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I read the post well and I understood what you meant by it.

nedra:
when i was in school, i used this method to bang one girl wey dey claim say she no dey even cough, so therfore, e dey work well well. Guys/girls, i recommend this style for u guys to use on any body wey your blood dey hot for,

Isn't this sexual abuse/molestation or at worst rape? Is this something to be proud of?

nonso3k:
you don't want to tell me that you can trust lady like that?

Well, if that is the case, I guess a lady cannot trust a guy like you who will push for sex on the first date cause you might try that with every woman you meet

This is the typical male mindset.

I personally think it's silly. How about the guy that sleeps with a woman on the first date? I don't understand how a woman's thing is always closed and a man's always open. Please explain.

Agree with Izeek and Sistawoman. Anybody will do what they were predisposed to do anyway. Alcohol just gives us the guts (for those that weren't brave enough anyways)

How does one use the Personal Message function? I have looked through the help pages but no joy. Can someone help?

Not a prophet of doom but it's not going to happen. With the level of stealing going on? who ever believes that must have his/her head examined.

The weeping minister weeped last year but nothing has happened so far

Sadly Mr Albridge, your test prove nothing,

A smooth guy will do all of this and he just wants to sleep with you (I mean her)  . If a lady bases her relationships on these tests, she will be very disappointed.

Ninu Ikoko dudu ni eko funfun ti n jade

Iso inu eku amu mora ni

Bami naa omo mi, ko de inu olomo

Agba kin wa loja kori omo tuntun wo,

Hey Viperman, my friend is coming back to Lagos for good on Wed/Thu. I want to give him your number regarding the Range Rover Vogue 2007 that we spoke about.

Thanks

Of course girls self-service, Come on now!

I'm sure you can do that when it's warm too. Just open the windows and you bite the pillow if the moans get a bit loud

I would definitely fly Arik Air even though I don't like the way the airline came about (Odili and Obj) rumours. Arumemi-Johnson is just a front.

I believe they will go places though and they will get my patronage. There is so much money to be made on that route reason why the 'slots' are not readily available.

Etihad or Emirates only started 5-6 years ago and everybody rates them. If Arik is managed well, why not? I understand some sentiments but I think we're on to a winner here.

Sorry I meant to say Germany - Switzerland - France - Spain and not Germany - France - Spain.

No worries. The A3 from Cologne to Aschaffenburg and A9 from Nuremberg to Munich is pretty good stretch for no restrictions. But I guess you'll be driving Cologne - Koblenz - Trier - Saarbruecken and into Strasbourg. Have fun man, i'm sure it'll be a blast.

Hey Siena,

Stop by in Munich and I can escort you to Strasbourg or Zurich   But why are you driving Germany - France though and not Swiss France and Spain? Just curious.

Some nice scenery especially round the mountains in Switzerland. Don't mind me I haven't had a road trip in ages.

What gets me rolling my eyes is how the SUV brigade can expect good economy but putting a high output V8 petrol engine in a vehicle as big and heavy as the those trucks and expect a decent fuel economy.

I have nothing against SUVs per se but I have an issue with not putting the right engine in them.

@ proo212
My dear, you'll be deceiving yourself to think there's a perfect marriage. Every marriage, forced or not forced, has its ups and downs. You think marriage is all about love? Ask your mother!!

Of course there is no perfect marriage, and speaking as someone who was married before (for love I might add) and whose friends (virtually all of them are married), yes marriage is not all about love but marriage is horrible and miserable when you don't even like the person who is the mother of your child!

Have you been married before? I suspect not, so you have no clue personally just what you read or hear from people. Marriage is different from living together or dating.

Wokeyim:
@proo212
no one should be sleeping with someone he has no intention of marrying without a condom No guy, u rather got it wrong.
(1) No one should even be doing "kerewa" before marriage.
(2) Seems to me some people will rather be called Mrs somebody and be miserable than be single and have their sanity Yes, because that's what society, including you, demands of women
(3) I guess you have never been in a marriage where you're absolutely miserable? Yes, i'd rather be in a "miserable" marriage than be a single mother!

That's all about this topic. I've stated my points, i've heard people's views and i need no more opinions. Thanks you all.

Spoken like a true selfish brat. All I can hear from this post is me me me me.

Maybe the society where you are expect women to be married but the same society will not help you live in your "miserable marriage" They will ask you, didn't you know before you married him? At the end of the day they will say "fasting and prayer" will fix it And you wonder why there are so many miserable Mr and Mrs in our society.

@wokeyim, I have been reading your replies and your "justification" for this absurd mentality. Now you've thrown in a religious element as well.

As much as you've argued that 'it is not me, I'm not trapping anyone, i'm geting married' yadi yadi ya.

Yes if a man gets a woman pregnant, he should marry her because it is the biblical thing to do and no one should be sleeping with someone he has no intention of marrying without a condom. A child needs both parents.

The question some people are asking is what do you gain by doing this? Ok, you're married and your husband hates your guts. Then what?

I guess you have never been in a marriage where you're absolutely miserable? Come back on this board and complain that your "husband" or flatmate doesn't want anything to do with you.

Seems to me some people will rather be called Mrs somebody and be miserable than be single and have their sanity.

Don't mind him. Baba Agbaya. I don't know what else he wants to achieve for Zimbabwe in the next 6 years that he hasn't done in the last 28 years!

I don't get your point. The ladies want to have fun before settling down. I really don't see a problem with it. So do some men who want to have fun before settling down.

What I think is funny is that these guys or girls who go home and "bring" someone back to the US. How will you possibly get to know that person you've only met a couple of times you went on holiday to decide if they will make a good life partner?

Why not date the person around you? You can see them more often and with that you can make a more informed decision on their suitability as a partner instead of perpetuating the common stereotype that Nigerian men and women abroad are unsuitable for marriage.

what you have to understand is that most men are not responsible. .

Besides, why trap a guy that is not interested in marry u or taking the relationship to next level in the first place? It only shows his immaturity and irresponsibility.

I thought the lady that wants to trap a guy into marrying her by getting pregnant in this scenario will be majorly irresponsible. If she cannot read the writing on the wall then we can add stupid as well.

@the guys, if you're sleeping with a casual girlfriend without a condom, then the ladies deserve to call us irresponsible!

May I ask what you are going to be doing in Leipzig? Business or pleasure? I would be careful about wandering too far away from Leipzig centre if you are by yourself.

Summary? We cannot help a women without an ulterior motive.

So the few men you have encountered mean all Naija guys will want to get to know you better after they've helped you? Whatever makes your generalizations sound solid, you're welcome to it.