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Oyinlomoa:
Oh miss mind reader, aka miss know everyone's thought ... If you comprehended what I typed you should know that I asked a question to understand him better and if you further read my post I said the things he mentioned are nice ... So exactly what is your point? Because I understand what he posted and I clearly understand what I posted ... The real question here is "do you understand any of the two posts at all?"

Firsty, I'm not miss know everyone thought and maybe you didn't understand what you typed. Cos you used the one 'intangible'and that was what I commented on, that he didn't mean sex was not tangible, he only meant that's not the only important thing.

And asking me if I have something else to offer apart from sex is somehow, it shows that's the only thing you considered important in a relationship. I don't know you, and you don't know me, so let's leave it at that, I'm not ready to keep arguing with you.

Have a nice day

souloho19:
lol queenitee is angry

I didn't even insult him o, I just pointed out what he missed and he started acting like an illiterate. I don't understand why some people think they can insult 'bou anyone. Even if he held a view different from mine, he could have politely said so. People tend to forget others too can insult

Mouthgag:
Shut up
He Said and there is no other explanation to it.
You, what else have you ever offered in a relationship apart from sex?

People like you ain't worth talking to, I can't be arguing with Idi.ots who don't understand and who don't want to.

Change your way of thinking, you think like a baby and not like the adult you are and being aggressive won't help you. Again, learn to read and understand so you won't keep making a fo.ol of yourself

Oyinlomoa:
Did you just referring to money and sex as intangible in a relationship ? ...
Bro better think again
Money sustains a relationship
Sex is basically pleasure in a relationship (marriage to be specific)
If anyone should be in a relationship and they don't find their partner sexually attractive or no longer find their partner sexually attractive they're most likely(90%) gonna cheat same with money bro ... You see all the qualities you mentioned are nice but you can not under estimate money and sex in a relationship bro

He didn't say money and sex ain't tangible, always read and understand please. What he meant was that if money and sex are the only tangible things you have to offer, which means they are tangible but there are other tangible things you should be able to offer in a relationship

Learnstuffs:
Jealousy go kee you .
If you are a real man and can control your emotions, I would have advised you to play reverse psychology on her. Stop calling and giving her much attention. Once you notice she is giving more attention to your friend, bring in a more classy girl to the room when all of you are around and start giving her attention. It will get to her

It might not, she simply isn't attracted to the guy, she isn't trying to make him jealous, she just does not like him

greatnaija01:
you do not need help

A GIRL, IS NOT DATING YOU, SHE IS JUST A REGULAR VISITOR.... and you are already calling her "MY GIRL" my friend will you go and sit down somewhere and think?

THE GIRL OWES YOU NOTHING.

rather than learn from your friend and learn why the girl is attracted to him... and practice it on yourself till you attract better girls... you are here calling for community support.

THE GIRL IS NOT A DUMMY... she knows what she wants and it clearly is NOT YOU.

The girl also does not owe you explanation, you do not own her.

YOU boys really are not ready for relationship... your are only trying to satisfy your HORNINESS. relationship is not about what you like or your choice... ITS ABOUT who u epp...
hear me.... YES YOU CLAIM YOU LOVE THE GIRL... but what is LOVE? is it a feeling? if she agree for you and refuses sex you will now come here and cry that she does not LOVE YOU.... imagine!!!

OK IMAGINE she ACCEPTS you and you have nothing tangible to offer apart from money and SEX.... but your broke friend is a good talker and can COMMUNICATE WITH HER IN A WAY THAT SHE FEELS IMPORTANT AND VALUED, then she will cheat on you with that friend... even without sleeping with him... IS THAT HOW YOU WANT YOUR LIFE TO BE?

see. REJECTION is often RE-DIRECTION. Go and work on yourself... TILL LADIES BEG TO DATE YOU because you have 90% of what they want.... stop blabbing here about a girl you have no plans to marry.

God bless you for this and this isn't for guys alone, ladies also

safarigirl:
your loss

You let sentimenrs becloud your sense of justice and maybe 9 million naira means nothing to you, so you can move on

But there are people out there who will not be raken for a ride, even if it is 30k you owe them, they will drag you to wherever, be you friend or even famiky. You don't let important money go, you only ler chicken change go.

