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Romance › Re: Office Romance - My Experience by Psoul(m): 6:40am On May 25, 2023
Wodu89:
Caution yourself. It's a public forum and everyone is free to express themselves.
Exactly, everybody is free to express him/herself, just the same way the guy you're warning exercised his freedom of expression.

Meanwhile, don't probe too much in a public forum like this, especially when it's obvious that the question you're trying to force out an answer for is better kept secret. Oya have a great day.
Crime › Re: Rufai Oseni Vs Benjamin Hundeyin by Psoul(m): 7:05pm On May 24, 2023
EastAlchemist:
Who be David
Who be Benjamin


I Dey think say na the same person
Then I think they’re not related
But David and Benjamin?
David Hundeyin is a Nigerian journalist, activist, and author.

Benjamin Hundeyin is there Lagos state police PRO
Politics › Re: Abia State Government House Completed By Ikpeazu (Photos) by Psoul(m): 10:51am On May 24, 2023
Please, which secondary school building is this?
Romance › Re: This Is The Kind Of Past Women Want You To Forget(pictures) by Psoul(m):
EyenIbibio1:
Her past doesn't matter, so long she doesn't go back
Do you know that some certain things one do enter one's blood and either become recessive or dormant trait. If it becomes recessive trait, the person will constantly display that action and may be known for that act.

If it becomes dormant trait, the lifestyle will hardly be seen or displayed by that person but it dwells quietly in the person's DNA. This dormant trait will be passed to the children from that parent. That dormant trait in that parent may become recessive in the children and they'll aggressively be displaying those bad lifestyle and ppl will be wondering where they learned that bad life from. They will not know that it was still from those parents that look good.

So, my point is that, there are pasts that matter whether the person goes back to it or not.
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: If You Were Him, What Would You Do? by Psoul(m): 8:03am On May 24, 2023
Rubyjade:
Permission Granted
Thanks
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: If You Were Him, What Would You Do? by Psoul(m): 2:04pm On May 23, 2023
Rubyjade:
Joel resigned from his job as a Branch manager and relocated. #japa

The early days abroad were quite tough; he faced the typical challenge of acclamatizing with a new environment-the weather, and issues of job-searching and finding one's way around town. Being that he traveled alone, he eventually managed to settle down on time and got over some of the initial issues. But he remained jobless.

After a few months of not finding a job and running out of cash, he started facing threats of eviction as he was unable to meet up with the payment for his rent.

Now desperate, he called up a friend back in Nigeria who gave him the contact of his (friend's) cousin who happened to be doing quite well in the same area where Joel was staying.

With a huge sense of relief, he contacted his friend's cousin, Dami, who invited him over to stay temporarily with him pending when he is able to sort out a new accommodation.

Joel arrived at the address and knocked on the door. When it was opened, he stood face to face with the last person he would have ever imagined - Kenneth!!!!

In his shock, he managed to say hello and asked to see Dami. Kenneth smiled, "I am Dami. My family prefers to call my native name Damilare instead of my English name, Kenneth.....', he said.

At that point, Joel dropped his head as the memories of how he ill-treated, frustrated, insulted and bullied Kenneth as a junior banking officer 7 years back in the same organisation they had worked together flooded his mind. He felt so ashamed of himself; he knew he had been a toxic leader.

What should Joel do?

If you were Kenneth what would you do? Let him into your apartment and retaliate? Tell him, "sorry, can't accept you into my apartment" and let him suffer with no money & a place to stay?

If you were in Kenneth's shoes, will you treat him back the way he had treated you in Naija or will you simply let him in with your #churchmind?

I believe people's responses to this story will help send a lesson to LEADERS on "Who knows tomorrow"..... Let's treat people RIGHT always..... The table might turn tomorrow, who knows.

Let's show LOVE in LEADING.....

Looking forward to reading your responses .....

Being a while...... Happy New Month
I'm just laughing deep inside me. I know that feeling. I've bn in that situation before. I was the one I'll treated and still the one in position to help my oppressor.

