigail will never show up.

There were times, and I am sure it could just be my imagination, that she enjoyed teasing me. She would come dressed like a sister Mary Amaka from home but after a while, she would take her bath and transform into a Kardashian. Wearing skimpy cloths and heavy make-up. I tried to give her her space. I was in quarantine and therefore, had practically no where to go. I am basically the type that don't flock with co-workers and I hardly keep any friends except for Grace. I am not one to be neighbourly with my neighbours so I was stuck with Abigail all day. Humans are social animals and we tend to gravitate towards each other especially when we are alone with someone. Gradually, she won me over and I started to watch the big brother show with her. While she was rooting for Nengi after her Erica left, I was simply for Neo for he had my height. And the bond between us grew. God knows I had no vile motives and evil intentions. It is hard not to enjoy Abigail's company for she is a smart, gleeful and witty girl. While I do all the talking with Grace, Abigail on the other hand does all the talking with me and it was a welcome change.

*** D Day ***
It became obvious Abigail was not telling the truth at home. She would pick their calls and tell them she was in her female friend's house. And in the spirit of our new found big brother bond. We kept the secret. On this faithful day, it had rained all day and Nepa had struck and the plug in my generator was no good. The rain had brought with it a cool breeze and some magical thunder. Seemingly, we could not watch our show so I took a blanket because of the cold and buried my attention on my PC (laptop) re-watching season 5 of the game of thrones.

Naively, Abigail joined me and entered the blanket with me. I use the word 'naive' because I honestly do not want to qualify her as a minx. And I know she does not see me as a Justine Bieber of a crystal ball for her to be drooling at. While in that warm blanket watching the movies in such compromising position, One thing led to another and alot of that one thing opened up her Pandora's box and I... I ate the most forbidden fruit there ever was. There is no telling how wonderful making love to her was at the heat of the moment and there's no shame in the world that equates to the shame that immediately dwell and still dwells in my soul shortly after even to this day. There's a lot to blame our mistake and betrayal on. Could it just be the moment? the weather? the chemistry? the devil? (laughs) my opportunistic habit? Her feminine warmth in such close proximity? my placing a hand on her thigh and meeting no resistance? My foggy mind and grown erection? Her racing and panting heart? Her feisty zeal and deviant nature? My libido? Hers? My morals? Buhari? Herdsmen? IPOB? Sunday Igbahor? Dstv and big brother? NEPA? Game of thrones? Was she after all really a minx? In all fairness, she is just a little naive girl that does not deserve to be pilloried for my betrayal. As the adult, I should have known better and acted a lot better.

Climbing down from our lustful climax, we both knew immediately what we had done, the gravity and the implications it could have on not just us, but grace and the whole family. In the most contrite way possible, we apologized to ourselves and vowed never to repeat it again. We felt it would be better not to tell Grace or anyone and we agreed Abigail would stop coming over. I started to avoid Abigail at all cost. I did not just release cum after my despicable act with Abigail, I released every thing good in me and every form of happiness. I felt much less of a man and wished I had died as a child or better still was aborted.

I hardly could face Grace after. The more I try to ghost her, the more she held on tightly. It became awkward visiting their family house for I was not comfortable around them trusting and accepting me. Not for the fear that they would find out...just my conscience eating me up. I stayed away and made peace with my gross mistake. For over six to seven months. I did my penance and nothing happened with Abigail. I know I am in a better place now to make sane decisions about cheating. To give something back to Grace, I have vowed never to sleep with anyone till die. We know how cheating amongst married men is common these days. I no call Adekule Gold name oh!

Me and Grace are set to marry on the 17th of this April. The thing is...Abigail is her chief bridesmaid and preparation demands I see her most times. She still has a look in her eyes...dunno what to make of it. A look of blackmail? Of you could still hit it if you want? We have unfinished business kinda look? You should be paying a bride price for two look? I die inside every time I see Grace happy she again got us back to talking terms because of the wedding. Ignorance is truly bliss.

I have doubts going through with this wedding. Folks may laugh and say I chickened out because of the inflation and money, others might blame Grace. It may ruin Grace for ever. How do I do this knowing Abigail will always be family?

Modphase:
This fool wasted his miserable life chasing after Tinubu.

IgweOfNnewi:
Emeka Okonkwo no get police orderly

BigDawsNet:
You studied for 3 months for just a course and you have to write a hour exam about it...that doesn't sound like a difficult thing to achieve success...

OBALOLA55:
MTN IN PARTICULAR SHOULD LEAVE NIGERIA, THEIR FRAUDULENT ACTIVITIES ON OUR SIM CARDS IS NO LONGER FUNNY

etokhana:
https://twitter.com/officialEFCC/status/1377655389911707648?s=19[/quote]This is dehumanization. You arrested someone, you havs made him a public spectacle b4 he gets to court.

