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@OP Haba next time show the question, this is not hard at all. Call me when you have such assignments, I will guide you through, built way more complex sh.it than this. But practice and read first

Witlee1:
Point of correction egbon, RP doesn't tell you to spin plates with every female rather you should be at an advantage getting things from them thereby increasing your value instead of the other way round which nature encrypted
When you don't know about something please tend to learn about it before opposing it,(please take this advise serious, it'll help you moving forward in life) everything you did up there was plainly RP without you even knowing,some guys would have started simping for them hoping to be in thier good books or for some relationship.

Ciao egbon

You are right though about RP, I meant NL's version of RP based on what I read here I never seen anyone talk about empowerment, goal settings other than sleeping around, because I picked most of those advices from MGTOW before Manosphere and others became a thing in my days. The focus on women from men in this forum is toooo much. I would assume there would be a general meeting on how to move forward

Broke NL boys conversation, una no sabi pass sex ni fvck outta here

kingthreat:
Kids will go looking for their father. They are boys. If their mother is reputed to be a LovePeddler, the boys will have nothing to do with her. Maybe one of the four though.

That's not fair, he should allow them be involved in her life, they will grow to resent the father later on. Qomen don't understand that powerful men in Nigeria especially political are like gods , the court and police won't do anything for her.

When I was broke, I shunned relationships and kept meaningful friendship with ladies. Most of the ladies I met helped because they valued me as a friend, however your generation sees every woman as someone to sleep with. You can't sleep with every woman, because there might be some women to help you, that you will chase away. Grow yourself, find a skill. The same Internet you are on, is the same Internet people use to find jobs and make a living. Only resourceful women will have something to offer, but you yourself will have to ensure you are someone who also has something to offer. No one wants to waste time around someone who is doing nothing and has nothing to offer. That is my own take, my career started all because a lady I taught programming referenced me to her friend and since then, my life changed heavily. Shun RP and make friends with everyone, don't see everyone as plates. Good bye from an Egbon

mikezuruki:
Reading through this, it occurred to me how men complicate their lives. Your life was going well until you wanted to have a fling.

My brother some men don't appreciate what they have, I dey outside dey see slay queens and avoid them, cuz me sabi wetin I get. Good women like OP are scarce

Smoketight:
Good Day everyone I need your thought and advice and some bashing too,

I have been dating my girlfriend for about 3 years, we have had our ups and down, she is helpful in every way, she has her own job and doesn't ask much from me, she helps me financially when ever I am broke,

Trouble started when I met my sister's friend I told my sister that I liked her friend and she should help me talk to her just for the flings oh nothing serious because of my girlfriend at home please, she said no problems she did her job and the friend agreed, we started talking and getting to know each other, she comes to visit me over the weekends ( we live in different town but not so far from each other) I will lodge her in a nice hotel room while I sneak out from the house when my girl is probably sleeping or sometimes I just make up stories, anything for me to get out of the house just to be with my new babe.

My new girl is sweet, her head game is scecond to none, she gives me Olosho vibes
When ever we do the other things,
I kept her in that hotel for 3 weeks,
When our little vacation was over she went back to her home and called me to tell me she is pregnant for me, I did my calculations and I might be the father of the unborn baby,

My girlfriend at home has never been pregnant for me before now,
While my new girl is full of drama since she got pregnant, she calls me every night, I asked her not to call she refused to listen, she said I can't get her pregnant and stay far from her she is suggesting she moves in with me or I relocate to her town and that is impossible because if my business and my girl.

My sister that introduced her to me is not helping at all she is fighting and pushing her friend to me, she doesn't like my girl, my sister said my girlfriend insulted told her that her hair smells(women) She also said my girlfriend told her she wont have a baby until I her dowry, my sister also said my girlfriend has been pregnant in the past and had an abortion without my knowledge. My sister my mother want this new girl all my mother wants is a child from me because I am her only son.

One day my sister brought the pregnant girl to my house this happened this Monday I lied to my girlfriend that she is a family friend, my girl been the nice person she is she made food for her to eat. I didn't even sleep that night.
Things has not been the same for me I I stress alot I can't function like I used to I have lost alot of weight, I managed to open up to my girl tho, I am willing to pay her dowry now if she gives me the concenst, I don't want to lose her, the pregnant girl is willing to keep the baby while I make plans for a new apartment, right now she is in a new hotel, my girl has left me and and her number is not connecting, Dear friends please what do I do? Help

Why you treat your babe like this, your woman is rare to find. You don't deserve your babe. You just embarrassed her and she now cooked for the girl too, your sister too is bad.

Na wa o

It is not possible to consume so much in 24hrs , just let it go and prepare well for the next one. Personally join Upworks and start small till you gain good experience or do a big personal project.

also watch youtube there's always someone explaining a concept better

I feel like I am in high school again lol after reading this

Yemlizzy:
It is well, I really dislike emotional issues or heartache. So it won’t be so easy to move on plus 4 years isn’t 6 months too.

it's understandable as a lady but as a man, he is supposed to know when to move on.

Yemlizzy:
It’s really sad then, some of my gender has been serving breakfast in a cruel manner…..

It's not a thing of gender, a man can easily take advantage of such trait, I think the problem is, he seeks to please people and avoid confrontation. I have seen people. like that.

Yemlizzy:
Is this for real

I don’t want to believe

I read his other post it might be true

@OP shey you want to talk ni ? maybe there are not much crazy people where you stay, I get time.

