₦airaland Forum

MrBrownJay1:
bro as a father, i completely understand why a person would do that.... they may not trust that their daughter is safe with/around you.

just make sure that they see/feel/believe that its all good at your home and that their daughter is safe.

Don't give your daughter out to any man you can't trust with her welfare.

jaeyking:
So when the woman was married was that how her husband's mother always came to check up on him

Learn to let go when your children are married, if your daughter is alone you could come

But when the husband is around try to give them privacy
Do you know how they express their love or bleeping

Don't be surprised, it is her type that will not tolerate her mother in law in her house for a day.

MrBrownJay1:
so you believe it is wrong for a parent to not trust you and check up on their daughters? there is no such thing as "intrusion of your privacy".... just because you marry someone, doesnt mean you got the right to stop parents from checking on their children.

what have you got to hide? why are you so afraid of parents coming to check up on their daughters? what so wrong in the act? what privacy are you even talking about? if these parents trusted you as a man and/or the wellbeing of their daughter, probably they wouldnt check on their daughter so often.

If they did not trust him, they shouldn't have given him their daughter!

zeuss:
Obviously a sweet lady.... Not the quarrelsome type, or else u would not get away with that wicked talk.... She is lonely wants to be with her friend and daughter... .. Have a heart u broke hers.... U2 will grow old...... U fuked up......call her and apologize.

thesilentman is right. That mother in law is ill-mannered. Some people, I often wonder what kind of society they grew up in. What the fuçk are you always doing in your daughter's matrimonial home? If you are lonely, make some fuçking friends!

cococandy:
Clearly the hospital reported the man not the wife.
All healthcare workers are mandatory reporters. If you suspect abuse you’re required to report it.
The bruises on him required them to report it.

Unless you’re saying the mom shouldn’t have taken the boy to the hospital. What if he’d died? Then y’all would have still blamed her for not taking care of her kid.

All the man had to do (if he’s so bent on physically punishing the kid) was to do it in a non violent way and not cause him bruises and injuries.

Lol my sister, the injuries were scars and would heal without seeing any bloody doctor. Me and you know why the wife took the child to the hospital.

yarimo:
Small kid with free bonus data go and get something to do. Checking people's profile is a sign of joblessness

Oga, I did not believe CallmeTrinity until I checked for myself. I have just about 600 posts and thought that was much. 25,000? Dude, do something else with your life.

Laird:
Why blaming the loan givers instead of the debtor's for not replying their debt


Women can be dramatic and dangerous in manipulating men

During the cnaira change era, a man was angry that a female bank cashier refused to accept a 1000 naira note he brought to deposit in his account claiming it was bad.
He took bank transfer forms to fill and transfer all his money in his accounts out of that bank to another different bank.
The female manager came and was pleading along with his account officer. When he refused, she held him and put her body on him to stop and deter him from filling the transfer forms.
If he had pushed her now. It would now be a case of gender violence meanwhile it was clear feminine manipulation to achieve an aim
If it was a male bank.official that put his body on a female customer to stop her from withdrawing her money, it would have been an outcry of molestation, harassment and wahala
Don't take loans You cannot repay and then start throwing emotional.tantrums

You are yarning dust. There is a right way of getting your money back without killing.

obembet:
Yea I think those branches deserve some respect too, but they prefer to rob them and praise Messi, I remember when Niesta deserve world best after wining everything yet they give it to him, but when things go wrong, they tag others...

I will suggest Messi to go back to Barcelona and retire there, he can't succeed outside Barcelona not even Eibar self

You are just one sore Ronaldo fan. How many trophies did you He-goat win for Wallahi Tallahi FC?

Sonnobax15:

You didn't only trust a banny,but even went to the extent of sponsoring her education . Money wey you for use take buy like 10 keke carry give people as higher purchase,you just go waste am on top of one native fowl head

It's "hire-purchase".

Arry110:
I no even pity this one, he didn’t even use 100k or half of the money, he used the whole thing.
He should sell his phone and personal effects to recoup it

And see the kind of stupid events he is staking #97,000 on. Very mumu boy.

IyaebeTheGreat:
See the kind of men we have these days. Truly men are scarce, all we have are nothing to write home about, it's either they are druggie, alcohol addicts, bet addicts, brothel addicts and others. If you are a man and do not indulge in any of these may God bless you abundantly , you are the real alpha male and kings every good woman desires. God bless you

Good woman? Is there any left?

