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I aint scared of your muthafcukers, I'm gonna tell you straight of the muthafcuking press, I aint coming for no foolishess. Goddamnit you women look good, you're like the pick of the day sandwich you look good, and I love sex, I love it, and can't do shit no more and I'm blessed, I'm big boned, I'm heavy structured, i'm hung low. If I pull my shit out this whole room get dark, kick it, (Music plays).

You don't understand! I ain't scared of you muthafcukers,

That sums it up for me, R.I.P very sad yesterday.

Oh lord, here we go again, Who mentioned sex now?? I swear some people are totally clueless. It has to be the man's fault abi?

Another deluded creature who thinks women are always the victims.

I guess you won 25K. I can somewhat deal with her having a past but my Dad, No way jose.

Come on Onyinye, what's with the ego thing?, 20 times you've mentioned this today, sheesh!

What mental torture do we go through everyday?

Well Ujujoan, for those of us that live in the west, we have to do everything ourselves. The guidelines might work for those in Africa or people who are fulltime housewives but here it has a higher percentage of not working.

We have been conditioned to think otherwise. Good or bad, I don't know but I cannot sit back and watch my partner do all the chores and I put my feet up.

I don't know about being one of a kind but this is reality. Most of my friends are like this (and they all Nigerians married to Nigerians).

It's really not a big deal. But then maybe we are one of a kind,

Me I don't need all of these things I beg. This obviously applied when the wife used to stay at home and look after the home and kids and the men went to work.

Hey Sistawoman, we know it is a gag gift and that's Ok

This is 2008 I beg and we are both working. So far the wife and I get on great, she has nothing to be afraid of. We can cook together, I drop the kids in the morning in school and she picks them up. Who notices if the house is spotless? So for it's not messy and we can spring clean over the weekend perhaps even naked  

We can do the cooking for the week on Saturday morning/afternoon

Maybe we should have a Maury Povich in Nigeria so we can also use the catch word "you are not the father"

€1.38 a litre here.

I laugh when you guys in the US complain about "Gas" prices. I would to pay 3.71 a gallon. But then it's relative. Gas has always been cheap in the US.

Actually let's have the show in Nigeria and we'll be surprised at the percentage of men and women that cheat,

Like your fellow sisters don't cheat as well "rolls eyes"

If I wasn't talking from experience you would have thought I was making it up, puhlease!

topup:
[color=#CC0066]I think that the above is a great summary for a short relationship, that wasn't expected to last but has. If anybody approaches a serious relationship, looking for 'da now thing' it probably isn't going to work. That's what happened to me.

You see, in a long relationship, the man has probably gotten used to you being a part of his life, that he keeps going on with it, and if he finds noone else at the time that he could see himself with, then you temporarily are the best he thinks he can get - 'til she turns up. Familiarity for some ties them to the relationship, instead of love. Another thing to consider is whether the relationship is only just routine, you're both so used to it that there's no fun in it. I personally think, that thinking about how long a couple have been going out, isn't helpful, because at times more emphasis is placed on the number of years rather than how strong/genuine the love you have between each other. Guys are more patient than we give them credit for, I think their minds work faster than we think, though men often say women are too quick as in 'we're thinking about marriage, 2 months into the relationship' but the thing is men are a lot more faster, they went through the wedding phase, when they were professing their everlasting love for you. But are now in the divorce stage, when the spark has gone, and because we're only still in the 'everything's going great phase' we fail to notice this. The more serious relationships a guy has, I think increases the time he can endure in relationships and increases his patience, that's if the girl ticks his boxes for a potential wife.[/color]

Topup, this is one of the best posts I have read from you (given what you're going through). Both sexes stay because the other person is familiar. Both sexes also leave when they feel they have had enough. This is not a guy thing, like some of our sisters will have us believe. (he's got what he wants or given the best years of her life) It depends on who can exist endure the most. Some people are content to cheat, whilst some will leave. Some will exist and be happy with it because they are getting laid regularly and no one else will look at them twice. What I would fault is why did he stay that long??

What works for one couple will not work for the other couples. Some will say the grass is definitely not greener. It's not black or white

Perhaps if you change the title of the thread, I wouldn't come in thinking here we go again,

Miss Deepzonehotfunmi aka OsunAmazon,

Love has nothing to do being insecure. The "love" obsession you claim to have for the person will push him away if he feels he is always getting checked on.

I better not catch the woman. You're not protecting no interest, you're just being a pain in the ass.

Women's intuition. I keep hearing this. if this is so true, why do they keep choosing the wrong partners? If they are highly intuitive, they should choose right the first time around and not have to snoop.

tope2000:
how can u expect a 29yrs old woman to still be unmarried with no kids

This is perhaps the dummest post i have seen in a while,

This is a red flag right there. I catch her snooping, she's gone, except of course she's the wife then we have to have serious discussion. That is major insecurity issues here and I have no desire to always reassure an insecure person.

I don't snoop through her stuff, why should she snoop through mine?

The guy is a "jewman"

Who is this lady called iice? No mago mago here, not tripping for you like but just constant amazed at your maturity and psyche.

Props,

Of course, but not too many kids though. One child would be ideal.

This is on the premise that the one with just one partner (low mileage) will be a perfect match, I roll my eyes (no emoticon to express that on here).

So when you meet a virgin you're not compatible with, you will stay with her because no one has been there before. And you wonder why people are unfaithful after they get married.

This is not to say that some men or women who are happy can and will not be unfaithful

But if you are together only because she is pure and you have nothing in common, you will be another statistic!

Maybe the guy knows he'll get an ear full when he tells her the "truth" so he'd rather save himself the aggro and disappear. Only he knows why he's doing that.

But then maybe he's playing away. Like others said, just make sure you have your evidence before jumping to conclusions

I would rather she was physical and it was a one of thing than being emotional. You have body beside you but emotions and her being is with someone else. In that case you have nothing,

Because she will have sex with you (if she gets round to it) and you will know she is doing you a favour by being there physically. Alternatively she shuts it off. I know what I prefer!

onyinye2:
Not intentionally but watever. im just saying that it is hard as a lady to up to some rather guy and spit game on him like yal do to women.

Perhaps you can feel what the menfolk have been going through since time began. It doesn't help that some ladies see this as an avenue to insult the men that had the guts to approach them. Obviously these are the men they don't like.

If no man approached, imagine what would be 

For a select few, this is fun, (the chase, no big deal) but for the average joeschmo, this is a lot of work. Let the average joeschmo tell you how many times he's been rejected by females and you'll be very surprised. But he has to keep on because if he deosn't he will never get a girlfriend if someone like yourself will never see the need to go for what she likes. (No offence intended by the last statement.)

Hahahahahaha Oyo Ko, Ijesha gba.

@poster, people have a preference for what they like. Some ladies turn out good all made up and some look excellent all natural. While some ladies might not know what looks good on them, i bet you some man will be going all gaga for them.

Everyone has one and it's called preference.