JidennaJason:
The one hovering over Orlu in Imo State some months ago never got missing, infact, it was used very well to carry out their "Cleansing" plans.... But this one drafted to the North East miraculously disappeared.



Nigeria is just a movie with so many episodes, and I wish to title this one; "The Missing Fighter Plane"

Now Playing; 2Face "E be like say"

habsydiamond:
Wearing camera will not stop anything at all... If pesin won steal no be to cover camera and when he is done will open it back... The only thing that can stop all this is God intervention on our souls. Without that the world is lost already.

Panacea278:
By the time you start turning to an evening newspaper nobody will tell u the importance of a friendly countenance

FroshJaynex:
I love this topic because just yesterday I was thinking about the same thing, I got to Botswana and in just 6month am worth more than $54,000 at least for a very broke boy from the street of Lagos, hustle to hustle carry me enter, I beg my fellow Nigerians to leave and try move into these coded countries, that's what I call them and see how big Nigerians are living and enjoying life on a low key, Many of them calculate in dollars. One yahoo boy #5m hit is my own bills in a month outside, u see say things are not the same at all.

Viknat:
Na Yoruba woman davido go marry lass lass. I just dey watch as people dey hail am and chioma dey laff una. I know say she, like d others , go end up as baby mama. You see as davido and adeleke empire dey so? Them go want their true or first male heir to be directly from their blood line... Yoruba bloodline. They can't allow their first heir to be from outside their tribe now. That notwithstanding, davido go give love to all his kids Wella anyways. But his son with chioma or the other babe, I don't know her name, will and can't be his heir. If davido mum still dey alive, chioma for no even dey fortunate to be in his life at all. Chioma knows this . That's not to say I support tribalism though, but I may be very close to the truth.

Oluolad86:
Our leaders need our prayers, God should flush out all the bad eggs among them.

Say a word of prayers to me too that God the perfect healer should heal me wholeheartedly, thanks

simpleswazy:
Can I accommodate them both ? Have been thinking about it ? I go to work and come back late at night. My friend been worried about keeping her at her uncle place and hotel he can’t afford paying for weeks . What can I do

mamagee3:
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budaatum:
Sounds like sour grapes to me. Someone is doing better than you by their wit and you are wailing instead of doing well yourself.

Hopefully, you'd consider doing well yourself instead of being jealous of someone else doing well.

drake99:
I met this girl few weeks ago through a friend, we became friends, I wanted it sexually but she kept telling me that she has something about her that scares uninformed men away

she said her vagina looks different, I told her that I've seen such before, we laughed over it, she visited me today, as things were going on via pre-intimacy, I undressed her and saw a penis kinda thing below, the clitoris is longer than a normal clit I've been seeing, out of fear my erection was lost, she felt bad but I cant help it

I've not seen such thing before, anyone with such experience?

Guyman93:
I will make this so short but trust me fear girls
Women hate each others ooo

E get this girl I dey toast for over a year now she met everything basic stuff I want in a wife , but she keep saying I look like someone who is not serious , now the distraction is coming from a friend of hers


Unfortunately this friend of her connect me via side way and we started talking from there we became friends and we had sex like steady now

Few days ago I bumped into this girl I want to marry and small discussion she told me how her friend , advised her that people who behave like I do are always womanizer and as her best friend she never gave her wrong advise and she still wants me but she just afraid


I wanted to tell her that me and her friend we are already dating but I said make I just park and allow her discover things by herself


She will be shocked the day she will find out
Am not going to drop my girlfriend her friend coz of betraying her

Most time people u might be seeking advise on stuff might be envy of you be careful who u collect advise from

Beside this her friend my girlfriend now I dry fear her based on say she is a big girl but I didn't know she dey die for me

owobokiri:
Read carefully:

1)Chad and her blood gulping president know everything about Boko Haram.
This man has been fighting and killing since the 70s. Fought with Nigeria, fought with Libya, sent rebels into the heart of Khartoum some years back.. Idris was born to war...

2)The French and the Americans have some troops stationed in Chad!
Americans have a base in Niger with new facilities for drones!
Under Jonathan, the Nigerian government allowed the Americans to fly their drones across the north east airspace to "gather intelligence" on Boko! Very naive if you ask me, .. Someone might be telling Boko Haram about troops movements!

3)Boko seldoms disturbs Chad!
The Chadian president used to be the army chief in the 80s under Hussien Habre before turning against him. He was the army head when Nigeria fought a very swift but brutal war with Chad over her incursions into Nigeria! Buhari was commanding Nigerian troops then..

4)Locals in north eastern villages have CONSISTENTLY complained of helicopters dropping supplies to Boko Haram fighters in the bush!
According to them, the pilots are mostly whites!
One such helicopter crashed and actually a white was caught, dollars too! Leaks revealed Turkeys involvement. Countries loyal to America refused to sell weapons to Nigeria under Jonathan following Americas instructions..