Well, what I did was to serve him what I called phycological torture.
I admitted to help him. Him bn close to me was enough suffer for him than sending him away. I kept displaying good guy to him which kept killing him everyday. He couldn't stand it and he left after awhile.

Permission to copy this.
Nairaland General › Re: Is High Time State Of Emergency Is Declared On Online Begging. by Psoul(m): 1:55pm On May 23, 2023
Godoverevery:
I should man up and start taking care of every lady I meet and the one I don't even knowhuh

Maybe I should type what I wrote in your native language so you can understand ooo.
Don't mind that guy. His comment lack wisdom.
Most of our dear women have become something else. They are shameless and lazy. They want to live above their incomes. They have nothing in their skulls outside, food, fashion, Fu*ck, fantasies and fake life.

If I screenshot some of the silly begging chat from ppl I don't even know, you will shock. They'll send you friend request and the next thing will be to pest you with help me with this and that. Very irresponsible things. They disgust me.
Career › Re: Pay Slip Of UBA Contract Staff Who Earns ₦‎45,000 Monthly by Psoul(m): 1:04pm On May 22, 2023
My concern is not even on that net pay. I'm worried about the basic salary. How can you be paying N1,434 as basic salary. This will make it very difficult for that person to have a substantial rise in pay after years.

Basic salary is a deciding factor on how other allowances increase with time and determines nature of other benefits.
Celebrities › Re: Tacha Claims She Paid $20,000 (₦‎15M) For Her Blue Dress To The AMVCA by Psoul(m): 9:57am On May 22, 2023
saintbillion:
Big Brother Naija star, Tacha has claimed that she paid $20,000 (15m) for the blue dress she wore to the #AMVCA2023 which is currently ongoing.

The reality show star and influencer who made the claim on Twitter, wrote;

“Everybody looks AMAZING on the BLACK CARPET TODAY!!! BUT we all KNOW!!! NOBODY COMES Close!!!”

https://www.lindaikejisblog.com/2023/5/bbnaija-star-tacha-claims-she-paid-20000-15m-for-her-blue-dress-to-the-amvca2023-2.html
See that thing she's wearing in online shops and their equivalent prices.
These girls can lie ehnn

Politics › Re: What Ganduje, Masari Discussed In Leaked Audio (Full Transcript) by Psoul(m): 10:22pm On May 20, 2023
oluwaseyi0:
I feel they intentionally leak this audio to put pressure on Tinubu and kwakwaso purported relationship

How many of their calls have been leak
You may be right. They refused to talk about any serious matter here. If it was not an intentional leak, they would've continue with other political issues of importance, but they refused to say any other thing than, have u seen what is happening and those bla bla blah
Politics › Re: What Ganduje, Masari Discussed In Leaked Audio (Full Transcript) by Psoul(m): 10:14pm On May 20, 2023
SwissMass:
Waste of time, it is height of mischief, Peter girigory Obi and his miscreants at work, how will the two speak English rather than their language
If you are good in understanding grammar and also read the caption, you would've seen the word "transcript" indicating that the discussion was translated to another language for easy comprehension by all.
Foreign Affairs › Re: Man Calls 911 After Killing His Wife, Her Parents, 3 Dogs In The US by Psoul(m): 5:27pm On May 20, 2023
He made a mistake.
He should've also killed himself to make it a complete episode.
Crime › Re: Police React To Kehinde Adesoga Adekusibe's Anti Igbo Tweet by Psoul(m): 11:05am On May 19, 2023
When there's marital problem and the parties involved show evidence that staying in the marriage will be a threat to their lives.
The judge in charge of the case may not waste time dissolving that marriage to forestall lost of life.