No serious-minded businessman allows himself to be cheated by a friend. It is even bettee for a total stranger to cheat you and go scotfree, than for you to be cheated by a so-called friend

Iyanya is not sharp, the saying "Cunny man die, cunny man bury am" is not for nothing. This world is not for people that have conscience, you snooze, you lose

Bless you sister. People make the mistake of mixing family, friends and business together which is not supposed to be.

NwanyiAwkaetiti:
love matter tire me. Since buhari entered, love has gone to d dogs

e tire me too, make person love himself, na the only love be that o

lilianofentse:
since I posted this, I haven't called him. I also plan on ignoring his msgs till he changes.

He might call or message you, but that doesn't mean he's changed but it might mean he loves you but isn't mature.
So it's up to you whether you want to date/marry an immature guy that would keep annoying or hurting you(but I doubt he's immature if he keeps cheating on you)

And again, he might not love you but called or message just do he would have an excuse if anything eventually happens or because he enjoys sex with you(this is most likely to be it, but ask yourself, so you want your relationship or marriage to be about sex alone? what will happen when it gets to the time you ain't that sexually attractive anymore? when you have a lot to do and sex isn't just priority for you anymore? You need to remember even at 70 a man is still sexually actively and when women are nearing menopause, sex isn't just really it for them again)
So decide if you want to continue also, if you can cope with having to explain to your children why their dad simply don't care or if you can endure more heartbreaks.

And the last one, he might simply not call(he doesn't even really enjoy the sex with you and so it's good you are gone)
Decide also if you want to call him and continue

But you are still young sis, your education or job should be your top priority rn, guys should come second(I'm not saying you shouldn't date, but do not be so into it to the extent that it affects your academics, you need to be able to balance your academic and relationship life such that none is affecting the other). Trust me, success comes with a different kind of love, then guys would be all over you and you would be able to decide who is best for you. Even guys want a successful woman, be a woman of substance

Also, determine your self worth, build your worth, only then would you be able to decide who to go for and who not to, what to accept and what not to, it will be like a guide.

NwanyiAwkaetiti:
You say he loves you and you wanna leave him? You should make your relationship work and not opting out at slight signs of trouble.

What you people forget is that according to her, it didn't happen just once, it kept repeating itself and he doesn't show any sign of changing. If he loves her, he would also make effort to make the relationship work. My own advice is don't he foolish because you love him, Relationship isn't about love alone

adetoroamos:
If you are in your late 20s or ready for marriage tell him to make the introduction asap but if you just need him to solve your boredom then move on with your life without him �

Introduction won't solve the problem, marriage won't either, this is one of the reasons there are so many broken marriages. So it's a wrong advice.

He simply does not love you or he does but he's not marure(maturity isn't only about age) and you want a mature guy, it's better you breakup and suffer the heartbreak once than getting heartbroken daily.

varyo:
You are disgrace to womanhood.You have no brian?girls with Brian don't beg men.Hmmmm!!!!!! your parents faces must have been covered with shame.









uote author=queenitee post=76544656]Many are mad, few are roaming. Is it like people don't think before typing this days? Once you know you are a celeb, then you know you have a name to protect, an image to maintain, in fact, every individual does. Can't they think before doing something they will regret later?

Fine, no one says you shouldn't like wizkid and no one says you shouldn't shoot your shot, but do it with brain, stop acting like a mad person. Presentation matters!!!

Excuse you?? how does shooting her shot relate in any way with begging? Besides, it's brain not Brian and don't you ever mention my parents again, because my post simply wasn't meant for you.

You and your likes think you can just come on social media and insult 'bout anyone, making yourself a public disgrace. If you don't understand, you could have asked and I would explain, cos I do not see myself telling her to beg in my post and what's wrong with her shooting her shot? I don't blame you tho, I blame your level of understanding.

Thank you and enjoy the rest of your day

OneCorner:
So this is the guy they used
Wicked man. Used his son and fvckin his daughter

Abi o, after all you live with them and you were the one who took Otedola to the herbalist who had the ritual done for him, so why won't you know he used his son and he's fvcking his daughter o jare

Joromi12:
. He wasnt even born when the pic was taken. Stop displaying ignorance

Abi o, even Temi was a baby then, evidenced by her father carrying her. Even cuppy looked 5 or so.

People sha, they always want to see negativity in others. Must you sell fake news to bring traffic to your blog?

It's heartbreaking