Lol

Shalashaska:
Efcc please face our corrupt leaders first first!

They will also face you and your 419 accomplices.

godliman:
Where is Babajide Otitoju of TVC aka "Mr Know it all" who said the APC candidate won Osun polls. I use to take him for a serious man of integrity but I discovered he has the Buhari kind of Integrity - made in China

That fat man is becoming stupider by the day.

IboHausaYoruba:
Why Tiwa Savage? Someone who morally cannot be seen as an example of what Nigeria stands for, her indecent sex clip and way of life is there as a pointer. Her tribe was involved in humiliating Igbos before and after election. Her tribal man was rigged into presidency against the will of over 200million people. Tiwa was nowhere to be found during the ENDSARS etc. A combination of matured artists like Onyeka Onwenu and Sunny Ade would have been much appropriate.

They are talking music and you're calling Sunny Ade and Onyeka Onwenu in 2023? Are you ok?

yinkus6750:
Waooohhh
Finally, Dangote refinery is ready.
PMB wants to take glory for it, hence ensuring he commissions it before leaving office.
Hope they will start refining immediately after commissioning?
How will it's functioning affect subsidy and petrol price?

If he is refining all the petrol we consume, it simply means we will not be paying huge dollars to theives, thus crashing the rate of the dollar. I am also certain buying petrol from a Nigerian refinery will be cheaper for us than buying from another continent, it will imply cheaper rate for us, hopefully.

OkayDaddy:
Turai Turai. Make I no talk.

Yar'Adua was a relatively decent man with 1 or 2 shortcomings like any man. But Turai is the worst First lady in the history of this country.

Don't mind her, she is coming out to run her dirty mouth. They took advantage of the poor dude and started what has come to be known as cabal in the presidency, very disgusting lot!

oluwaseyi0:
why do I feel this case is overflogged and the sentencing non-reflective of actual crime?

Most Nigerians are only happy because Ekweremadu is a 'looting politician' and not necessarily because of the 'crime' he commited

the guy is not a minor,he know fully well he his to donate a kidney, the issue is claiming he's their family when he's not

this is what 'most' parent will have naturally do, they will offer whatever they can if free donor is not comming forth

It is not a matter of being minor or not, civilised countries like UK regard poor people as vulnerable members of society that can be exploited by the rich. They try to protect their vulnerable poor unlike your country where any goat that acquires small money can kill anyone and get away with it.

flexyrule:
I respect Ordinary Ahmed Isa.

But if I tell you my experience at Brekete family, you go pity me.

I am so sad to hear that bro. I felt it will be the last bus stop.

flexyrule:
Nigerians are very wicked people. I repeat, Nigerians are very wicked people.

This was how loan sharks extorted a friend's cousin, till he committed suicide, after paying them over 400% of what he borrowed in less than one month.

This is exactly how they sounded on the extract of the chat the police obtained from his phone.

How can you conveniently tell someone to go and commit suicide?


In 2021, I borrowed one contractor 30 million to complete a project he was executing for the federal government.

Till date, the man is yet to finish paying up. He has executed contracts worth over 1 billion for the FG since I gave him that money, but baba has refused to pay me back my money. Last year alone, he received over 500m as payments for contracts he executed for the government.

Funny part is that, I am not the only one he is owing. He would keep face as if he wants to die, when he wants to borrow from you, once money hits his account, he turn to tiger. This is someone that rolls with the presidency ooooo. He has senators, top government officials as friends.

He blocked me, refused me entry into his office. Reported the case to the police, he went and bribed them, anywhere I take the case to, this man would rather churn out 5 to 10m to settle the authorities than pay me back my money.

I have lost over 2m while trying to recover this money. Everybody that hears my story, will just want to also eat his own part of the cake. 50k, 100k, 200k etc lawyers, so called human rights, police, etc.

When I say Nigerians are wicked, I know exactly what I'm saying.

Nigerians are wicked!

Forget.

Human Rights Radio, Abuja. Go there, I swear you will get your money back. Beauty of it is they will not take a dime from you. Hope you have evidence that you actually gave him that sum? The anchor/owner of the station loves trouble. He will make that guy pay you.