I don talk my own.
Food › Re: Stunning Photos Of Hilda Baci by Psoul(m): 7:34am On May 19, 2023
Godisablealltim:
she's beautiful but her mouth is too wide, so will her pussy. Is she a mother of 6 children? Why is her boobs so sagged?

the silly simps should stay off my quote.
Pervert, big breasts don't stand. Moreover, that breast is not saggy. Oya, look for another fault to point out to.
Politics › Re: Mustapha Audu Apologised To Peter Obi Over Fake Phone Call by Psoul(m): 6:19pm On May 18, 2023
The drug people will now say that Peter Obi has given the Audi money to change the story.
Those people are desperate oo
Politics › Re: My Duplicates Are Still On The Rampage - Peter Obi by Psoul(m): 6:14pm On May 18, 2023
iLoveYouToo:
Why can’t this man just go silent for a while? Man likes attention too much. It’s only a matter of time
The same way Goodluck Jonathan chooses to ignore all allegations leveled against him and finally, almost everyone believed the consistent lies.
Nigeria is not a place you apply that "silence is the best answer to a fool." If you do it here, ppl will believe every lie peddled against you and believe you're guilty and daz why you refused to defend yourself.

PO understands that system, so he must keep talking else even those that believed in him will start doubting what they believed about him.
Romance › Re: A Quick Question To The Married Folks Here by Psoul(m): 6:28am On May 17, 2023
Iamgodskid:
A QUICK QUESTION TO THE MARRIED FOLKS HERE
...
...
...
During the early stage of marriage, there's usually this level of serenity n respect for each other but as time goes on, the story changes n then over familiarity n all the sh*t that comes with it, starts to set in,

with the level of "over familiarity" involved in marriage,

how do u guys still maintain the honour and regard for each other despite having seen n known everything there is to see n know about your partner...

You know how people can be most times, they start behaving funny when they finally get settled comfortably with you,

huh

🤥🤥🤥
I'll tell u same thing I always like to tell ppl about relationship.
Do not marry just because of love. Marry who you are truly committed to and who you can respect. Be disciplined and marry your type.
Below was my advice to a friend in 2018 on this forum

"I have discovered that love doesn't guarantee the success of a relationship. Love cannot help you stick to one person all year round, and on the other hand, cheating isn't always a product of not loving your partner.

In fact, loving someone doesn't guarantee not falling in love with someone else. Relationships work out mostly because of our heads not our hearts.

It works out because of our emotional maturity, empathetic intelligence and self discipline; because, time will come when you'll see more beautiful, handsome, romantic, intelligent, sexy, rich, curvy and God fearing people than the one you're in a relationship with.

In those times, love will not help you. Self control will help you. Emotional intelligence will come to your rescue and commitment will keep you going.

With those characteristics, no matter how you feel for someone else, the person you're committed to will rank first in your life.

You think happily married people don't see better people than the ones they married to? You think they don't feel funny sometimes? You think they don't catch feelings? They do!

But understanding that commitment is greater than feelings and it is the great arsenal that destroys those unhelpful impulses.

You can fall in love with anyone, but building a relationship takes absolutely more than what attracted you to them and takes more than love.

We are too fond of loving when it's convenient and sweet. We are too fond of loving when love is there; but that can only last for just the first 3 - 6 months of the relationship in many cases.

After then, you'll realise that the feelings have dropped and it's now your responsibility to make the relationship work, not love's responsibility.

Relationships cannot be readymade. You have to build it and it's never always about love, it requires commitment and intelligence.

On the long run in marriages, it's not just love that keeps them together forever, it's determination and commitment.

Everyone falls in love; it takes little or no effort to do that. But staying in love? Building a relationship? Only the strong and committed ones do that.

That's why we must find that one person and commit to that one, discipline yourself and bridle your emotions.

Building a relationship is hard work, it's like building a career, It's like pursuing a dream.

It's always tough. At some point it will be so bitter but you can make it work by putting your heads together. You can scale through the trying times by staying focused and committed.

The kind of love that attracts two people together is not the kind of love that will keep them together. Be emotionally strong, be self disciplined and above all, have the God factor that will give you the grace needed to reign you in.

God Bless.