5) IMPORTANT:
The French are increasingly worried about Nigerias "growth", especially under Jonathan and are thinking that a strong regional super power in west africa will undermine her amazingly lucrative imperialist ventures here! They're thinking of the future here and might be toying with the idea of balkanizing Nigeria..
Idris Derby is a stooge of the French, just like Eyadema, Biya, Bongo, Nguesso, Quattara, and most presidents of French speaking African countries..

6) IMPORTANT AGAIN:
Actually, Nigeria is now totally encircled by western forces, but because we have been very unfortunate with a series of dumb governments, this issue is seldom discussed.
There are French military bases in Cameroon, Niger, Chad and Benin Republic, together with the AFRICOM base in Niger.. All our neighbors! Pretending they're fighting isis, while Boko Haram grows..

Reach your own conclusions but mine is simple:
Boko Haram is a typical western "state destabilizing project" unleashed to subvert the abilities of a growing economy to challenge the neo-colonial status quo! Such projects are not new. Remember the Ortegas in South America? They were fighting insurgents like this, just that it's easier to achieve the goals here with religious zealots.. Shekau doesn't even know he's a stooge. Not sure he knows where his weapons are coming from..But the presidents of Niger, Chad and all these French West African colonies are aware.
What's more? Most of them are getting some crude oil stolen from Nigeria and so, do find the project relatively rewarding! They can't object anyways, if they do, there will be a coup the next week...

legba1:
Na me dem catch back then...... back then in the days of U.I, I got introduced to this babe from UNILAG, funke. I was in a serious relationship [my present wife] who schools in UNAAD. That weekend, FUNKE had agreed to come, I sent T-fare, by 2pm she landed on friday, I received her and took her home.{was living in a selfcon, white house agbowo} left her at home as I have to return to school, she started cooking. not long after, babe from ADO came in unannounced. met Funke, she was cool as always, she bounded with Funke and gave her a picture of our relationship, took over the kitchen from her and completed the cooking. After their meal, Funke had to leave, All this while I was on campus,oblivious of what was going on.

Funke called me to meet her at TANTERLIZERS, agbowo, was surprised but hurriedly joined her there. she then narrated all that transpire at home,i was surprised. she told me she cant stand destroying the relationship I have with that gurl at home. {my babe even called my mumsy to greet her to prove to Funke everyone in my famz knows and accepted her already.

Most painful part was, Funke no get anybody for IB other than a guy whose been on her case for long. she had to call the guy to pass the night and she eventually spend the weekend at the guy crib, imagine that and she later told me she " had a swell time". my babe no even mention the matter and I never show surprise she came over....it was later after our marriage we make gest over the matter. but I was pained I couldn't explore a new ground that weekend

PrimadonnaO:
Don't listen to people telling you she's sleeping with her boss or anything.

I don't know what her workplace is like, but it's really improper to show up at a person's workplace without notice. You're not her husband everyone knows, or the fiancé or something.
You'll make her look unserious... as though she's randomly entertaining men while at work.

Whatever you had to tell her could've waited.. or at least let her know you were coming.

MrJavaS:
Guys hear my matter patiently

I was very close to a course mate of mine since 100 level (we are now in 400 level). I used to be interested in her romantically but she wasn't reciprocating so I gave up. She said herself that she considers me as just a friend. Then one day she posted the picture of her friend (in a different department). I saw the picture and said the girl is beautiful. She then said that if I like the girl she can give me her contact.

I said it's a bit inappropriate but she still gave me the contact (but said I shouldn't mention her name). I went ahead to chat the girl up but she ended up blocking me on WhatsApp.

I went ahead and further tried to convince the girl that I'm not a threat to her on telegram. That I'm a close acquaintance of a friend of hers. She went on ranting that her friend shouldn't have given me her contact without her consent. I told her to please not be angry with her friend.

Later I explained all that happened to my coursemate (who gave me her contact) and since that time she has been cold towards me.
I told her I'm very sorry for my actions but she insisted it's time we part ways.

What should I do?

Please don't mention that I should focus on my books. I'm very serious academically and I've maintained a high CGPA for 4 years. But still life is not all about academics.

Brimstone77:
I can't waste my time reading such long epistle that will add little or nothing to my life.....but in other note I wonder why group of people that were shouting sai baba!!just Last year will be shouting marginalization this year,to an extent that they want to break out,this same people shouting marginalization occupies the position of the number 2 citizen of nigeria and the number 4 position as well,as of last year this same people were ready to stone you to death if you try to talk about nigerian break up...so what suddenly happened? Why clamouring for secesion now??

dellyjoe10:
all won