La click, la die!

iykofias:
He left messi in Europe, Same way Odion Ighalo left Wilfred Ndidi in Europe. Teams looks for players that will be useful to their tactics and setup.
players have done worst in the past and still got a transfer in Europe. One was Balotelli in a scuffle with his manager Mancini in training, he still got a move to AC Milan. Let me not even bring up Roy keane, prince boateng, Beckham vs Alex Ferguson. And so forth.

Your cartel whatever isn’t holding up, let’s stick to discussion you can prove

Ina go weep tire😂

iykofias:
and you know all these by?

Oga, there is no way Ronaldo will voluntarily go to Saudi and leave Messi in Europe to continue winning trophies.

YoungLionken:
Long expected..

I always knew it would result to this, CR7 is more passionate about football than the pay..

I really wished an English team would be interested, a team like Liverpool fc with a manager like Jurgen Klopp, he's good to go ...

Wish ke? You seem to not get the reason why he went there in the first place. No serious club in the top 5 leagues will touch him with a 10m pole. What he did in Man U was a major blunder. Those guys are a cartel. They will make him eat the dust.

Hmmm

helinues:
Barau is for DSP.

2 northerners can't be in the first 3 not to talk of 3 Muslim

You make me laugh. You are in for a shocker. Just like no law forbids two Muslims to be president and vice, so is there no law prohibiting two northerners to be in the top 3 offices. About 3 Muslims, it is already established oga. You guys said nothing is wrong with Muslim Muslim ticket, you supported Tinubu Shettima, I think you should celebrate. Three Muslims at least, I assure you, will make it to the top 3 offices. It may be four.

Eastcoastboy:
Reinstating Sanusi would further make it a big joke.

Yes we need that big joke! If correcting a blunder like that is a joke to you then so be it. The rightful King was deposed by a clown governor and you say it should be allowed to stay that way.

Eastcoastboy:
It's too late, I don't see him unseating this current Emir, except he wants to make the throne/emirate look like a joke.

Well nothing is impossible. But I envision a compensation for Sanusi Lamido Sanusi.

Ganduje made it a joke! Removing Sanusi was completely a blunder. Uncalled for!

Fineman2:
My name is John. I am 35 years old. I lost my first wife in 2020, so I remarried in 2021 so that my daughter can grow up with a motherly love.

However, my new wife has made it a point of duty to always maltreat my daughter.

Each time, I want to interfere, she tells me to stay out of it. I know I should stand up for my daughter but I am in love with this woman because she came into my life when I needed someone the most.

I reached out to the family of my late wife last month to allow my daughter to stay with them while I send money for her upkeep, but they refused. They said my daughter cannot grow up without a mother and still grow up without the presence of a father in her life.

I have had several conversations with my wife and I have begged her to accommodate my daughter since she is yet to conceive but she told me to get rid of her from the house.

She practically complains about everything my daughter does. I am unhappy about this but at the moment, I am caught in between the woman I love and my beloved daughter.

Please what should I do?

You are a silly man! Protect that poor girl and stop being an unfortunate idiot.

kpakpakpa:
To the best of my knowledge, there has never been an improvement since this problem started, its rather getting worse.

I would have long go for the surgery if not for cost involved. The specialist told me that it is done outside the country only. The side effects were much according to him but if you take away this noise in my ears and allow me live for just one year, i will be ok. I can't kill myself, never, but death is nothing compared to what is happening to me

There is a National Ear Care Center in Kaduna. They render cochlear implant services. I hear specialists from abroad do come for such operations. A good hospital in India would've been awesome.

Rubbiish:
See how f00lish u will continue to be?
These companies u just mentioned now, are they originally America tech companies or Chinese tech? Who are the inventors? All these una envy will do u no good. America world position is divine & no nation can trump it. Because Mark now decide to establish one Facebook control center in Nigeria, can now make u compare Nigeria to USA? Who are the inventors of Microsoft & apple products? Are they Chinese?

You are a goat o! American company wey na China dey produce their goods? American company wey dey pay tax for China? American company wey na only Chinese people e dey employ. Why you munu like that? You think I don't know that the founders of Microsoft and Apple - Bill Gates and Steve Jobs are Americans? Are you usually dull like that?

Rubbiish:
I swear u don't have sense!
You want to compare China copy copy to that of USA?? U are daft!

You are a typical dull nairalander. Microsoft and Apple's largest manufacturing plants are in China. Are you people not ashamed of your ignorance?