Politics › Re: Nigerian Govt Should Reciprocate US Visa Ban – Fani-kayode by Psoul(m): 6:17am On May 17, 2023
Femmyfamous4u:
They can't be threatening people with Visa. We are a sovereign state. It's not their fault. If not that our people flock there.
Sovereign nation indeed.
Sovereign nation that cannot stand on her own. If you're a sovereign nation, then stop running to other countries at any little opportunity.
Family › Re: How Do I Save My Marriage by Psoul(m): 6:14pm On May 16, 2023
ibinaboonline:
Permission to copy and paste on LinkedIn? Maybe Twitter too
Granted
Family › Re: How Do I Save My Marriage by Psoul(m): 2:08pm On May 16, 2023
promisedwealth:
Good morning Great people and wonderful family, please just like the saying a problem shared it's a problem half solved.

I have been married to my wife for over 6years now we have been through all together we have two kids 4 and a year old .

my business since late 2021 has been rough I lost some money trying out a different business I'm based in the eastern part of the country.

Early last year my mother in law told my wife to come stay with her in Lagos till I can find my self again, they left imo to Lagos on feb. 2022 I have been I contact with them ever since sending money across also it happen that my wife started bringing the idea of myself joining over there in Lagos ( my in law has a little school in Lagos that has been where my wife has been teaching since she left) .

Concerning the relocation I told her it's not easy as I have to look for money to get accommodation, shop to start a business also the money will be much which I can't afford for now during someday last year I told her to come back during one of our discussion she told me she it's not coming to east again I got angry.

I noticed the mother will never allow her leave her school so I kept mute about coming back since I was neither ready yet do we kept on going no issues.

Just this april she changed, hardly pick my call,stop calling me by the pet name she does.

I tried to find out what happened, she told me she wanted a break. I was confused I tried to guess why she came up with that. she needs to seek and know if it's the will of God for our union that's after two kids .

I was lost also I have tried to restore this woman sanity since then till now I have spoken to the mother she it's not saying anything than what ever she decides it's best for her the only once telling me not to worry at the brothers but I'm worried honestly .

I don't want my kids to grow in different homes.

I also tried to make her see this same reason she told me the kids will be fine she's not looking at anything making her decision please I need advise it's my wife under a spell or what.

I don't want to raise ny kids this way please advice please....
"I have discovered that love doesn't guarantee the success of a relationship. Love cannot help you stick to one person all year round, and on the other hand, cheating isn't always a product of not loving your partner.

In fact, loving someone doesn't guarantee not falling in love with someone else. Relationships work out mostly because of our heads not our hearts.

It works out because of our emotional maturity, empathetic intelligence and self discipline; because, time will come when you'll see more beautiful, handsome, romantic, intelligent, sexy, rich, curvy and God fearing people than the one you're in a relationship with.

In those times, love will not help you. Self control will help you. Emotional intelligence will come to your rescue and commitment will keep you going.

With those characteristics, no matter how you feel for someone else, the person you're committed to will rank first in your life.

You think happily married people don't see better people than the ones they married to? You think they don't feel funny sometimes? You think they don't catch feelings? They do!

But understanding that commitment is greater than feelings and it is the great arsenal that destroys those unhelpful impulses.

You can fall in love with anyone, but building a relationship takes absolutely more than what attracted you to them and takes more than love.

We are too fond of loving when it's convenient and sweet. We are too fond of loving when love is there; but that can only last for just the first 3 - 6 months of the relationship in many cases.

After then, you'll realise that the feelings have dropped and it's now your responsibility to make the relationship work, not love's responsibility.

Relationships cannot be readymade. You have to build it and it's never always about love, it requires commitment and intelligence.

On the long run in marriages, it's not just love that keeps them together forever, it's determination and commitment.

Everyone falls in love; it takes little or no effort to do that. But staying in love? Building a relationship? Only the strong and committed ones do that.

That's why we must find that one person and commit to that one, discipline yourself and bridle your emotions.

Building a relationship is hard work, it's like building a career, It's like pursuing a dream.