I don't want to hear about babe from your mouth, what I should be hearing is what you plan to do about school, job. if you send me a screenshot showing her number, I will call her and say what you wrote and blast her. so send if you want. I have time

olufunmi01:
Wish I can send our chat where I was begging her

I can't advice you anyway if you won't take heed to your uncle , how will a stranger help you ? You will learn the lesson a hard way

Excel70:
lmfao... He is a troll. Check one of his thread ,he is on a 40k job claiming university of michigan

I think guys are creating topics to troll and promote RP I refuse to believe this is true.

olufunmi01:
Exactly what my uncle has told me.....I have committed my whole life to this girl......I love her so much......she complained of a single room apartment......I went ahead to secure room and parlour self contain......I did all I could..,.I'm losing my mind pls

Let me give you an advice, this so called girl will move on in life, block her number, apply for that school if you can and if she contacts you , ignore her. Just that it is wrong to rough handle women, because if I were your relative, I would threaten her to leave you alone with consequences.

How do you fall in love in someone that treats you bad, did you grow up neglected by parents or perhaps have a low-self esteem of yourself. Do you think you cannot do better. There must be a reason you are clamoring to someone. or you are joking with us ?

olufunmi01:
I and my babe had issue for the past 5 months, each time I try beg her, she would just tell me free me..... this is the lady I have been faithful to for the past four years. I left Lagos for her, left my church for her, I cancelled my international graduate admission in University of Michigan USA. I have been begging her. She doesn't want to have anything to do with me no more. Now, people think I'm going crazy. Please help me. I think of her and time spent together

Get the fvck out of here what's wrong with NL men these days, are you sure you are not jazzed.

BigYash:
Bros that man is tired of that woman already, he doesn't care anymore.. Anyways he is not even worthy to be called a man,so he should keep on being a house boy in his house.. Sorry for the bad words ,I used in my previous comment..

The man looks meek sef in my opinion. You can't slap me live and be confident about it, it says alot about how the man no get control.

BigYash:
You are the dumb ass here.. For her to slap him in public, your brain didn't tell you " that man don talk tire for hux " Let no woman turn you to a fool ,because of pussy... My pain is that,the simp couldn't return the slap to reset her brain.. Some women are just too dirty and full of themselves..

It's not a matter of simping somethings are kept private and treated inside the house, but that is so disgusting. It's like a wife saying on Radio the man is a one-minute man.

pansophist:
Only date people that are trustworthy. If you can't trust people, don't date them. By default, I don't trust people, and if I trust you and you fork up, I lose it forever. You feel worse because you trusted her, and my question is, did you verify if she was trustworthy before you started dating her? You don't expect the qualities of a lion from a sheep. Even worse when you are shocked that a sheep does not possess the qualities of a Lion.

Exactly I don't get men of today, someone cheated and you're feeling devasted have we gone so emotional these days ?

WillyWonda1:
Right now I don’t even know what to think anymore.

My girlfriend of 2 years just got back from Ukraine after her master’s degree program and since then, she’s been frequently coming to stay with me since I’ve been on land and working from my office.

Last week, I was billed to go to our Portharcourt office because our vessel berthed there. So immediately I got the mail, I decided to quickly dash home, pick a few things I’d be needing and then move. So it happened that the electric current in the neighborhood was relatively low and couldn’t pump water and my generator isn’t in good shape. So she made arrangements for a generating set to pump water( she told me over the phone).

When I got home, I decided to park outside the gate since I was moving almost immediately. On entering the gate, I saw her and a certain boy carrying the generator to return cos the tank was already filled (she said she called the guy to help with the gen. They know each other before she traveled out).

So I just greeted them casually and they put the gem in my car and went to return it. So I decided to have a quick bath before embarking on my journey. To my greatest surprise, I saw a used condom wrapper in the bathroom. At that point, my whole body system changed and I couldn’t even bathe again. I just wore my clothes, and waited for her to return with my car so I could move. Not long after, she came back and I just told her to call me and explain what’s in the bathroom then I zoomed off.
She claims she doesn’t know anything about the condom, then later told me it was the guy that came with his girlfriend.

I’ve not picked her calls since then cos I don’t even know what to think anymore.
Please I need advice guys. I’ve not been home since last week cos I’m so disappointed in her.
A part of me wants to forgive her, but I’m being skeptical.

Guys please advise me cos I can’t trust her anymore. I’m devastated right now. I can’t even work well.

NL Advises won't help you, I think it's up to you to decide prsonally bringing a man and his babe to have sex in your house is a major Red Flag, that allow is enough for me to break up with anyone instantly assuming that's the excuse she is giving, the alternative is she had sex with the guy. Whichever way it goes, it has a bad taste. That act is enough for me to move on, because tomorrow she could invite someone and they could cart away with goods. Sorry but you won't find the response you are looking for here.

NovesaTillie:
Now that you have shown him that you are not an ordinary female why do you feel like you just signed your death warrant. Leave that environment before your family discovers your dead body.

You are the last person to advice anyone on marital issues after reading your post about seducing someone's husband besides Silent treatment is not a death sentence.

reactjsDOTorg/docs/design-principlesDOThtml

Read this

peterincredible:
Guess what even Vue js that people claim is simple their new release vue3 when I was learning it I notice ld it picked a lot of concept from react especially in their new composition API soon even Vue won't be tagged a simple framework because slowly it is getting complex

The reason is most people are teaching you to use React API without understanding Core JS and some Design Patterns, I have been using React and React native and I don't like them, but I now understand they are going for the functional and composable pattern. Programming is not easy if you do not know how to read or what to read. Vue3 is easier because Functional Programming is easy to pass around and create composable functions.

I've been writing hooks and I see the appeal, create a Hook for a specific use case and just reuse. But the issue is if you are not familiar with Design patterns and others, you will hang.

My Advice is for people to learn Design Patterns , Kotlin is using the Compose pattern, React and now Vue, certain paradigms get adopted not knowing them makes it hard to understand.

I hope this helps