It's always tough. At some point it will be so bitter but you can make it work by putting your heads together. You can scale through the trying times by staying focused and committed.

The kind of love that attracts two people together is not the kind of love that will keep them together. Be emotionally strong, be self disciplined and above all, have the God factor that will give you the grace needed to reign you in.

God Bless.
Family › Re: I Mistakenly Impregnated My Troublesome Baby Mama by Psoul(m): 11:30pm On May 12, 2023
Fabulozz:
should I pay for her brideprice to silence her right ?
It's either you're creating a fake story for attention or you are a fo0l.
So, paying her bride price will silence her or rather than give her more authority to come out as your authentic wife. Keep deceiving yourself.
Politics › Re: Fresh Suit Seeks To Halt Tinubu’s Swearing-in On May 29 by Psoul(m): 4:14pm On May 12, 2023
Even if they finally swear him in, the uneasiness he is experiencing now will continue to haunt him.
Politics › Re: Richest USA Cry About 100s Of Migrants Coming Daily How Does Tiny Lagos by Psoul(m): 4:11pm On May 12, 2023
USA is worried because the state has the responsibility of taking care of every individual.
Lagos is not worried cos the state is not taking care of anyone there.
You are on your own and you will rather be taking care of the government instead of the other way round.
Agriculture › Re: Training/rearing Of Goats, Dogs & Pigs, Which Is Cheaper & More Profitable? by Psoul(m): 1:05pm On May 11, 2023
FarmTech:
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Thanks. I like dogs. I plan buying one someday. I'm happy to hear that 1 bag can last for that long.
Okay. Nice one
NYSC › Re: Nysc@50: Osun Holds Unity Walk To Commemorate Golden Jubilee by Psoul(m): 8:41am On May 11, 2023
shalom62:
50 years and some state NYSC CAMP still not in good shape.
God heal this nation
63yrs after Independence, Nigeria still cannot stand on herself.
They cannot chose their leaders peacefully.
Agriculture › Re: Training/rearing Of Goats, Dogs & Pigs, Which Is Cheaper & More Profitable? by Psoul(m): 10:26pm On May 10, 2023
FarmTech:
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How much is a bag of dog food? Which breeds do u have?
Diamond is 40k
I have Rottweiler, GSD, Caucasian mix and Lhasa Apso

The last just sold.

Christianity Etc › Re: Bishop Feyi Daniel Raped Me Twice In His Lekki Home, Sent Me N5k To Treat Myself by Psoul(m): 2:16pm On May 10, 2023
OLAADEGBU:
Is this not Bishop who prophesied that Obi would be the next President? undecided
By the time they will start cross examining this lady, she will start crying.
Just look at the nonsense she is saying here. An adult ooo.
This case will be struck out as a rape case. This is a case of consented sex between the animal Bishop and the fo0lish assistant pastor.
Two of the are total disgrace to Christianity.
Career › Re: My Secretary's Resignation Without Notice Is Crumbling My Company by Psoul(m): 1:52pm On May 10, 2023
concho:
When I took over as a director in our company , I noticed that the company’s Secretary is a chronic liar

Most excuses she gives to avoid coming to work always seem like lies to me . But I couldn’t confront her since I don’t have proves .

Today her mum is very sick, tomorrow her dad is about dying .

I also noticed that she doesn’t do her jobs ( financial recordings ) . She is always sleeping at work and says she is sick when confronted .

We started looking for replacements , but I noticed also that she discourages everyone that wants to work .

On Thursday, she said her dad was dead and would be Buried on Saturday . I granted her a leave between Thursday and Saturday and I conclude that I must find her village and attend the burial without telling her .

On getting to her village , I discovered that there was no burial and the parents she constantly used as excuse died years ago

I sent her video I made in her village only for her to tell me that she won’t come to work again .

She handed nothing over to the company . She didn’t provide details of the transactions she did in the previous weeks .

I asked her details of the companies transactions during the Naira scarcity , she refused to come bring these things .

This resignation would take us one year backwards in other to sort her stuffs out. She handed over to no one

If I let her go free , other workers would emulate her .

How do I start nailing her please
Please, what kind of company are you guys running. So I see here are bunch of incompetent fellows.
You as a manager is so weak to manage your staff. You're as incompetent as your do called company's secretary.

So am incompetent secretary left a company and the company falls back 1yr backward. That means she was the pillar of that company and she has bn the one keeping you going.

Oga, you don't even know a single thing she does on her desk. You do not even understand how to prepare the reports she do submit to you, so what are you going to tell the police if you go ahead to arrest her.

Are you going to tell them to compel the girl to continue working with your company?
Are you going to tell them she stole from the company when you cannot interpret her report very well or computer the outstanding report to know the true financial status of the company.

You even had the time to stalk the lady. Ina dey try ooo. This is against work ethics unless she's a staff you're conducting background check on. This is done at the beginning of employment not because you want to check if excuse request you've granted a staff is true or not.
Politics › Re: If You Know The Building Cost Of The HQ Of Customs, You Will Faint - Shehu Sani by Psoul(m): 8:42am On May 10, 2023
socialmediaman:
"If you know the initial cost of the construction of the HQ of Nigerian Customs and the new cost after review,you will just faint."

- Senator Shehu Sani on twitter

Source: https://twitter.com/shehusani/status/1655854545073758209?s=46&t=dR32GmclMO3sOOFX1ADAtw[/quote]I don't know the initial cost of construction, but I know that sometime in 2020, FG approved additional N9.4b to complete the construction.
Can anyone tell us the cost biko. I have bn longing to faint again in this country.
Pls be fast so that I can faint sharp sharp. Son of man is already tayad.
Agriculture › Re: Training/rearing Of Goats, Dogs & Pigs, Which Is Cheaper & More Profitable? by Psoul(m): 6:56pm On May 09, 2023
Pengician:
I just want to know.
You fail to talk of one important factor.
Which of them have regular buyers.

Let's assume that market is not a problem. Assuming there are buyers for all of them. Rearing of dogs are more profitable. Adult dog eats once a day.
I just sold 9 out of 11 puppies one of my dogs gave birth to. The least price I sold one is 90k and it's just less than 3 months old puppy. Some were sold at 120k per puppy.
The dog gives birth twice a year.
A bag of dog food can last for over 6months for one dog. If you combines it with other cooked food, a bag can last for 8months.

Besides that, they are also doing security work for me in the house. Before you can sell your ghost or pig, you'll feed them to maturity which is birth stressful and financially intensive.
Food › Re: What I Ate In A Rich Man’s House VS What I Eat In My House by Psoul(m):
Obavoh:
I spent only 2 days on the job. I had to quit. I was missing my family and my wife’s cooking.

I rather stay jobless than be paid 35,000 monthly to be sad and hungry .

See the lunch my wife prepared for the family. Why won’t I run back home?
If you don't learn how to leave your comfort zone, you will hardly make it in life.
I am not saying that the 35k is so okey nor that the meal served is okey.
But the way you are attached to food even wen you are still struggling to make it in life is not encouraging.
This means you cannot travel to a place you don't know anybody and even chose to go hungry to get what you want.

My father thought us to learn how to adapt and adjust to any situation and condition easily.
It has really helped me a lot. It made me not to even to get lost when things are rosy.
I make provision for all conditions while hustling smartly to make life better.

Bros, men that want to make it in life do not see food as a factor that can deter them.

Finally, some rich men do not have much food in their homes.
It's either they are stingy richman or real richmen that only think about food in the night cos they have a lot they are chasing and food can never be allowed to delay them.
They believe that they can afford food at all times and see it as no problem.
It's only when you do not have enough money that u keep getting hungry every other hour.
Culture › Re: Different South African Tribes by Psoul(m): 12:29pm On May 09, 2023
Samantha124:
1. Xhosa
All I am seeing here are their modernized attires.
Show us their real cultural attires

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